https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/shopping---what-i-saw-what-i-skipped-what-i-bought Style Advice for Fashion Lovers en-US Thu, 09 Apr 2026 00:19:41 +0000 http://bbpress.org/?v=1.0.2 q https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/search.php https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/shopping---what-i-saw-what-i-skipped-what-i-bought/page/2#post-2341127 Mon, 09 Oct 2023 12:39:49 +0000 Mary Beth (formerly LBD) 2341127@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I love love love you in that pink sweater! &nbsp;<div><br /></div><div>I’m late to the party, and it looks like you’ve already made your decision to return. &nbsp;I think that was the right decision, because your trip was about finding a piece or pieces that excited you, right? &nbsp;I think that’s a great goal. &nbsp;It doesn’t always have to be about basics. &nbsp;Sometimes all you need are the candy sprinkles.<br /></div> </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/shopping---what-i-saw-what-i-skipped-what-i-bought/page/2#post-2340984 Sat, 07 Oct 2023 14:15:26 +0000 Kyle 2340984@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Such a pretty outfit! The white and pink are a great combo and the belt elevates it even more. Love. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/shopping---what-i-saw-what-i-skipped-what-i-bought/page/2#post-2340981 Sat, 07 Oct 2023 13:16:01 +0000 kkards 2340981@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>(Just an aside, I believe Winners is owned by TJX, which owns both TJMaxx and Marshall’s here in the US)</p> <p>I’d definitely keep an eye out of boots similar to these. &nbsp;IMO this heel is soooo comfortable, like all day walking comfortable.&nbsp;<div><br /></div> </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/shopping---what-i-saw-what-i-skipped-what-i-bought#post-2340978 Sat, 07 Oct 2023 12:56:20 +0000 Star (Lise) 2340978@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Love how you styled the pink sweater, perfect accessories IMO, not too matchy, the interesting belt.&nbsp; This seems to be your colour, when you feel like colour IYKWIM. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/shopping---what-i-saw-what-i-skipped-what-i-bought#post-2340947 Sat, 07 Oct 2023 01:33:20 +0000 Sally 2340947@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I think you made great decisions for what its worth. The red sweater was a good pick.&nbsp; I also liked the booties as they would look good with jeans and white pants and black pants which I think you wear.&nbsp; I like you are moving towards more slouchy styles due to body changes and just preference for comfort.&nbsp;&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/shopping---what-i-saw-what-i-skipped-what-i-bought#post-2340908 Fri, 06 Oct 2023 19:22:10 +0000 Style Fan 2340908@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Helena, the pink sweater looks gorgeous with the white jeans.&nbsp; Beautiful colour on you.&nbsp;&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/shopping---what-i-saw-what-i-skipped-what-i-bought#post-2340901 Fri, 06 Oct 2023 18:48:22 +0000 ChristelJ 2340901@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>The pink sweater is so very gorgeous. Everything you put on looks good on you, but sometimes something really jumps out and that sweater on you is one of my absolute favorites ever. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/shopping---what-i-saw-what-i-skipped-what-i-bought#post-2340890 Fri, 06 Oct 2023 17:42:41 +0000 unfrumped 2340890@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I like your thinking on this. </p> <p>I have a weakness for our TJMAXX , and have some of my BEST and WORST purchases there! So I have had to get more picky. </p> <p>It’s a complete treasure hunt, because of the jumble of brands and quality. </p> <p>I don’t use a real formal list, but do have things I look out for, including things that aren’t always showing up at regular retail. But I have to watch out for buying just a too in a color I like but don’t need the item. </p> <p>Also on shoes—I prefer real leather to the vinyl faux leather, and many are not real leather, but sometimes there’s a great find in a “ real” brand in leather. Plus sneakers can be good. . So I’d think about quality in things like boots, especially is something you’re really building outfits around and hoping for some durability. </p> <p>I understand about “ moving style”, but both ways. It’s a good question to ASK but just not the only question. And in addition to “ style” I include “ does it fill wardrobe holes”. I have a big- enough wardrobe in terms of numbers, but incredibly I still have a few events/ occasions that I have trouble dressing for, usually due completing a partial outfit, maybe change in proportions I really want to achieve, or how cool/ warm is weather.<br /> But it’s easier to just buy more random tops or sweaters, so I have to watch out. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/shopping---what-i-saw-what-i-skipped-what-i-bought#post-2340883 Fri, 06 Oct 2023 17:16:29 +0000 Katerina 2340883@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Helena, the raspberry sweater you kept is absolutely gorgeous on you, wow! It is the best of the pieces. You are soo good with colors and you have impeccable taste. The way you have worn it today is great. I love the powdery bag and belt with this outfit. Perfect combination. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/shopping---what-i-saw-what-i-skipped-what-i-bought#post-2340881 Fri, 06 Oct 2023 17:05:34 +0000 Angie 2340881@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p><b>Helena</b>, thumbs up on the decisions! They are sound, and make both logical and emotional sense.&nbsp;</p> <p>LOVE the way you styled the new sweater with white :)&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/shopping---what-i-saw-what-i-skipped-what-i-bought#post-2340814 Fri, 06 Oct 2023 12:53:18 +0000 Helena 2340814@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Okay here are my revised verdicts!</p> <p>1. <b>The red-adjacent sweater</b> (I'm going with light wine, or perhaps cranberry as the colour). 99% on return. I LOVE the colour and will keep an eye out for something that grabs me a little more in a similar shade. It's a good classic sweater to be sure - but I'd&nbsp; like to hold out for something that sparks a little more joy. I had considered doing an outfit lab with it before returning and I won't have time to return it until next week ... so if I doubt myself and have time, I'll do the outfit lab for fun if nothing else :D</p> <p>2. <b>The booties</b>. Pass on this pair but keep an open mind to the style (subtle western detail). I don't love buying shoes from this particular store because I like to be able to compare sizes and try different pairs, just to be sure about fit and comfort, and the nature of Winners is that they generally just have the one pair. Points well-taken about the beige, too - especially given our sloppy winters. A light boot NEEDS to be weather-proof.&nbsp;</p> <p>3. <b>The rest</b>. My verdicts stand. Wearing the rose-pink-raspberry sweater today! Yay! The long sleeves don't bother me btw ... I either tend to push them up as in the picture, or pull my sleeves down to cover my hands when it's cold - either way, these are fine for me, although I get why they could be an annoyance to others!</p> <p>4. <b>The "move style forward" issue</b>. I completely agree with the comments that this doesn't have to be a goal or priority. As Angie says, when things are working, milk it! That said, at this current time, with changes to my body, slight shifts in my style preferences, and me embracing newer silhouettes and trends (my way, of course), I do want to stick a toe outside my usual box, with slouchier fits and a little more detail. So <i>for me</i>, moving my style forward is a priority right now - but the point is well-taken that it doesn't have to be an exclusive focus, nor does it need to be anyone else's priority. It's just an option (and a good one for me for now )</p> <p>Thank you all for your thoughtful comments, helpful advice and positive encouragement. Appreciate you all so much! Hope this discussion is helpful for others too xx</p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/shopping---what-i-saw-what-i-skipped-what-i-bought#post-2340813 Fri, 06 Oct 2023 12:51:51 +0000 lyn67 2340813@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I agree, don't feel the urge to buy something which doesn't feel authentic for you! This been said, I would have skipped on the beige booties not because they are cowboy style but raher because they are beige. Of course it dependes what will you wear these with- but really you look so gorgeous head to toe in nr 9 (focusing on the booties with the jeans) that I wondered why do you need beige booties at all?&nbsp;<br />I do have beige (and white) booties but I am blonde and still don' t get using them that often--because:<br />- I like to match boots/booties with what I wear on my legs (pants or hosiery) for the maximum leg lengthening effect---OR/and<br />-I need to repeat the color somewhere else (other than my hair!).<br />I've learned the hard way somehow (because I kept trying...) but these rulles come from my guts somehow (my all times visual prefferences).&nbsp;<br />So I wear my beige booties only with tan hosiery and some lighter colored skirts (but it's rare cause I always preffer black matte sheers with darker booties in colder weather, and with some beige/brown plaid wide leg or cigarette pants. (Thus they can look great to white/cream jeans, too!).<br />OTOH a white (with some dark accents) bootie can be easier to do for me as I find white footwear giving a more energetic vibe to a sporty casual outfit, but that's probably only me.<br />Love both sweaters on you! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/shopping---what-i-saw-what-i-skipped-what-i-bought#post-2340801 Fri, 06 Oct 2023 12:19:00 +0000 RobinF 2340801@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Agree 100% with the pink sweater! Looks great on you. I also agree with other comments about the red looking more like a layering item so would it serve your intended purpose? I quite love the look of the boots and I am also not into cowboy looks. They seem quite toned down with the jeans and I love the toe shape peeking out. My personal hesitation would be, as Bijou said, the suede and keeping it clean.