https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-do-you-think-of-this-wedding-dress-for-me Style Advice for Fashion Lovers en-US Thu, 07 May 2026 06:45:39 +0000 http://bbpress.org/?v=1.0.2 q https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/search.php https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-do-you-think-of-this-wedding-dress-for-me/page/2#post-724504 Tue, 18 Sep 2012 18:51:04 +0000 Sona 724504@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Another vote for try it on. I think you will need some customization though. I do think if those sleeves fit just right ( or can be made to) it will be smashing! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-do-you-think-of-this-wedding-dress-for-me/page/2#post-724500 Tue, 18 Sep 2012 18:48:35 +0000 Elly 724500@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Hmmm-- I can see why you like the neckline-- on you it creates a perfect frame for your face and beautiful decolletage while the cap sleeves make sure your natural curves and shoulder line don't fight the squarer neckline. </p> <p>I think the lace, if if feels nice and looks elegant and not cheap is something that really speaks to who you are an your style. I like the color as well. My only concern is sometimes these lace dresses can cling and then I end up with bumpy lumps where they don't really exist to the eye, but we all have minute crevices! It would be impossible to tell without trying though. </p> <p>I think you are right on though--- on your body a slight/modified a-line with a nipped waist and some sort of cap sleeves and open neckline would be gorgeous, and I love the idea of lace or an embroidered mesh or chiffon for you. Something a little antique or retro. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-do-you-think-of-this-wedding-dress-for-me#post-724477 Tue, 18 Sep 2012 18:31:44 +0000 kellygirl 724477@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>The dress is beautiful. I am just chiming in to offer my support. (I absolutely dreaded the whole wedding production--from start to finish. You are not alone in that respect.) </p> <p>I agree there is nothing like trying on in person. I did it in one, long, grueling day. Good luck! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-do-you-think-of-this-wedding-dress-for-me#post-724458 Tue, 18 Sep 2012 18:14:23 +0000 Scarlet 724458@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>OMG it's so pretty--you have to try it! Those sleeves can definitely work on the right body and it sounds like you know yours. Congratulations on your engagement! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-do-you-think-of-this-wedding-dress-for-me#post-724437 Tue, 18 Sep 2012 17:56:40 +0000 rachylou 724437@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I like cap sleeves too and also have sloping shoulders... so maybe that's the thing about them.</p> <p>But on to the main event (!!): I can totally see this dress on you. I was looking at the construction (as much as possible) and it has seams in "good places." I had a bridesmaid gown once which I sort of regret now (my fault, I picked it), because it was a column (like this dress) but lacked seams down the front. </p> <p>How much time do you have? Because you might want to order the dress to try on and show to a seamstress, then return for a larger size for alterations (it can help to have the extra material to work with). </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-do-you-think-of-this-wedding-dress-for-me#post-724419 Tue, 18 Sep 2012 17:35:34 +0000 Diana 724419@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>So here is a photo of me in a similar style neckline. (perhaps not fair, though, as this may be the single best photo of me EVER TAKEN). The AT dress is much more structured than the one in this photo, so I think the shoulder line would actually be stronger.</p> <p>I do get what you guys are saying about this type of neckline though - it has to sit just right, otherwise it looks really off, but it may be something that can only be determined if I actually physically try on this actual dress.</p> <p>PS - Angie (and anyone else), what type of dress do you see me in? Keeping in mind I do not want strapless or spaghetti straps. Let's assume for a moment that cost is not an issue - what do you think would be my ideal dress? </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-do-you-think-of-this-wedding-dress-for-me#post-724391 Tue, 18 Sep 2012 16:58:27 +0000 rae 724391@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I've held off saying anything, because I wasn't sure what my reservation was. I think what gives me pause is the straight-across bustline. It's so similar to a strapless in that respect, and I always find strapless tops and dresses so difficult. </p> <p>Believe me I KNOW that very same lack of excitement for bridal salons... but I think you should at least try on a similar neckline and style in some kind of dress somewhere before fronting all that money to try it out. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-do-you-think-of-this-wedding-dress-for-me#post-724343 Tue, 18 Sep 2012 16:16:34 +0000 catgirl 724343@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Like Angie said, my issue is the sleeves. If that's what you love, we need to see it on to know they work! And if you don't love them, they look like you could alter them? I love it for you, and I love that we're getting to help pick your dress! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-do-you-think-of-this-wedding-dress-for-me#post-724325 Tue, 18 Sep 2012 15:55:58 +0000 Angie 724325@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>With caution I'm saying it's absolutely stunning for you, Diana. The sleeves will either look killer or awful though. I've seen this cut on clients and friends before and my response was mixed - because of the sleeves. </p> <p>So fun that we are FINALLY yakking about wedding frocks!!! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-do-you-think-of-this-wedding-dress-for-me#post-724316 Tue, 18 Sep 2012 15:43:19 +0000 Diana 724316@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Thanks ladies. I think I am definitely going to try to get measurement information for this, and then order to try. </p> <p>Claire, I know that places can add cap sleeves to sleeveless things but it often seems to me like it looks a bit like an afterthought since they can't always match the fabric exactly. I like that this one has sleeves made of the same material!</p> <p>Ariadne, it is definitely returnable. But I just don't want to order multiple $$$$ dresses at once, you know? So I need to be a little discerning with the online ordering. </p> <p>Lyn, I am not planning on having multiple dresses for the actual wedding (no cheongsam for me!) but I do know that there will be a second reception maybe a month or so later in Boston (wedding will be in CA) and I do not know if I will wear the wedding dress again for that or whether I will get another dress - if I do, it will be less money though!</p> <p>Jeanne, I have to admit that I am NOT EXCITED about the prospect of going to a bridal salon or similar. It seems really overwhelming and stressful - I don't like being the center of attention and I always feel pressured at such things. Some of you might know that I am kind of ambivalent about the whole prospect of having a wedding at all (I am not ambivalent about getting married! But I wanted to elope) and all of the related things are kind of freaking me out at the moment. (I know, I know, I am such an abnormal girl... but I have never been one to think about my "dream wedding").<br /> But you are right. I probably should just suck it up and look at things in person. There is a wedding warehouse place in one of the nearby suburbs where a friend recently got a dress. I kind of wish it was still 5 years ago when I would have fit into the standard wedding dress sample size though.... I think I am 1 size too big now.</p> <p>Sara, thanks for the codes! They do appear to work. Does anyone know how often AT has the 40% codes by any chance? </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-do-you-think-of-this-wedding-dress-for-me#post-724185 Tue, 18 Sep 2012 13:17:04 +0000 MNsara 724185@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Gorgeous dress! That back is so beautiful I like JS's idea of going to try styles too. </p> <p>I know what you mean about incompartibility with AT dresses (as in I'm a pear and they're not).</p> <p>I also saw these online, but didn't check to see if they work, much less work on wedding dresses<br /> •25% off Any Single Full-Priced Item [Exp. 09/30]<br /> * Online: Use Ann Taylor Coupon Code ANNWELCOME9<br /> * In-store: In-store Printable Ann Taylor Coupon </p> <p>•20% off orders over $100 [Exp. 09/20]<br /> Use Ann Taylor Coupon Code 10000007649 </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-do-you-think-of-this-wedding-dress-for-me#post-724172 Tue, 18 Sep 2012 12:35:51 +0000 Jjsloane 724172@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>It has some potential and you've enough time to check it out I think, but I might advise you to hit a bridal salon or 2 in person first just to get a feel of what works and doesn't for shapes etc.. My formula would be one discount place to try on the biggest selection (not always pleasant, but informative - bring another set of eyes) and one fancy "make an appointment" salon to see better quality items and get a little more personal service (and usually wine). Then stalk online. Of course where you are there is always the Filene's running of the brides right? (are they still doing it?) Very excited for you starting this process. It's not half as fun as sampling caterers (my favorite part) but equally important. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-do-you-think-of-this-wedding-dress-for-me#post-724167 Tue, 18 Sep 2012 12:23:10 +0000 Glory 724167@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>This is so lovely. I think it is worth a try if you can return it easily. If it "mostly" fits you could have some alterations done to make it perfect for you. Wonderful find. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-do-you-think-of-this-wedding-dress-for-me#post-724118 Tue, 18 Sep 2012 07:54:34 +0000 ramya 724118@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>wow Diana.... Surely try it...<br /> You would look like princess... </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-do-you-think-of-this-wedding-dress-for-me#post-724117 Tue, 18 Sep 2012 07:50:19 +0000 goldenpig 724117@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>So pretty and so you! Definitely worth a try! Love the lace and the pretty back. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-do-you-think-of-this-wedding-dress-for-me#post-724114 Tue, 18 Sep 2012 07:23:42 +0000 anne 724114@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I am pretty sure that is a portrait neckline!!</p> <p>Looks great Diana! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-do-you-think-of-this-wedding-dress-for-me#post-724110 Tue, 18 Sep 2012 07:02:27 +0000 lyn* 724110@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>It's fabulous! Some brides have more than one dress for the reception or for wedding photos ... </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-do-you-think-of-this-wedding-dress-for-me#post-724054 Tue, 18 Sep 2012 02:51:34 +0000 Carole 724054@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Absolutely beautiful dress, Diana! A cap sleeve like this makes sence for someone with a sloping/narrow shoulder line. I love the back and the simple classic style and slim fit! