https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/thrashing-out-dressy-look-challenges Style Advice for Fashion Lovers en-US Tue, 14 Apr 2026 16:47:13 +0000 http://bbpress.org/?v=1.0.2 q https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/search.php https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/thrashing-out-dressy-look-challenges/page/3#post-1972582 Wed, 07 Nov 2018 20:57:43 +0000 Stagiaire Fash 1972582@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p> <div>Anchie, lol, I had assumed she was in her early 20s. Enjoy these years! <br /></div><div>Btw, my son's favorite vacation place for years has been a hotel/spa on Florida's East coast. Here he is being a goofball on his 12th birthday there.<br /></div></p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/thrashing-out-dressy-look-challenges/page/3#post-1972566 Wed, 07 Nov 2018 18:26:36 +0000 anchie 1972566@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>FashIntern - LOL, my daughter is turning 11 this month, so not really grown up yet. But girls are growing up much faster than boys It would have been nice if I had some dressy things and more variety with me at spa, but I survived without. But I have 3 parties this month and I am facing the same issue again. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/thrashing-out-dressy-look-challenges/page/3#post-1972523 Wed, 07 Nov 2018 16:17:56 +0000 lyn67 1972523@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I did work hard over the years to build up a decent modern classic dressy capsule to fit my curves and weight (no matter the season or level of dressiness) but as I age I want more FUN, DRAMA and/or TRENDINESS (not only on weekdays) but&nbsp; for all&nbsp; these occasions (which are not that many anymore:-(), too.... </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/thrashing-out-dressy-look-challenges/page/3#post-1972498 Wed, 07 Nov 2018 14:52:36 +0000 Anonymous 1972498@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Im lucky that December is generally not bitterly cold, and i never attend anything super formal. My solution last year was velvet dress and tall heeled boots, both of which i wear to work (though ill wear a scarf with dress for work to tone it down). I should get some velvet or otherwise festive pants for when its colder though. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/thrashing-out-dressy-look-challenges/page/3#post-1972408 Wed, 07 Nov 2018 04:31:20 +0000 Barbara Diane 1972408@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>This summer I had a really rough time finding an outfit that was dressy enough, casual enough, not too dark, lightweight enough as I melt in the heat, covered my arms, and felt JELM (just enough like me). :)<br /> After many months of shopping and the help or input of countless friends and family, with 10 days to go the last piece of the puzzle fell into place and I achieved JELM. </p> <p>I have a less challenging fancy event in March and I already have my dress. What a relief. I’ll need to finish the outfit and if I have questions I know where to turn. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/thrashing-out-dressy-look-challenges/page/3#post-1972337 Tue, 06 Nov 2018 20:48:25 +0000 nemosmom 1972337@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Thanks, <b>Bijou</b>!! It is GORGEOUS!!! </p> <p> </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/thrashing-out-dressy-look-challenges/page/3#post-1972329 Tue, 06 Nov 2018 19:53:29 +0000 Stagiaire Fash 1972329@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Anchie, I recall people encouraging you to pack exactly the kind of things you say you don’t have many of for your spa trip with your grown-up daughter and another mother-daughter pair. Did you have the need for them? </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/thrashing-out-dressy-look-challenges/page/3#post-1972324 Tue, 06 Nov 2018 19:12:23 +0000 anchie 1972324@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Adela, yes, this is my reason why I don’t have much dressy clothes. Having small kids and living in foreign country without family and babysitters, my social life was non existent or very casual. But kids are growing up and suddenly I have a need...