&nbsp;</p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/shopping---what-i-saw-what-i-skipped-what-i-bought#post-2340795 Fri, 06 Oct 2023 12:06:26 +0000 LaPed 2340795@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I love analysis posts like this! :)</p> <p>Agree that the pink sweater is the standout. If you have "basic long sleeve layering tops" on your list, keep the maroon turtleneck, but if you already feel set in that category, it's most likely going to split wears with something in your closet.&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/shopping---what-i-saw-what-i-skipped-what-i-bought#post-2340779 Fri, 06 Oct 2023 10:34:32 +0000 Minaminu 2340779@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Great analysis and brava for staying true to your colours and favourite styles! The pink jumper looks lovely but the sleeves seems to be a bit too long, would that be OK for you? Personally, I would press the pause button just to be sure it is the right one! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/shopping---what-i-saw-what-i-skipped-what-i-bought#post-2340772 Fri, 06 Oct 2023 10:21:07 +0000 Star (Lise) 2340772@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>All your decisions were spot on.&nbsp; I would keep the basic classic piece.&nbsp; Those are items I never intentionally look for yet are workhorses. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/shopping---what-i-saw-what-i-skipped-what-i-bought#post-2340738 Fri, 06 Oct 2023 02:33:18 +0000 Bijou 2340738@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I love the taupe booties which has a slight nod to a current trend. My only hesitation would be whether a light-coloured suede would get dirty too easily, suede is much harder to keep clean than leather. </p> <p>In terms of sweaters, the pink and red are the best and look great on you, whether you need to red is something only you can decide. Personally, I would lean to keeping it because it is a great colour on you, but I am someone who has two black sweaters (exactly the same basic sweater) because I like to know that one is on hand when required. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/shopping---what-i-saw-what-i-skipped-what-i-bought#post-2340737 Fri, 06 Oct 2023 01:55:20 +0000 Suz 2340737@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>My verdict is <b>Helena </b>knows herself and her style and knows what works well! The pink is fantastic on you! <b>LOVE!&nbsp;</p> <p></b>I like the raspberry one also but I think you can give it a pass for the reasons you have stated, unless you need it to create specific outfits. It feels like a "completer" piece and if it doesn't complete anything in a way you want, then pass.&nbsp;<b><br /></b> </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/shopping---what-i-saw-what-i-skipped-what-i-bought#post-2340730 Fri, 06 Oct 2023 01:21:16 +0000 Jaime 2340730@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>The boots don't read strongly cowboy to me - just a thought. The pink sweater is great on you, and so is the red - which doesn't really look exactly red to me. Agree with <b>SarahD8</b> about every item not needing to push you forward, you also need your favorite fallbacks to pair with your riskier choices. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/shopping---what-i-saw-what-i-skipped-what-i-bought#post-2340716 Fri, 06 Oct 2023 00:23:44 +0000 Kate 2340716@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>That pink is gorgeous on you, and I think your decisions on what to skip are spot on. While I quite liked the boots on you, for both the shape and shade, I feel the same about a cowboy style heel myself, so I understand why you passed. I'd listen to that feeling.&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/shopping---what-i-saw-what-i-skipped-what-i-bought#post-2340708 Thu, 05 Oct 2023 23:38:38 +0000 Anonymous 2340708@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I ran into that situaltion just the other day- good color, but meh style. Left it in the shop.</p> <p>It does depend on your pairings though! I personally like very simple tops in summer, cause my skirts are mostly patterned. But my pants are mostly black and plain. So my winter tops have to offset the plain pants. Now if you have a bunch of special toppers, it could be good to keep! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/shopping---what-i-saw-what-i-skipped-what-i-bought#post-2340704 Thu, 05 Oct 2023 23:23:57 +0000 Carla 2340704@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I like the red roll neck sweater (5) the pink one (6-7). &nbsp;Not crazy about the raspberry red one (8-9) when the others are so good (fit and colour) &nbsp;Would it serve a different purpose, or just split wears?</p> <p> </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/shopping---what-i-saw-what-i-skipped-what-i-bought#post-2340699 Thu, 05 Oct 2023 22:51:54 +0000 SarahD8 2340699@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I concur with your skips. Very good thinking! And the pink sweater is so lovely on you.