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YouLookFab Forum » Topic: Style Journey - What’s Next for Me? (Another XXXL) https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/style-journey---what%e2%80%99s-next-for-me-another-xxxl Style Advice for Fashion Lovers en-US Sat, 02 May 2026 11:14:50 +0000 http://bbpress.org/?v=1.0.2 <![CDATA[Search]]> q https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/search.php lyn67 on "Style Journey - What’s Next for Me? (Another XXXL)" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/style-journey---what%e2%80%99s-next-for-me-another-xxxl#post-1367071 Wed, 01 Oct 2014 17:25:16 +0000 lyn67 1367071@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Great thread, i read it with great interest, and learned a lot of things. 1. I loved your coclusion on"just because I can, doesn't mean I should".... 2. Loved Angie' advice for amping the trend factor only to achieve an even   stronger/bolder but simle and efficient modern classic look. 3. Kibbe said it so well. Thanx for that quote, Claire. 4. Even I have thin lips, your Flavia reinforced my  choice for digging out my lipsticks this summer and  feelin' some of that glamour without knowing what it was called. See what happens in fall? Anonymous on "Style Journey - What’s Next for Me? (Another XXXL)" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/style-journey---what%e2%80%99s-next-for-me-another-xxxl#post-1367035 Wed, 01 Oct 2014 16:10:30 +0000 Anonymous 1367035@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Ornella, furniture is kind of important, so we'll cut you some slack! ;) @Astrid, in my case anyway, it has absolutely helped to get the seldom worn, not-quite-right pieces out of the way. I could not see the best solutions and outfit combinations because I kept getting hung up on the feeling that I should be wearing one of my other (poorer) choices.  crutcher on "Style Journey - What’s Next for Me? (Another XXXL)" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/style-journey---what%e2%80%99s-next-for-me-another-xxxl#post-1366928 Wed, 01 Oct 2014 13:20:07 +0000 crutcher 1366928@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Enjoyed your style report...Add to that is Claire's wonderful quote: "simplicity and moderation"...Can't wait to hear more as I ponder all of the style philosophy you have put out there... Ornella on "Style Journey - What’s Next for Me? (Another XXXL)" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/style-journey---what%e2%80%99s-next-for-me-another-xxxl#post-1366867 Wed, 01 Oct 2014 09:25:04 +0000 Ornella 1366867@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Wow Claire, I probably crosposted with your response just above mine. I have  just read what you said and it blew me away. I'll have to come back to it later (I'm waiting for some furniture delivery and have to make room for it). Astrid :: some of my boxes ended up being unintentional holding zones, so I'm all for that technique.  <a rel="nofollow" href="http://www.pinterest.com/pin/create/extension/"></a><a rel="nofollow" href="http://www.pinterest.com/pin/create/extension/"></a> Astrid on "Style Journey - What’s Next for Me? (Another XXXL)" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/style-journey---what%e2%80%99s-next-for-me-another-xxxl#post-1366857 Wed, 01 Oct 2014 07:59:45 +0000 Astrid 1366857@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Ornella, yes of course we probably won't find what we need exactly when we go looking for it, but I think you can get at least a better idea of what you will be looking for when your wardrobe's in the right place. I think having an uncluttered wardrobe might help me gain that certainty you mentioned. I think I'm going to create that holding zone and do some sorting next weekend. Oh and I really love the look of that brand where you bought your dress, can't wait to see it in action. Caro in Oz on "Style Journey - What’s Next for Me? (Another XXXL)" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/style-journey---what%e2%80%99s-next-for-me-another-xxxl#post-1366592 Tue, 30 Sep 2014 22:47:43 +0000 Caro in Oz 1366592@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ I'm really keen to see the next leg of your style journey too. Fewer & better is my style mantra, imo when we have the right clothes (or lipsticks) we really don't want excess Anonymous on "Style Journey - What’s Next for Me? (Another XXXL)" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/style-journey---what%e2%80%99s-next-for-me-another-xxxl#post-1366579 Tue, 30 Sep 2014 22:33:38 +0000 Anonymous 1366579@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Oh, you were still awake! Thanks for the response Ornella. Off to bed you go now and I'll go check out your link.  Ornella on "Style Journey - What’s Next for Me? (Another XXXL)" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/style-journey---what%e2%80%99s-next-for-me-another-xxxl#post-1366574 Tue, 30 Sep 2014 22:28:41 +0000 Ornella 1366574@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Thank you so much ladies. It helps to put my thoughts in writing, but you have no idea how happy I am to read that parts of my thought process resonated with you to some extent.  