</p> <p>hope it is correct thread now </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/thrashing-out-dressy-look-challenges/page/3#post-1972319 Tue, 06 Nov 2018 19:04:06 +0000 Adela 1972319@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>FashIntern, I never had many to begin with, but during the last few closet cleanings I got rid of most things. Most were dated, too small, never felt right etc. But I never bought any replacements. Plus, as my children are oder now, we can actually go out more. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/thrashing-out-dressy-look-challenges/page/3#post-1972314 Tue, 06 Nov 2018 18:52:37 +0000 anchie 1972314@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>sorry, on my phone, replied to wrong thread by mistake </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/thrashing-out-dressy-look-challenges/page/3#post-1972311 Tue, 06 Nov 2018 18:45:57 +0000 Stagiaire Fash 1972311@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Adela, if you don’t have winter dressy things, how have you gotten by the last few years? Is it possible that your schedule &amp; activities don’t require them? </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/thrashing-out-dressy-look-challenges/page/3#post-1972274 Tue, 06 Nov 2018 16:21:16 +0000 Adela 1972274@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Thanks for the tips about the footwear for bad weather, it's very appreciated. Where I live, most events are in the centre of towns where there is never enough parking spaces, so at least some walking is always necessary. Inspired with this (and the first ) thread I took some time today to check my formal dressy clothes, and discovered that I really need to put some time and money into it! Summer is fine, but for the rest of the year I found only a pair of black pants and an old LBD which still fits but I'm not&nbsp; excited about it. I also found a fairly new red blouse which I really love, at least. I realized that I need to put some serious thinking into my non- existing dressy capsule! My life is generally so casual that I ended up with only casual clothes, but I don't feel good not being prepared... I have clothes for funerals and business meetings, when they occur, are covered, but dressy/party look is missing completely, except for the summer.... I need to buy things! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/thrashing-out-dressy-look-challenges/page/3#post-1972218 Tue, 06 Nov 2018 10:24:59 +0000 Bijou 1972218@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p><b>@Nemosmom</b> - the brand of my velvet coat is Cue Australia - it was part of their 2018 Winter collection, but unfortunately they made limited stock and it sold out entirely. I know because people have stopped me on the street about that coat! Really glad you like it because I think I will be wearing it for many years to come. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/thrashing-out-dressy-look-challenges/page/3#post-1972215 Tue, 06 Nov 2018 09:51:17 +0000 Staysfit 1972215@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>i second the use of Aquatalia shoes and boots for use with a dressy capsule in the snow and bad weather. I have some patent leather pumps, and also some sleek dressy tall boots. They may not always be the best with my outfit, but they will work. I don’t have any, but I have seen shoe covers for rain and snow that work with heels. I usually drive to an event and have very little outdoor walking. Even when I am in a city like NY, I take a cab directly to the venue if the weather is bad. I would rather wear nice shoes.</p> <p>Around here, most people wear boots and change into their dressy shoes. There are plenty of coat racks at winter formal events. This is a snowy city, and we are prepared. After the event, change back to boots and leave. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/thrashing-out-dressy-look-challenges/page/3#post-1972195 Tue, 06 Nov 2018 05:52:46 +0000 Lynn 1972195@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Well I don't really have any truly formal dressy events thank goodness. I struggle even with looking more polished for theatre, concerts, and rare dinners out at really nice restaurant. Where I live even these events are casual but I prefer to dress up a little more. It isn't so much the clothes as how to accessorize that I struggle with.&nbsp;</p> <p>Shoes are an issue. I have some dressy booties but struggle with other shoe options. Heels are a no go for me now.