https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/wardrobe-during-weight-transitions Style Advice for Fashion Lovers en-US Wed, 15 Apr 2026 02:52:41 +0000 http://bbpress.org/?v=1.0.2 q https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/search.php https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/wardrobe-during-weight-transitions/page/3#post-1990214 Wed, 09 Jan 2019 17:00:48 +0000 Anonymous 1990214@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Such a good post-glad it was revived </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/wardrobe-during-weight-transitions/page/3#post-1989274 Sun, 06 Jan 2019 19:21:48 +0000 Stagiaire Fash 1989274@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Excellent to hear that you got down to your goal weight! So many of us get close and then vacillate about the last 5-10 pounds. But you were disciplined all along. Are food and clothing more enjoyable to you now? </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/wardrobe-during-weight-transitions/page/3#post-1989260 Sun, 06 Jan 2019 18:57:53 +0000 Jane 1989260@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Well done with your journey, it is very impressive. I really appreciate the wisdom within the posts.&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/wardrobe-during-weight-transitions/page/3#post-1989253 Sun, 06 Jan 2019 18:39:17 +0000 MsMaven 1989253@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Congratulations on maintaining your weight loss and your wardrobe, Toban. Inspirational and well worth rereading.&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/wardrobe-during-weight-transitions/page/3#post-1989225 Sun, 06 Jan 2019 16:39:03 +0000 Carla 1989225@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Glad for the resurrection of this thread, and your update Toban. There are several lifestyle changes that can result in shifts in wardrobe needs, but nothing seems as dramatic as a weight change. It cuts across all clothing needs. Your template for managing a closet during weight transitions is a brilliant gift to this forum. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/wardrobe-during-weight-transitions/page/3#post-1989221 Sun, 06 Jan 2019 16:12:05 +0000 lyn67 1989221@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Wow, loved to read this smart thread and before reading the even so smart comments, too- I will only say&nbsp;&nbsp;I very much agree with that&nbsp;&nbsp;"<i>perfect fitting clothing <b></b></i><b>do indeed </b><b></b><b>always mean</b><i> a&nbsp;big confidence boost"<br /> </i><br /> &nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/wardrobe-during-weight-transitions/page/3#post-1989214 Sun, 06 Jan 2019 15:38:24 +0000 Anonymous 1989214@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Happy New Year, Toban!!! &nbsp;&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/wardrobe-during-weight-transitions/page/3#post-1989207 Sun, 06 Jan 2019 15:12:35 +0000 Toban 1989207@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Thanks, Rosee, Suz and Sterling. I hope this content is timeless and glad to see it still is helping. I have maintained my goal weight for the past week +/- 3 lb for the past 6 months. My wardrobe is a bit bigger this fall, but I hold to many of these same principles, especially the no duplicates except in exercise wear. I overbought in sweaters, a bit, but each is quite different than the others so I am happy with where it is at. Still some gaps that I am slowly addressing. For instance, I did not have a somber coat for a graveside funeral (only a burgundy one) so I wore an old black one that was way too large — now added a navy winter coat to my list. I am being really patient on the rebuild. </p> <p>Best wishes on your respective journeys. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/wardrobe-during-weight-transitions/page/3#post-1989199 Sun, 06 Jan 2019 14:22:51 +0000 Anonymous 1989199@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I am so glad that this thread got revived!!!!!!!!!! &nbsp; Thank you, <b>Rosee</b>. &nbsp;</p> <p>I am going into the second phase of my doctor-proscribed weight loss program. &nbsp;She wants me to maintain the weight loss, but to start to build back muscle that had been lost. &nbsp;</p> <p><b>Delurked</b> was helping me decide what to do about rebuilding my wardrobe in 2019 and <i><u>this exact thread</u></i> was mentioned. &nbsp;I have purposely not posted about 2019 goals because I feel like my wardrobe rebuild is so up in the air. &nbsp;I have no concrete plans. &nbsp;I have no concrete goals ... other than to get appropriately dressed every single day. &nbsp;</p> <p>No real joy or excitement in my existing wardrobe. &nbsp;It is <i><u>very</u></i> sparse. &nbsp;It is all either black or navy. &nbsp;Some stripes. &nbsp;</p> <p>Finally, I remembered <i><u>this exact thread</u></i>. &nbsp;I mentioned to <b>Delurked</b> that my goal will be to build small, <i>very small</i>, capsules that I can wear over the course of eight weeks*. &nbsp;I will reassess my wardrobe in terms of fit, need, and climate frequently during 2019. &nbsp;I will find an excellent tailor. &nbsp;</p> <p>*ETA: &nbsp;every four weeks. &nbsp;</p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/wardrobe-during-weight-transitions/page/3#post-1989118 Sun, 06 Jan 2019 05:21:31 +0000 Suz 1989118@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Wasn't this thread the best? Truly inspirational and extremely practical.