https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/the-do-not-buy-list Style Advice for Fashion Lovers en-US Wed, 15 Apr 2026 07:33:44 +0000 http://bbpress.org/?v=1.0.2 q https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/search.php https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/the-do-not-buy-list/page/2#post-2146106 Mon, 28 Sep 2020 07:04:24 +0000 Cee 2146106@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Anything that's uncomfortable and doesn't fit or suit me... Oh and bloody cowlnecks !&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/the-do-not-buy-list/page/2#post-2146104 Mon, 28 Sep 2020 06:37:27 +0000 Stagiaire Fash 2146104@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Jenni, silver pants sound like a thing people get in thrift shops. But I’m not sure if they go looking for them, or are just happy to be surprised by them. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/the-do-not-buy-list/page/2#post-2146098 Mon, 28 Sep 2020 02:53:39 +0000 smittie 2146098@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Ohhh... those burgundy hiking sneaker boots are Next Level, LaPed!<br /> Sal, I am really trying hard not to buy drab colours. Going for a bright palette this winter! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/the-do-not-buy-list/page/2#post-2146089 Sun, 27 Sep 2020 22:13:23 +0000 The Cat 2146089@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>● Beige items<br /> ● Chunky knitwear<br /> ● High heels<br /> ● Very flat footwear<br /> ● Short toppers<br /> ● Chunky boas/scarves<br /> ● Nail polish in bright/bold colours </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/the-do-not-buy-list/page/2#post-2145945 Sat, 26 Sep 2020 01:33:38 +0000 Jenni NZ 2145945@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Pretty much everything. With Torontogirl.<br /> 7 items added to closet so far this year which is the lowest in over a decade.<br /> Specifically hope to never purchase any high heels ever again. I am not sad about this. They look all wrong to me ATM.<br /> I am really feeling I should possibly thrift rather than buy new for my next thing? But not sure. The only thing on my possible buy list is a pair of silvery pants, been wondering about this for months. Perhaps it would be fun to look for some in thrift stores?? </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/the-do-not-buy-list/page/2#post-2145931 Fri, 25 Sep 2020 22:33:05 +0000 Style Fan 2145931@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>1/&nbsp; No drapey, architecture type clothing.</p> <p>2/&nbsp; No black.</p> <p>3/&nbsp; No flower child looks.</p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/the-do-not-buy-list/page/2#post-2145798 Fri, 25 Sep 2020 04:45:22 +0000 anne 2145798@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Dresses for work, I bought 2 this year, resurrected a 1990's one, have one from a couple of years ago and since I only work 3 days in the office and day is casual Fri, I definitely don't need more! (at least two of them can be worn outside work too, however 3 are longsleeved, so won't be suitable in summer) </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/the-do-not-buy-list/page/2#post-2145675 Thu, 24 Sep 2020 15:54:03 +0000 Stagiaire Fash 2145675@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Oh no! I shouldn’t have read that about chocolate biscuits! </p> <p>But not buying anything is getting easier all the time. I had to get some things for my son recently, so was in several mall shops and TK Maxx. I swung through the women’s departments in each of them. A crop top in Hollister’s appealed to me, but is totally impractical for someone my age, for this time of year, and for someone whose belly has never been darker than a manilla folder. Likewise, I saw a winter coat by Lagerfeld (legit Berlin, right?) in TK Maxx that briefly appealed until I realized that it’s boxy shape and general oversized fit would “read” as second hand chic. That’s how my navy winter coat already comes off, so it was easy to move on. </p> <p>And that’s it. I have a short “buy” list, and am amazingly disinterested in general browsing/shopping around. Not sure why, but fine with me. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/the-do-not-buy-list/page/2#post-2145537 Wed, 23 Sep 2020 20:28:04 +0000 Carla 2145537@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>@La Pedestrienne - FWIW, I wore a fair amount of black when I was in the workforce. &nbsp;I found the commute to work, the pedestrian traffic, busy work office with many people, window shopping during lunch hour, etc - was very stimulating - maybe over stimulating. &nbsp;Black or mostly&nbsp;neutral clothes had a way of being a ‘calm in a storm’. &nbsp;When I retired, my life was much less stressful, and my environment comfortable, safe, and neutral. &nbsp;<i>That&nbsp;</i>is when I embraced colour! &nbsp;Interestingly, when I travelled, I fell back on a mostly neutral palette of garments. &nbsp;Probably because of the stimulation of experiencing new things.</p> <p>I would submit that less black/more colour, is one way to provide sensory stimulation in a routine that has become mundane and lacking in excitement. &nbsp;Cooking, gardening, home decor, nature walks, bath and body products are all seeing an uptick - and, they are all ways to stimulate the senses.