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YouLookFab Forum » Topic: Snakeskin/Grey https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/snakeskingrey Style Advice for Fashion Lovers en-US Sat, 11 Apr 2026 02:36:31 +0000 http://bbpress.org/?v=1.0.2 <![CDATA[Search]]> q https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/search.php Zaeobi on "Snakeskin/Grey" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/snakeskingrey/page/2#post-2226063 Wed, 22 Sep 2021 11:29:30 +0000 Zaeobi 2226063@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Haha @Stagiaire Fash I've been going grey since I was 16 - I've had people mistake my younger sister for my daughter when I was 14 (they asked me how I 'keep myself so young' haha)! If I can survive that, I suppose I can survive any age-related guessing I like my grey hair but it's still not 'substantial' enough - I therefore use henna to cover the grey at my temples, but I hope to grow it all out once I'm past the 'Bonnie Rait' stage bridgie on "Snakeskin/Grey" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/snakeskingrey/page/2#post-2226004 Wed, 22 Sep 2021 03:09:19 +0000 bridgie 2226004@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ DonnaF  thank you for posting,  I admire the way you look in your greys, and your hair is very pretty.  I hope you go all silver very soon if that is what you want.  I love silver and if mine should ever go all silver, I think I would like that much better than salt and pepper.  I think I will always have some pepper in my hair, because my hair was so dark the first one/third of my life.  And my mother was salt and pepper with a lot of pepper in it for the remainder of her life after she started going grey. Shevia, thank you for your comments  Your hair is very pretty. I like your idea of wearing blue and burgundy, and not even trying to add grey.  I should do that myself, but guess I will try a little grey  I will post about that soon.   The Cat, I hope I didn't cause you to think I was going to wear bright red lipstick because you mentioned it. :)  I just tried it because I happened to have three on hand (Gifts with purchases).  But I doubt I will ever wear it very often, if ever again.  I do love red clothes but usually wear a neutral color lipstick with them.  Another comment on red lipstick, I think red lipstick had to be 200% applied correctly with a very steady hand and a lipstick brush or it will look a little smeared.  That is just me, of course. Thank you for your always helpful comments. Brooklyn, Thanks for commenting here.  I like you Mom's idea of the blond tint.  If blond could work on me I know I would prefer it a 100 times over salt and pepper. Ha,  And I may try that a little later,  BTW, I think we all could learn something from your Mom.  She is one neat and polished lady. bridgie on "Snakeskin/Grey" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/snakeskingrey/page/2#post-2225742 Tue, 21 Sep 2021 03:23:04 +0000 bridgie 2225742@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ suntiger, I glad you told me Mom looks better in winter brights.  I have been holding off because (I'm chicken, I guess.)  I plan to wear both, sometimes together, and mix and match, according to my mood.  I like and enjoy some pastels, but I would hate to think I had to wear them all the time .  I hope your Mom enjoys clothes as much as I do, and I hope she stresses much less than I do. Minaminu, thank you for telling me about purple shampoo! I am anxious to try it. Star, I love silver, but grey, not so much.  It seems to me they are referred to as the same color, and I have a problem accepting it as the same, but I am working on it. Ha. I love and agree with you comments, about changes looking intentional, even if they are not, and there has to be make-up changes sometimes, and accessories can make all the difference in the world.  Thank you! bridgie on "Snakeskin/Grey" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/snakeskingrey/page/2#post-2225736 Tue, 21 Sep 2021 02:44:50 +0000 bridgie 2225736@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Joy, I enjoyed the story about your young neighbor.  Now, I might have felt differently if I had turned gray 65 or 70 years ago (yeah), but I have always loved what we used to call pre-mature grey  btw, that term has not been used once on this lengthy thread.   But very seriously, I love all the encouragement I am getting from you and all my fabulous  YLF friends.  Thank you so much!    Rachy, Thanks for your comments.  So, no, I don't think I look like Lady Bird and in no way is this a political endorsement (ha, not from me, ever),  I like the style of Jaqueline Kennedy and Laura Bush equally. And I'm afraid I don't look like either one of them ,  However, I have to say this.  A few years back I was visiting an American friend who was at her charming Canadian companion's home in Canada, and he surely charmed me when he volunteered the remark that I sounded like Laura Bush.  He was comparing my very southern accent to her Texas drawl.  Then he added that I looked somewhat like her.  I loved it!!   bridgie on "Snakeskin/Grey" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/snakeskingrey/page/2#post-2225723 Tue, 21 Sep 2021 02:12:00 +0000 bridgie 2225723@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Janet, thanks for all the encouraging comments. I'm listening, I really do follow your posts and think you are handling your transition very well.  