https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/sorry-everyone Style Advice for Fashion Lovers en-US Mon, 27 Apr 2026 19:19:14 +0000 http://bbpress.org/?v=1.0.2 q https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/search.php https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/sorry-everyone#post-1135808 Sat, 11 Jan 2014 01:43:05 +0000 April 1135808@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>BMom! &nbsp;I just now looked up this post. &nbsp;Since I came back to the forum in the new year, I can't tell you how many times I've wondered if you were here, and how Biscuit was doing. &nbsp;Now I know, and I'm so sorry for your loss. &nbsp;But I spotted another thread that said you had a new puppy! &nbsp;That's wonderful -- good for you, and good for that puppy, who we know will have the most caring companion possible. &nbsp;:) </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/sorry-everyone#post-1099876 Wed, 27 Nov 2013 21:40:42 +0000 biscuitsmom 1099876@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Thanks so much.... we knew it was coming- he was diagnosed with a liver tumor in April, and was 2+ years beyond the 'expected" life span, but was still incredibly hard </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/sorry-everyone#post-1095406 Sat, 23 Nov 2013 06:48:16 +0000 Scarlet 1095406@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I am so sorry you lost Biscuit. Losing a pet is shockingly painful. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/sorry-everyone#post-1093551 Thu, 21 Nov 2013 19:41:12 +0000 biscuitsmom 1093551@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Oh sweet Rachylou, it sure is Thank you so much for writing! It's the 1st time in my life (well, at least since I was 4 yrs old- 49 yrs ago) that I haven't had a pet. I went 6 months between losing my beloved Ping (my 1st Shar Pei) and getting my sweet and also beloved boy Biscuit. DH is much more used to not having one- B was his 1st (and he loved him dearly too) but to him, it's 'almost' normal being without. Your Lilypup (love the name!) sounds adorable </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/sorry-everyone#post-1092131 Wed, 20 Nov 2013 18:46:12 +0000 rachylou 1092131@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Carter, whoa. biscuitsmom, hi!</p> <p>All I know is that it's rough to have an empty home. Disturbing and disorienting. Really, becoming an empty nester is what pushed me to finally get my Lilypup - a dog that is. I can't imagine the next time I'm alone again...</p> <p> </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/sorry-everyone#post-1091906 Wed, 20 Nov 2013 16:01:47 +0000 biscuitsmom 1091906@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Carter, I am SO sorry to read about your furkids... I cant imagine how devastating it is to lose them all so quickly. My heart aches for you... I do hope you get another when the time is right for you. Thanks so much for your kind words </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/sorry-everyone#post-1080247 Sat, 09 Nov 2013 23:29:12 +0000 carter 1080247@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I am so sorry for your loss. We have lost all four of ours in the past 16 months, and it has been awful. The first died of cancer at 14. The second was the baby of the family at 9. Total shock. One minute she was fine, the next she was gone (pancreatic tumor ruptured). That one nearly killed me. We lost our 16 1/2 year old black lab in August. She was my 3rd child, and at only 6 months younger than my son, she had been a constant in his life as long as he could remember. We lost the last one last weekend. I think he was so depressed, he just gave up. His ashes came today, so that was another wallup. So for the first time in nearly 17 years, there are no dogs in our life. It is so very difficult, and I miss them all terribly. I know we won't last too long without a dog or two, but not quite yet. I'll be thinking about you. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/sorry-everyone#post-1076831 Wed, 06 Nov 2013 19:23:18 +0000 biscuitsmom 1076831@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Wow.... first off, I am *so* sorry I hadn't written before this. You all mean SO much to me, but I was just too grief stricken/depressed to respond I feel like I'm beginning to 'emerge' from the worst of it, finally. Debbie and Suz, yes, I did have my consult w/Sal (she was amazing and sooo beautiful) and I *will* write about it soon, and thanks Suz, BethAnn, DianeG, I feel as though I'm finally getting 'ready', at long last Deb, oh me too! It would be wonderful Mochi, Amiable, awww, SO sweet of you! K, thanks for understanding too....Isabel, SURE isn't.... it hit SO hard...Tracina, I'm SO sorry about your Mabi I kept repeating your wise words to myself....LynD, Thanks, I'm sure we will... hopefully in the spring..I cant, wont, go without another...but Mn winters are brutal to try and housebreak one and I'm not ready emotionally yet, too. Shedev, wow, SO kind of you, really..... Jeanie, yeah, does help That was so sweet of her. Glory, you are such a honey... hug right back at you! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/sorry-everyone#post-1076800 Wed, 06 Nov 2013 18:55:14 +0000 biscuitsmom 1076800@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>'Thank you all SOO much' just isn't enough to show how much these posts mean to me.... I honestly feel like I'm beginning to 'emerge' from the depths of grief.... at least somewhat. I still end most days sobbing, at least once, but I'm making 'stabs' at getting it together, a wee bit </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/sorry-everyone#post-1066186 Mon, 28 Oct 2013 17:43:17 +0000 Glory 1066186@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>BM I am thinking about you today and sending over some hugs and kisses. Hope you are doing well. xoxo </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/sorry-everyone#post-1045929 Sun, 06 Oct 2013 07:39:07 +0000 Jeanie 1045929@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>So sorry. &nbsp;Be kind to yourself. &nbsp;It is hard....they are such a big part of our lives. &nbsp;When I lost my cat, I didn't want to talk to anyone but I did feel&nbsp;better on the days I got out an interacted with others. &nbsp;I went to a lot of yoga classes. &nbsp;Shedev said it beautifully. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/sorry-everyone#post-1045228 Sat, 05 Oct 2013 01:14:57 +0000 shedev 1045228@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Biscuitsmom, There isn't anything that you could say that would not be worthwhile to hear. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/sorry-everyone#post-1045080 Fri, 04 Oct 2013 21:40:36 +0000 Lyn D. 1045080@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I feel for you BM!<br />Is it nearly time for a little cookie to join your family?<br />Just like babies they keep you on your toes, and though a new- be will never take the place of your beloved Biscuit, you will find space in your big heart I am sure. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/sorry-everyone#post-1045034 Fri, 04 Oct 2013 20:53:27 +0000 Anonymous 1045034@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>No worries BiscuitsMom, take your time to heal.&nbsp; It took me a long time when my sweet Madi died.&nbsp; I still broke down in crying fits after a year.&nbsp; I lost most interest in things that I didn't regain for aleast two years.&nbsp; People I met would say "you're depressed" and I said "well, yeah.&nbsp; I am"&nbsp; I don't really see depression as a bad thing, it's what we do to heal.&nbsp; Do remember that Biscuit loved you and would want you to be happy, you gave him so much and no one is meant to live forever.&nbsp; Death is not a bad thing. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/sorry-everyone#post-1044997 Fri, 04 Oct 2013 19:54:34 +0000 Isabel 1044997@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I am so sorry BM. &nbsp;This is not something that you shake off. &nbsp;I hope you keep lurking in the meantime.&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/sorry-everyone#post-1044739 Fri, 04 Oct 2013 13:35:30 +0000 amiable 1044739@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I'm also sorry you're down BiscuitsMom - please take the time to heal, and join us as you're ready. &nbsp;(((Hugs))) </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/sorry-everyone#post-1044689 Fri, 04 Oct 2013 11:51:55 +0000 Mochi 1044689@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>So sorry you're feeling bleak, Biscuitsmom. Please be gentle with yourself, and don't worry about your participation here.&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/sorry-everyone#post-1044629 Fri, 04 Oct 2013 07:47:59 +0000 Anonymous 1044629@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>No need for apologies BM. Just take your time and participate when you feel more up to it. ((hugs)) and good vibes. x </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/sorry-everyone#post-1044421 Fri, 04 Oct 2013 01:50:11 +0000 Beth Ann 1044421@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Participate in any way that is healing and positive for you.&nbsp; We all understand and wish you the very best! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/sorry-everyone#post-1044357 Fri, 04 Oct 2013 00:05:30 +0000 K. Period. 1044357@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Big hugs! You don't have to post all the time or respond to lots (even respond to any) of the posts&nbsp;to be there and a big part of the forum. &nbsp;Sometimes it just isn't possible for us. &nbsp;Don't worry. We love hearing from you when you are able and knowing that you out there being our silent companion when you aren't. &nbsp;*MWAH*&nbsp;&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/sorry-everyone#post-1044321 Thu, 03 Oct 2013 23:25:00 +0000 deb 1044321@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Oh, it is so hard. It does not sound good that your bright spots are becoming fewer. I wish we were closer. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/sorry-everyone#post-1044289 Thu, 03 Oct 2013 21:44:15 +0000 Suz 1044289@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Wondering if you did your consult, too. And hang in there. It's always rough when we lose our beloved companions. We are here for you when you are ready.&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/sorry-everyone#post-1044280 Thu, 03 Oct 2013 21:36:26 +0000 Debbie 1044280@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>BM-I may have missed this but did you do your consult with Sally from Already Pretty. <br />My participation has been sporadic so I may have missed the update. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/sorry-everyone#post-1044204 Thu, 03 Oct 2013 20:07:52 +0000 biscuitsmom 1044204@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Sweet Lyn, thank you so much! I just honestly don't know if its better for me to stay wrapped in a cocoon, not communicating often, or try and jump back in with those I really care about, like YLF people.....and try and put aside my feelings. &nbsp;I know I've really been avoiding leaving my house (not a home anymore) as much as I possibly can, because coming home is *so* painful, since he isn't here to greet me any longer </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/sorry-everyone#post-1044199 Thu, 03 Oct 2013 20:02:09 +0000 lyn* 1044199@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Aww - We miss you too, but it's so important for you to take good care of yourself. *HUGS* </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/sorry-everyone#post-1044190 Thu, 03 Oct 2013 19:43:08 +0000 biscuitsmom 1044190@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I've been so down/depressed since losing my boy, I just haven't felt up to doing anything I apologize for my lack of participation for answering posts, but believe me, this is one of the (increasingly fewer) bright spots in my life and I read many of the posts, even when I don't write anything because I have nothing worthwhile to say to anyone. </p>