&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/wardrobe-during-weight-transitions/page/3#post-1989116 Sun, 06 Jan 2019 05:17:36 +0000 rosee 1989116@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I realize I am resurrecting a 9-month old thread but I also have to say thank you for writing a helpful and inspirational post. Angie mentioned to find this on my recent post and so I searched. I am truly grateful she mentioned this because this is what I needed to read.<br />I am hoping to lose a lot of weight in a healthy way this year and have had a few small successes in the past couple of months. I have made shopping mistakes in the past while, especially concerning fit or anticipatory buying for where I hoped I would be in a month or so. This post is so reasonable and full of wisdom.<br />I just had to say thank you to you, Toban, for writing it. And to Angie for referencing it in my thread. I missed it originally as I have just returned to YLF after an extended absence. Obviously, I need to stick around more and at least read a few posts regularly to keep getting the great information and inspiration.<br />Congratulations on your healthy self! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/wardrobe-during-weight-transitions/page/3#post-1901677 Mon, 26 Mar 2018 14:07:00 +0000 Angie 1901677@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>CONGRATS. <b>You are fabulous.&nbsp;</b> </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/wardrobe-during-weight-transitions/page/3#post-1901676 Mon, 26 Mar 2018 14:06:48 +0000 Amy Isabella 1901676@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>WOW what an achievement - huge congratulations! You've done so incredibly well AND continue to be an inspiration. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/wardrobe-during-weight-transitions/page/3#post-1901668 Mon, 26 Mar 2018 13:28:44 +0000 SarahD8 1901668@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Hurrah! Congratulations Toban, this is awesome. I look forward to continuing to follow your journey. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/wardrobe-during-weight-transitions/page/2#post-1901667 Mon, 26 Mar 2018 13:27:05 +0000 Anonymous 1901667@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Well done and incredibly inspirational.&nbsp;&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/wardrobe-during-weight-transitions/page/2#post-1901661 Mon, 26 Mar 2018 12:41:09 +0000 Joyce B 1901661@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Well done, Toban, congrats on your healthy journey! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/wardrobe-during-weight-transitions/page/2#post-1901659 Mon, 26 Mar 2018 12:37:28 +0000 jussie 1901659@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Well done o the progress. Yes it must be hard not too buy too much! A person can get carried away.... (me! I’m that person). </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/wardrobe-during-weight-transitions/page/2#post-1901642 Mon, 26 Mar 2018 10:45:20 +0000 Toban 1901642@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>An update: last week was the one year anniversary of my nutrition and exercise changes that started me on my weight loss journey. In that year I lost 70lbs, dropped from a size 16 to 6 and from a 40G to 36DD bra size. I am getting close to my goal (based on body fat %). I keep referring to “my rules” but it is getting harder to restrain myself from building a new wardrobe. But the size changes are coming more quickly at these lower sizes so I need to continue my shopping discipline. I now have completely updated micro-capsules for my work, for casual, and for exercise that bring me a lot of joy. I continue to rely on shoes and necklaces for variety. In reviewing my rules, I wouldn’t change any of them. These rules have served me very well and helped reduce the angst of having nothing to wear. My most crucial rules were prioritize bra fit and look no further than my needs in the next 4 weeks. Cheers. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/wardrobe-during-weight-transitions/page/2#post-1899882 Mon, 19 Mar 2018 11:26:41 +0000 Anonymous 1899882@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Having followed <b>Toban's Suggestions</b>, it is clear that building small or micro-capsules takes <u>a lot of discipline</u>.&nbsp; <u>My magpie tendencies have had to be tamed</u>.&nbsp; Every single step of a life style change seems to offer it's own set of challenges.&nbsp; Knowing that other people have already gone that path and are generous enough to share their experience/solutions is wonderful.&nbsp;&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/wardrobe-during-weight-transitions/page/2#post-1899810 Mon, 19 Mar 2018 02:17:41 +0000 Sundance 1899810@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Toban, Thank you very much for sharing your rules. I’m inspired to build my own capsule and I really love how your personality shines through with your accessories! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/wardrobe-during-weight-transitions/page/2#post-1898217 Tue, 13 Mar 2018 17:01:26 +0000 Kristen C 1898217@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Thank you for this useful post. I am on a weight loss journey and have avoided buying new pieces. I see items I like and tell myself I can shop “once I reach my goal weight.” In the meantime, I feel disappointed when getting dressed because my clothes don’t fit properly. You have reminded me of the last time I purchased an outfit for a friend’s birthday party and how good it felt to reveal my new body.