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YouLookFab Forum » Topic: Update https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/update-8 Style Advice for Fashion Lovers en-US Sun, 26 Apr 2026 03:54:36 +0000 http://bbpress.org/?v=1.0.2 <![CDATA[Search]]> q https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/search.php Gracie on "Update" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/update-8/page/2#post-1346280 Wed, 03 Sep 2014 18:05:18 +0000 Gracie 1346280@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Hugs and best wishes for your final trimester and birth. Please take care of yourself – my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. bella on "Update" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/update-8/page/2#post-1346021 Wed, 03 Sep 2014 12:34:52 +0000 bella 1346021@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ I'm sorry to hear that things are rough. Don't worry about the gestational diabetes. You have to take meds, so what? Think of it as something completely normal that you need to do for your health and the health of your baby. Sending you good thoughts and positive vibes! abc on "Update" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/update-8/page/2#post-1345884 Wed, 03 Sep 2014 03:36:42 +0000 abc 1345884@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ So sorry to hear this. Hugs to you and your family. Please do what you need to for your sake and the baby's even if that means letting some responsibilities go. You know at my former big 4 job we used to say "there's no such thing as an audit emergency" haha maybe you can apply that thinking to your situation? Xoxoxo take care Cerinda on "Update" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/update-8/page/2#post-1345465 Tue, 02 Sep 2014 20:35:33 +0000 Cerinda 1345465@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Big hugs, Thistle.  I'm so sorry that your pregnancy has been so difficult.  Can you ask for help (often hard to do)?  Can you get additional leave?  Can you use us on YLF for venting?  Sending you lots of positive energy (and hoping you post a picture of both your beautiful girls when the little one comes). Jjsloane on "Update" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/update-8/page/2#post-1344768 Mon, 01 Sep 2014 22:59:01 +0000 Jjsloane 1344768@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Hugs to you dear Thistle. Lots of surprises in pregnancy, sometimes good, sometimes not. In the end it is a small window of time, but can be very hard to get through.  I had 2 C-sections and had very little issues (I was walking the same night as the birth and off the pain meds both times). You know it's all worth it in the end so keep your eye on the prize! Lucy on "Update" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/update-8/page/2#post-1344737 Mon, 01 Sep 2014 21:44:52 +0000 Lucy 1344737@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ *virtual hugs*. Pregnancy can be very rough can't it? I just wanted to chime in to say I had an elective c'section and it was no big deal. I think women who have a rough time with the c'section often have a long labour and then the c'section, so they go into the surgery already exhausted I really didn't want a c'section, but actually it was totally fine.  The only thing is that you can have lifting restrictions afterwards, so it is good to put plans in place for that when you get home. I think you have another daughter? You won't be able to lift her, and that can be hard. Wishing you all the best.  Aziraphale on "Update" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/update-8/page/2#post-1344535 Mon, 01 Sep 2014 15:27:05 +0000 Aziraphale 1344535@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Aw, big hugs, Thistle! Sounds like you've had a rough go of it for the past while.  A couple of things: first, the gestational diabetes thing, while annoying and time-consuming to manage (you have my sympathy!), is not a crisis -- your baby will be fine (and so will you). I know three women who had it. None of them was diagnosed until halfway through her first pregnancy, and even so, none of the babies was enormous. All were born vaginally. Not totally sure why you need a planned c-section? But I agree with Joy; an appointment with a dietician is important, if you haven't had one already. Secondly, don't worry too much about the c-section. If you do have one, it will be fine. I know so many women who had one, and they all managed. I've had a similar surgery and the first few days were rough (but you will be in hospital, with help from nurses) and after a week you will be moving around fine. It takes six or so weeks before normal pants are possible, but that's a drop in the bucket of your life! Also, even though I had run-of-the-mill vaginal births, I was nevertheless wearing yoga pants exclusively for at least six weeks postpartum! Anonymous on "Update" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/update-8/page/2#post-1344463 Mon, 01 Sep 2014 13:18:12 +0000 Anonymous 1344463@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ I'm trying to catch up with posts and just found this one. I hope that things are going better. Lots of hugs. Stress of any kind is horrible with glucose levels. If you haven't had a session with a diabetic