https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/since-we-are-talking-about-makeup-today Style Advice for Fashion Lovers en-US Sat, 11 Apr 2026 09:31:31 +0000 http://bbpress.org/?v=1.0.2 q https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/search.php https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/since-we-are-talking-about-makeup-today/page/2#post-2298314 Tue, 27 Dec 2022 00:35:50 +0000 SarahD8 2298314@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Oh gosh, <b>doggeh lover</b>, I'm so sorry that happened to you. That attack sounds terribly traumatic. I am with you in the "barely has any eyebrows" club.</p> <p><b>Bijou</b> how fascinating that you have had formal training in this area! Very good point to go in with an idea of what I'm trying to achieve.</p> <p><b>April</b> there are so very many possibilities out there, aren't there?? Excellent reminder that the tools, not just the products, are important. I don't use foundation or liquid eyeliner but those sound like very helpful tools that you mentioned.</p> <p><b>Jules</b> do keep us updated on the results of your experiment. I will try to do the same!</p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/since-we-are-talking-about-makeup-today/page/2#post-2298227 Mon, 26 Dec 2022 15:05:22 +0000 Jules 2298227@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Thanks for posting this! Saving for later as makeup is something I’m interested in learning in 2023 (also as a clueless almost 49yo…). I have the advantage of teen girls with lots of colour palettes to play with, which hopefully they will share as freely as their opinions </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/since-we-are-talking-about-makeup-today/page/2#post-2298216 Mon, 26 Dec 2022 13:45:06 +0000 April 2298216@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>It's easy to get overwhelmed with all the products.&nbsp; Moisturizer! Primer! Foundation! Sunscreen! Cover stick! Setting spray!</p> <p>That's before you even get to lips and eyes, and I haven't mentioned all the bronzers, blushers, highlighters, color correctors, etc.</p> <p>I find that the more my face ages, the richer the moisturizer I want to use, and therefore makeup can just slide off.&nbsp; I no longer do any eyeshadow because crepe-y eyelids and eyeshadow are not friends.</p> <p>There is something about the foundation brush made by Il Makiage that really is somewhat magical.&nbsp; And the slanted eyeliner brush by Mommy Makeup is marvelous as well, if you use gel liner.&nbsp;</p> <p>Interesting fact: when I was doing crisis counseling by text, a number of texters cited makeup videos as something they would watch to calm down.</p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/since-we-are-talking-about-makeup-today/page/2#post-2298089 Sun, 25 Dec 2022 11:23:49 +0000 Bijou 2298089@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I grew up watching my Mum apply makeup every day. When I was 14, I went to a grooming and deportment holiday program at a modelling agency. It was super fun, we had gorgeous teachers introduce us to skin and hair care and makeup applications. After that, I would wear a very natural and light makeup. In my late teens, I got the ultimate part-time job working for Clarins whilst being a university student. There I was regularly sent to courses on giving facials and applying makeup, but as a product that focused on skincare, it was always about highlighting a natural skin.</p> <p>My advice is to go to a department store and see if there is a consultant who you like how they have applied their own makeup. I would have a chat to them and book in for a consultation. Generally the make up application is free, but it is nice to buy two or more products as that means the time spent by the consultant with you is time well spent by them. I would get them to write down the products used and a map of how to apply.</p> <p>Generally it is good to start smaller and build your routine up. You need to consider what you want to achieve. Pictures help stylists know the look you are trying to achieve. If I were to go to a stylist, I would pick a celebrity with similar colouring to me and see what picture appeal regarding their makeup.<br /> Do you want to<br /> - even out your complexion<br /> - defined cheekbones, lips, eyes…<br /> - a healthy glow<br /> - facial contouring<br /> Makeup is a tool and you can play with different looks, much like changing up hairstyles. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/since-we-are-talking-about-makeup-today/page/2#post-2297680 Wed, 21 Dec 2022 21:03:32 +0000 doggeh lover 2297680@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I've never used much, but used foundation since 3rd grade (back around 1970) because after moving to a new neighborhood, I was walking home from school and some creeps in a car threw an empty glass bottle at me, yelling "Welcome to the neighborhood (racial slur for white people)" Bottle hit the fence behind me and shattered, sending a piece of glass into my face. I was less than a block from home, so put my mitten on it to stem the bleeding. Told my mom I fell off my bike (we had just moved in a few weeks b4, knew we didn't have the ability/$$$ to find somewhere else to live quickly.) It left a 2+ inch long scar on my face, which I still have today, 50+ years later. I've found that using 1 finger to 'pat' the liquid over it, do the same with my nose (large pores) and put a 2nd coat on the scar, blend with fingers works best. Also frustrated I was born with 'half-eyebrows' Looks like I deliberately tweezed, razored off, ugh! So I need to use an eyebrow pencil to have it look normal. Powder doesn't work well for me. Seems everytime I find one I like it gets discontinued, ugh! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/since-we-are-talking-about-makeup-today/page/2#post-2297664 Wed, 21 Dec 2022 19:02:11 +0000 SarahD8 2297664@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p><b>LaPed</b> somehow it is also reassuring to know that everybody is just winging it!</p> <p><b>StagaireFash</b>, yeah, going to a specific brand counter vs. a store that sells many brands is a tradeoff for sure. I will say, echoing other posters, that in the past I've found Sephora very chaotic and the associates' advice not super in line with the look I'm trying to create. I guess my theory is that the technique for applying, say, powder eye shadow should be more or less the same regardless of whether the eyeshadow you are applying comes from Estee Lauder or MAC. So, since I am looking for advice on *technique* rather than products, identifying a brand that is more in line with my aesthetic (and thus more likely to teach me techniques that help achieve that aesthetic) makes the most sense to me as a first step here.&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/since-we-are-talking-about-makeup-today/page/2#post-2297633 Wed, 21 Dec 2022 15:06:43 +0000 Stagiaire Fash 2297633@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>La Ped, interesting to hear the overlap between theater &amp; everyday makeup. </p> <p>Sarah, repeating myself here. If you go to the counter for a specific brand, you’re (pretty much) obligated to buy something from that brand and you don’t get info on how it compares to other brands. There are stores that carry Estée Lauder, Clinique, MAC, Bobby Brown and other well-known brands that will compare them for you. I found that invaluable, much prefer it to trying out multiple brands by spending $$$. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/since-we-are-talking-about-makeup-today/page/2#post-2297624 Wed, 21 Dec 2022 13:34:12 +0000 LaPed 2297624@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I didn’t learn a thing about makeup until I started acting. I’m still not super adept with anything elaborate—winged eyeliner, extreme contouring—but feel pretty confident applying basic makeup. Doing makeup with cast mates has affirmed for me that almost no one really *knows* what they’re doing, and many of us are winging it! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/since-we-are-talking-about-makeup-today/page/2#post-2297575 Wed, 21 Dec 2022 02:39:38 +0000 SarahD8 2297575@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>This turned into such an interesting discussion! Thanks again all. LJP and Angie, again I really appreciate the practical advice! I am on mobile and am having trouble scrolling back and forth to mention others by name but I am really grateful for your advice and will be combing through this thread to check out the various shows, instagrammers, brands etc that have been mentioned.</p> <p>I also really enjoyed hearing people’s stories about how they learned to do makeup. You all are cementing my hunch that a lot of this knowledge gets transmitted very implicitly/by “osmosis”/etc. I am reminded of a comment that I think Greyscale made a while back about feeling out of place with certain elements of feminine culture. That phrase really struck me so it has stuck with me and I’ve pondered it off and on since.</p> <p>I’m also interested to see that I’m in such good company with others who feel unskilled in the makeup department. For those posters, I hope this thread will provide some useful advice if you want to learn more. I hope it will NOT make you feel like you have to or should improve your makeup skills though! I really want to emphasize that I think this is all totally optional! Makeup, no makeup, minimal makeup, full face, it’s all good! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/since-we-are-talking-about-makeup-today/page/2#post-2297562 Wed, 21 Dec 2022 01:47:21 +0000 Irina 2297562@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I’m so fortunate, my neighbor and friend is a professional makeup artist who worked for magazines with some high end models! He is great and very kind.&nbsp;<br />I can ask him for an advice but it’s all a bit lost on me since I don’t do much. I think it’s important to understand what look you would want and your face structure when booking a consultation.<br />&nbsp;I started to use a bronzer a few months ago for the first time in my life. I gained a few pounds and my face became a bit flat (to me), I wanted to emphasize cheek bones a bit. &nbsp;I don’t like to use much eyeshadow, just a bit in the middle for a touch of light.&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/since-we-are-talking-about-makeup-today#post-2297558 Wed, 21 Dec 2022 01:00:06 +0000 Firecracker (Sharan) 2297558@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p><div>I've learned a lot from a couple of visits to Blue Mercury, a beauty store. I'm lucky to have one near me, and I've also gone to a big one downtown Manhattan on a trip. <br /></div><div>Specifically, I like what they've shown me for doing my brows, eyeshadow and liner, and blush. I like the fact that they are not representing one brand. I find the store a lot more welcoming and relaxed than the hectic atmosphere I've found in Sephora. </div> </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/since-we-are-talking-about-makeup-today#post-2297555 Wed, 21 Dec 2022 00:41:00 +0000 Roberta 2297555@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p><b>SarahD8</b>, you might enjoy watching Glow Up on Netflix - a makeup competition show. The challenges can be kind of wild, but truly, I learned a lot and the show is so endearing.</p> <p><b>Stagiare</b>, I should have been more clear - my BB cream is Missha Perfect Cover, a Korean brand. I did have a Bobbi Brown eyeliner in a pot that I liked, but it dried up so quickly! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/since-we-are-talking-about-makeup-today#post-2297505 Tue, 20 Dec 2022 20:26:00 +0000 rachylou 2297505@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Hair salons often have a makeup artist and hair stylists themselves often know quite a bit. I also like Kate Albert, who I see on Pinterest. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/since-we-are-talking-about-makeup-today#post-2297501 Tue, 20 Dec 2022 20:11:37 +0000 Christina F. 2297501@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p><div>I don't really officially know how to put makeup on. I used to do it all the time, less so now, but I always did my own thing. I do follow what Stagaire Fash outlined in terms of using eye makeup, but I am not sure I'm too good at it. As I get older, I find that I want to use a lighter and lighter hand on everything, unless I am specifically going for a bold lip or eye on a special occasion. <br /></div> </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/since-we-are-talking-about-makeup-today#post-2297491 Tue, 20 Dec 2022 19:10:58 +0000 nuancedream 2297491@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I learned about makeup from reading Essence Magazine when I was younger, even though I rarely used makeup due to the scourge of acne that lasted until my early 40s. I've visited the MAC and Bobbi Brown counters at Nordstrom, but never really received much instruction on makeup application. TBH, the person from whom I learned the most about makeup application is my hairstylist, who is also an MUA. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/since-we-are-talking-about-makeup-today#post-2297477 Tue, 20 Dec 2022 18:37:47 +0000 Jenni NZ 2297477@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I never learned either, just a bit of fiddling around as a teenager. I am not enough of an artist. But interestingly my second daughter, who IS a good artist, loves makeup and is good at applying it on herself.<br /> I have read that Lisa Eldridge does good internet tutorials and was interested because she is apparently a Kiwi! I haven’t watched them though. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/since-we-are-talking-about-makeup-today#post-2297467 Tue, 20 Dec 2022 17:40:50 +0000 chouette22 2297467@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Thank you for asking this question, Sarah! I have never ever liked make-up and am a big minimalist with regards to that. I don't enjoy applying it and am therefore not good at it at all. My daughter, on the other hand, couldn't be more different. I love fashion though, that's where my focus goes. Every now and again, like you, I think that I should invest a bit of money and time into this whole make-up thing.&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/since-we-are-talking-about-makeup-today#post-2297465 Tue, 20 Dec 2022 17:36:31 +0000 chewyspaghetti 2297465@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>katetalbertmua on IG is one of my favorites for makeup for mature skin. She really focuses on techniques, rather than products. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/since-we-are-talking-about-makeup-today#post-2297457 Tue, 20 Dec 2022 16:54:26 +0000 LJP 2297457@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Another interesting beauty writer I like is Val Monroe - who used to write for O magazine - and her page (or whatever you call it ) on Substack is called How Not to F*ck Up Your Face. She writes about makeup and skincare for women " of a certain age". &nbsp;Today's article was about using a foundation primer, which I don't do. &nbsp;Now of course I think I should buy one , lol. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/since-we-are-talking-about-makeup-today#post-2297456 Tue, 20 Dec 2022 16:49:36 +0000 Stagiaire Fash 2297456@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Roberta, do we have the same Bobbi Brown? They had me use a sponge to blend it in. I bought some at the drug store. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/since-we-are-talking-about-makeup-today#post-2297448 Tue, 20 Dec 2022 16:25:33 +0000 Roberta 2297448@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>My sister-in-law was an MUA for Estee Lauder for a decade and I agree, visit a high end makeup counter. She converted me to a brush for concealer and BB cream (see below) and that was a game-changer. I found it to be as easy as being Fingers McGee and the coverage was ten times better. Stipple it on, then blend in a circular motion.&nbsp;</p> <p>My main suggestion is to get pro advice but not necessarily expensive products (at first). Try Target, as they have multiple brands, and you can browse all you want without someone hovering over you. I love Urban Decay, but I didn't really commit until I had read a hundred reviews online.&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/since-we-are-talking-about-makeup-today#post-2297439 Tue, 20 Dec 2022 15:51:42 +0000 Anonymous 2297439@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Starting out with professional advice is a good way to go. &nbsp;That will get you started on the right track with techniques and choosing the right colors for your particular skin tones. &nbsp;I had a session at the MAC store near me that was fun and so helpful. &nbsp;A good set of brushes are a must (mine are by Sigma, but there are plenty of others that are good). &nbsp;And don’t be afraid to experiment a bit! &nbsp;It’s fun and you can always wash it off if you don’t like it. &nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/since-we-are-talking-about-makeup-today#post-2297435 Tue, 20 Dec 2022 15:39:40 +0000 Stagiaire Fash 2297435@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>For eyeshadow, I think the usual formula is medium color on the lid, darkest shade in the crease, and lightest color up above, as far as the brow if you wish. For close set eyes like mine, don’t take the color all the way to the inner corner. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/since-we-are-talking-about-makeup-today#post-2297433 Tue, 20 Dec 2022 15:35:28 +0000 Angie 2297433@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p><b>SarahD8</b>, good question. If you buy one product - all good </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/since-we-are-talking-about-makeup-today#post-2297431 Tue, 20 Dec 2022 15:31:45 +0000 LJP 2297431@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>To answer your questions about purchasing expectations at the counter - I think some counters charge for the session , but then refund that through any product purchase. &nbsp;I'd only book with a line I wanted buy from, and be prepared to spend a bit of money. &nbsp;MAC , for example, isn't terribly expensive , so you could buy a lipstick, a pencil or two and maybe a shadow and not spend a ton. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/since-we-are-talking-about-makeup-today#post-2297397 Tue, 20 Dec 2022 12:33:53 +0000 Dee 2297397@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Funny enough, I was a cosmetician in a previous life (1980s) but after a serious reaction to an antibiotic (my face swelled up) my skin became highly reactive, it wouldn’t tolerate much, so I now I no longer wear any make up, beyond lip colour. <br />I focus most of my effort now on good skin care, but I especially miss wearing mascara. &nbsp;These days there are many good sources to learn make up application, but its important to pay attention to all the ingredients in these products and clean your skin properly. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/since-we-are-talking-about-makeup-today#post-2297390 Tue, 20 Dec 2022 12:01:31 +0000 anchie 2297390@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I never learned LOL. I suffered a lot from acne as teen and I am left with deep acne scars on my face. I tried covering it with makeup but makeup only ephasises skin imperfections instead of hide it and I never liked how makeup looks on me. Maybe I just never learned how to properly apply it. I don’t like how washed out I look without makeup, I could use some for sure. I would like to learn and step up my makeup game next year. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/since-we-are-talking-about-makeup-today#post-2297389 Tue, 20 Dec 2022 11:54:34 +0000 Stagiaire Fash 2297389@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Right here with ya! Not a big makeup user but want to learn a few tricks* I’m going to look back through this thread carefully in a few weeks, when I have time. </p> <p>I like going to Ulta rather than to a department store, because the employees aren’t connected to any specific product and will discuss pros &amp; cons of various lines, including how to use them. They will apply it and explain what they’re doing. I’ve never booked a full session, but they have them &amp; i bet they’re good. </p> <p>*one set of things I want to learn is subtle things to combat signs of aging that don’t look or feel like I’m wearing makeup. I think I also want to do the opposite sometime too, as a lark. I always think a full face of makeup would feel like I was wearing drag. It might be fun to lean into that for a fancy night out, either music or a Dita von Tease show, if the dude is into that. He does support my playing around with my looks, which is fun; this would be a surprise, to say the least. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/since-we-are-talking-about-makeup-today#post-2297379 Tue, 20 Dec 2022 08:05:12 +0000 jussie 2297379@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Hmmm well I’m not much of an expert. I avoid eyeliner, eye pencil and eyeshadow entirely as I don’t know how to apply them very well. </p> <p>Usual Daily routine: foundation, under eye concealer, curl eyelashes and apply mascara. Blush.<br /> “Special” daily routine: as above but add a lipstick<br /> Very casual day: tinted moisturizer and mascara only<br /> I learned a bit growing up possibly from mum? Or maybe teen friends? I can’t exactly remember tbh. Then I had some great books from an Australian makeup artist called Rae Morris. Trinny Woodall talks quite a bit about makeup on her instagram. But mostly I just played around really.<br /> I think the trick of it is…. Each person has different makeup requirements to achieve the look they are wanting for themself. What works for me may not work for you and vice versa! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/since-we-are-talking-about-makeup-today#post-2297373 Tue, 20 Dec 2022 06:10:40 +0000 SarahD8 2297373@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Thank you, all, for this great advice!</p> <p>StyleFan, I really appreciate those YouTube recommendations.</p> <p>LJP and Angie, ok, I will look into an appt at the bobbi brown or Laura mercier counter. I think I can be specific about what I want! May I ask you or others who have experience with this what is the expectation in terms of buying products at such a lesson? Is on3 expected to buy the whole face or is just a couple of products ok?</p> <p>Nomad that is a very good point about individual anatomy! I actually have quite a lot of eyelid real estate (I think??!) yet I remain baffled by the concept of anything other than smearing a single color all over the lid!</p> <p>Jaime and Suz, I appreciate the solidarity! Suz, I wonder if I should try using my fingers rather than brushes , I might feel a bit more in control? I know I need to find an eyelid primer too as the shadow I put on lasts for all of about 20 minutes. I’m sensitive to a number of ingredients(I know you can relate) tho so I haven’t had the oomph for that search…. </p>