https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/urgent-ideas-for-a-second-non-date Style Advice for Fashion Lovers en-US Tue, 28 Apr 2026 11:52:57 +0000 http://bbpress.org/?v=1.0.2 q https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/search.php https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/urgent-ideas-for-a-second-non-date#post-1300118 Fri, 11 Jul 2014 02:05:41 +0000 Anna 1300118@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Ladies,</p> <p>Here I am responding a bit late--my non-date wanted us to sit somewhere after walking for 6 miles. I love walking, so that was not a problem. But guess where he wanted us to sit and talk!!! I was given three options: Wendy's, McDonald's and another McDonald's. I came across as too high maintenance since I said 'no' to all of these options. &nbsp;So be it :)&nbsp;</p> <p>About the denim skirt with the tummy issue. I managed to find a blue denim skirt that does not have the tummy issue, at least it does not add extra to what I have. &nbsp;The white one I will keep for now until I find a better one.&nbsp;</p> <p>Thanks, ladies, for being so cool and supportive!!!&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/urgent-ideas-for-a-second-non-date#post-1296426 Mon, 07 Jul 2014 11:45:34 +0000 krishnidoux 1296426@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Anna, sometimes denim skirt do create a tummy where there isn't and I have learned it's due to poor design. Hope it's not the case with your skirt, but you could reassess it. Why does it make you self conscious?&nbsp;If it's not good enough for a casual walk in the park, then why keep it? Same for&nbsp;the non date. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/urgent-ideas-for-a-second-non-date#post-1296249 Mon, 07 Jul 2014 01:34:43 +0000 Carmella Munguia 1296249@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>i would go for number 2 perfect. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/urgent-ideas-for-a-second-non-date#post-1295668 Sat, 05 Jul 2014 23:40:36 +0000 minimalist 1295668@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Anna, I'm so sorry he was a disappointment. "Walked a lot" could be good exercise, or if he's like a friend of mine who walks fast while talking non-stop, a quick path to exhaustion. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/urgent-ideas-for-a-second-non-date#post-1295494 Sat, 05 Jul 2014 16:42:16 +0000 Firecracker (Sharan) 1295494@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Responding late, but I like what you went with! I think showing a little leg usually makes me feel a little more attractive on a date or pseudo-date. I like the idea of a shirtdress, too--it's a dress (again, chance to show your legs) without being too dressed up. And black is fine for evening. </p> <p>Too bad he was a disappointment. It's nice that you felt good in your outfit, though! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/urgent-ideas-for-a-second-non-date#post-1295442 Sat, 05 Jul 2014 15:18:22 +0000 Anna 1295442@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Ladies,</p> <p>Thanks for your input. I wrote #2 since this was the majority vote. &nbsp;We walked a lot. 6 miles.&nbsp;However, my non-date could not have cared less how I was dressed. At least people walking in the street noticed my color combo, but not him. He was a disappointment.</p> <p> </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/urgent-ideas-for-a-second-non-date#post-1295218 Sat, 05 Jul 2014 02:14:05 +0000 wigirl2006 1295218@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Would go for #2 skirt! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/urgent-ideas-for-a-second-non-date#post-1295148 Fri, 04 Jul 2014 23:57:32 +0000 rachylou 1295148@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I vote for #1. I don't know how warm it will be at 9pm. And I do believe the Mindy Kaling show settled it: men like the equivalent of a cute top that shows the neckline, jeans, and shoes that you can walk miles in </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/urgent-ideas-for-a-second-non-date#post-1295054 Fri, 04 Jul 2014 20:35:31 +0000 Anna 1295054@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Hey, Amy! I am not sure about this guy. Too early to tell, but what I want to make sure is that I do not look clueless about what I am wearing.&nbsp;</p> <p>Gigi, thanks! I love them too. &nbsp;I find them preppy--my kind of style!&nbsp;I got them from a friend of mine who was throwing clothes away. They are Adrienne Vitadinni.&nbsp;</p> <p>It is kind of chilly outside. &nbsp;If I wear the skirt, I have a navy style cardigan (similar to this one only navy blue:&nbsp;<a rel="nofollow" href="http://www1.macys.com/shop/product/charter-club-petite-long-sleeve-printed-cardigan?ID=1270673&amp;CategoryID=55612&amp;LinkType=#fn=PAGEINDEX%3D2%26sp%3D2%26spc%3D59%26kws%3Dcharter%20club%20cardigan%26slotId%3D59">http://www1.macys.com/shop/pro.....#038;Categ</a>), but if I wear the capri pants, I am not sure what color cardigan to wear and if I have the right one. I think the navy blue cardigan (in the link above)&nbsp;is too busy for&nbsp;the capri pants….&nbsp;</p> <p>Ah, an outfit should not take so long to figure out.</p> <p>Thank y'all for the attention!<br />Happy 4th!!!</p> </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/urgent-ideas-for-a-second-non-date#post-1294995 Fri, 04 Jul 2014 19:30:16 +0000 Gigi 1294995@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>OK, I absolutely love those capris! Where did you get them, if I may ask?</p> <p>As far as which outfit to wear, for me it would depend on the weather. If it's kind of chilly or windy out, I would wear the capris.</p> <p>Another practical concern, at least for clumsy people like me, is that if I end up at a restaurant, I will probably drop food on myself. So I might vote for the dark dress simply because of that.</p> <p>I think that all three outfits sound great, though. I don't think you can go wrong! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/urgent-ideas-for-a-second-non-date#post-1294899 Fri, 04 Jul 2014 16:47:16 +0000 minimalist 1294899@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Whatever you're most comfortable in, that's clean and situation-appropriate. Then again, it depends on the type of man you're looking to attract and for how long. Some men like frills and are willing to take the maintenance hit. Others are looking for a partner who can enjoy an activity without worrying about something happening to her clothing.</p> <p>If a man notices and objects to whatever it is you're concerned about with skirt 2, how much time do you really want to spend with him?</p> <p>Sounds like you like this guy? </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/urgent-ideas-for-a-second-non-date#post-1294882 Fri, 04 Jul 2014 16:16:33 +0000 jackiec 1294882@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I like the second outfit with the skirt, too. Have fun! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/urgent-ideas-for-a-second-non-date#post-1294878 Fri, 04 Jul 2014 16:08:58 +0000 Anna 1294878@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>All outfits are comfy, Rute.</p> <p>The skirt looks a bit wrinkly, but it seems to be the winner here, so I am tempted to go with it.&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/urgent-ideas-for-a-second-non-date#post-1294860 Fri, 04 Jul 2014 15:52:43 +0000 rute 1294860@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Go with the one that makes you more comfy! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/urgent-ideas-for-a-second-non-date#post-1294859 Fri, 04 Jul 2014 15:50:06 +0000 Anna 1294859@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>So I figured out how to post pictures. </p> <p>The top looks black but it is dark blue. I think the brown flats tie better w the bag's handles, something only women will notice. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/urgent-ideas-for-a-second-non-date#post-1294852 Fri, 04 Jul 2014 15:38:06 +0000 Kristin L 1294852@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I vote for #2. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/urgent-ideas-for-a-second-non-date#post-1294848 Fri, 04 Jul 2014 15:32:16 +0000 Anonymous 1294848@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I'd go with 1. Most guys look at even a casual skirt or dress and think that you are dressed up, probably too much so for a walk. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/urgent-ideas-for-a-second-non-date#post-1294847 Fri, 04 Jul 2014 15:30:55 +0000 Anna 1294847@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Thanks, Gem. </p> <p>Not sure if I am stuck with outfit 1. &nbsp;I just want to convey the right idea for each outfit.&nbsp;</p> <p>I have not posted pictures because I do not know how to&nbsp;post the picture here once I take it with my iPad.&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/urgent-ideas-for-a-second-non-date#post-1294844 Fri, 04 Jul 2014 15:26:14 +0000 Gem 1294844@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I can't see the outfits (yet) but it sounds like you want to wear outfit one. If that's the one that makes you feel good maybe you should go with that </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/urgent-ideas-for-a-second-non-date#post-1294825 Fri, 04 Jul 2014 15:07:03 +0000 Anna 1294825@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Thanks, Angie.</p> <p>Ok--one more clarification about Option 1. The white pants are cotton and the lace is not really lace; it's the cotton which is cut out to resemble lace. &nbsp;They are also lined so even though they are cut out, they are not see through.</p> <p> </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/urgent-ideas-for-a-second-non-date#post-1294792 Fri, 04 Jul 2014 14:22:30 +0000 Angie 1294792@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Another vote for #2.&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/urgent-ideas-for-a-second-non-date#post-1294790 Fri, 04 Jul 2014 14:19:21 +0000 Anna 1294790@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Hi rute,<br />Thanks for the input.</p> <p>I forgot to say that the skirt for Option 2 is denim--stone white denim.&nbsp;</p> <p>What worries me about this skirt is that it has a zipper in the front and I feel like it makes me tummy more pronounced. I have not been able to find a denim skirt with a side or back discreet zipper, but that's for another thread.&nbsp;</p> <p>I guess I am most confident about outfit 1 and 3. I do not like 3 because it's black and i wanted some color around my face.&nbsp;</p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/urgent-ideas-for-a-second-non-date#post-1294767 Fri, 04 Jul 2014 13:56:49 +0000 rute 1294767@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>For a wolk I would go with 2 </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/urgent-ideas-for-a-second-non-date#post-1294761 Fri, 04 Jul 2014 13:47:10 +0000 Anna 1294761@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Hi all,</p> <p>I have a second non-date tonight, and I am not sure what I should wear. I am meeting him tonight (around 9pm); the plan is to walk outside,&nbsp;but I am not sure if we end up in a restaurant. What should I wear?&nbsp;</p> <p>My plan so far is to go casual, but I wonder if it's not too day&nbsp;casual rather than night casual. If we decide to go to a restaurant, perhaps my intended outfits won't be that good.&nbsp;</p> <p>My outfit 1:<br />beige flats&nbsp;<br />white capri pants which are a bit dressier because they have lace<br />blue 2/4 sleeve top<br />red Le Champe bag with brown handles</p> <p>My outfit 2:&nbsp;<br />stone white skirt (casual)<br />same blue top<br />same red bag<br />same beige flats</p> <p>My outfit 3:<br />black shirt-type short dress<br />same beige flats<br />same red bag<br />may be a blue necklace</p> <p>Which one of all three do you think would be best?&nbsp;<br />If you have other ideas, please let me know. I have dark wash skinny jeans with flare, but they are long and I need to wear them with heels which is not too great if we are primarily walking.</p> <p>Also, today it will be raining, so it seems to me that flats is better. &nbsp;</p> <p>I would really appreciate your thoughts!<br />Thanks in advance. </p>