Astrid :: you raise excellent point "I feel like all those pieces that clutter the wardrobe just prevent me from seeing what would be the most logical next purchases moving forward". True. But, we are restricted by a few factors and after all - buying clothes is a process. If there was guarantee we would find what we need when we need it, things would be different. I try to be certain about my needs and wants, so when I'm in position I can make the right purchase. And yes - make a holding zone. I totally get the feeling "it's still perfectly good clothes". I'm guilty of that too and am trying to overcome it. Angie :: Yes, to everything. Thank you. "But most of all - you put them on - and they feel soooooo right" - that is my dream sopping scenario. I've experienced it very few times, but the most recent one is so fresh in my mind that I'll try to recall it as the main criteria of success next time I'm considering an item.  Claire :: thanks for the lengthy reflection, the quote and for being continuous inspiration. The closest design to my dress can be seen under "<a rel="nofollow" href="http://www.oska.com/">The new Collection</a>"  on page 6. I cannot wait to wear it. I think that dress actually fits the criteria from Angie's guideline. As for the earrings, mine are from the craft fair and I like them as they spoke to me. But, you are on the right track, I've wanted ruby earrings for a while as a reference to one of my favourite characters from the book "The Contact". It's so interesting to read you feel pressured to be more modern and that different environment would see you wearing more daring combinations. Do you feel you're "losing out" because you can't fully express that side of you which evidently exists? Off to bed now, it's been a long day and long parents' meeting at the school. <a rel="nofollow" href="http://www.pinterest.com/pin/create/extension/"></a><a rel="nofollow" href="http://www.pinterest.com/pin/create/extension/"></a> Anonymous on "Style Journey - What’s Next for Me? (Another XXXL)" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/style-journey---what%e2%80%99s-next-for-me-another-xxxl#post-1366570 Tue, 30 Sep 2014 22:24:25 +0000 Anonymous 1366570@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Ornella, I really wish it weren't the middle of the night where you are! I have so much to talk about with you!   I've been thinking about Angie's advice to you. I have a feeling it would be the same advice she'd give to me (although I'm too chicken to ask for it). I am scared to buy trendy things and then have them last longer than I will love them, yet I don't want to buy disposable clothing either. There has to be a happy medium. Maybe I should buy classic things that will last and trendy things that will likely wear out in a season or two. A lot of stylish people do this, including Suz. What do you think Flavia does? This thread has given me a lot to think about. I'll check back before bed to see if you're up yet. unfrumped on "Style Journey - What’s Next for Me? (Another XXXL)" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/style-journey---what%e2%80%99s-next-for-me-another-xxxl#post-1366455 Tue, 30 Sep 2014 20:00:20 +0000 unfrumped 1366455@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Such great insights! So interesting to see how getting more space can lead you to want less stuff--also life changes and other events, but gets down to the great idea that it's not the space that counts, it's the focus. Sal on "Style Journey - What’s Next for Me? (Another XXXL)" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/style-journey---what%e2%80%99s-next-for-me-another-xxxl#post-1366430 Tue, 30 Sep 2014 19:22:23 +0000 Sal 1366430@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Interesting read. Thank you for sharing. I especially liked reading about the success you have had with your purchases. This is my goal, to buy a few pieces each season that either I know fill an identified gap, or that are true wild cards that sing to me. catgirl on "Style Journey - What’s Next for Me? (Another XXXL)" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/style-journey---what%e2%80%99s-next-for-me-another-xxxl#post-1366369 Tue, 30 Sep 2014 18:12:42 +0000 catgirl 1366369@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ XO. You are so wise and introspective - in every way my opposite. I need to take a cue here! Love this post and your insightful analysis. abc on "Style Journey - What’s Next for Me? (Another XXXL)" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/style-journey---what%e2%80%99s-next-for-me-another-xxxl#post-1366358 Tue, 30 Sep 2014 18:04:04 +0000 abc 1366358@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ I enjoyed reading this. My life has paralleled yours in many ways. I just wish I had the insight to summarize my thoughts the way you do. Anonymous on "Style Journey - What’s Next for