https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/this-is-why-i-keep-my-shopping-list-very-flexible Style Advice for Fashion Lovers en-US Tue, 19 May 2026 10:04:03 +0000 http://bbpress.org/?v=1.0.2 q https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/search.php https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/this-is-why-i-keep-my-shopping-list-very-flexible#post-261317 Sun, 05 Dec 2010 18:19:41 +0000 rae 261317@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>My wish lists hardly make it into Santa's hands, because I usually find great deals on the stuff I want before anyone asks me for a list. Either that, or someone gets me an "early" present in July when we're out shopping together... works for me! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/this-is-why-i-keep-my-shopping-list-very-flexible#post-261280 Sun, 05 Dec 2010 16:47:58 +0000 rute 261280@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>eh eh! ALL the time. I'm latina, I shop with the heart not with the reason! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/this-is-why-i-keep-my-shopping-list-very-flexible#post-261265 Sun, 05 Dec 2010 16:21:41 +0000 Kari 261265@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Perhaps Santa can redirect the chestnut leather jacket to my stocking instead, in a larger size. :)</p> <p>My immediate family (four of us) are pretty good gift-givers, but often ask for a list of suggestions or items that are high on our "wish list". It's at least helpful as a starting point, though we always include some surprises for each other. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/this-is-why-i-keep-my-shopping-list-very-flexible#post-261243 Sun, 05 Dec 2010 15:05:03 +0000 Mellllls 261243@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I also really like being surprised. The vast majority of my gifts come from my parents (particularly because my husband and I decided not to give gifts in light of our very EXTRAVAGENT honeymoon). I gave my mom a small wishlist, only three non-pricy things on it. So I know I am going to get those and a kitchen scale which was on my wedding registry but we didn't receive. Anything else will be a surprise but if I don't like it, it will be okay because in my immediate family we've always had a policy that it's ok to return. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/this-is-why-i-keep-my-shopping-list-very-flexible#post-261215 Sun, 05 Dec 2010 10:05:15 +0000 Louise 261215@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>My wish lists are always fairly fluid there are just so many things that take my fancy! Seriously though I find holes easier to fill if I'm not to particular. x </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/this-is-why-i-keep-my-shopping-list-very-flexible#post-261119 Sun, 05 Dec 2010 04:46:25 +0000 Lisa 261119@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Angie I am the same way. Both my watches are steel bands which go better with my white gold wedding band then a yellow gold band would. I did change one gift thus far. My long puffer coat. I originally wanted a bright color, but my wool coat is yellow and my trench is pink, so I decided a serious cold weather coat required a serious color and got black. In the end I realized, a good down coat didn't come in any bright colors I liked and I wasn't willing to sacrifice serious warmth for a bright color coat so black it was. Plus, if it's cold enough to wear one, it's probably also nasty out and why bother having to clean a bright color every few wears in the winter. I'll save that for a lighter weight coat which can be worn on sunny days. Let all the slush get on a black coat, see if I care. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/this-is-why-i-keep-my-shopping-list-very-flexible#post-261022 Sun, 05 Dec 2010 01:35:44 +0000 Maya 261022@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Ah, I see now Angie. Makes sense. I don't mind mixing metals but also prefer them to not be in close proximity. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/this-is-why-i-keep-my-shopping-list-very-flexible#post-260979 Sat, 04 Dec 2010 22:53:43 +0000 Anonymous 260979@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>DH is wanting a wish list and I haven't found anything to put on it. I'd love to find a structured bag with the big old-fashioned double-knob clasp on top. I saw one that was thousands of $$$. The flat boots with the right calf size haven't turned up yet unless I get a slouchy fit. I'd better come up with ideas or I'll end up with a new vaccum cleaner or something. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/this-is-why-i-keep-my-shopping-list-very-flexible#post-260957 Sat, 04 Dec 2010 21:54:03 +0000 Angie 260957@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Quite right, Julie. Maya, have not sworn off gold completely. I still really like it against my skin tone! Just don't want a gold watch next to my white gold wedding ring. We all have our quirks. </p> <p>Julie, hope this thread keeps you on your bar stool. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/this-is-why-i-keep-my-shopping-list-very-flexible#post-260930 Sat, 04 Dec 2010 19:33:25 +0000 RoseandJoan 260930@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Have you sworn off gold in general Angie or just gold next to your wedding band?</p> <p>I have to admit your original wish list nearly had me fall off my breakfast stool, I'm hoping Burberry does have a handbag for you as structured yellow is the perfect compliment for your style right now. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/this-is-why-i-keep-my-shopping-list-very-flexible#post-260896 Sat, 04 Dec 2010 18:09:09 +0000 Maya 260896@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Oh, I must have missed it where you said you were not wearing gold anymore, Angie. That's too bad. I'm actually surprised. I can't picture silver looking better on you than gold, since you are so bright and warm toned. Guess it's ultimately how you feel about it though. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/this-is-why-i-keep-my-shopping-list-very-flexible#post-260878 Sat, 04 Dec 2010 17:32:04 +0000 Scarlet 260878@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I haven't changed my mind about my list lately because it is all fantasy at this moment anyway--my extra $$ has to go to other things for now. However I find it very interesting to read about your changes. I am kind of sorry to lose you as a chestnut/gold pal, but I can see your point about what looks best/fits your style best. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/this-is-why-i-keep-my-shopping-list-very-flexible#post-260863 Sat, 04 Dec 2010 17:01:55 +0000 biscuitsmom 260863@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I LOVE the Brahmin bags! I got 2 within the past year and have worn them soooo many times! They are so incredibly well-made and sturdy enough to be a 'everyday' bag....definitely worth the money! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/this-is-why-i-keep-my-shopping-list-very-flexible#post-260860 Sat, 04 Dec 2010 16:56:24 +0000 Angie 260860@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Glad you're flexible with your shopping lists, ladies!</p> <p>Isabel, you're sweet and I replied to your separate thread. </p> <p>Auburn, as beautiful as the Hermes bags are, they don't light my fire. Too stiff and classic for my tastes. Even though a Chanel bag is also very classic - it's more funky somehow but I can't articulate why. I'm more into Prada, Burberry, and Valentino handbags when it comes to high end stuff. Sort of pretty with a fun modern touch sans the hardware. Always clean and crisp. Does that make sense? </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/this-is-why-i-keep-my-shopping-list-very-flexible#post-260722 Sat, 04 Dec 2010 07:41:41 +0000 Isabel 260722@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Angie, have you seen these : <a href="http://www.brahmin.com/handbags?color=700" rel="nofollow">http://www.brahmin.com/handbags?color=700</a> </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/this-is-why-i-keep-my-shopping-list-very-flexible#post-260630 Sat, 04 Dec 2010 01:58:02 +0000 Maya 260630@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I have to be VERY flexible, because I know I'll never get what I ask for.</p> <p>My dad does not buy gifts, ever. He is an utter scrooge and proud of it.</p> <p>My mom has good intentions and she tries, but I never end up being able to keep what she gets and she would never be willing to get me anything I actually wanted. I sent her a link to the Haflinger slippers and she had a meltdown at the idea of spending $70 on slippers. She described it as "morally wrong." Mind you, they were on sale for $40 at the time I sent the link. I ended up buying them myself and they ended up being too big anyway, so that put an end to that.</p> <p>My brother does not deal with fashion-related gifts. Last year I got assorted loose teas and the year before I got an iPhone, so they're certainly fabulous gifts and I was happy to receive them, but they weren't on a pre-determined wish list or anything. He is definitely the most talented gift giver in our family though.</p> <p>I wish I could have asked for the S&amp;K coat, but I think the price would have caused a death in the family. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/this-is-why-i-keep-my-shopping-list-very-flexible#post-260608 Sat, 04 Dec 2010 01:21:31 +0000 stringy 260608@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I posted a while back about looking for skinny cargos and floral blouses for summer - and then discovered that the skinny cargos in my price range all look terrible on me. So now I've shifted my attention to skirts and day dresses instead </p> <p>It's good to be flexible, especially for adventurous dressers like yourself, Angie. Gives you much more room for experimentation. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/this-is-why-i-keep-my-shopping-list-very-flexible#post-260591 Sat, 04 Dec 2010 00:19:58 +0000 Auburn 260591@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Angie,<br /> Does Hermes do a Birkin or Kelly in yellow? That would be swoon-worthy, in my opinion. But maybe give Greg a few years to save for that one? </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/this-is-why-i-keep-my-shopping-list-very-flexible#post-260587 Sat, 04 Dec 2010 00:09:20 +0000 Laura 260587@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Good thing Santa Greg isn't an early bird shopper </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/this-is-why-i-keep-my-shopping-list-very-flexible#post-260582 Fri, 03 Dec 2010 23:31:34 +0000 Mellllls 260582@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>The only fashion item on my list this year is black patent leather pumps. To replace another pair. I can be sure that I won't be changing my mind.</p> <p>Angie, I agree about the ring/watch. My wedding bands are white gold and while I still wear yellow gold I'll only wear a silver watch because they are so close together. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/this-is-why-i-keep-my-shopping-list-very-flexible#post-260567 Fri, 03 Dec 2010 23:14:24 +0000 Angie 260567@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I am still always learning, Medusa. It's part of the fun actually :)</p> <p>Taylor! I went past Burberry today. Hmmmm. Need to have a closer look.Thanks for the tip! You are my Burberry kindred spirit. </p> <p>Kim, Father Christmas is NOT getting off lightly!</p> <p>Theresa, I'm always looking for interesting stuff to either evolve my style or reinforce a signature look - whatever floats my boat. No specific plans. </p> <p>April, annoying accessories drive me batty too. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/this-is-why-i-keep-my-shopping-list-very-flexible#post-260560 Fri, 03 Dec 2010 23:06:15 +0000 April 260560@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Yes, I removed a bracelet from my list after I wore one to work and it kept banging against my laptop. Accessories that annoy me are not fab, no matter how beautiful. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/this-is-why-i-keep-my-shopping-list-very-flexible#post-260555 Fri, 03 Dec 2010 23:03:45 +0000 Queen Mum 260555@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I guess you just saved Santa a bundle of money ;-)</p> <p>I've had a black leather moto jacket on my radar for forever but have recently let that one go. Of course, if the perfect one happens to cross my path, I'll be happy to snatch it up, but I've decided to broaden my criteria for my black jacket. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/this-is-why-i-keep-my-shopping-list-very-flexible#post-260552 Fri, 03 Dec 2010 23:03:10 +0000 Jenava 260552@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I thought I was going to buy a Chanel bag for myself (I'm graduating from graduate school in a couple weeks), but now I may just go for a set of Demeyere pans. The bag I like is *gulp* $4k. I srsly cannot spent that kind of money on a handbag! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/this-is-why-i-keep-my-shopping-list-very-flexible#post-260550 Fri, 03 Dec 2010 23:00:48 +0000 taylor 260550@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Have you checked Burberry for the yellow structured bag ? </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/this-is-why-i-keep-my-shopping-list-very-flexible#post-260548 Fri, 03 Dec 2010 22:59:11 +0000 Theresa 260548@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Very interesting Angie!! What is on your new list???</p> <p>I did give the girls dad a list for me earlier in the year, but have just given him a revised list as well LOL </p> <p>But this kind of thing happens to me whenever I go shopping for specific things - like my recent denim skirt hunt - I find that what is available isn't to the standard I want, so I cross it off my "Current Search" list and just add it to my mental list of things to buy if I ever stumble across the perfect version. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/this-is-why-i-keep-my-shopping-list-very-flexible#post-260547 Fri, 03 Dec 2010 22:58:15 +0000 medusa 260547@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Angie, I absolutely LOVE that even though you're a professional stylist and a style expert, you're still learning all the time about what looks good on you. It definitely makes me feel reassured in my uncertainty and indecisiveness! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/this-is-why-i-keep-my-shopping-list-very-flexible#post-260540 Fri, 03 Dec 2010 22:51:20 +0000 Angie 260540@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Under the Xmas tree this year, I wanted to see a chestnut leather jkt, a bright yellow structured handbag and a gold watch. (Perhaps you can remember the recent blog post on this topic). </p> <p>Well, no thank you! </p> <p>- Chestnut leather does not look killer against my skin tone unless it's on my feet. Black still looks a million times better.</p> <p>- No nice structured and formal yellow handbags around. All too unstructured and casual. </p> <p>- I do not want a gold watch anymore. Silver looks better and I *do* like it to match my white gold vintage wedding ring. </p> <p>Have your changed your mind recently about what's on your shopping list? </p>