Your comments on jewelry, on my thread and your post last week about your rose gold resonated with me.  But, I think it is going to work out O.K. for me.  Here is my story.  When I had natural black hair I preferred white gold and silver.  My engagement and wedding ring (1956) was white gold at my big hint.  And they are still in excellent condition.  After my husband passed too early (1969) I wore them another couple of years, then put them away.  After that I started wearing mixed metals, I already had silver, silverplated costume jewelry , then started to add yellow gold and thought nothing of mixing the two.  And did this for many, many years until I went with the salon, mixed red hair.  AT that point, I did not like silver with my colors at all, and I BOXED A LOT OF IT UP AND SENT TO MY DAUGHTER, who would get it eventually anyway, and I have no regrets.  And I started wearing ROSE GOLD almost exclusively, along with some yellow gold.  Your post last week hit me like a ton of bricks, lol.  I intended to comment, sorry I didn't then.  Now, I will probably change my mind before this is over for me,  but I like silver again, (remember 1956, above), and here is the part that I am doing differently, but I still like rose gold with my salt and pepper hair, and the pinks I wear, and love it with grey., so am holding onto the rose gold, and I have found snakeskin bracelets and necklaces that are perfect,  And I think my daughter will be pleased to get the yellow gold I'm getting ready to send her.  BTW, I am not going to hint for the silver that I sent her be returned.  She dresses very nicely, but she does not take it as seriously as I do. Brooklyn on "Snakeskin/Grey" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/snakeskingrey/page/2#post-2225441 Mon, 20 Sep 2021 04:29:31 +0000 Brooklyn 2225441@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Bridgie, I just wanted to make a suggestion about your hair, since you liked my mum’s hair. Mum went natural a few years ago. She is very salt and pepper. She doesn’t mind it but she gets bored with it. So recently she tinted it blonde. A tint not a bleach. This didn’t cover the grey but it just softened the contrast of her hair a little. She looks more “mink” now than “salt and pepper”. I’m not saying you should do this (I think salt and pepper is lovely) but it’s something you could consider if you are not happy with it. She used a supermarket tint. The only thing I’d caution is that she did have something of an allergic reaction to the dye, so please use with care. And I think snakeskin would be a great addition. My mum has also found lots of colours suit her better now that she is grey. Silver in particular. The Cat on "Snakeskin/Grey" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/snakeskingrey/page/2#post-2225425 Mon, 20 Sep 2021 03:50:20 +0000 The Cat 2225425@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Dear Bridgie, your earlier descriptions of your outfits have always sounded "playful elegant" to me, so yes, I absolutely think of you as elegant. And please don't feel that you have to wear red lipstick. That was just a suggestion. Perhaps a more pink-ish lipstick will be better. As for myself, in recent years, I have felt that clear, strong red (in lipsticks as well as clothes) is "overpowering" me. My reds have to be just a bit muted and always bluish. Sometimes, a raspberry lipgloss is enough. I hope you will find some great solutions for your colouring. By the way, my "home outfit" this night was grey&black snakeskin ballet flats, grey jeans, light grey crewneck pullover and clear purple lightweight wool shawl with pompoms. bridgie on "Snakeskin/Grey" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/snakeskingrey/page/2#post-2225149 Sun, 19 Sep 2021 02:51:45 +0000 bridgie 2225149@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ lozz_oz  Thanks for posting.  Your suggestions were right on. I agree, what good would it do to wear a color I don't like with another color (my hair) that I don't like.  So, for sure I will probably wear navy most often and then other colors on top for a change, and after I see what I decide on in snakeskin print.  Plenty of shoes, booties, and even jewelry, ie bracelets, necklaces, etc  available. Stagiaire Fash, That is a good theory.  I like it. :) JAileen, your comments are very interesting and started me thinking about something I will attempt to explain here. I think you always look very nice and appropriately dressed, and love your hair.  But, with that said I never once focused on your wearing a lot of gray.  And last year, or so  you wore a blue denim chore jacket  (I believe that is what it is called) and I liked it so much , that I reluctantly ordered one, with intention of returning if it didn't work for me.  Now, nobody better ever tell me I can't keep my jacket!   It's perfect for me.  After all this is said, I am thinking maybe I will start liking grey better.  And I suppose I am already, since I have become interested in the snakeskin. :)    bridgie on "Snakeskin/Grey" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/snakeskingrey#post-2225141 Sun, 19 Sep 2021 02:06:17 +0000 bridgie 2225141@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Hey, Jenni, always happy to get your opinion.  I think Suz was one of the first to get on the snakeskin bandwagon, and we know she always gets it right!   Next, I have corrected the 2000.  You are correct I did mean 2020. And the hairdresser did express that she didn't want me to mess with the year and one half of salt and pepper in my hair now.  