</p> <p>As for the red maybe -- on my screen it looks like it leans a bit burgundy/magenta (ooh! trend alert!). It's simply a GORGEOUS color on you -- yes, just as excellent as the pink, IMO.</p> <p>I think it merits a bit of play in your closet. Does it expand the color palette of your more basic sweaters in a useful way? I am thinking that you like quiet, simple outfits -- but sometimes hanker for more brightness/fun, so a basic shape in a more assertive color could be just the ticket for those times, I think. (Kind of along the lines of the "push yourself out of your comfort zone on one dimension at a time" rule.) When might you choose it over something similar that you already own? Or, might it split wears in a useful way?</p> <p>I want to gently push back on the "moving one's style forward" language. I think asking if the pieces we bring in really serve what we want to be doing with our style is a good idea. But I quibble with the need for constant "progress." It's ok if some aspects of our style remain constant for some period of time (especially for folks who have a classic style probably!). We can revel in having found what works -- we don't always have to be Achieving Something New. You know? All that to say, if this kind of thing pleases you, don't feel like you need to change! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/shopping---what-i-saw-what-i-skipped-what-i-bought#post-2340686 Thu, 05 Oct 2023 22:05:16 +0000 Jonesy 2340686@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I love the deep pink sweater, and I think the pinkish-red turtleneck looks great too (on my monitor the two look very similar in color), but it's just a matter of figuring out if you will get a lot of use out of it (for layering, e.g.) and if it makes you happy. For me, practicality has to be wedded to happiness, otherwise I won't tend to reach for something. So, just today I was trying to decide between a cream-colored skirt, and the identical version in light gray (this was online). The light gray seemed much more practical, and I liked it (and put it in my cart) but then I tried to think hard about what I <b>really desired</b>, and it was the cream one (with a practicality boost via Oxyclean, if needed :), so I swapped them out.&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/shopping---what-i-saw-what-i-skipped-what-i-bought#post-2340683 Thu, 05 Oct 2023 21:44:27 +0000 Helena 2340683@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Oooh the plot thickens! Thanks for your feedback Angie! I'll sleep on the sweater and maybe try it with wider jeans as Jules suggests. And maybe will take another peek at the boots ... or if I missed my chance, stay open minded to the style. Thank you! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/shopping---what-i-saw-what-i-skipped-what-i-bought#post-2340677 Thu, 05 Oct 2023 21:27:35 +0000 Angie 2340677@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>OOOH! Thanks for sharing. Fun to see, <b>Helena!</b></p> <p><u>My two cents:</u></p> <p>I'd need to see the boots with more pairs of your jeans. Initial impressions are thumbs up! Iconic classic. I know you passed. I vote keep on your radar, though ;)</p> <p>LOVE the cherry pink sweater on you! KILLER - <i>provided the sleeve length does not interfere with life.</i>&nbsp;</p> <p>I love a basic t-neck, personally. Fab with more hectic pants and jeans - which I wear a lot. (I wear quiet on top and loud on the botton quite a bit). They layer beautifully under coats too. Always look classic, equestrian and tidy. SOOOOOOOO, something to think about.&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/shopping---what-i-saw-what-i-skipped-what-i-bought#post-2340675 Thu, 05 Oct 2023 21:14:36 +0000 Jules 2340675@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Alternately it might work great with wider jeans? </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/shopping---what-i-saw-what-i-skipped-what-i-bought#post-2340670 Thu, 05 Oct 2023 21:08:32 +0000 slim cat 2340670@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Love pink slightly chunky sweater - adorable on you! Booties are nice.<br />Deep red sweater - nice color and fit ( I'd keep &nbsp;). </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/shopping---what-i-saw-what-i-skipped-what-i-bought#post-2340668 Thu, 05 Oct 2023 21:02:29 +0000 Helena 2340668@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Thank you so much for your input and kind comments! Dee, you've kind of put your finger on it with the "move it forward" question ... and Jules that's sucj a great point that this feels more like a layering piece in this fashion era ... hmm leaning towards returning ... will have to sleep on it! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/shopping---what-i-saw-what-i-skipped-what-i-bought#post-2340667 Thu, 05 Oct 2023 20:43:01 +0000 Jules 2340667@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I think good quality basics in a favourite colour are more than basic. But looking at this top I feel it’s a layering item as it’s maybe a bit fitted for current styling, but I don’t think you usually wear a blazer or other topper? Would be great under a black or grey blazer maybe? The pink has more slouch so it works as a standalone piece. </p>