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			<title>YouLookFab Forum &#187; Topic: Toughening up an outfit</title>
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				<title>Anonymous on "Toughening up an outfit"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/toughening-up-an-outfit#post-1792093</link>
				<pubDate>Tue, 28 Mar 2017 03:27:29 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Anonymous</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;You could also do things with hair ( spiked or ga super short cut or undercut; oil slick color) or makeup ( black or navy lipstick).&#060;br /&#062;
Camo print also comes to mind.
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				<title>rachylou on "Toughening up an outfit"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 28 Mar 2017 02:09:25 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>rachylou</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Any shoe with a solid sole. And actually a spike heel will do it too (they're lethal if applied properly). Also: chain - chain strap purse, chain necklace. Military surplus. Wide/heavy leather belts. Those are my immediate thoughts...
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				<title>Jenava on "Toughening up an outfit"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 27 Mar 2017 23:17:43 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Jenava</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Agree with all these! &#038;nbsp;Jewelry, black, moto or denim jacket (mine is distressed which I think is even better), stompy/sporty/nerdy footwear. &#038;nbsp;Dramatic makeup/hair.
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				<title>Barbara Diane on "Toughening up an outfit"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 27 Mar 2017 21:57:34 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Barbara Diane</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Leather and metal and zippers, and studs. Thicker pieces, metal, thick metal bangles. Thicker soles on shoes and sandals.
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				<title>Zibbets on "Toughening up an outfit"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 27 Mar 2017 21:43:27 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;A leather jacket can do it too. &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Of the three I have, the ecru moto with silver hardware lends the least toughness, but it does do the trick and has been a workhorse.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;My black leather blazer is dressy enough that it's also not super tough, but it does add a bit of stompy flair.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;The black leather moto with lots of zippers and hardware tips the scale toward tough while still feeling like &#034;me.&#034;
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				<title>DonnaF on "Toughening up an outfit"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 27 Mar 2017 21:29:06 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>DonnaF</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I have a sleeveless and a 3/4 sleeve linen blend motos in addition to my sleeveless pleather moto.&#038;nbsp; I also wear my olive green sleeveless utility jacket.
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				<title>JuniperGreen on "Toughening up an outfit"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 27 Mar 2017 21:09:45 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>JuniperGreen</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I do tend to wear a lot of black so that's typically my go-to solution, as are some moto-inspired boots. &#038;nbsp;I wear glasses and think that my bolder, navy frames are also helpful. &#038;nbsp;BUT Angie's recent posts focusing on a lightened wardrobe palette have me rethinking this! &#038;nbsp;&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Same thing with the warmer weather... the black and moto stuff feels too heavy for spring/summer. &#038;nbsp;So I'm really liking the suggestion of using sporty pieces! &#038;nbsp;Anoraks and bombers will be fun to experiment with.
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				<title>Anonymous on "Toughening up an outfit"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 27 Mar 2017 18:40:58 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I like a lightweight anorak &#038;nbsp;in a classic olive green for de-sweetening &#038;nbsp;a look. &#038;nbsp;Lends it a combination of sporty and toughness. &#038;nbsp;Push up the sleeves tighten the drawstring in back, add a few vintage crystal pins....
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				<title>Ledonna N. on "Toughening up an outfit"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 27 Mar 2017 17:37:17 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Ledonna N.</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I agree with Chewyspaghetti  I have spiked earings and leather cuffs that a a bit if toughness.
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				<title>chewyspaghetti on "Toughening up an outfit"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 27 Mar 2017 17:31:37 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Chunky metal jewelry!
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				<title>Emily K on "Toughening up an outfit"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 27 Mar 2017 17:20:57 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Emily K</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;When I feel a little too precious (happens more than I'd like, for the same reasons Robin mentions) I try to push towards &#034;sporty&#034;. &#038;nbsp; Jeans jacket and converse pair pair well together, for my casual life. &#038;nbsp;&#060;/p&#062;
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				<title>RobinF on "Toughening up an outfit"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 27 Mar 2017 17:08:05 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>RobinF</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I love this question! I also don't like to look too girly - I think because I am short and have feminine facial features so I can look too sweet (haha, my hubby and kids might argue with that!) Anyway, I also wear quite a bit of black and like stompier shoes so maybe some of it is instinctual. I will watch this for more ideas.
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				<title>Greyscale on "Toughening up an outfit"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 27 Mar 2017 17:06:46 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Greyscale</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Heavy sandals can work as well as boots. I'm not sure how tough you want to go but I wear my Dr Martens Clarissa sandals to add edge to a lot of summer outfits. They're heavy, so you have to make sure they don't throw the outfit off.&#060;br /&#062;
&#060;a href=&#034;http://m.zappos.com/marty/p/dr-martens-clarissa-chunky-strap-sandal/product/8098024&#034; rel=&#034;nofollow&#034;&#062;http://m.zappos.com/marty/p/dr.....ct/8098024&#060;/a&#062;&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;(They're also amazingly comfortable for my high arches!)
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				<title>Angie on "Toughening up an outfit"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 27 Mar 2017 16:05:09 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Angie</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I think BLACK toughens up an outfit too. A reason Janet wears a lot of black - and I a reason I don't.&#038;nbsp;
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				<title>Janet on "Toughening up an outfit"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 27 Mar 2017 15:42:05 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Janet</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I rely on footwear to toughen up outfits, especially when it's too warm for jackets. Block-heel, &#034;stompy&#034; styles help me feel more like myself when I'm wearing more feminine outfits. I look for unusual edgy details, a distinctive heel, asymmetric styles, etc. &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Jewelry can help too. Choosing distinctive, bolder pieces instead of anything too delicate, romantic, classic, or girly.
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				<title>JuniperGreen on "Toughening up an outfit"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 27 Mar 2017 15:38:04 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>JuniperGreen</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Angie's recent post about denim jackets and their ability to toughen up an outfit resonated with me. I will occasionally use my denim jacket to create a bit of edge in an otherwise precious or sweet outfit. &#038;nbsp;It got me thinking... what are some other tricks for adding edge to an outfit? &#038;nbsp;&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;For example, A-line dresses are really flattering on my apple/rectangle frame, but tend to read as too sweet/girly for me. &#038;nbsp;I have some moto and pleather jackets that I can layer, and sometimes will swap in a nicely tailored blazer (though that toes a line between Modern Classic and reverting back to school girl!). &#038;nbsp;Knee-high boots or low-heeled booties are also helpful, but sometimes too heavy for the weather.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Any other suggestions for toughening up an outfit or adding edge to a look? &#038;nbsp;
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