<br /> I have recently found good deals on gently used and new items on resale websites. There I have been able to sell the clothes that no longer fit and put the money towards a few new pieces. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/wardrobe-during-weight-transitions/page/2#post-1894657 Tue, 27 Feb 2018 22:56:46 +0000 tulle 1894657@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Toban, I am bowled over by your post, and can only echo LisaP:&nbsp; You are SO&nbsp; SMART.&nbsp; Such a rational, practical approach to a process with many potential emotional pitfalls.&nbsp; I am working to lose weight right now, and it's great to learn how you stay well-dressed while doing so.&nbsp; I will come back to your ideas many times, I know. <br />About thrifting for a changing petite body:&nbsp; It depends on the shops available in your area, and the amount of time you have available for hunting, but I have to say that, at 5'2" and dealing with a shape-changing post-menopausal weight gain, I have discovered some of my best petite finds--often with original tags still on--in thrift shops.&nbsp; So don't rule them out if you haven't searched; you may be surprised what you find (at very reasonable prices) secondhand.&nbsp; Congratulations on your discipline and organization, and best wishes for your continued success! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/wardrobe-during-weight-transitions/page/2#post-1894651 Tue, 27 Feb 2018 22:36:21 +0000 viva 1894651@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I'm so inspired by your success, Toban. I love Michael Pollan's advice for life and eating, and as a sugar addict, I really struggle with staying true to his guidelines. But living this way is something I strive for every day. I'm not trying to lose weight but I am aiming for all the other good stuff that comes from reducing sugar and increasing plants. You're a bright light showing me the way. Congratulations and thank you. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/wardrobe-during-weight-transitions/page/2#post-1894622 Tue, 27 Feb 2018 22:05:03 +0000 Angie 1894622@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p><b>Laura,</b> I REALLY miss you on the forum. I'm giving you a tailored high five and sending lots of love. xo </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/wardrobe-during-weight-transitions/page/2#post-1894587 Tue, 27 Feb 2018 20:18:30 +0000 Laura 1894587@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>No kidding! Of course you've already covered that topic. And good to know I'm not alone in that observation about slouchy clothing and weight gain. I miss a lot by not being on the forum - you all are ON it! Making a resolution to get here more often. xo </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/wardrobe-during-weight-transitions/page/2#post-1894473 Tue, 27 Feb 2018 15:33:04 +0000 Mary Beth (formerly LBD) 1894473@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I can't believe I missed this the first time around.&nbsp; &nbsp;I've bookmarked it for future reference and motivation! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/wardrobe-during-weight-transitions/page/2#post-1894461 Tue, 27 Feb 2018 15:11:05 +0000 Angie 1894461@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p><b>Laura, </b>we've&nbsp;talked&nbsp;about how slouchy fits can make&nbsp;your weight creep up&nbsp;many times on YLF. You are not imagining it.&nbsp;<b></b> </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/wardrobe-during-weight-transitions/page/2#post-1894430 Tue, 27 Feb 2018 14:03:20 +0000 Laura 1894430@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>This is such a well thought-out and inspiring post. I missed it on the forum, but followed Angie's blog post link here, and I'm glad to have found it.</p> <p>Fit is crucial to one's self-esteem, as you wisely point out. I've reflected a bit on fit this week while undertaking a major closet cull for the first time in two years. Over the past few years, I have very much embraced the "slouchy" or "relaxed" look of boyfriend jeans and oversized tops/sweaters. Upon reflection, I wonder if wearing these styles may have contributed to some weight gain. Isn't that strange? It's as if wearing slouchy clothes made me feel slouchy, and not at my best. Not that I'm blaming my clothes, but I'm extremely influenced by how my clothes make me feel. Probably many others wouldn't even notice, but I love style and am very attuned to it. While the weight gain I experienced wasn't huge, it also wasn't insignificant, as I'm petite and every pound seems to show on my frame. So now, I'm aiming for more tailored items and feeling better already.</p> <p>Thanks again for your post.&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/wardrobe-during-weight-transitions/page/2#post-1894424 Tue, 27 Feb 2018 13:39:06 +0000 Joyce B 1894424@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>This is an excellent and very insightful post. Many congrats to you on your weight loss and on how you have managed your weight loss journey. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/wardrobe-during-weight-transitions/page/2#post-1894416 Tue, 27 Feb 2018 13:10:45 +0000 cindysmith 1894416@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Thank you for this. I'm embarking on a journey of my own. I have to lose weight, doctors orders (blood pressure, cholesterol). I'd like to drop 40 pounds, but would be happy if I could get rid of 20. Your tips will be useful, and they are also inspirational. Congratulations on your progress towards a healthier you, and best wishes for more of the success! </p>