</p> <p></p> <div><b></b></div></p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/the-do-not-buy-list/page/2#post-2145491 Wed, 23 Sep 2020 16:54:55 +0000 LaPed 2145491@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I wonder if a lot of folks who generally enjoy black are finding they reach for it less because of pandemic lifestyle changes. I don't particularly like the way solid black tops look in video calls. My house is mostly cream walls, warm woods, and soft blues, and wearing black against that palette looks off to me. Charcoal, rust, sage and olive are all better choices. I've never had to coordinate with my house before! And I find my black bottoms pick up a *ton* of dog hair when I'm at home all day, which drives me batty. I imagine I'll go back to black (Amy Winehouse forever relevant!) whenever we have lives in public again, but I can't really say for sure. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/the-do-not-buy-list/page/2#post-2145483 Wed, 23 Sep 2020 15:57:46 +0000 Mary Beth (formerly LBD) 2145483@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>These are currently well-stocked or overstocked in my closet:</p> <p>Black pencil skirts<br /> TBH, any skirts<br /> Really, any black clothing (during the pandemic, I’ve really been off black.)<br /> Button-down shirts*<br /> High heels</p> <p>*(if a button-down in a beautiful ocean color turned up, I wouldn’t say no. I’m always looking for nice tops to wear for auditions).</p> <p>Cardiff Girl, this cracked me up: “Mmmm,slightly wary of naming my do not buys as this envitably means I will buy something off it with in the next month.Its abit like trying not to eat chocolate biscuits,if I say I can’t that’s all l can think about.”</p> <p>Me too. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/the-do-not-buy-list/page/2#post-2145444 Wed, 23 Sep 2020 02:48:22 +0000 Jaime 2145444@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I have too much everything. Except perhaps bras.&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/the-do-not-buy-list/page/2#post-2145440 Wed, 23 Sep 2020 01:21:20 +0000 Sal 2145440@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>There is quite a lot of overlap interestingly - blazers and heels stand out as being things that are less in use....</p> <p>I get frustrated with myself when I am drawn to something that doesn't work at all - I don't tend to overbuy in a category but am more likely to keep on trying (for example) a shirt/blouse that is hard to wear because I can't layer over the top.</p> <p>And Angie's influence is strong with many of us avoiding too much black. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/the-do-not-buy-list/page/2#post-2145435 Tue, 22 Sep 2020 23:48:38 +0000 madeline 2145435@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>My do not buy list:<br /> Work clothes! I retired in January and even if I go back to teach a class or two-I have enough!<br /> Heels<br /> Scarves ( well maybe if something special comes along...)<br /> Handbags! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/the-do-not-buy-list/page/2#post-2145432 Tue, 22 Sep 2020 23:32:00 +0000 Preppy Pear 2145432@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>No more long blazers and long toppers - I’m happy and good for awhile!<br /> I should put a moratorium on midi dresses, but I love them, so I’m just being very selective.<br /> I am also good on button down shirts - but they are also on a “do not buy unless they are very special” category. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/the-do-not-buy-list/page/2#post-2145416 Tue, 22 Sep 2020 22:03:06 +0000 LaPed 2145416@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Oh, gosh, anything? I definitely don't *need* any more clothing this year. I suspect I'll make a couple outerwear/footwear purchases (gear and gear-lite only) to get me through this already-quite-chilly fall. I've also had my eye on a few pairs of tempting pants/jeans but not sure if I should try them. The more practical purchase would be some extra technical fabric joggers or leggings.&nbsp;</p> <p>My definite do-not-buys are:&nbsp; </p> <ul> <li>black (feeling boring, and I have plenty)</li> <li>non-gear footwear (aiming for direct replacements only, and the only things I'm wearing right now are hiking/running shoes and occasionally simple flat oxfords or canvas sneakers)</li> <li>blazers</li> <li>dressy anything, especially for warm weather</li> <li>flannel shirts (I say this, but I'm eyeing one as I write )</li> </ul> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/the-do-not-buy-list/page/2#post-2145411 Tue, 22 Sep 2020 21:09:30 +0000 rachylou 2145411@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>(Hehe CG! ) </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/the-do-not-buy-list/page/2#post-2145410 Tue, 22 Sep 2020 21:07:17 +0000 Catnip 2145410@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Things I will not buy because I will never wear them:<br />Heels<br />Skirts<br />Dresses<br />Long coats<br />Everyday clothes that are not washable<br />Anything made with acrylic<br />Fast fashion<br />Fashion jewelry<br />Floral prints</p> <p>Things I simply don't need more of:<br />Jeans<br />Cashmere, especially sweaters.&nbsp; Much too warm for our changing climate!