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				<title>cheryle (Dianthus) on "Torn between three dresses--help me pick!"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sun, 15 May 2011 17:09:41 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>cheryle (Dianthus)</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Steph, I hear you on the weight changes.  I gain and lose the same 10 lbs a few time a year it seems.  Makes it hard to keep the clothes current.  &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I'd like to see your dress collection since I am a bit of a collector too.   <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-smile icon-emoticon-smile "></span> 
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				<title>Kari on "Torn between three dresses--help me pick!"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sun, 15 May 2011 17:05:33 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Kari</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Not looking at the other responses yet:&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;#1 is my favorite.  I love the clean cut, and it is *so* pretty and fresh and fits you well.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;#2 - LOVE the shape of the skirt.  Don't love the pattern or the high neckline.  Keep a look out for skirts or dresses with this type of shape, because it's very pretty on you.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;#3 - my 2nd favorite, but I still think that the tiered ruffles, bow, and the slight stiffness to the fabric just feel like a little too much, and I still like your original dress from &#060;a href=&#034;http://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/two-dresses-which-is-better&#034;&#062;this thread&#060;/a&#062; better.
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				<title>Steph on "Torn between three dresses--help me pick!"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sun, 15 May 2011 17:01:30 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Steph</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Dianthus, I haven't chosen yet.  I am definitely leaning toward purchasing 1 (which is on sale and non-returnable), and holding onto 3 (which I have already purchased but haven't worn, and is returnable), and waiting to see if 3 goes on sale and I can get it for less, in which case I would keep both.   <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-smile icon-emoticon-smile "></span>   &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I am actually strongly considering trying on all of my dresses today and photographing each one.  I am kind of a pretty dress addict, so I want to really take stock of what I have, to determine how much more I need.  My weight also fluctuates, and is at its high end right now, so I want to see what fits me at this size and what doesn't.  Maybe I should post the photos on YLF if I go that route.
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				<title>lyn67 on "Torn between three dresses--help me pick!"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sun, 15 May 2011 14:27:54 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>lyn67</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;1 and 3  :-))
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				<title>cheryle (Dianthus) on "Torn between three dresses--help me pick!"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sun, 15 May 2011 13:31:27 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>cheryle (Dianthus)</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Have you decided?  I have come back to check a few times because I really like #3 and hope it finds a good home.
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				<title>Anonymous on "Torn between three dresses--help me pick!"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sun, 15 May 2011 13:28:10 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I'm another strong vote for #1.
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				<title>catgirl on "Torn between three dresses--help me pick!"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sun, 15 May 2011 06:21:40 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>catgirl</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Not looking at any other responses, I vote #1.  I love the fit and the elegant simplicity of it.  It could look dressed up or casual, and will go with just about anything.  #2 is fine but not as perfect to me, and #3 is a little too much (but that is me, so take my bias against bows and girliness into consideration).  #3 also seems more specific to me - it will stand out and so you may not be able to wear it multiple times where the same people will see it, if that's an issue.  &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Dunno, I could be rambling because I've got several events to go to and trying to consider these same issues with my dresses.  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-smile icon-emoticon-smile "></span> 
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				<title>suzanne on "Torn between three dresses--help me pick!"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sun, 15 May 2011 06:18:14 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>suzanne</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Ooo... Spanner in the works! I love the fit and look of dress 2. But, for your needs, I think dress 3 would be perfect. The fit is lovely, but what attracts me even more is because the colour makes your skin GLOW! (On the other hand, if you &#034;need&#034; two dresses, please give dress 2 a thought  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-wink icon-emoticon-wink "></span> 
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				<title>Sylvie on "Torn between three dresses--help me pick!"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sun, 15 May 2011 05:13:44 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Sylvie</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Without reading anyone else's answer, I love #3!  #1 is nice but not as dazzling.  I don't care much for #2.
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				<title>anna on "Torn between three dresses--help me pick!"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sun, 15 May 2011 05:06:33 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>anna</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Chiming in a bit late, but I immediately liked #3. It is very flattering on you, it has not too much cleavage in my opinion but just the right amount for this type of dress, it is a fun dress, one becomes happy by looking at it. The color glows on you.&#060;br /&#062;
As for #1 I believe this could be a very useful dress, it is the one I would probably get since I lean towards neutrals out of habit. It does not catch my eye like #3, but it seems a very versatile choice. There are nice details on it with the combination of different textures.&#060;br /&#062;
Number 2 has a different feel to it, I likes the shape of it but feel that the patterns on the skirt is too dominant to me.&#060;br /&#062;
So, I vote #3 because you rock that shape and color.
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				<title>Steph on "Torn between three dresses--help me pick!"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sun, 15 May 2011 04:25:17 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Steph</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;So what's interesting is that the saleswomen and my boyfriend all really liked #1 when I tried it on.  Then when I tried on #3 (the teal dress) they all immediately said #3 was the obvious choice.  The saleswomen knew that they would not be making a sale on #3 (I had purchased it from Bloomingdales and they didn't even have my size at the boutique), but they still went on about how it was the best choice.  I had actually preferred #1 a little, but the fact that they had no vested interest in me picking #3, but were still so excited about it, made me question my decision.  &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I have to admit I am leaning toward keeping both--they have different shapes, colors, and looks.  But I'm not sure that's practical. Regardless, I do think I'm going to get #1.  I really like it.
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				<title>Reneeb on "Torn between three dresses--help me pick!"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sun, 15 May 2011 03:49:50 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Reneeb</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I vote 1 it is so elegant and flattering.