And I am sure, now that you mention it, friends and family did think I was past the red hair stage of my life.  I must say the red hair was prettier than my salt and pepper.  LOL  Laughing at my self now, but I intend to see this project thru.  Thank you. :) suntiger, that's a rather tall order in your suggestions for ME, but they are worth a try. :)  Thank you.   Jaime on "Snakeskin/Grey" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/snakeskingrey#post-2225129 Sun, 19 Sep 2021 01:49:13 +0000 Jaime 2225129@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Hmm, this is tricky. Because I totally get the feeling of not seeing what everyone else is seeing. But it does take some time to get used to seeing yourself with grey hair. It really was a good couple of years before I wasn't startled by an accidental glimpse in the mirror. But I do think dyed hair is beginning to look a bit out of touch and less current (maybe I have just decided this myself ). I know of at least two women in their 70s and 80s I see occasionally that suddenly went from dark and dyed to white and in each case I think they looked better.  Anyway, more to your question, I love snakeskin and other black and white prints. Actually I have begun to like most greys less and less. So I do not think there is a blanket rule for grey hair colors. Blue and burgundy are my current focuses . Jenni NZ on "Snakeskin/Grey" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/snakeskingrey#post-2225092 Sat, 18 Sep 2021 23:01:28 +0000 Jenni NZ 2225092@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Actually Bridgie I was wondering if “everyone” tells you the grey looks good because no-one would think that a woman in her 80s would be likely to have naturally red hair? And I presume it had somewhat grown out over the 18 months of the pandemic? (I am thinking you mean Jan 2020 to June 2021 not Jan 2000 to June 2021 in your original post?) Maybe the hairdresser didn’t want you to lose the 18 months of change? DonnaF on "Snakeskin/Grey" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/snakeskingrey#post-2225089 Sat, 18 Sep 2021 22:49:09 +0000 DonnaF 2225089@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ I own enough gray that my daughter teases me about it, and I own a fair amount of snakeskin as well. I have concluded that black’n’white patterns and prints flatter me much more because they are more dynamic meaning it feels like they have more energy and bookend my hair. Charcoal gray tweed feels the same way. So now, I am trying to avoid large swaths of solid gray, at least next to my face. Same with snakeskin patterns. But on the bottom half and in accessories? I’m all in. My magpie gene draws me to silver footwear, bags, and clothing—so that’s another thing to think about. FWIW, I stopped coloring my hair in my late 50s. I decided that no one realistically expects a person to have all black hair at that age and I wasn’t willing to spend the time or money to get low lights. My hair grows ridiculously fast (probably 9”/year) so the transition was quick. I am impatiently waiting for the day when my hair turns completely silver, but recognize that I may never get there. Star (Lise) on "Snakeskin/Grey" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/snakeskingrey#post-2225001 Sat, 18 Sep 2021 16:17:54 +0000 Star (Lise) 2225001@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ I am currently transitioning to my natural grey, which is more silver.  I have found light grey in clothing is suddenly very flattering where before it was not.  It is a good idea to look at grey hair transitions on Pinterest, it has definitely changed my perspective.  I love my new color and cannot wait for it to be in in full.  I have not had many compliments because where I live  hair dye is a thing everyone does but I have always been an individual thinker and not a follower.  I hear you about grey hair looking great on younger people, but I think it can look intentional on older people too; a sharp cut, light make-up, edgier accessories make up a bigger picture. rachylou on "Snakeskin/Grey" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/snakeskingrey#post-2224943 Sat, 18 Sep 2021 12:38:17 +0000 rachylou 2224943@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ …My dad didn’t start getting grey hair until he was in his 60s. My hair is still black. I suspect maybe it will be for me like my dad. But, you know, anyways, somehow as I get older, I feel the balance between my hair and complexion has really changed. I don’t think I’m as a true a winter as I once was and I’d probably look like Ladybird Johnson to myself if I thought about myself rachylou on "Snakeskin/Grey" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/snakeskingrey#post-2224937 Sat, 18 Sep 2021 12:28:27 +0000 rachylou 2224937@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Ok. That’s funny, Jenni. You are right! Actual hair colour totally escaped me. Dyed or not. And it’s true, Ladybird Johnson’s hair totally does look the same. But I sorta mean some people start to look like her to me either way, when their hair *should* be grey, whatever their hair colour is, whatever her colour was. I suppose what I’m trying to say is, the impression one gets may not have to do with hair colour alone. Anonymous on "Snakeskin/Grey" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/snakeskingrey#post-2224919 Sat, 18 Sep 2021 11:11:50 +0000 Anonymous 