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			<title>YouLookFab Forum &#187; Topic: Ugh, theme birthday party</title>
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				<title>Diana on "Ugh, theme birthday party"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 06 Aug 2019 17:17:39 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Diana</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I’d just do a slip dress or palazzo pants.&#060;br /&#062;
Rebecca’s post with the cherry prints made me think you should try to work your cherry headdress in there somehow. That could be the rockabilly part?&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Edit: but yeah the theme is dumb and I’d be annoyed too.
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				<title>Anonymous on "Ugh, theme birthday party"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 06 Aug 2019 14:47:35 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Anonymous</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I'm with Angie. &#038;nbsp;I'm busy that night. &#038;nbsp;This is beyond obnoxious.
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				<title>annagybe on "Ugh, theme birthday party"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 06 Aug 2019 14:45:24 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>annagybe</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Ooh Bijou like the leopard slip dress idea, might do a camisole&#060;br /&#062;
And I have those new cowboy boots
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				<title>Bijou on "Ugh, theme birthday party"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 06 Aug 2019 12:32:54 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Bijou</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I would wear a silk leopard print slip dress, long cardigan and cowboy boots and have my hair and make-up fully done, ready to party.
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				<title>Sal on "Ugh, theme birthday party"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/ugh-theme-birthday-party#post-2050937</link>
				<pubDate>Tue, 06 Aug 2019 10:46:58 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Sal</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Found this pic which may or may not provide inspiration
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				<title>Stagiaire Fash on "Ugh, theme birthday party"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 06 Aug 2019 07:55:54 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Stagiaire Fash</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;JAileen’s answer &#038;amp; Gretchen’s variation on it are the best!
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				<title>Sal on "Ugh, theme birthday party"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 06 Aug 2019 07:55:47 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Sal</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I like lots of the ideas.  It is an unusual theme.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I love costume parties - but I won’t buy much for a costume unless it is second hand.  Love the idea of a few curlers and maybe slides ( tape on some fake fur to make them look like slippers).  Your shorts and top of fancy.  Definitely lipstick!
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				<title>Jane on "Ugh, theme birthday party"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 06 Aug 2019 06:28:28 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Jane</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Irritating! Forced fun, not for me! &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Kimono top with jeans, or not go!
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				<title>JAileen on "Ugh, theme birthday party"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 06 Aug 2019 02:52:41 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>JAileen</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I think I’d say I slept in the nude...
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				<title>Lucy on "Ugh, theme birthday party"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 06 Aug 2019 02:44:32 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Lucy</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I'd say that I was coming from another event, where I could not wear my pyjamas!&#038;nbsp;
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				<title>unfrumped on "Ugh, theme birthday party"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 06 Aug 2019 02:01:12 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>unfrumped</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;What shevia said!! At the end of the day no one will care that you did not wear pajamas or whatever . I say figure out the best combination of clever + flattering/ comfortable ( meaning in your zone)— something you feel great in, authentic ( authentic can still have fun, clever aspects). You may find others that did the same , or wish they had.
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				<title>Jaime on "Ugh, theme birthday party"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 06 Aug 2019 01:36:54 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Jaime</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I would definitely interpret the theme very loosely and have fun with it.&#038;nbsp;
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				<title>Gretchen on "Ugh, theme birthday party"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 06 Aug 2019 00:44:50 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Gretchen</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Ugh... especially when you are seeing people you haven't seen in a while. Can you go with a simple dress and just do hair/makeup/accessories on theme? I'm thinking a kimono top over the dress, or a short bathrobe, stockings &#038;amp; heels, great ponytail, lashes, bold lipstick and sleeping mask.&#038;nbsp;&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;That way, if you aren't feeling the theme, you can revert to a normal party look easily.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;And your stock answer can be: only &#060;i&#062;very special&#060;/i&#062; people get to see my pj's.&#038;nbsp;&#060;/p&#062;
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				<title>Jules on "Ugh, theme birthday party"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 06 Aug 2019 00:20:11 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Jules</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Frenchie in her curlers and negligee at the sleepover. Seriously though, maybe an outfit you like with one clever or punny nod to the theme would do? Wish I was good at coming up with those  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-wink icon-emoticon-wink "></span> 
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				<title>rebekahphoto on "Ugh, theme birthday party"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 06 Aug 2019 00:18:21 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>rebekahphoto</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I hear you with the theme birthdays! we just attended a 30th party on a boat a couple of weeks ago...Theme was &#034;EXTRA!&#034;--ie: wigs, glitter, glam, drag, you name it. Since it was a boat I based it all on a swim suit (since I was going in!) We loosely did a &#034;jungle&#034; theme so I wore lots of leopard!&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;For &#034;Rockabilly PJ&#034; I immediately thought a sexy cute cherry print PJs (or leopard or gingham--)&#038;nbsp; + some glam 50s makeup &#038;amp; hair. Im sure you would make it amazing--either real pj top or similar.....maybe more on the camp vibe&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I kinda love this Dolce top! &#038;amp; there are matching sets  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-smile icon-emoticon-smile "></span>  sorry cant do a real find from MyTheresa
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				<title>annagybe on "Ugh, theme birthday party"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 05 Aug 2019 23:38:14 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>annagybe</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;There will be some people there that I haven’t seen in a while. And I would like to see them&#060;br /&#062;
I don’t think I’ll be ostracized if I don’t do the theme exactly. Dad’s staying with me. I can probably come up with some excuse regarding outfit. He thought the shorts I was wearing the other day were pajamas, as in you’re not going to change ( hahaha)&#060;br /&#062;
ETA maybe I’ll do Rockabilly &#038;amp; make some crack about forgetting my overnight bag, or Marylin Monroe’s infamous quote involving Chanel&#060;br /&#062;
No. 5  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-wink icon-emoticon-wink "></span> 
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				<title>Barbara Diane on "Ugh, theme birthday party"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 05 Aug 2019 22:27:05 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Barbara Diane</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I wouldn’t wear anything outside the house that I wouldn’t be okay with a photo of. Not necessarily proud of (I can be a bit lazy) but ok with.&#060;br /&#062;
Is there a version of this you can be okay with? Soft denim colored pj bottoms, maybe cropped length, similar or contrasting top, and an accessory to make it rockabilly? Or big hair or big hoops,
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				<title>rachylou on "Ugh, theme birthday party"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 05 Aug 2019 22:19:18 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>rachylou</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Lol, Angie! :)&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I rather like Janet’s idea there. &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Or wear real clothes, a robe, red lipstick and a bandana - red lipstick and a bandana, they make everything rockabilly, right? Lol.