Me? (Another XXXL)" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/style-journey---what%e2%80%99s-next-for-me-another-xxxl#post-1366352 Tue, 30 Sep 2014 18:00:49 +0000 Anonymous 1366352@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ I loved reading your analysis Ornella. Beautifully written and thought out. I'm looking forward to seeing where this new road takes you. Anonymous on "Style Journey - What’s Next for Me? (Another XXXL)" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/style-journey---what%e2%80%99s-next-for-me-another-xxxl#post-1366306 Tue, 30 Sep 2014 16:56:17 +0000 Anonymous 1366306@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Ornella, was this a long post? I don't know. The time flew by while I read it and I didn't want it to end. You are such a good communicator!  Let me just say that I am SO with you. I'm with you on not wanting to many things and too much visual clutter. I feel calm and in control when I know what I have and where it all is. I'm so happy for you that your clothes are all out of boxes and hanging in their rightful place now. We can all breathe a collective sigh of relief. These must have been a very challenging couple of years for you. It's interesting that you were able to cull even more things once being apart from them for a while. And I love that you asked your husband for some fashion input. I defer to DH on certain things and it's too bad he and Angie often have opposite opinions on style! I dress for DH since I see him more often. :D  I can't wait to see your new dress, although I suspect it's full glory will not be captured in a still photograph, as such things rarely are. The quality of the fabric, the construction details and the way it drapes and moves can sometimes only be seen IRL. Knowing your eye for quality, I will take your word for it and use my imagination!  I am so envious of your shopping success! You know yourself and what you need in a way that I aspire to know myself and my needs. You bought five things without a single regret, and that's where I want to be. You are such an inspiration. What are the earrings, ruby? I have a pair of gold studs, pearl studs and I'm thinking of getting some sort of neutral, semi-precious sparkly studs to round out my collection. Thanks you for the inspiration at a time when costume jewelry seems to be reigning supreme. Most of it feels just that--costumey--on me and I long to swim against the tide.  Flavia, that vixen! How dare she look so glamorous at a garden center. And it was the lipstick, you say? I will be pondering that! I think having the right casual clothes even for gardening is important too. That way you're not running out in some embarrassing rags to buy paint or mulch and shrinking away from interaction because you don't feel yourself. Hmmmm. Food for thought.  Your extended trip home sounds like a true packing success. You've got this down to a science. You were warm, comfortable and stylish despite the changing seasons and all this from your suitcase? Well done, Ornella. Well done! I stayed with my sister for three days and found my wardrobe lacking for some hiking we did on trails and in the woods. Thankfully she had plenty of clothes to loan me, but going forward, this is something I might want to address.  These are great goals you have set up for the future. I love that you want to continue to add slowly and thoughtfully to your wardrobe. I'm happy to add my two cents about color and figure flattery, two points that are important to me too. I constantly feel the pressure to be more modern against my own classic sensibilities. If I lived in a more urban setting, I think I could quite comfortably go in an edgier direction, but I'm already pushing the envelope of "dressiness" where I live and I don't feel myself when I'm all tricked out in trends that no one has seen before.    And lastly, I resonate with your statement: "I am perpetually wondering if Modern Classic is enough to describe my style." So I'd like to share with you some special words David Kibbe had for the Classic type that have been a comfort to me (whether or not I fall into his category, I like to dress in a classic way): "...you are enough just the way you are. Don't overstate your appearance. Remember 1) simplicity and 2) moderation."    Sara L. on "Style Journey - What’s Next for Me? (Another XXXL)" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/style-journey---what%e2%80%99s-next-for-me-another-xxxl#post-1366259 Tue, 30 Sep 2014 16:06:37 +0000 Sara L. 1366259@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ I love reading your analysis of your style journey.  Very insightful.  I agree that small details can make an outfit feel more "you".  Unfortunately, I've found that these usually don't show up easily in WIW posts - earrings, dainty necklaces, small bracelets, etc.  