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-do-you-think-of-this-wedding-dress-for-me#post-724051 Tue, 18 Sep 2012 02:47:33 +0000 Ariadne 724051@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Very, very beautiful. If you order it to try it out and it doesn't work, can you return it? </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-do-you-think-of-this-wedding-dress-for-me#post-724015 Tue, 18 Sep 2012 01:49:27 +0000 Anna 724015@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>What a gorgeous dress! I particularly like the zipper in the back rather than the "one size fits all" corset style with laces. This dress is classy and refined. Try it in person for sure! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-do-you-think-of-this-wedding-dress-for-me#post-723962 Tue, 18 Sep 2012 00:50:55 +0000 Transcona Shannon 723962@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Oh please don't get me wrong Diana - I actually adore cap sleeves and wear them often myself. I just know if they don't hit in the right spot it can look off. That's all. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-do-you-think-of-this-wedding-dress-for-me#post-723952 Tue, 18 Sep 2012 00:33:32 +0000 KathyL 723952@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I love the dress! Definitely try it on. The back is just gorgeous. I think the neckline is square with cap sleeves. I did a quick google search and that's what I came up with anyway! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-do-you-think-of-this-wedding-dress-for-me#post-723951 Tue, 18 Sep 2012 00:33:08 +0000 Caro in Oz 723951@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Gorgeous dress - hope it works for you. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-do-you-think-of-this-wedding-dress-for-me#post-723948 Tue, 18 Sep 2012 00:31:18 +0000 Suz 723948@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>This is beautiful, Diana, and I can definitely see you in something like it. I think it's worth further investigation. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-do-you-think-of-this-wedding-dress-for-me#post-723946 Tue, 18 Sep 2012 00:27:05 +0000 Anonymous 723946@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>It's gorgeous! I love the simple lines. I hope this is the one, but if it's not, a bridal alterations place can make sleeves like this from lace and add them to any strapless dress. I know cuz I saw it on Say Yes To The Dress, lol. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-do-you-think-of-this-wedding-dress-for-me#post-723941 Tue, 18 Sep 2012 00:24:04 +0000 Diana 723941@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Alicat, yes that was a concern of mine as well. Although I suspect that this type of lace in silk is EXTREMELY expensive. I do think that the lace quality is something that I can't assess unless I actually see it in person. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-do-you-think-of-this-wedding-dress-for-me#post-723937 Tue, 18 Sep 2012 00:18:10 +0000 Anonymous 723937@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>That's a beautiful dress, Diana! How do you feel about it being nylon and polyester? </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-do-you-think-of-this-wedding-dress-for-me#post-723927 Tue, 18 Sep 2012 00:07:44 +0000 Diana 723927@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Shannon, I actually LOVE the little cap sleeves! Sometimes I think I am the only one here that likes them though... they are very flattering if done right on sloping shoulders like mine.</p> <p>K, I think the length is one issue. I don't generally like to buy petite dresses because then I find the skirt part too short. This dress does come in petite and the stated length *should* be long enough for me in petite. But the main issue with AT dresses is that they are not cut for my really dramatic waist to hip ratio. I am a bigger size on the bottom than the top anyway, and AT dresses tend to be too straight cut. I figure a tailor could probably take the bodice part in though. In any case, before I order I am going to try to get actual measurements for the different sizes of this dress.</p> <p>ETA: Yes I am going to see if a promo pops up - I think they might work because the current buy one get one 50% off promo shows up on the wedding dress pages... although who needs two wedding dresses is beyond me! We actually do not have a wedding date yet. =P But it will not be until at least March. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-do-you-think-of-this-wedding-dress-for-me#post-723920 Tue, 18 Sep 2012 00:02:25 +0000 K. Period. 723920@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Oh that is breathtaking! I love it. </p> <p>What about AT dresses is usually off for you? I wonder because I find I always have have better luck buying their petites for dresses (and Banana Republic's too) because I'm short waisted. Amazingly, it really takes care of most of my fit issues in those two lines. Same for full or 3/4 length jackets in either of those.</p> <p>Do you have enough time to wait and see if they run a 40% off everything promo before you buy? Hmmm now I wish that I'd saved an old 40% off coupon so that I could see if they excluded wedding! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-do-you-think-of-this-wedding-dress-for-me#post-723918 Tue, 18 Sep 2012 00:00:58 +0000 Transcona Shannon 723918@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Ooooohhhh...this dress is gorgeous Diana and definitely has potential. The back is indeed absolutely divine. I like the slightly retro vibe to the dress which you can totally pull off effortlessly. The shape of the neckline is lovely and the overall silhouette so elegant. The only thing that gives me pause are the capped sleeves/shoulder detail. I think that could be tricky but you wouldn't know unless you tried it on. </p>