2224919@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Possibly Jenni I was really surprised to see my friend still had no grey, hadn't seen her in a few years. VW would be more likely to dye than my friend though! Jenni NZ on "Snakeskin/Grey" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/snakeskingrey#post-2224908 Sat, 18 Sep 2021 09:31:48 +0000 Jenni NZ 2224908@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Oh thanks Suntiger I stand corrected, perhaps! Minaminu on "Snakeskin/Grey" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/snakeskingrey#post-2224906 Sat, 18 Sep 2021 09:29:13 +0000 Minaminu 2224906@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Bridgie, I think you received lots of good suggestions. I'd also suggest trying purple shampoo, my mum found it very helpful. It took her a long time to embrace her greys too but she rocks it - and I am sure so you do :)  Anonymous on "Snakeskin/Grey" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/snakeskingrey#post-2224905 Sat, 18 Sep 2021 09:22:56 +0000 Anonymous 2224905@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ VWs hair isn't necesarily dyed. I have a Japanese Hawaaian friend who is near her age and still has black hair. She's never even worn makeup so it's not likely she colors. I'm guessing the transition is easier if your hair is light to begin with. It's much more dramatic on us dark haired people. I wouldn't altogether change wardrobe colors though. My mom is now all grey but Much better in her original strong Winter colors than lights. Jenni NZ on "Snakeskin/Grey" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/snakeskingrey#post-2224904 Sat, 18 Sep 2021 08:56:29 +0000 Jenni NZ 2224904@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Rachylou, I had to Google her! I found this pic of her, her hair looked the same style grey as it did brown to me. As for Vera Wang in today’s article, the thing about her hair is that it’s not grey at all! Very clearly dyed. So I don’t get what you’re trying to say… rachylou on "Snakeskin/Grey" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/snakeskingrey#post-2224902 Sat, 18 Sep 2021 08:15:53 +0000 rachylou 2224902@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ How much ‘salt’ v ‘pepper’ have you got, Bridgie? I feel like that may determine what kind of snakeskin pattern would look best — and I also had the thought like others that a shot of colour could be cool. Like perhaps a cobalt. The one thing about going grey, I do think, is that sometimes… I don’t know how to put this… people all start looking like … Ladybird Johnson. They sometimes lose their visual personality. I’m not entirely sure what is at the root of that. Vera Wang is still herself, who UmmLila made a post about today. Helen Mirren is. Deborah Harry is. Iman. Jane Seymour. I guess I maybe feel this happens with my local newscasters most often. Maybe it’s the video taping (v film), always wearing *those* sheath dresses, and the heavy makeup for live-television. I don’t know, perhaps tho one has to revisit one’s makeup as well as clothing… bridgie on "Snakeskin/Grey" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/snakeskingrey#post-2224866 Sat, 18 Sep 2021 02:15:33 +0000 bridgie 2224866@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Carol, Thanks for your soothing, concerned comments.  I have decided I should not return to my way of hair care as before pandemic, and I don't know any other way to go at this time.  And I will admit that  when I was having all the color done, that at times my skin color did not look good and I used more makeup (I'm 87 now) and had to be more selective with my clothes.  I had sworn off black and going with navy.  But I am gradually adding more black again, liking it plus still loving the navy. The Cat, ELEGANT?  I love the way you express yourself.  I can only hope to look as elegant as you, but I will continue to strive for it. You mentioned the red lipstick, and that is a big concern.  I just happened to have three tubes of good , little different shades of red lipstick.  I had sworn off red lipstick, just thought it was not right for me.  But I have been trying it again, and still can't do it.  Before long, if it is safe to get out more,I am going to a cosmetic counter and get a makeover and let the makeup artist select the color.  May or may not work.  We will see. Anonymous on "Snakeskin/Grey" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/snakeskingrey#post-2224864 Sat, 18 Sep 2021 01:55:04 +0000 Anonymous 2224864@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Years ago we had a neighbor whose hair turned grey, then white, in her 20’s. She hated it most when people assumed that her young children were her grandchildren. She had kept her natural color for many years. It looks stunning on her and she wears it shortish. Grey snake is a great pattern that goes with everything. I have grey snake loafers and booties that were valuable finds. They add texture without screaming. bridgie on "Snakeskin/Grey" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/snakeskingrey#post-2224862 Sat, 18 Sep 2021 01:45:46 +0000 bridgie 2224862@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Jenava, Yes, you may ask.  I only wish I could reply in as few words as you asked.  I don't know if you have noticed or not, but whenever I post or even in person, I am way to wordy,  As my comment now has started out.  Anyway, the N0. 