They are pieces that make me feel good and are noticeable in real life but don't show up in a photo (unless I went to a lot more trouble and took closeups, etc, which I just don't have time to do - I barely have time to snap 2 shots in the mornings). Carole on "Style Journey - What’s Next for Me? (Another XXXL)" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/style-journey---what%e2%80%99s-next-for-me-another-xxxl#post-1366234 Tue, 30 Sep 2014 15:32:17 +0000 Carole 1366234@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Brilliant analysis, Ornella. I am bookmarking because I love Angie's suggestions to you and can see this is where I need to go, also. "Amp up the trend factor in your style .... go more modern than classic"....can't wait to see your interpretations! Jaime on "Style Journey - What’s Next for Me? (Another XXXL)" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/style-journey---what%e2%80%99s-next-for-me-another-xxxl#post-1366229 Tue, 30 Sep 2014 15:29:16 +0000 Jaime 1366229@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Enjoyed your reflections and am intrigued by Angie's comment too. A few excellent pieces - will be watching! Alassë on "Style Journey - What’s Next for Me? (Another XXXL)" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/style-journey---what%e2%80%99s-next-for-me-another-xxxl#post-1366196 Tue, 30 Sep 2014 14:49:04 +0000 Alassë 1366196@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ You always have such interesting observations, Ornella! I love reading your posts for their minimalist inspiration. Thank you for sharing. Angie on "Style Journey - What’s Next for Me? (Another XXXL)" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/style-journey---what%e2%80%99s-next-for-me-another-xxxl#post-1366194 Tue, 30 Sep 2014 14:46:56 +0000 Angie 1366194@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Very interesting, and well analyzed, Ornella.  From what I have experienced with clients in a similar position to you, your largest style challenge is your lifestyle. You do not have the need to "dress up" so to speak, and making sure that the few predominantly casual clothes that you have reflect what you want to express is hard. FWIW, my suggestion would be to amp up the trend factor in your style - cherry picking those pieces that work back to your style descriptors. Go more Modern then Classic. Make those fewer pieces more exceptional and interesting. Creating a stylish simple style is about wearing pieces that stand strongly on their own. No need for bells and whistles - they just are. And they complement each other when combined. But most of all - you put them on - and they feel soooooo right.  I am excited to share the next leg of your style journey with you, Mrs. O. Much love. xo amiable on "Style Journey - What’s Next for Me? (Another XXXL)" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/style-journey---what%e2%80%99s-next-for-me-another-xxxl#post-1366184 Tue, 30 Sep 2014 14:31:00 +0000 amiable 1366184@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ You have written this out so beautifully and clearly.  Thank you!  It's a terrific read! I'm in a similar place - realizing that less is more, that I prefer to not have an overwhelming number of options when I dress, and starting to learn what is really me.  So I'm following along with interest as you learn too. Astrid on "Style Journey - What’s Next for Me? (Another XXXL)" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/style-journey---what%e2%80%99s-next-for-me-another-xxxl#post-1366171 Tue, 30 Sep 2014 14:19:15 +0000 Astrid 1366171@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ I was waiting for this post. Thanks for posting your reflections in depth, I always find them a very interesting and often inspirational read. I'm on a point where I'm contemplating something similar - getting rid of all those soso pieces to make a clearer cut moving forward. With the weight loss there's a need for new things, never mind wanting that more grown up look and many things being worn out anyway. I feel like all those pieces that clutter the wardrobe just prevent me from seeing what would be the most logical next purchases moving forward. But I'm not sure I can just get rid of so many things at once, even if I don't wear them. I have to say I feel guilty just at the thought of letting perfectly wearable things go, on my small budget. Perhaps I should get a packing case out of the cellar and create a holding zone... I can't wait to see further thoughts on this and some outfits. Suz on "Style Journey - What’s Next for Me? (Another XXXL)" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/style-journey---what%e2%80%99s-next-for-me-another-xxxl#post-1366160 Tue, 30 Sep 2014 13:57:03 +0000 Suz 1366160@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Ornella, thank you for this richly reflective update. I can't wait to see your new style goals move into action! Lynne on "Style Journey - What’s Next for Me? (Another XXXL)" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/style-journey---what%e2%80%99s-next-for-me-another-xxxl#post-1366135 Tue, 30 Sep 2014 13:17:43 +0000 Lynne 1366135@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Ornella, I love that you've been able to articulate this part of your style journey so succinctly......it sounds like you've really fine-tuned your tastes and I love that you seemed to instantly recognize the things that resonated with your new persona.  