https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/the-coat-arrived Style Advice for Fashion Lovers en-US Fri, 03 Apr 2026 21:47:28 +0000 http://bbpress.org/?v=1.0.2 q https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/search.php https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/the-coat-arrived/page/2#post-1548606 Sun, 30 Aug 2015 16:13:34 +0000 Astrid 1548606@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I suspect you're right. I'm definitely at a point where I'm pretty confident I can trust my gut feeling... And what you suspect sounds like a pretty good bet. I'm looking forward to finding out. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/the-coat-arrived/page/2#post-1548600 Sun, 30 Aug 2015 16:04:20 +0000 Vix 1548600@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>A -- whatever the implementation looks like, it will be a "know it when [you] see it" instinct that gets you there. </p> <p>After all, it's a very subjective definition with many roads to get there! </p> <p>Based on what you've shared (verbally and visually) of your style preferences in the past, I have a feeling it will involve lush fabric, print/pattern, and/or color...something close to your "roots" but evolved to match where you are today. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/the-coat-arrived/page/2#post-1548597 Sun, 30 Aug 2015 15:59:29 +0000 Astrid 1548597@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Thanks Vix. And yes, she's totally right. I definitely did expect to like it a lot more than I did when I put it on. I could appreciate a beautifully made piece of clothing, but the coat did absolutely nothing for me when I tried it on. And yes, I'm looking to up the femininity, although I'm not quite sure yet how that is supposed to look after implementation... </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/the-coat-arrived/page/2#post-1548585 Sun, 30 Aug 2015 15:34:57 +0000 Vix 1548585@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Hi Astrid --</p> <p>Rachylou made me laugh so much but she did pretty much nail it. </p> <p>It's weird because I love that style coat (hi, ethical version of the J Crew Lady Day), and grey, and tweed/texture but...because of the fit being too big + color + fabric it gave you a very waif-y/androgynous vibe and I thought you were looking to up the femininity right now. </p> <p>[That's a lot more boring than Rachy's summation, ha!]</p> <p>Good luck with the new order!</p> <p> </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/the-coat-arrived#post-1548491 Sun, 30 Aug 2015 13:09:34 +0000 viva 1548491@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>BTW, I ended up with a cocoon coat last year and I love how it looks with short hair. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/the-coat-arrived#post-1548489 Sun, 30 Aug 2015 13:04:46 +0000 Astrid 1548489@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Thanks - hopefully it will ship quickly. You're so right about texture and winter dressing, I think that's why I find so difficult to feel fab in summer clothes and mostly settle for comfortable and "good enough". </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/the-coat-arrived#post-1548485 Sun, 30 Aug 2015 12:57:45 +0000 viva 1548485@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I'm really looking forward to seeing you in the cocoon coat. I think a more sophisticated and modern (minimal) style would be a wonderful shift -- and quite different from this coat.</p> <p>As for this coat, here's my take:<br />It's actually <b>less</b> girly than I expected. I think that's probably because it's too big, but I expected it to be more fitted, especially in the shoulders and upper back. But I am not convinced that even a size down would be as trim as I thought it would be.<br />It's got a gorgeous texture -- and it makes me realize that this is what I love about fall/winter dressing. There really isn't any texture in spring and summer fashion. Everything is so one-dimensional! <br />It's nice but it doesn't really add anything. <br />And then, there's the whole orphan thing. (Rachylou is so funny!)</p> <p>Can't wait to see the next one!</p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/the-coat-arrived#post-1548387 Sun, 30 Aug 2015 03:27:17 +0000 rachylou 1548387@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Lol. Jus' sayin'... </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/the-coat-arrived#post-1548186 Sat, 29 Aug 2015 20:34:55 +0000 Astrid 1548186@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>LOL, you totally cracked me up. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/the-coat-arrived#post-1548152 Sat, 29 Aug 2015 18:23:33 +0000 rachylou 1548152@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Um, yes: No. I think the problem is, you look like you're going to ask for more porridge. It's that sort of coat. I should think something more sophisticated. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/the-coat-arrived#post-1547973 Sat, 29 Aug 2015 11:39:19 +0000 Astrid 1547973@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Thank you so much for the input, everyone! You got me thinking about it and I don't think it's the color, which I rather like, although something a bit deeper might be lovely. But I think those of you who thought it too "girly", "ladylike" or "predictable" are on the right track. If the fabric would have been warmer I would have seriously thought about trying one size down (which would be the smallest size available), but I can only afford one new coat and it has to be warm enough. So it's definitely going back.</p> <p>(I also think this coat got so many positive responses partly because you can just <i>see</i> the quality. Know what I mean?) </p> <p>I have already ordered another coat in a totally different style to try. Shorter, in a darker blue with a slight oversized cocoon shape. As different to this one as it gets, but they only had small stock in a size 36 left and with sale and further reductions available right now it would be only half the price of this one. And a well known ethical clothing brand too. So I just had to give it a try. Might be interesting to compare very different vibes in any case.&nbsp; </p> <p><b></b></p> <p> </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/the-coat-arrived#post-1547955 Sat, 29 Aug 2015 10:47:20 +0000 dakotacheryl 1547955@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Astrid, the length of the coat is perfect on you. I can see the shoulder width issue better on the photo from the back.<br />A peacoat style would probably be warmer due to the double layer over your core, and usually the wool is thicker on that style.<br />Good luck on finding your perfect coat!! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/the-coat-arrived#post-1547953 Sat, 29 Aug 2015 10:39:18 +0000 Style Fan 1547953@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I like the coat but it does look a bit big.&nbsp; If it is not warm enough then what is the point?&nbsp; The style may not be for you.&nbsp; I like that look but it is a personal thing.<br />I have a gorgeous cognac Theory coat that is not very warm.&nbsp; Guess how much I wear it?&nbsp; Very little.&nbsp; Maybe once or twice a year.&nbsp; And it was very expensive.&nbsp; Kate Middleton has&nbsp;a similar one.&nbsp; I had mine first. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/the-coat-arrived#post-1547950 Sat, 29 Aug 2015 10:27:24 +0000 Summer 1547950@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>What a pity, Astrid, but you need the warmth and a perfect fit.<br />I've been trying to pinpoint what it is about the style that is not quite right for you. &nbsp;I think Joy and Firecracker make good points about the colour and the slight girlishness of the style - I think it's the empire seaming plus the length. &nbsp;For some reason, I see you in a deeper colour, a longer length and more fitted through the waist - a little more dramatic and sophisticated. &nbsp; I don't know if that fits your current style aspiration, though. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/the-coat-arrived#post-1547863 Sat, 29 Aug 2015 03:08:06 +0000 E 1547863@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Too bad it didn't work out!</p> <p>As far as what's throwing you...I think it's got a 60s ladylike vibe, which I don't usually get from your outfits. Which isn't to say you couldn't style it in a different way, but that might be what's giving you pause. You wear feminine pieces but not usually ladylike ones. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/the-coat-arrived#post-1547860 Sat, 29 Aug 2015 02:58:52 +0000 Firecracker (Sharan) 1547860@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I really like the style on you, Astrid. The empire seam is subtle, but along with the collar, it adds a touch of femininity to the style. I wonder, though, whether that is what is striking you as not quite right. You look so fabulous in the peacoat style, and perhaps just because I've seen you in it, I think of that style as more you. I wonder if this style is just a little too feminine, too girlish almost, for your taste. </p> <p> </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/the-coat-arrived#post-1547826 Sat, 29 Aug 2015 01:35:57 +0000 Suz 1547826@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I love it, too, Astrid -- I think it is amazing on you. I am sorry it doesn't fit right and is not warm enough -- but oh -- I wish it could work for you. The texture is lovely; adds quiet interest. It feels retro in the best possible way to me.&nbsp;</p> <p>It's possible that Joy has a point and you'd prefer it in a bright colour -- but this is the kind of coat you can accessorize with many colours of scarf and hat.&nbsp;</p> <p> </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/the-coat-arrived#post-1547767 Fri, 28 Aug 2015 23:03:28 +0000 gryffin 1547767@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Astrid - gosh I love that coat on you!! &nbsp;Ladylike, refined, elegant. &nbsp;Similiar to the Kate Spade Franny coat but minus the peter pan collar. &nbsp;I am no help. &nbsp;I don't like tight coats and I always size up to layer. &nbsp;If you only need one coat than, I'm sure you'll want warmer but if there was a place for fall/spring coats I just think it's fabulous!! &nbsp;Of course if it's that roomy, you could layer a thin down vest underneath and call it a day!! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/the-coat-arrived#post-1547742 Fri, 28 Aug 2015 21:47:04 +0000 Alassë 1547742@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Apart from the size, I think the coat looks very good on you. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/the-coat-arrived#post-1547724 Fri, 28 Aug 2015 20:43:48 +0000 Amy 1547724@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I LOVE your short hair.</p> <p>I really like this sort of coat too. To me, it's a good building block and can support a lot of different style directions. It depends HOW you wear it. The other parts of your outfit will provide the character. (We all wear t-shirts, but how we wear them varies a lot.) </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/the-coat-arrived#post-1547721 Fri, 28 Aug 2015 20:38:21 +0000 abc 1547721@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Wow. I really like this but see the fit issue. And if it's not warm enough, what a shame. For me I love love love this coat but get your issues. Next .. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/the-coat-arrived#post-1547712 Fri, 28 Aug 2015 20:27:08 +0000 Diana 1547712@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I think it's gorgeous and I like the style a lot. I had the same thought as joy - maybe you just need it in a color. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/the-coat-arrived#post-1547711 Fri, 28 Aug 2015 20:26:14 +0000 Anonymous 1547711@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>It's very pretty but it might be a little too predictable? I think Joy is right that another color would make it better suited to you? Or some kind of unusual details? If it really fit well it might look different too but the overall effect is too little girl for me. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/the-coat-arrived#post-1547710 Fri, 28 Aug 2015 20:25:40 +0000 unfrumped 1547710@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I like the color but think you might look fab in something deeper or more colorful.<br />Also like what Gaylene says--something a bit sleeker. Though that can be hard for layering.<br />I think maybe the collar is very conservative. Sort of what I call the Johnny collar though may not be exactly, More of a lapel would look sharper.<br />No help, I realize. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/the-coat-arrived#post-1547705 Fri, 28 Aug 2015 20:16:34 +0000 Anonymous 1547705@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Astrid, it might be the color. Maybe the same coat in a hunter green or deep red would be more appealing to you. Adding a scarf could also change things. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/the-coat-arrived#post-1547700 Fri, 28 Aug 2015 20:10:19 +0000 Gaylene 1547700@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I think the style has definite possibilities, but this particular coat needs some tailoring in the waist area. I wouldn't go so far as a fit-and-flare because I like the longer, straight line on you. But, if this coat fit in the shoulders and was a bit narrower in the midsection, I think the style would be a winner. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/the-coat-arrived#post-1547672 Fri, 28 Aug 2015 18:46:48 +0000 Astrid 1547672@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Thanks Dianthus. That's sadly true! I was hopeful because this is completely wool, but it's very thin and lightweight, not substantial at all. </p> <p>Thanks Smittie - I'm going to keep an eye on the brand, but if they don't get new coats later on then there won't be anything else. All the other styles are either not my thing or much more expensive. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/the-coat-arrived#post-1547665 Fri, 28 Aug 2015 18:40:56 +0000 Anonymous 1547665@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>It does look like a lovely coat. <br />It does look classic. Maybe 50's/60's classic. I'm not sure whether that's 'you' or not.<br />Now that you know it's good quality, maybe you can find something else by the same brand.</p> <p> </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/the-coat-arrived#post-1547664 Fri, 28 Aug 2015 18:40:49 +0000 cheryle (Dianthus) 1547664@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I think the shape is fab but it looks a bit big everywhere.&nbsp; The sad thing is most really cute coats aren't warm enough for winter if you live in a cold climate.&nbsp; </p> <p></p> <p>ETA:&nbsp; It has a menswear vibe to me which is offset by the seaming and tailoring at the waist.</p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/the-coat-arrived#post-1547663 Fri, 28 Aug 2015 18:40:24 +0000 Astrid 1547663@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Thanks Una! Yes, the warmth is definitely a dealbreaker. I once had a favourite coat stolen, too. It's the worst. </p>