1 reason I am transitioning is because I can't believe that all my friends and family like grey better for me at this stage of my life are wrong and I am the only one who does not.  I went from January 2020 until June 2021 without doing anything except home care, shampoo, conditioner, etc but not much etc.  So,in June 2021 when I was ready to go to a salon I made an appointment with the hairdresser who had done my hair for 6 or 7 years.   told her I still loved the color,hi lights and low lights (pricey) she had always done.  She paused, visibly took a deep breath and said, "I think you should let it go natural now as it is, she even added and it will not be nearly expensive high maintenance as it has been.  And that is true..Then I saw several of my family members and friends later at my Great-Granddaughter's 7th birthday party. And for just a few minutes everybody's attention turned to me.  All in agreement that this was the way to go.  And as I saw other people, they liked my hair.  Not one person has disliked it!  Only me.!!!  Then No 2, the upkeep is easier, will only have to go for cut and styling, I think, and then of course, much less pricey which is a big plus!   I am sorry you aren't happy with yours, but what you are doing sounds very pretty. I hope we both will start to love our new color hair real soon! I guess I think if I buy enough new clothes that will help.  Just kidding there.  I have cut way back on shopping and only looking at the grey because of a credit I will have and then the gift certificate from Talbot's. Thank you for your kind comments. Janet on "Snakeskin/Grey" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/snakeskingrey#post-2224845 Fri, 17 Sep 2021 23:18:32 +0000 Janet 2224845@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ I’m sorry you’re struggling with this. I am a little bit too, but trying to accept. It helps that my husband is supportive and that you all here and my friends who have commented have also been kind. Fortunately, anyone who thinks otherwise has been thoughtful enough to keep that to themselves! I do find myself rethinking colors and styles a bit as I adjust. Some clothing styles that seemed ok before now feel a little dowdy or lackluster now, and some muted colors now feel dull rather than soothing. But I’m feeling black and white more than ever, and am reintroducing more grey and red back into my clothing. I think snake print is a fab idea for you — I like it for myself in moderate quantities. Why not give it a try? See how you feel in it. Do you wear silver jewelry? I think that can help add some spark as well. And of course the red, pink and blue you already favor should play nicely with your new hair. Try to be patient and kind with yourself during the transition. I’ve been trying to do the same. JAileen on "Snakeskin/Grey" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/snakeskingrey#post-2224842 Fri, 17 Sep 2021 23:15:17 +0000 JAileen 2224842@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ It’s close to ten years since I went grey.   I never wore grey until then.  Then I might have overdone it, and had virtually nothing but grey.   Anyway, I love wearing grey.  Try on various shades to see what you like.   I have nearly the same color scheme, except olive instead of black.   Stagiaire Fash on "Snakeskin/Grey" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/snakeskingrey#post-2224832 Fri, 17 Sep 2021 21:38:35 +0000 Stagiaire Fash 2224832@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ I wonder if our response to greying hair depends on when it starts. I’ve had one streak since my 20s. I thought it was cool & liked that it was like my dad’s. I have a lot more than one streak now (can’t even tell you with certainty which side it was on), but in my mind, it has all spread out from a thing I liked as a young woman. When my son tried to tease me about it, he gave up, because I truly wasn’t bothered, don’t have negative associations with it. So there’s my theory—if it starts when you’re young, it can’t make you feel old later. lozz_oz on "Snakeskin/Grey" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/snakeskingrey#post-2224830 Fri, 17 Sep 2021 21:35:31 +0000 lozz_oz 2224830@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Perhaps you can continue to have your colour palette closest to you face, ie the black, blue, navy, for optimum contrast and add snakeskin in an accessory such as a bag or shoes? (Sounds like if you’re not loving the transition to salt and pepper hair, adding the snakeskin close to the face/hair will just compound the dislike.) Anonymous on "Snakeskin/Grey" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/snakeskingrey#post-2224827 Fri, 17 Sep 2021 21:28:05 +0000 Anonymous 2224827@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Yes to snake, marled yarns that have black and white, space dye. I'd think iridescent fabrics would work too, like an aurora borealis! Play up the depth and texture Jenni NZ on "Snakeskin/Grey" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/snakeskingrey#post-2224826 Fri, 17 Sep 2021 21:26:55 +0000 Jenni NZ 2224826@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Bridgie I am sure it’s difficult to adjust to the change. I still find it hard sometimes and I have been going grey for over 15 years now since my mid 40s. I think that this is the age I really am so if I look it that’s OK. I think those snakeskin or similar items would look perfect with your palette and with your new hair. I think Suz may have some boots or shoes similar which bookend her hair beautifully?