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				<title>Jilly on "Shop wide/shop focused- which are you?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 15 Feb 2012 15:59:50 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Jilly</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I'm definitely a shop wide kind of girl.  I'm also like Beth Ann in that, if there's a piede I'm really wanting, I will keep track of it, and try to nab it when I'm on sale.  I'm also a big sale shopper - hate paying full price for anything.  Fun thread!
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				<title>Anonymous on "Shop wide/shop focused- which are you?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 15 Feb 2012 15:25:01 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I'm doing better with shopping with a list. I'm always open to something that's *not* on my list, though. Last Saturday I went to Goodwill looking for a bright jacket, a yellow skinny belt and a neutral skirt. I came away with a white jacket (also good) and a summer top (which I always need). Hey, it was Goodwill, and it always cracks me up when they ask, &#034;Did you find everything ok?&#034; Just like the commercial!
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				<title>beachgirl on "Shop wide/shop focused- which are you?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 15 Feb 2012 13:34:10 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I'm trying to be more focused searching for additions that really compliment what I already have in my wardrobe or need for a special event.  Otherwise, I tend to come home with  lots of impulse items that aren't very versatile.
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				<title>Mander on "Shop wide/shop focused- which are you?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 15 Feb 2012 12:47:37 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I tend to just wander around looking for things that catch my eye, but I often also have a vague list in my head.  However, if I am after something specific I can just pop in and out of stores in very quick succession -- if I don't see anything that looks like what I want, then I don't even look at anything else.  &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Unless, of course, I get distracted by a clearance sale rack... my favorite!!   <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-wink icon-emoticon-wink "></span> 
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				<title>jayne on "Shop wide/shop focused- which are you?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 15 Feb 2012 05:50:50 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>jayne</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;so good to hear I am not alone with some of you doing the same thing!  Hmm, guess it is partly due to the fact that I now actually make a list (which I didn't do before) and am finding out about a new part of my personality.  Life is learning  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-smile icon-emoticon-smile "></span> 
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				<title>nicoleb on "Shop wide/shop focused- which are you?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 15 Feb 2012 01:47:37 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;It's easier for me to stay focused if i'm shopping online. Send me to the store and i'm all sorts of distracted. I try to internet &#034;pre-shop&#034; but a lot of times stores to seem to stock what they sell online and then i just end up irritated.  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-sad icon-emoticon-sad "></span> 
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				<title>Jewell on "Shop wide/shop focused- which are you?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 15 Feb 2012 01:28:45 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Jewell</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I am more focused since joining YLF, but I still have a hard time resisting the allure of a sale. Just this weekend I went to the mall with my &#034;list&#034;, and I came out with two items from the list and a top (not on the list) that was on clearance. The same thing happened last weekend- went to the mall for a pearl necklace, and came out with that plus a pair of pants that were on sale.
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				<title>catgirl on "Shop wide/shop focused- which are you?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 15 Feb 2012 01:11:32 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>catgirl</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Just like my eyesight - one eye farsighted, one nearsighted.  So I shop EVERYTHING!
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				<title>Jjsloane on "Shop wide/shop focused- which are you?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 15 Feb 2012 01:07:51 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;BethAnn we are separated at birth! My exact MO. I need to constantly look. I prefer bargain (off price) shopping so I can't really be 100% focused and have to be open to an opportunity, but that is why I have way too much stuff right now.
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				<title>Beth Ann on "Shop wide/shop focused- which are you?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 15 Feb 2012 01:04:19 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Beth Ann</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I'm a creative type -- rather like a golden retriever (squirrel?).  Over the years, though, I've learned the value of &#034;reconnaissance shopping.&#034;  I will case out my favorite stores when I get an opportunity and make a note (sometimes in ink, sometimes just a mental note) for later.  For example, I'm watching for a new chambray jacket at Kohls to go on sale.  I'll track the price online before I buy.  I have to see and feel every black sweater before I know which ones I want to try on.  The good news?  I'm fast -- I can case a Gap in 10 minutes, easy.  I also don't buy on impulse.  I do have a list of items that will be functional in my wardrobe.  This technique keeps from from being frustrated when I don't find the exact item I'm looking for.  Needless to say, I frustrate the heck out my &#034;focused shopper&#034; friends!
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				<title>Aziraphale on "Shop wide/shop focused- which are you?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 14 Feb 2012 22:27:07 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Aziraphale</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I head out the door focused but get easily distracted by lovely things that are not on my list!
