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			<title>YouLookFab Forum &#187; Topic: Turning a &#34;bad xyz&#34; day into a &#34;good xyz&#34; day</title>
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				<title>goldenpig on "Turning a &#34;bad xyz&#34; day into a &#34;good xyz&#34; day"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/turning-a-bad-xyz-day-into-a-good-xyz-day/page/2#post-535235</link>
				<pubDate>Wed, 08 Feb 2012 14:31:05 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>goldenpig</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Thumbs up Aida! Love your self-confidence and positive attitude! You always look fab!
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				<title>Jem on "Turning a &#34;bad xyz&#34; day into a &#34;good xyz&#34; day"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 08 Feb 2012 14:21:24 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Jem</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Yay for good days!   <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-smile icon-emoticon-smile "></span>   Love your attitude!!
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				<title>Aunty on "Turning a &#34;bad xyz&#34; day into a &#34;good xyz&#34; day"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/turning-a-bad-xyz-day-into-a-good-xyz-day/page/2#post-535118</link>
				<pubDate>Wed, 08 Feb 2012 09:09:35 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Aunty</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Yay &#034; doing the happy dance&#034; for you!!!&#060;br /&#062;
Did you spend the day with a face like a bull dog chewing a wasp? oh no, you have those demons beat!!!!
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				<title>LoP on "Turning a &#34;bad xyz&#34; day into a &#34;good xyz&#34; day"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/turning-a-bad-xyz-day-into-a-good-xyz-day#post-535079</link>
				<pubDate>Wed, 08 Feb 2012 07:26:09 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>LoP</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Great attitude and you deserve it. Taking notes here. Please send me some self love.  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-smile icon-emoticon-smile "></span> 
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				<title>Katiepea on "Turning a &#34;bad xyz&#34; day into a &#34;good xyz&#34; day"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/turning-a-bad-xyz-day-into-a-good-xyz-day#post-535056</link>
				<pubDate>Wed, 08 Feb 2012 06:24:52 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Katiepea</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Oh, I love your attitude.  Glad you ended up having a good day!
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				<title>Adelfa on "Turning a &#34;bad xyz&#34; day into a &#34;good xyz&#34; day"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/turning-a-bad-xyz-day-into-a-good-xyz-day#post-535052</link>
				<pubDate>Wed, 08 Feb 2012 06:15:48 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;This is so beautiful.  I'm trying to learn &#034;it's not me, it's the clothes&#034; and it's a slow process, but I'm working on it. Trying to remind myself not to wear clothes that don't fit!  Thanks for a vivid example.
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				<title>Vicki on "Turning a &#34;bad xyz&#34; day into a &#34;good xyz&#34; day"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/turning-a-bad-xyz-day-into-a-good-xyz-day#post-535036</link>
				<pubDate>Wed, 08 Feb 2012 05:45:41 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Vicki</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Aida, I am so glad you referenced this post from your WIW 01.28-02.05.  This is a brilliant strategy and I loved how you were totally in control and in the moment as you folded your jeans away and moved on to the monochromatic gray &#034;shorts&#034; and tights with high heels.  This is stellar YLF work.  Thank you for giving extra love to yourself and showing us how!   <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-wink icon-emoticon-wink "></span> 
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				<title>catgirl on "Turning a &#34;bad xyz&#34; day into a &#34;good xyz&#34; day"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/turning-a-bad-xyz-day-into-a-good-xyz-day#post-531229</link>
				<pubDate>Sat, 04 Feb 2012 18:20:26 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>catgirl</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;You ROCK.  I am going to try to remember this every morning as I dress...
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				<title>Marley on "Turning a &#34;bad xyz&#34; day into a &#34;good xyz&#34; day"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/turning-a-bad-xyz-day-into-a-good-xyz-day#post-531225</link>
				<pubDate>Sat, 04 Feb 2012 18:11:38 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Marley</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Aida - you are just the best.  Thank you so much for posting this!  I love the way you reframed the entire &#034;problem&#034; and made it something positive - something that you were proud of!  I'm proud of you - and amazed by your wisdom.
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				<title>Jonesy on "Turning a &#34;bad xyz&#34; day into a &#34;good xyz&#34; day"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sat, 04 Feb 2012 16:59:58 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Jonesy</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;What a fantastic post, Aida. I LOVE it!!!
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				<title>Amy on "Turning a &#34;bad xyz&#34; day into a &#34;good xyz&#34; day"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/turning-a-bad-xyz-day-into-a-good-xyz-day#post-531157</link>
				<pubDate>Sat, 04 Feb 2012 16:30:25 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Amy</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Aida, you are an inspiration. Rock on, girl.
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				<title>Jaime on "Turning a &#34;bad xyz&#34; day into a &#34;good xyz&#34; day"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/turning-a-bad-xyz-day-into-a-good-xyz-day#post-531120</link>
				<pubDate>Sat, 04 Feb 2012 16:03:28 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Jaime</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;You are wise beyond your years. Loved reading your post.
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				<title>Sona on "Turning a &#34;bad xyz&#34; day into a &#34;good xyz&#34; day"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/turning-a-bad-xyz-day-into-a-good-xyz-day#post-531030</link>
				<pubDate>Sat, 04 Feb 2012 14:06:27 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Sona</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;what a great post. I'm going to come back to it when I'm having  a bady 'xyz' day  and read your words again seeking inspiration from them!!