<br />Dressy clothes of any type</p> <p>Things I might buy:<br />Very comfortable sneakers and other footwear (casual)<br />Cotton and/or linen sweaters<br />Everyday earrings<br />Nightgowns<br />Vests</p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/the-do-not-buy-list/page/2#post-2145404 Tue, 22 Sep 2020 19:29:54 +0000 cindysmith 2145404@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Colorful paisley and floral prints<br /> Boots and dressy/fancy shoes<br /> Fitted tops<br /> Skinny jeans</p> <p>I'm well stocked on all of those things except the colorful prints that I don't wear no matter how much I love them. </p> <p>Scarves are a do not buy because I have more than I can figure out how to wear LOL </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/the-do-not-buy-list/page/2#post-2145401 Tue, 22 Sep 2020 19:10:57 +0000 Carla 2145401@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Don’t you know it, Cardiff girl. &nbsp;I spent an hour pouring over rucksacks and bum bags this afternoon - after posting that I don’t need any more bags.... </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/the-do-not-buy-list/page/2#post-2145400 Tue, 22 Sep 2020 18:58:01 +0000 Cardiff girl 2145400@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Don’tapologise for your spelling Rachylou,it is correct as far as I am concerned!(smile) </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/the-do-not-buy-list/page/2#post-2145399 Tue, 22 Sep 2020 18:55:50 +0000 Cardiff girl 2145399@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Mmmm,slightly wary of naming my do not buys as this envitably &nbsp;means I will buy something off it with in the next month.Its abit like trying not to eat chocolate biscuits,if I say I can’t that’s all l can think about.<br />However trousers,including jeans ,and jumpers are strong contenders as I just do not need to buy any more of these items Probably ever again! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/the-do-not-buy-list/page/2#post-2145398 Tue, 22 Sep 2020 18:54:37 +0000 rachylou 2145398@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>(Hehe, my dad was British Empire. He helped - confused? - me more with my spelling than my mum. Hehe ) </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/the-do-not-buy-list#post-2145380 Tue, 22 Sep 2020 16:59:53 +0000 Liesbeth 2145380@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Hah, I have a mental one too. Top of my mind, I'd say:<br /> - blazers: don't wear often enough to justify adding more<br /> - sweaters (pullover, not cardigans)<br /> - transitional jackets (weak spot)<br /> - dresses (weak spot)<br /> - architectural tops that can't be layered over: love the style, impractical for temperature sensitive me </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/the-do-not-buy-list#post-2145374 Tue, 22 Sep 2020 16:47:27 +0000 Angie 2145374@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p><b>Sal</b>, it is SUCH a good idea to do this! </p> <p>I have a list VERY similar to yours. I am NOT allowed to buy:&nbsp; </p> <ul> <li>Chunky knitwear</li> <li>Summer scarves</li> <li>Dressy heels/boots</li> <li>Tops that cannot be layered over with a jacket or coat</li> <li>Blouses and shirts</li> <li>Faded jeans&nbsp;</li> <li>Loungewear&nbsp;</li> <li>Undies&nbsp;</li> <li>Blazers</li> </ul> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/the-do-not-buy-list#post-2145360 Tue, 22 Sep 2020 15:26:50 +0000 Carla 2145360@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p> <div>I need reminders on a few things that are ‘easy’ to buy, but which I&nbsp;<i>shouldn’t </i>ATM - for one reason or another.<br /></div><div><br /></div><div>Men’s style crew neck T-shirts - not a flattering look for broad shoulders/modest bust - V neck or boat neck is the way to go<br /></div>Cropped pants - I have enough&nbsp;<br />Black - doesn’t make me happy<br />Bags - I don’t need any more wardrobe pets!</p> <p>*Note to self at every shopping trip - try the size down! &nbsp;I tend to get things too big. &nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/the-do-not-buy-list#post-2145355 Tue, 22 Sep 2020 15:15:37 +0000 Kyle 2145355@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Dress clothes, heels, and colors that don’t flatter. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/the-do-not-buy-list#post-2145341 Tue, 22 Sep 2020 14:44:36 +0000 Jules 2145341@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Pretty much everything except for leggings and PJs! I'm anticipating a long winter at home this year. But the only thing I'm really even tempted by currently is transitional footwear, which I already had too much of for my climate pre COVID. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/the-do-not-buy-list#post-2145340 Tue, 22 Sep 2020 14:43:23 +0000 anchie 2145340@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Looks like everything is on my do not buy list, because I am currently so uninspired and nothing seems appealing. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/the-do-not-buy-list#post-2145336 Tue, 22 Sep 2020 14:30:23 +0000 Helena 2145336@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Great list Sal and great question! Currently, I basically don't need anything, so everything is on the do not buy list (with the possible exception of a black and white printed skirt to wear in fall/winter, if I spot a good one).</p> <p>Generally speaking, I make the same mistakes though and have been working with ways to be uber-mindful. Size and fit is a big one, colours that are not really "my palette" and repeats of the same item in different colours (usually I stick to the one, maybe two favourites, and any others get passed by). </p>