&nbsp;</p> <p> </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/thrashing-out-dressy-look-challenges/page/3#post-1972192 Tue, 06 Nov 2018 05:32:29 +0000 Gigi 1972192@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p><b>Adele,&nbsp;</b>you asked about what to do when it's snowing and you can't change shoes before the event. I would recommend looking for a pair of nice boots that are weather resistant, such as Aquatalia or La Canadienne. They are pricey, but they are worth it! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/thrashing-out-dressy-look-challenges/page/2#post-1972189 Tue, 06 Nov 2018 05:14:35 +0000 Jessikams 1972189@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>This thread is good stuff. I am planning to do a separate thread later: outfit lab holiday capsule. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/thrashing-out-dressy-look-challenges/page/2#post-1972176 Tue, 06 Nov 2018 03:17:45 +0000 Anonymous 1972176@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>LOL. Fashintern. I have never seen SpongeBob, but DS1's girlfriend is a fan. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/thrashing-out-dressy-look-challenges/page/2#post-1972140 Mon, 05 Nov 2018 23:02:05 +0000 Stagiaire Fash 1972140@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Hulaween sounds like a riot. I think I’d be Patrick or another resident of Bikini Bottom (where Spongebob lives), carrying a bloody fake dagger. Or the dagger would stick out of me somewhere. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/thrashing-out-dressy-look-challenges/page/2#post-1972138 Mon, 05 Nov 2018 22:45:06 +0000 Anonymous 1972138@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I think it wise to buy something new to wear with your special occasion capsule. Yo do not have to stRt from scratch that way but can modernize a bit by adding trendy shoes or jacket or jewelry.<br /> Problem events for me are those that are festive and want you to dress in a theme, like Roaring Twenties Christmas party or Hulaween (Scarey Hawaiian) </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/thrashing-out-dressy-look-challenges/page/2#post-1972131 Mon, 05 Nov 2018 22:09:54 +0000 Carla 1972131@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Velvet flowy trousers with wool socks and Chelsea boots are great for cold venues. Just add dressy topper of choice. I'm wearing pewter flats in the pic below, but I've worn them with boots as well. Topper is silky embroidered bomber with blush lace tank top under. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/thrashing-out-dressy-look-challenges/page/2#post-1972110 Mon, 05 Nov 2018 21:31:31 +0000 Angie 1972110@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p><b>Style Fan</b>, I have tremendous empathy for footwear discomfort. How about full length wide pants with a tailored top and patent black or bronze shoes?</p> <p><b>Cardiff girl</b>, I look forward to seeing what you come up with.&nbsp;</p> <p><b>Sisi</b>, so you need a FEW seasonal dresses :)</p> <p><b>Helena,</b> there you go :)&nbsp;</p> <p><b>Jaime</b>, your warm weather makes outfit dressing soooo much easier. Lucky fish.&nbsp;</p> <p><b>FashIntern</b>, I like to mix and match my formal wear with denim to get more wear out of the items. Formal dresses with denim jackets and formal tops with jeans.&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/thrashing-out-dressy-look-challenges/page/2#post-1972108 Mon, 05 Nov 2018 21:14:56 +0000 nemosmom 1972108@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p><b>Jessikams</b> - you do NOT look like a hobbit!</p> <p><b>Bijou</b> - that velvet coat is AMAZING. What brand is it??</p> <p> </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/thrashing-out-dressy-look-challenges/page/2#post-1972107 Mon, 05 Nov 2018 21:05:03 +0000 Sal 1972107@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Bijou and Jane - what gorgeous individual pieces you have shown!!</p> <p>Stylefan - such a challenge with feet issues.&nbsp; My Mum has been very limited by shoes for a number of years.&nbsp; In the end she just wore what she could and dressed up the rest of her.&nbsp; I could see you in bronze or pewter boots or birkenstocks - that could be a possibility for dressy occasions in one of your go to brands? </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/thrashing-out-dressy-look-challenges/page/2#post-1972098 Mon, 05 Nov 2018 20:08:32 +0000 Cardiff girl 1972098@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Angie I think that you are right ,dressy pant suits or at least dressy trousers are probably my best bet.Thank you for taking the trouble to comment. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/thrashing-out-dressy-look-challenges/page/2#post-1972058 Mon, 05 Nov 2018 17:41:00 +0000 Style Fan 1972058@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Jane, you look gorgeous! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/thrashing-out-dressy-look-challenges/page/2#post-1972056 Mon, 05 Nov 2018 17:36:42 +0000 Sisi 1972056@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Angie, thank you for commenting. I do have a pretty blue dress (not a sheath). It is made of thin wool with&nbsp;short sleeves&nbsp;made of tulle, to give you an idea.&nbsp;Good for Autumn, Winter and Spring. And guess what? The first dressy occasion of 2018 occurred in June (cousin's wedding). Too hot for a thin wool dress! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/thrashing-out-dressy-look-challenges/page/2#post-1972047 Mon, 05 Nov 2018 16:24:11 +0000 Helena 1972047@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Lol! Angie, I tried wearing one on my gray 'saves' the other day and ... I quickly saw that it wasn't my best and changed. I looked very drained. I'm well and fully sold, I promise! xx </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/thrashing-out-dressy-look-challenges/page/2#post-1972046 Mon, 05 Nov 2018 16:16:06 +0000 Angie 1972046@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p><b>Anchie</b>, sounds like you have some wardrobe holes. See my comment to Kelly and kkards too. You have casual, ball gown and corporate - but perhaps not enough dressy in-between.&nbsp;<div><br /></div><div><b>Gretchen</b>, so you have too many occasion dresses, but find it hard to complete the outfit? Is that right?</div><div><br /></div><div><b>Rachy</b>, YES. Two pairs of hose FTW.</div><div><br /></div><div><b>Sal,</b> warm weather helps a GREAT DEAL, and you’re bang on the money with the dressy details that make the difference.</div><div><br /></div><div><b>Gigi</b>, NICE and thanks for the tips. I love my thermal long undies too. </div><div><br /></div><div><b>Helena</b>, you are a classic. Invest in a few better pieces and call it a day because you shan’t tire of them. NO GREY!</div><div><br /></div><div><b>Cardiff Girl</b>, your’re a dressy pant suit gal. Invest in items like that across a few seasons and call it a day. I bet you would wear them for a long time.&nbsp;</div><div><br /></div><div><b>Unfrumped,</b> for the right footwear, if you look long and hard enough during the year, you’ll find what you want. As for staying warm - I have some solutions further up in the comments. It’s VERY important, and I get it!</div><div><br /></div><div><b>Cindy,</b> you hit all the right notes for the wedding, and couldn’t have looked more sensational and true to your style. </div><div><br /></div><div><b>Lynette,</b> first of all - no sleeveless! Then you won’t have the topper problem. As for high heels, there is no need to wear them at all. Ever. I am very dressy, and never wear high heels. I wear dressy 1.5 inch heels. Trust me :)&nbsp;</div><div><br /></div><div><b>Jessikams</b>, I’m pretty sure we an could come up with some arty, fun and less corporate looks for your formal wear capsule. It’s all in the support acts and the juxtaposition of the items. Ball grown and biker. Tulle and tee. Sparkle and distressing. Start a separate thread.&nbsp;</div><div><br /></div><div><b>Sisi</b>, a simple blue sheath perhaps? And you can have it altered to fit. </div><div><br /></div><div><b>KikiG</b>, about 7 working days. Nice tops. </div><div><br /></div><div><br /><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><br /></div> </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/thrashing-out-dressy-look-challenges/page/2#post-1972042 Mon, 05 Nov 2018 15:56:23 +0000 Angie 1972042@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Oh my word, this thread has exploded. LOTS of queries&nbsp;</p> <p><b>Nemosmom</b>, if you provide links to the outfit, we can suggest how to complete it with clutch, jewellery, hosiery, or whatever else you're usure of.</p> <p><b>Gryffin, Joy, Bijou, Jane&nbsp;</b>and <b>RunCarla</b>, your occasion capsules are inspiring. NICELY DONE.</p> <p><b>Adela</b>, Blondo or Aquataila make dressier weatherproof footwear. Also, if you are driving to an event - your footwear will be fine. It's when you're commuting on foot that's it's a challenge.</p> <p><b>Sara L,</b> renting occasion wear is one way to go. Not ideal because you can't alter the items, and some of the items look shabby (too much wear and cleaning).</p> </p>