https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/splurging-on-an-of-the-moment-it-bag-bad-idea Style Advice for Fashion Lovers en-US Wed, 22 Apr 2026 16:40:23 +0000 http://bbpress.org/?v=1.0.2 q https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/search.php https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/splurging-on-an-of-the-moment-it-bag-bad-idea/page/2#post-1924400 Fri, 01 Jun 2018 04:07:40 +0000 Alexandra Nicole 1924400@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I do not splurge on my style unless it is with bags and shoes! In my experience, be weary of colors that can be easily stained. If you are going with an expensive bag, you probably plan on carrying it for the long run! While trendy and, in some cases, classic, cream bags stain easily, even if it is leather. I recommend reconsidering the color choice unless you plan on keeping it stored for special occasions. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/splurging-on-an-of-the-moment-it-bag-bad-idea/page/2#post-1924360 Fri, 01 Jun 2018 01:41:22 +0000 tulle 1924360@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I hope you get the job, Greyscale, and if you do, why not get the bag?&nbsp; I agree with Anna and everyone else that trendiness is not really an issue when the item in question has intrinsic design integrity, special meaning for you, and all-around lovability, so reward yourself, and enjoy it.</p> <p>P.S. If I had just achieved an important goal, I would be very tempted by the pink/paperclip bag... </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/splurging-on-an-of-the-moment-it-bag-bad-idea/page/2#post-1924335 Thu, 31 May 2018 23:12:52 +0000 Diana 1924335@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Heh, around here nobody would recognize it so I say go for it. I think it’s awesome. :)</p> <p>And I’m totally late to this post but congrats! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/splurging-on-an-of-the-moment-it-bag-bad-idea/page/2#post-1924318 Thu, 31 May 2018 21:48:07 +0000 jill58 1924318@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Great bag! If it makes you happy I think it would be a perfect celebratory purchase. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/splurging-on-an-of-the-moment-it-bag-bad-idea/page/2#post-1924309 Thu, 31 May 2018 20:58:47 +0000 Greyscale 1924309@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Thanks all for the wisdom! I still don’t have an offer in hand but it’s looking more solid. I can’t believe how slow this process is. 8 months and counting!</p> <p>I went back to Barney’s and confirmed that it’s an ok size: keys phone wallet sunglasses fit and I like the proportions. No spare room for the things I sometimes cram in (sunscreen, bandana) but I often have a tote bag for those. </p> <p>Barney’s had sold theirs (I looked at a different color) but I have a few possibilities online. There was an authenticated one on Vestiaire Collective at a great price but it sold. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/splurging-on-an-of-the-moment-it-bag-bad-idea/page/2#post-1923613 Tue, 29 May 2018 10:45:26 +0000 Lesley 1923613@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Here's a question: How well do you know yourself? Do you make large purchasing mistakes and have a graveyard of stuff in your closet that you were in love with and dropped 2 years later? Or do you typically buy things you love and wear them to death? If you are the latter, I say get the bag, dammit. If you can afford it and love it you will love it for many years. I find that my purchases that are driven by crazed love are never the ones I regret... they are the ones I still use 20 years later! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/splurging-on-an-of-the-moment-it-bag-bad-idea/page/2#post-1923564 Tue, 29 May 2018 05:18:22 +0000 Anonymous 1923564@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Hoping you secure the job and find out soon. You have excellent advice here. Reward yourself. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/splurging-on-an-of-the-moment-it-bag-bad-idea#post-1923373 Mon, 28 May 2018 15:32:10 +0000 bj1111 1923373@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>so did you get it?&nbsp; the bag? the job?</p> <p>ps. if you are headed to the east coast, except for new york, i don't think standard issue academics are going to recognize the bag so you can fly under the radar.&nbsp; although some of the students might! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/splurging-on-an-of-the-moment-it-bag-bad-idea#post-1923313 Mon, 28 May 2018 13:08:30 +0000 Angie 1923313@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>100% with Anna. </p> <p>GO GET THE BAG. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/splurging-on-an-of-the-moment-it-bag-bad-idea#post-1923310 Mon, 28 May 2018 13:05:57 +0000 kkards 1923310@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>sometimes, you just have to treat yourself.....fab bag, and as been pointed out seems just so in your style wheelhouse.... </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/splurging-on-an-of-the-moment-it-bag-bad-idea#post-1923298 Mon, 28 May 2018 12:46:44 +0000 Bijou 1923298@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Well I really hope you get the job. I also think this bag gels with your style and is a great way to celebrate. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/splurging-on-an-of-the-moment-it-bag-bad-idea#post-1923293 Mon, 28 May 2018 12:36:46 +0000 gryffin 1923293@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Greyscale - you don’t love this bag because it’s “of the moment” you live it because it resonates w who you are, what you do, and what you love. As Gaylene, rachy and Anna said so well. This bag is iconic for you. I truly believe when we find the perfect thing there is a “recognition of self.” It’s obvious it belongs, looks right, fits perfectly and makes our heart sing. Those are the pieces we should buy. Those are the pieces that stand the test of time. Malcolm Levene calls it “the spirit of clothes” and when that connects to your heart it it those pieces that make you feel wonderful. So it this bag is that piece and you have the resources then a big thumbs up from me. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/splurging-on-an-of-the-moment-it-bag-bad-idea#post-1923255 Mon, 28 May 2018 09:25:41 +0000 rachylou 1923255@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I’m not a handbag person either, but I do have an ‘it’ bag for me. It’s the Queen Mum style purse - top handled, black. I have always known this. In my heart of hearts, it’s The One. Mine is Gucci but completely unrecognisably so, and I think it’s going on 30 years. I won’t need another purse ever, it has my heart so completely. I will never tire of it; I haven’t yet. Every other handbag I will buy will come from Target because I know they will be petty crushes. Lol. My Testament to My Love of this one handbag. </p> <p>If this is your bag like this, I say go for it. Otherwise, I say treat yourself to some blue chip stock. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/splurging-on-an-of-the-moment-it-bag-bad-idea#post-1923214 Mon, 28 May 2018 03:05:35 +0000 Sheila 1923214@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I really like this bag for you. It is very cool. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/splurging-on-an-of-the-moment-it-bag-bad-idea#post-1923212 Mon, 28 May 2018 02:49:53 +0000 Jaime 1923212@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I hope they clear up the delay quickly - who likes to left on tenterhooks? This bag does not scream fashion victim - it is your style and I say go for it! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/splurging-on-an-of-the-moment-it-bag-bad-idea#post-1923197 Mon, 28 May 2018 01:29:49 +0000 LaPed 1923197@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>It's a great looking bag and totally in keeping with your aesthetic, but do go and load it up and make sure the functionality is there for you. 4.5x7" is pretty tiny, and I say that as someone who usually opts for smaller bags rather than larger. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/splurging-on-an-of-the-moment-it-bag-bad-idea#post-1923196 Mon, 28 May 2018 01:29:18 +0000 Gaylene 1923196@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Everything Janet said. Instead of wondering about the bag’s trendiness or “classic” longevity, assess its potential an “iconic” piece which aligns your personal aesthetic.</p> <p>The enduring quality of any statement item is due to its ongoing relevance to you, not to the fickleness of the general public. My “iconic” items are always a part in my personal style, regardless of whether or not the fashion deems them of-the-moment, because they are items which identify me.</p> <p>Congratulations and best wishes for a speedy confirmation! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/splurging-on-an-of-the-moment-it-bag-bad-idea#post-1923195 Mon, 28 May 2018 01:29:03 +0000 Anonymous 1923195@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I hope your efforts pay off in this job. It is so nice to see hard work rewarded.<br /> I think the idea of a treat or reward wonderful. I think SAL has a great idea- just putting a little time and space between desire and purchase is wise. It’s a great bag and not sure it will be dated or off trend over time ( I actually think it has a classic vibe myself). So I think the purchase will be fine.<br /> I just think patience is warranted until you a) get confirmation and b) understand possible unforeseen expenses associated with getting the position ( relocating costs, legal obligations, travel, unknowns)<br /> Then it will be an even sweeter reward </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/splurging-on-an-of-the-moment-it-bag-bad-idea#post-1923192 Mon, 28 May 2018 01:10:25 +0000 Sal 1923192@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I like the bag for you Greyscale and best of luck on the position.&nbsp; Hope it all works out!!</p> <p>I sometimes have a two week rule for these "treat" items - do I still feel the same after two weeks.