dietitian, I'd recommend it to help get you on track. Insurance should cover it. Keep at it. Your stomach will shrink and you will be able to do smaller meals. My body also had to adjust to more fiber. Stay away from artificial sweeteners which may be the cause of your irritation and discomfort. Your taste buds will adjust to no sweetner and you will begin to taste the natural sweetness of things like green beans avicennia on "Update" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/update-8/page/2#post-1343924 Sun, 31 Aug 2014 16:17:22 +0000 avicennia 1343924@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Best wishes thistle. Anonymous on "Update" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/update-8/page/2#post-1343691 Sun, 31 Aug 2014 04:08:04 +0000 Anonymous 1343691@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Bless your heart, Thistle! What a marathon you're running. I hope you feel better and get some relief at work. You are a strong woman, and you can do this! DonnaF on "Update" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/update-8/page/2#post-1343586 Sun, 31 Aug 2014 00:32:41 +0000 DonnaF 1343586@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Glad you're in your third trimester, but it's distressing to learn about your mega-stress.  It would be nice if you could get someone in NOW to train for when you are on maternity leave, esp. if you need to take off early.  Of course, training someone plus doing one's own work can be an added stress, too.  :( When my DH retired, his diabetes and blood pressure improved so much that I think he was down to 1/4 or so of his diabetes meds, so I do understand about the impact of stress.  His doctor was astounded, and of course DH monitors his blood a lot. And wow!  Your DD has graduated from a toddler to a pre-schooler!  Such a milestone! TraceyLiz65 on "Update" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/update-8/page/2#post-1343513 Sat, 30 Aug 2014 23:05:59 +0000 TraceyLiz65 1343513@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Sending big hugs!  i know too well the stress of this as I had it 3 times.   Eliza on "Update" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/update-8/page/2#post-1343483 Sat, 30 Aug 2014 21:59:00 +0000 Eliza 1343483@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Just saw this, Thistle.  I had been thinking of you and hoping all was well.  You are going through a lot and I am glad that you have good medical support. Every way you can take care of yourself going forward really counts.  I hope you can eliminate any demands that are not mission critical and attend mostly to your wonderful, growing family.  Good to have your daughter situated before your little one arrives.  I know several people who have navigated GD and been fine, though it take focus and time. All my best and hang in there.   Mary Beth (formerly LBD) on "Update" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/update-8/page/2#post-1343192 Sat, 30 Aug 2014 13:30:38 +0000 Mary Beth (formerly LBD) 1343192@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Thistle, big hugs to you, and best wishes and lots of love!   Please take good care of yourself, and remember, you are only one person, and you can only do so much!   Be reasonable and patient and loving with yourself and please rest and relax every moment that you can.   xoxoxo Firecracker (Sharan) on "Update" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/update-8/page/2#post-1343023 Sat, 30 Aug 2014 02:44:06 +0000 Firecracker (Sharan) 1343023@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Oh, Thistle, what an ordeal you're facing. I'm sending virtual hugs to you, too. I hope you can get some relief soon, from the stress and the ailments. I love your positive note about the big fashion budget that will await you! Ornella on "Update" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/update-8/page/2#post-1342824 Fri, 29 Aug 2014 22:07:23 +0000 Ornella 1342824@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ In cases like this I don't know if there is anything that can be said that can make things easier for you. But I hope you feel a little better for letting some steam out here. In the grand scheme of things end of October is not that far away, but when you deal with challenges on a daily basis it IS far away. But really - It will all be over one day. Just keep crossing off the days on the calendar. In the meantime, I hope you're easy on yourself and you relax whenever you can. Best of luck and big hugs. Transcona Shannon on "Update" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/update-8/page/2#post-1342745 Fri, 29 Aug 2014 20:31:21 +0000 Transcona Shannon 1342745@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Just catching up on a bunch of posts and saw this Thistle - first of all, congratulations for getting this far I'm sorry that health wise, things have been tough. This pregnancy thing can really wreak havoc on our bodies. Not too much longer though. Please take care of yourself and I hope that some adjustments can be made at work for you. ironkurtin on "Update" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/update-8/page/2#post-1342693 Fri, 29 Aug 2014 18:47:08 +0000 ironkurtin 1342693@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Hang in there!  