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				<title>rae on "Shop wide/shop focused- which are you?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 14 Feb 2012 22:19:51 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I'm in the middle. I try to be focused, but I need to have a list, otherwise the most insistent need is all that clangs around in my head. I have to save favorite searches on Ebay to remind me I'm looking for certain items sometimes. I'll also store a list in the memo pad of my phone.
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				<title>Isabel on "Shop wide/shop focused- which are you?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 14 Feb 2012 22:05:55 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Isabel</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I am totally shop/item focused. If I go looking for a white shirt, I just can't handle looking at anything else.  I am just not mentally prepared for it. This is one of the reasons that I have some trouble with &#034;waiting&#034; for the right piece. If I am not actively searching, I am too myopic, most times, to &#034;catch of glimpse of it&#034; while doing something else.  This is a plus in personal relationships, though !      ; )
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				<title>shoppingisfun on "Shop wide/shop focused- which are you?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 14 Feb 2012 21:55:42 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I try to have a plan, otherwise I just end up buying things I don't need. However, I'm always tempted to buy lots of things that aren't on my &#034;list&#034; as well.
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				<title>biscuitsmom on "Shop wide/shop focused- which are you?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 14 Feb 2012 21:55:03 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I always try and find something that Ive been looking for/focused on, then skim the entire store before I leave! What if you miss the perfect item you didnt know you NEEDED ???   <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-smile icon-emoticon-smile "></span> 
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				<title>HelenInCanada on "Shop wide/shop focused- which are you?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 14 Feb 2012 21:22:27 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>HelenInCanada</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Oh my goodness, I just saw the rest of the thread now!  Thank you so much, Sarah and Jayne.  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-biggrin icon-emoticon-biggrin "></span>    My hair is usually very wavy/curly, so it's quite a change!  Let's see if I can keep up the stylist's perfection long-term...haha!&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Jayne, I don't think it's to do with age - maybe you're becoming more focused because you were unhappy with the haphazard way of shopping you did in your younger years.  It's so frustrating to end up with a closet full of things you don't truly need!  Being extra selective is a good thing!  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-smile icon-emoticon-smile "></span> 
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				<title>jayne on "Shop wide/shop focused- which are you?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 14 Feb 2012 20:32:18 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>jayne</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I agree, Helen's hair is lovely!
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				<title>jayne on "Shop wide/shop focused- which are you?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 14 Feb 2012 20:31:19 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>jayne</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Problem is that I am pretty tunnel visioned on only one thing at a time.  Like I also need/want to add some printed blouses in the wardrobe but they get forgotten.  Should I blame age? I admit in the earlier years I never had a plan so all shopping was just browsing til something caught my eye,  having a plan is new.
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				<title>sarah on "Shop wide/shop focused- which are you?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 14 Feb 2012 20:29:41 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>sarah</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I'm so busy with work and kids that I'm always quite focused when I shop - I feel like I have very little time for browsing, even online. I wish it weren't that way...&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Helen - I like your hair!
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				<title>HelenInCanada on "Shop wide/shop focused- which are you?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 14 Feb 2012 20:18:13 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>HelenInCanada</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Aha - you're tunnel-visioned!  That can be a great thing, since it can help you quickly fill your wardrobe holes!&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;For me, I'd say I cast a wide net.  I know there are certain items I need to purchase, but when I'm out and about, or browsing online sites, I gravitate toward interesting or fun pieces that just catch my eye (whether I can afford them at that time or not, is another story...lol!)  I do tend to veer off course pretty easily!  Need to be more disciplined about that, but let's face it...shopping is fun.  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-biggrin icon-emoticon-biggrin "></span> 
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				<title>Anonymous on "Shop wide/shop focused- which are you?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 14 Feb 2012 20:09:13 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I do both but do best when focused, especially when shopping thrift or consignment stores or places like Marshalls
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				<title>jayne on "Shop wide/shop focused- which are you?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 14 Feb 2012 20:05:19 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I have noticed that I am obsessed with finding orange skinnies now and so it feels like the only thing I am looking for when out shopping even though I actually have a few other things on my list.  I almost feel this keeps me from seeing other possibilities cuz I just want to look for orange!  &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I wonder if the part of my brain giving over to shopping plans is just not big enough,,,hmmm, maybe I need to reallocate from other areas no longer needed..can purge the brain,,,like I should NOT need to know how to change a diaper for a few more years...can that be filtered out for more 'what I need' in my closet brain storage?
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