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				<title>krishnidoux on "Turning a &#34;bad xyz&#34; day into a &#34;good xyz&#34; day"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/turning-a-bad-xyz-day-into-a-good-xyz-day#post-530961</link>
				<pubDate>Sat, 04 Feb 2012 09:40:37 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>krishnidoux</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;WAY TO GO!!! Good for you. And what a fabulous idea. Next time I'm in that place, I'll remember this. &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Aida, this is fantastic.
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				<title>AJ on "Turning a &#34;bad xyz&#34; day into a &#34;good xyz&#34; day"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sat, 04 Feb 2012 08:52:10 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>AJ</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;How did I miss this post?   Thanks so much for sharing this, Aida!
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				<title>Angie on "Turning a &#34;bad xyz&#34; day into a &#34;good xyz&#34; day"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/turning-a-bad-xyz-day-into-a-good-xyz-day#post-530648</link>
				<pubDate>Sat, 04 Feb 2012 02:11:53 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Angie</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Can I clone you, Aida?
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				<title>christy on "Turning a &#34;bad xyz&#34; day into a &#34;good xyz&#34; day"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sat, 04 Feb 2012 01:38:29 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>christy</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Great post Aida! And congrats for getting to that place where you can feel it, recognize it and then adjust your way of thinking. It can be so easy to wallow even though it does us absolutely no good!
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				<title>sarah on "Turning a &#34;bad xyz&#34; day into a &#34;good xyz&#34; day"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sat, 04 Feb 2012 01:31:18 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>sarah</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Kudos to you, Aida!
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				<title>Carole  on "Turning a &#34;bad xyz&#34; day into a &#34;good xyz&#34; day"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/turning-a-bad-xyz-day-into-a-good-xyz-day#post-530588</link>
				<pubDate>Sat, 04 Feb 2012 01:19:14 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Carole </dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I love your positive outlook and way of looking at things! We could all take a lesson from you. I hope next time I'm self critical I remember this post, and turn my negative self talk around.
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				<title>Anonymous on "Turning a &#34;bad xyz&#34; day into a &#34;good xyz&#34; day"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sat, 04 Feb 2012 00:28:00 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Anonymous</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Good job Aida! That's much different than just trying to find something that would *hide* your legs. I love it!
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				<title>Anonymous on "Turning a &#34;bad xyz&#34; day into a &#34;good xyz&#34; day"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/turning-a-bad-xyz-day-into-a-good-xyz-day#post-530493</link>
				<pubDate>Sat, 04 Feb 2012 00:03:14 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;aaauhhh, that made me cry a little ( and smile too) : )
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				<title>Suz on "Turning a &#34;bad xyz&#34; day into a &#34;good xyz&#34; day"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/turning-a-bad-xyz-day-into-a-good-xyz-day#post-530441</link>
				<pubDate>Fri, 03 Feb 2012 22:57:22 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Suz</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Where is the LOVE button? Such a great post, Aida. Thank you for sharing this.
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				<title>Meredith1953 on "Turning a &#34;bad xyz&#34; day into a &#34;good xyz&#34; day"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/turning-a-bad-xyz-day-into-a-good-xyz-day#post-530430</link>
				<pubDate>Fri, 03 Feb 2012 22:48:29 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Meredith1953</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Love your post!  I get self-critical and then need to remember that I wouldn't think that way of a beloved friend,  and I should be my own BEST friend.  It's all about loving and honoring the body we have at any age or weight and dressing to show that love.
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				<title>kellygirl on "Turning a &#34;bad xyz&#34; day into a &#34;good xyz&#34; day"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/turning-a-bad-xyz-day-into-a-good-xyz-day#post-530426</link>
				<pubDate>Fri, 03 Feb 2012 22:45:45 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>kellygirl</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Great story, Aida, that I can totally relate to : )  Thanks for sharing!
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				<title>rae on "Turning a &#34;bad xyz&#34; day into a &#34;good xyz&#34; day"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 03 Feb 2012 22:36:58 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>rae</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Y'know, there was a time when I would have told myslef that being happy despite weight gain was &#034;denial&#034; or a sign of &#034;settling&#034; for a lower standard... sounds awful, right? I'm so glad those days are over, and I'm happy you've shared this great strategy with us!
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				<title>Mo on "Turning a &#34;bad xyz&#34; day into a &#34;good xyz&#34; day"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/turning-a-bad-xyz-day-into-a-good-xyz-day#post-530387</link>
				<pubDate>Fri, 03 Feb 2012 21:34:28 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Mo</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Way to turn a possible negative feeling into a positive one!! Great idea to not just 'hide' what is giving you wardrobe grief, but instead flaunt it in the best possible way.  Kudos to you and your mile long grey legs!  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-wink icon-emoticon-wink "></span> 
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				<title>jayne on "Turning a &#34;bad xyz&#34; day into a &#34;good xyz&#34; day"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 03 Feb 2012 21:30:22 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;what a great attitude!  Thanks so much for sharing because you are so right, in the end it is  up to us to decide how to approach the day!
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				<title>Di on "Turning a &#34;bad xyz&#34; day into a &#34;good xyz&#34; day"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 03 Feb 2012 21:01:37 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Di</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;LOVE.
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				<title>Debora on "Turning a &#34;bad xyz&#34; day into a &#34;good xyz&#34; day"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 03 Feb 2012 20:58:30 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Debora</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;And this is the best thing I've heard all day! Thanks so much for posting this, Aida!
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				<title>Heather on "Turning a &#34;bad xyz&#34; day into a &#34;good xyz&#34; day"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 03 Feb 2012 20:55:22 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Heather</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;{{{{{WARM BEAR HUGS}}}}}}}}&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;This is a thread we all need to post in our closets.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;And, Aida, you are awesome!
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