&nbsp; If so then I believe it is genuine not an impulse... </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/splurging-on-an-of-the-moment-it-bag-bad-idea#post-1923185 Mon, 28 May 2018 00:38:45 +0000 Greyscale 1923185@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Not to worry, I've found it on some other sites (including consignment). That's just the one I'd bookmarked. I'm hoping they still have it at the Barney's in SF though because I'd like to look at it in person again before I commit. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/splurging-on-an-of-the-moment-it-bag-bad-idea#post-1923178 Sun, 27 May 2018 23:57:09 +0000 UmmLila (Lisa) 1923178@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>If it was anyone other than you, I'd say no, the clip and the strap are too specific, and a pattern is difficult to work with. However, given your strict color palette and your minimal-industrial aesthetic, I think it's a piece that will serve you for a long time.</p> <p>Note -- Barney's is now showing it sold out, so I hope you snapped it up! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/splurging-on-an-of-the-moment-it-bag-bad-idea#post-1923134 Sun, 27 May 2018 20:54:10 +0000 Anonymous 1923134@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Hahahaha! Do it ! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/splurging-on-an-of-the-moment-it-bag-bad-idea#post-1923131 Sun, 27 May 2018 20:50:11 +0000 Janet 1923131@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>LOL Anna!&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/splurging-on-an-of-the-moment-it-bag-bad-idea#post-1923124 Sun, 27 May 2018 20:25:03 +0000 annagybe 1923124@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I think unless you wear it with Yeezy’s or some crazy rare Nike’s you’ll be safe. And somehow I don’t think that’s you. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/splurging-on-an-of-the-moment-it-bag-bad-idea#post-1923122 Sun, 27 May 2018 20:22:11 +0000 Janet 1923122@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Oh! And congratulations! I hope all goes well and you have all the reasons to celebrate! I say a celebratory dinner AND a bag are in order.&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/splurging-on-an-of-the-moment-it-bag-bad-idea#post-1923110 Sun, 27 May 2018 20:01:19 +0000 Style Fan 1923110@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Congratulations.&nbsp; Fingers crossed.&nbsp; I hope it all works out for you. &nbsp;<br />I like the bag a lot.&nbsp; I am not a bag person and I know absolutely nothing about bags.&nbsp; But I would not think that bag would date.&nbsp; It looks classic enough with a twist.&nbsp; It looks like your style and it has meaning to you.<br />I have bought myself presents for different reasons.&nbsp; I have never regretted any of my purchases but I don't use them all.&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/splurging-on-an-of-the-moment-it-bag-bad-idea#post-1923104 Sun, 27 May 2018 19:48:42 +0000 Suz 1923104@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I think it's fantastic and perfect for your style. It won't date, no way -- it has a classic shape and a crisp appearance. It will add a jolt of fun to all black outfits. It looks versatile. I say go for it. Either that, or the self-designed option you mentioned. And congratulations on your achievement!&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/splurging-on-an-of-the-moment-it-bag-bad-idea#post-1923102 Sun, 27 May 2018 19:45:15 +0000 Barbara Diane 1923102@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>How many years from now do you want to be wearing it? Do you see it going with your style for that long? Will you use it every day?</p> <p>I admit I would be less hesitant if the price was in my comfort zone, but that is individual.</p> <p>I love the idea of having something unique made. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/splurging-on-an-of-the-moment-it-bag-bad-idea#post-1923100 Sun, 27 May 2018 19:42:52 +0000 Janet 1923100@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Ok, I’m not reading the other responses first, but I had an immediate reaction: I think it’s awesome. </p> <p>Even though it may be of the moment, it’s unique enough to be a classic-for-you piece that outlasts it’s trendy moment. If you love it and envision using it for years to come, and it fits your color palette (which is obviously does), and functions as you need it to, I say it’s worthwhile.</p> <p>(I say this from the perspective of someone who splurged on Rockstuds years ago because they were the most “me” pumps I’d seen, and they were comfortable too — I’ll wear them for decades if I can, even though their big trendy moment has passed.) </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/splurging-on-an-of-the-moment-it-bag-bad-idea#post-1923097 Sun, 27 May 2018 19:38:44 +0000 Jenni NZ 1923097@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Well, I wouldn't. The job and your achievement sounds wonderful, but conceptually I'd personally be having a celebratory dinner not an expensive bag. It's gorgeous but I suspect you won't wear it enough and will be annoyed with yourself? </p>