Pregnancy is a crazy time.  Nurture yourself and your family and all will be well. Congrats to the little one on potty training.  That is a big big milestone! Parsley on "Update" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/update-8/page/2#post-1342665 Fri, 29 Aug 2014 17:57:47 +0000 Parsley 1342665@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ I'm so sorry you've been having a hard time, Thistle! Sending virtual hugs! pil on "Update" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/update-8/page/2#post-1342639 Fri, 29 Aug 2014 17:27:29 +0000 pil 1342639@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Sending good wishes, Thistle, hang in there! AviaMariah on "Update" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/update-8/page/2#post-1342622 Fri, 29 Aug 2014 17:06:39 +0000 AviaMariah 1342622@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ These little guys (girls) sure do cause us some trouble don't they?  I'm sorry to hear that your having a rough time.  Is there anyway to shift some of your workload at work? It would be in your employers best interest to do so or else your doctor might eventually put you on bed rest which isn't going to leave them with a choice. At least that's how I'd frame the conversation with my boss.  :)  It's so easy to think we have to do it all but make sure to put yourself and family first and the rest will figure itself out!   cheryle (Dianthus) on "Update" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/update-8#post-1342422 Fri, 29 Aug 2014 12:01:27 +0000 cheryle (Dianthus) 1342422@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Hang in there Thistle and keep your eye on the reward at the end of the journey.   gryffin on "Update" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/update-8#post-1342409 Fri, 29 Aug 2014 11:34:05 +0000 gryffin 1342409@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Thistle - just wanted to say I am beaming you good wishes for a healthy and safe last trimester. Pregnancy is tough even when all goes well. Can't imagine but empathize!! Take care of yourself and sending bear hugs, good karma, and healthy wishes your way!! MsMary on "Update" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/update-8#post-1342330 Fri, 29 Aug 2014 04:59:09 +0000 MsMary 1342330@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Hugs, Thistle!  Sounds like you are well and truly in a rough patch!  Here's hoping things ease up a bit sooner rather than later.  And I hope all the love and support of your YLF friends will make it a bit easier to bear!  XXX OOO minimalist on "Update" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/update-8#post-1342316 Fri, 29 Aug 2014 04:20:34 +0000 minimalist 1342316@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Just sending good vibes and thinking of you. Adelfa on "Update" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/update-8#post-1342287 Fri, 29 Aug 2014 03:37:41 +0000 Adelfa 1342287@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ This sounds beyond ultra difficult! I'm surprised you even managed to post this, but glad you did! I am going through a stressful time at work too and the thought of adding pregnancy, diabetes, and a preschooler to my load is just laughable because I can't even imagine! I know you are strong and capable. And I hope you can act, in whatever way works for you, on all the encouragement to take care of yourself! We are thinking of you. Jaime on "Update" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/update-8#post-1342277 Fri, 29 Aug 2014 03:02:08 +0000 Jaime 1342277@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ So sorry Thistle. I know it is rough now. After having a long labor and emergency c like Una, I had a scheduled c-section with my twins and relatively speaking it was a breeze. Also the second one was a much easier recovery than the first one for me. I hope it is the same for you! Suz on "Update" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/update-8#post-1342274 Fri, 29 Aug 2014 02:57:24 +0000 Suz 1342274@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Thistle, I'm so sorry this has been such a rough time. And scary, too, I am sure.  And I'm glad you shared with us. You are so right -- coming away from this with your health (and a healthy baby) will make the hard parts receded in memory. Hang in there. And we will help you plan your new wardrobe for the time when you are healed.  Elle on "Update" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/update-8#post-1342232 Fri, 29 Aug 2014 02:14:26 +0000 Elle 1342232@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ What a tough time for you. Running around after another child and working a stressful job while pregnant sounds incredibly difficult.  Is it at all possible to go out on disability leave before your C-section and hopefully lower your stress levels?   I'm sure the doctors are monitoring you and the baby carefully so I'm sure the baby will be fine.  We are all pulling for you deb on "Update" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/update-8#post-1342187 Fri, 29 Aug 2014 00:57:49 +0000 deb 1342187@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Thistle, this sounds miserable and hope it is all under control soon. Take care of yourself and the little one inside.