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				<title>RandomThoughts (Andrea) on "Torn between three dresses--help me pick!"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sun, 15 May 2011 03:45:41 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>RandomThoughts (Andrea)</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;My favorite is #2, but if you are really looking for something more casual it doesn't make sense to get it. So of #1 and #3, #1 is my fave. All are cute but I find #1 more flattering and it's probably a lot more versatile.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Fun!
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				<title>Heather on "Torn between three dresses--help me pick!"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sun, 15 May 2011 03:17:50 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Heather</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I LOOOOVE THAT MILLY DRESS!!!  I have been eyeing it in that color and the green/navy version, but if it will crowd other dresses of the same formality in your closet, then I prefer the NL white dress (if we HAVE to choose....I adore the teal one, too!).
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				<title>yublocka on "Torn between three dresses--help me pick!"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sun, 15 May 2011 02:00:14 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I vote keep #1. If you didn't already have others similar to #2 I'd vote for that one also. #3 has too much going on, between the ruffle, the bow, the colour and the seams down the front.
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				<title>Lisa on "Torn between three dresses--help me pick!"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sun, 15 May 2011 01:56:50 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Lisa</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I liked the white dress last time, and still like it best.  #2 is a close second, but if you don't have a need for it, I would pass.  #3 is a great color on you, but I prefer the fit and texture of #1.
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				<title>Lisalou on "Torn between three dresses--help me pick!"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sun, 15 May 2011 01:13:17 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;#1 is my favorite. So pretty!
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				<title>Anonymous on "Torn between three dresses--help me pick!"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sun, 15 May 2011 00:55:02 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Voting for #1.
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				<title>rae on "Torn between three dresses--help me pick!"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sun, 15 May 2011 00:53:16 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>rae</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Keeping your main concerns in mind, I choose #1.  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-smile icon-emoticon-smile "></span> 
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				<title>Arya on "Torn between three dresses--help me pick!"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sun, 15 May 2011 00:46:04 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Arya</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I vote for #1.  The cut and fit are lovely and very flattering on you!
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				<title>MNsara on "Torn between three dresses--help me pick!"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sun, 15 May 2011 00:28:24 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>MNsara</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Oh, oh, oh!!  If #1 is not lace, then it is clearly at the head of MY list  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-wink icon-emoticon-wink "></span>   &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;. . . and I'm clearly confused, thinking your dresses are lace &#038;amp; Trina Turk :-\
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				<title>Angie on "Torn between three dresses--help me pick!"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sun, 15 May 2011 00:26:47 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Angie</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I vote #1 or #3 - both  KILLER.
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				<title>Steph on "Torn between three dresses--help me pick!"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sun, 15 May 2011 00:23:33 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Thanks for the feedback--looks like we're kind of all over the place, so I'll be interested in more responses.  But just to clarify a few things--&#060;br /&#062;
The white dress doesn't have any lace anywhere.  It has a ruffle down the front, and the horizontal pattern is just stripes of alternating fabric--cotton and a sheer fabric (but then there is a white underlayer.  &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;The white and teal dresses are Nanette Lepore, the flared skirt dress is Milly.  No Trina Turk.   <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-smile icon-emoticon-smile "></span>   &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I personally don't mind cleavage and have sported way more than is shown in the teal dress.  BUT you are still welcome to vote against it for that reason!&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Although I do own three white dresses already, this one does serve a different purpose than the ones I currently have.  And I already own a teal dress as well.  But I'm okay with the repetition of either/both colors.
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				<title>Jonesy on "Torn between three dresses--help me pick!"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sun, 15 May 2011 00:20:49 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I'm going with #1 out of this bunch. It seems elegant and like it could be dressed up or down.
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				<title>Maya on "Torn between three dresses--help me pick!"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sun, 15 May 2011 00:16:38 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I favor the white lace dress out of the lot. The second one looks great on you but sounds like it would be redundant. The third I don't care for. It seems snug at the bust and the bow is sort of oddly placed. &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;The first one has the best combination of fitting well, looking great, and being versatile.
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				<title>MNsara on "Torn between three dresses--help me pick!"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sun, 15 May 2011 00:12:54 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Forewarning:  I have no one recommendation.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;#1 - I think this is lovely on you and the lace is very on trend, but white lace could have some places you feel too dressed up for. . .&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;#2 - love the fit and flare and the bold skirt pattern, but not so fond of the high neckline giving you absolutely no decolletage&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;#3 - love the color but this one has too much cleavage for my taste!  (Why is it that Trina Turk has to make so many super low cut things???)&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;See, I'm really no help. . .  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-wink icon-emoticon-wink "></span> 
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				<title>annagybe on "Torn between three dresses--help me pick!"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sat, 14 May 2011 23:35:02 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I like #2 the best, white dress is still good. Not a huge fan of the ruffle and bow on #3.
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				<pubDate>Sat, 14 May 2011 23:31:50 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I love the skirt on #2!!!  But, if you aren't interested in a dressy-dress,&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;THEN, on pure merits, I like the white dress best....but I remember that you already have 3 white dresses.....&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;So then I vote for the green dress!  &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;(Not much help, am I!)
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				<title>celia on "Torn between three dresses--help me pick!"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sat, 14 May 2011 23:31:45 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;My favourite is 2 but between the other I prefer 1.&#060;br /&#062;
How did I do?
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				<title>Angie on "Torn between three dresses--help me pick!"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sat, 14 May 2011 22:59:08 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I also know which I like best  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-smile icon-emoticon-smile "></span> 
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