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				<title>Barbara Diane on "Ugh, theme birthday party"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 05 Aug 2019 22:18:47 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Barbara Diane</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I don’t know that you owe it to anyone to wear pajamas outside the house.
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				<title>Barbara Diane on "Ugh, theme birthday party"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 05 Aug 2019 22:17:16 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Barbara Diane</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Angie, my thought exactly.
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				<title>Angie on "Ugh, theme birthday party"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 05 Aug 2019 21:54:46 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Angie</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Do you really have to go?&#038;nbsp;
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				<title>Ginger on "Ugh, theme birthday party"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 05 Aug 2019 21:25:47 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Ginger</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;That's bizarre! I have some friends who have talked about doing a pajama/loungewear party... but that's friends who collect and wear vintage clothing as a hobby. We've all got some pretty great hostess gowns, negligees, smoking jackets, satin slippers, etc. that ordinarily never get seen out of our homes. But this?! I have no idea! I happen to have a very I-Love-Lucy quilted house coat that would fit the theme literally, but I have an idea that's not what the host of this one has in mind!
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				<title>Stagiaire Fash on "Ugh, theme birthday party"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 05 Aug 2019 21:20:26 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Stagiaire Fash</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;What a weird combo. I bet Isabel’s right about why they’re doing this. &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I agree with the general flow here—wear jeans, rolled up a bit and some kind of pj top, with a bandana in your hair. Footwear could go either way—your rockenist shoes or some kind of house slippers. &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Or you could ask the host what they mean.
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				<title>Cardiff girl on "Ugh, theme birthday party"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 05 Aug 2019 21:03:09 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Cardiff girl</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Why do people want to go to a party in pyjamas?Is it to save time when you get home afterwards and can just fall straight into bed?
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				<title>annagybe on "Ugh, theme birthday party"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 05 Aug 2019 20:49:09 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>annagybe</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I think I’m extra annoyed because I also traded call so I could attend&#060;br /&#062;
I should clarify the updated descriptor said pajamas
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				<title>Preppy Pear on "Ugh, theme birthday party"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 05 Aug 2019 20:36:39 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Preppy Pear</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;That is very specific!  I might try to do one or the other mainly and incorporate an element of the other half - maybe a rockabilly dress with a sleep mask worn on your forehead, or pjs with a rockabilly scarf in your hair?
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				<title>Janet on "Ugh, theme birthday party"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 05 Aug 2019 20:34:21 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;What is up with all the pajama theme parties lately? I’m with you — that would not excite me at all. &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I would be tempted to do the hair and makeup in a 50s rockabilly style, and find a short-sleeved button front pajama top, roll up the sleeves, tie the waist, and wear a pair of rolled up jeans.  Sort of James Dean meets Dita Von Teese. I dunno.
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				<title>Anonymous on "Ugh, theme birthday party"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 05 Aug 2019 20:30:20 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Anonymous</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Rockabilly pajama?! Wth?!&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I say do the rockabilly bit and skip the pajama bit!&#060;br /&#062;
 Quick Google search-bad A Sandy would do, dots, gingham, fit and flare dresses, rompers maybe, hair scarves (usually red), red lipstick, pompadour hair, ponytail, black leather. Black, white and red in general.
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				<title>Anonymous on "Ugh, theme birthday party"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 05 Aug 2019 20:25:44 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Anonymous</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;The host/hostess must have some special outfit ready that they want to wear? Something a little too over the top but also fabulous?&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;&#034;Pyjama&#034; is pretty vague, really. Maybe you could &#034;pyjama&#034; just the top of your outfit?
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				<title>Muffin on "Ugh, theme birthday party"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 05 Aug 2019 20:19:10 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Muffin</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I don’t even understand Rockabilly Pajama! Lyle Lovett in pajamas? I cannot unsee.&#060;br /&#062;
I’m sorry. I really dislike costume theme parties for anything besides Halloween. I am an adult, trust me to dress like one.
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