I'm looking forward to seeing more! I can relate to what you say, "just because I can, doesn't mean I should".... Ornella on "Style Journey - What’s Next for Me? (Another XXXL)" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/style-journey---what%e2%80%99s-next-for-me-another-xxxl#post-1366097 Tue, 30 Sep 2014 11:49:57 +0000 Ornella 1366097@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Without much further ado, here’s what’s been going on in my head in the past few months: 1. The Move As you probably know, 2 summers ago my family had moved from England to Germany. End-to-end and life/wardrobe-wise this meant: <ul> <li>selling the old house (reducing the wardrobe in the process of staging the house), </li> <li>packing (reducing even further) </li> <li>moving to a different climate and changed lifestyle (casual, with no office job and dressing norms to adhere to), </li> <li>living in a small apartment for 2 years while overseeing the building of the new house (only a selection of my wardrobe in use - with regular seasonal rotation as I had little wardrobe space, the rest permanently stored away), </li> <li>then finally the move to a new, empty house (more packing, decision making and trips to the clothing donation points).</li> </ul> As I was unpacking, I felt sort of panic - noooo… this nice, empty, serene space must remain so. The wardrobes were installed 2 weeks after the move, meaning I had gotten used to the empty, airy space and loved it. All I was focused on after I had started opening the boxes was preservation of order. This proved to be impossible, we’re still waiting for a few big furniture pieces to be delivered so I can put things to their final destinations - but one thing I could do from the beginning when looking at every single piece was ask “Do you REALLY deserve to take up space in my nice, new wardrobe?”  So I started yet another pile of rejects. Firstly the clothes I have not worn at all and don’t plan to - the old work clothes. When I find another job, I will buy things that I’ll love wearing. Next came the colours I was not feeling. This was logical next filter, because colours play a huge role in how I feel about clothes. Then - anything that was uncomfortable even just a little bit. Finally, the clothes that were actually not me. I had realised that being on YLF made me so happy that I could wear whatever I wanted, because I had an idea how to style what used to be difficult pieces - but just because I can, doesn’t mean I should. I was (still!) hanging on to too many pieces based on this principle alone, I even kept some clothes because I thought they could come in handy in the next Picture Perfect Challenge (yes, that’s how addicted I am). I also asked my husband for a quick scan of what was left and he pointed to few things he strongly disliked. Oops, that was an eye opener.  In the end, I have never had bigger wardrobe space, yet I never had less things. There is room for more rejects, I am sure. 2. One Key Outfit  Earlier this spring I bought a dress that I loved with irrational intensity the moment I had tried it on. Interesting design, but not overwhelming, basic enough, but not boring. It’s made of fleece, so I have to wait a bit longer to wear it. But, the shop was closing and I had to decide on the spot, no returns or refunds. The dress had shifted my entire perception of what I wanted to see on myself, namely even cleaner lines, less fuss overall and stronger contrasts. Drama even. I’ve been thinking about the concept of wearing one key outfit or piece of clothing for a while. Because too muchness overwhelms me, I love the idea of having less to chose from, but that less has to be perfect. Where this thinking will take me and will I ever be entirely happy with just white button up, black turtleneck and a dress for each season I do not know, but this particular dress came at the right moment to convince me that such concept may be achievable after all. As a direct result of that purchase, I realised there’s less stuff I’m interested in than ever before. I am happy to keep shopping my closet and keep fine-tuning why I like some things and what is it about them that works for me. Going into summer I had only one real wardrobe need - white belt. 3. The Purchases This summer I bought 5 things, in this order:  (1) white belt - need. It did exactly what I wanted it to, filled the wardrobe gap and made me feel more pulled together. Winner. (2) fluid top - wildcard. It was displayed at a prominent place at the shop I walked by and that’s how I noticed it. It had found me, but I was also ready to recognise it. I bought it so I can play with it. Worn a lot. Winner. (3) white (linen) shirt - permanent need. Fantastic buy. Worn a lot and it made me happy every single time. Winner. (4) red Birks - unexpected purchase. Caught the glimpse of them as I was taking a shortcut through the shoe department. Love at first wear. Worn every single day until the temperatures dropped so low and it made no more sense to wear layers of long sleeves and bare feet.  (5) red stud earrings - want. Because, as Rae once wrote, it takes very little to instil personality into the outfit and these felt perfect for me. While logic tells me that to make the outfit my own I don’t need anything big or loud and obvious - and this is what I've especially been admiring n others lately - inside I still wonder whether some things are too plain unless I make it clear I’ve actually styled something. Something to ponder on. Anyway, the earrings are worn a lot, happily. Winners. (Miss) I am sorry I did not buy the cropped harem pants I asked the forum about and got a green light for, but they were sold out by the time I came back for them. They would have been great for my summer/holiday. I’ll put it under the experience. In short, when I really saw that my existing wardrobe was in pretty good place, which was clear once the survivors from the point #1 were all together hanging neatly, it was so much easier to resist some temptations because I remembered I had to wear the heck out of what I already have (YLF rule #2), otherwise what was the point of keeping it. So, unless I overhaul the whole wardrobe overnight due to some strange reason, going forward any changes will be gradual. But, I’d like to be even more specific about what I need, want or aspire to, and buy less so I can wear it often, enjoy more and let go guilt-free once I no longer feel it.  4. Flavia Just before the holiday, I accidentally bumped into Flavia (<a rel="nofollow" href="http://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/wiw-flavia-series-round-up">my Flavia</a>!) at the local garden centre. We managed to exchange a few words, between us we know just enough German for a quick chit-chat. As I was cycling home, I realised she had left me with yet another style puzzle - what was it that made everything about her casual summer look (taupe-ish jeans, graphic tee shirt in the same colours) fall into place?? She didn’t even wear the ubiquitous Itallian accessory - sunnines on top of her head, yet she looked casual and glamorous.   But she had fab lipstick. Bold. So perfect that I didn't notice it at all. That woman continues to rock my style world. So, when it came to another lengthy trip to visit the family, which coincided with the change of seasons (summer to autumn) right in the middle of that trip, all my recent lessons resulted with: 6 pairs of shoes (there were some semi-formal events, hence extra 2 pairs), 1 pair of white jeans, 1 skinnies, 1 ponte pants, 1 skirt, both new tops and 4 old, my favourite long cardigan and 1 short for layering, black leather jacket, 4 scarves, 2 pairs of earrings and 2 lipsticks. I lived 3 weeks out of the suitcase, was dressed appropriately - warmly when needed - and felt relaxed all the time. I give a lot of credit for feeling on top of things to those lipsticks I packed with much greater awareness than before thanks to Flavia. I bought black booties (need), red tunic with balloon hem (want) and the nail polish in the same shade of apple green as my scarf. Nobody can see my toenails now, but I can :-) Still here? I am yet to find the corner of the house for my WIWs where boxes don't distract in the background, but in the meantime I’keeping myself busy with thinking about my style journey.  Shedev opened a great thread a while ago "<a rel="nofollow" href="http://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/tell-me-a-little-about-yourself">Tell me a little about yourself</a>", which pushed me to sort out my own thoughts and what I'd like to work on going forward: <ol> <li>I want my outfits to be simple, clean, practical, feminine, flattering and finished. Feel free to point to anything that you think is worth tweaking.</li> <li>I want to identify key silhouettes, pieces and outfits that are no brainers for my body-type. Once I hit it, please shout.</li> <li>I love colours. My heart skips a bit when I see the colours that suit the person. Looking through some of my own old WIWs was an eye opener - it became very clear what should no longer reside in my wardrobe. I want to wear the right colours for me and will always welcome feedback about what works and what does not. </li> <li>Wardrobe is a big playground for me, but I have very little opportunities to dress for. This led to constant struggle between desire to express some creativity even while wearing what did not feel 100% me and feeling 100% me in not too exciting individual pieces. Going forward, I prefer feeling 100% me at the cost of appearing uninteresting and I want to incorporate into my outfits small details that are of significance to me.  </li> <li>I am perpetually wondering if Modern Classic is enough to describe my style. In my future WIWs feel free to revisit this whenever you want to.</li> </ol> Is this my longest post yet? Not sure, but I think it's close. Thank you very much for your time. 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