https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/shannons-simplicity-search-post-5---getting-real Style Advice for Fashion Lovers en-US Wed, 29 Apr 2026 00:09:54 +0000 http://bbpress.org/?v=1.0.2 q https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/search.php https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/shannons-simplicity-search-post-5---getting-real/page/2#post-1304985 Wed, 16 Jul 2014 12:20:55 +0000 donnat 1304985@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Sorry to hear about Mr. S 's job hours. That really seems so unfair. As others have said, you do seem up for the challenge. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/shannons-simplicity-search-post-5---getting-real/page/2#post-1304981 Wed, 16 Jul 2014 12:16:52 +0000 viva 1304981@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>It's as if you have been preparing for this in some way ... I think you are in the perfect position to handle this challenge, Shannon. You've been leading us all in the charge toward simplicity -- paring down, working with what you have ... if anyone can handle this kind of thing right now, it is you. I look forward to your continued gorgeousness over the coming weeks and months.</p> <p>Best wishes to DH. Can be so hard on the psyche and ego to deal with this kind of news and change. I'll be thinking of you both. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/shannons-simplicity-search-post-5---getting-real#post-1304977 Wed, 16 Jul 2014 12:13:13 +0000 Sveta 1304977@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Shannon, I am so sorry to hear about your husband;s job! Best luck to him in dealing with this situation.<br />On the other hand I really admire your attitude and optimism here, way to go girl!<br />I am sure you will have enough fun playing in your existing superb wardrobe and refining your style. Yay for simplicity! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/shannons-simplicity-search-post-5---getting-real#post-1304967 Wed, 16 Jul 2014 12:03:33 +0000 Joyce B 1304967@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>You have a great plan in spite of it all.<br /> The economy is not good anywhere and I very much agree with your comment about the people who make the bad decisions in the companies and don't have any financial repercussions but rather hand those down the chain. Not everyone gets the golden parachute. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/shannons-simplicity-search-post-5---getting-real#post-1304910 Wed, 16 Jul 2014 09:44:10 +0000 lyn67 1304910@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I'm sorry for the bad news, Shannon:-(, but then you can try to see it in an optimistic way, as it's a great challenge! You already&nbsp;have a beautiful wardrobe and even with losing the weight you want&nbsp;I'm sure you'll find a way to&nbsp;make it further work for fab&nbsp;You! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/shannons-simplicity-search-post-5---getting-real#post-1304901 Wed, 16 Jul 2014 09:15:31 +0000 Jaime 1304901@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>As usual your wonderful attitude is too bright to be dimmed by any unfair challenge life brings. You will manage beautifully and good luck! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/shannons-simplicity-search-post-5---getting-real#post-1304704 Wed, 16 Jul 2014 02:26:10 +0000 Gigi 1304704@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I'm really sorry to hear about your husband's news. And yes, it is so frustrating when the higher-ups don't have to suffer the consequences of the changes. Grr.</p> <p>I agree that it's a good thing that you've already been heading down the simplicity track. And I wholeheartedly agree that it's a good idea to wait until your clothes are not fitting before you buy more. A style change can come without warning, and it would be a pity for you to buy clothes at your target weight only to find that you aren't interested in that style anymore. Also, buying clothes when the old ones don't fit will then feel like a reward for a job well done. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/shannons-simplicity-search-post-5---getting-real#post-1304691 Wed, 16 Jul 2014 02:19:14 +0000 Jenava 1304691@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Well, that's a bummer!&nbsp; But, I think you'll fit into your old things for quite a while, if you're losing weight in a healthy way.&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/shannons-simplicity-search-post-5---getting-real#post-1304658 Wed, 16 Jul 2014 01:51:47 +0000 Transcona Shannon 1304658@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Mo - all of my EF pieces I purchased lately were from eBay. I would not have been able to afford them otherwise. </p> <p>Dana - thanks for the WW boost! I'm a life time member and have been very successful with it in the past. Just gotta get back on track.</p> <p>Deb - I'm not sure yet if DH is going to look for something else. His field is fairly limited in my hometown. I think right now he's just trying to absorb what is happening.</p> <p>Thank you all so much for your support. We've been through tough times before and have always come out the other side better for it and still holding hands. </p> <p>In a strange way the situation is making me even more interested in how I proceed with my fall wardrobe and simplicity project. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/shannons-simplicity-search-post-5---getting-real#post-1304635 Wed, 16 Jul 2014 01:29:28 +0000 Deborah 1304635@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Shannon sorry to hear about the situation with DH's job. We are seeing a lot of this type of thing here too. My organisation has just announced a restructure within our HR department and as I understand it, all staff will have to reapply for their jobs but there are less jobs! Is your DH considering looking for something else? I am sure you will get through this with your usual grace and will find there is a silver lining. Sending good thoughts for both your wardrobe evolution and the work situation. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/shannons-simplicity-search-post-5---getting-real#post-1304500 Tue, 15 Jul 2014 23:05:39 +0000 Meredith 1304500@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Sorry to hear this news but impressed by your attitude if perseverance and problem solving. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/shannons-simplicity-search-post-5---getting-real#post-1304493 Tue, 15 Jul 2014 22:56:54 +0000 Caro in Oz 1304493@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Big hugs to you. Sorry to hear about Mr S's job, change is hard,&nbsp;it may be the start of something different &amp; exciting though!!</p> <p>Agreeing with the others - you really seem to have your head around where you are going &amp; what you need to do style wise.&nbsp;</p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/shannons-simplicity-search-post-5---getting-real#post-1304391 Tue, 15 Jul 2014 21:08:51 +0000 Sal 1304391@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>That is tough. &nbsp;Sorry to hear that news.</p> <p> </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/shannons-simplicity-search-post-5---getting-real#post-1304349 Tue, 15 Jul 2014 20:37:29 +0000 Lisa 1304349@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Sorry to hear about the workplace, and I agree, it's tough to understand cost cutting measures because they often look one sided. &nbsp;At least you are already on track to managing your wardrobe. &nbsp;And while you loose weight and don't shop you have a great opportunity to figure out what you will want your style to be with your new figure. &nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/shannons-simplicity-search-post-5---getting-real#post-1304204 Tue, 15 Jul 2014 18:29:20 +0000 goldenpig 1304204@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Sorry to hear the news about your husband's job hours Shannon. Great that you were already in the process of simplifying. And congrats on restarting the Weight Watchers. Your positive mindset will help you deal with any sartorial challenges ahead! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/shannons-simplicity-search-post-5---getting-real#post-1304181 Tue, 15 Jul 2014 18:13:59 +0000 Elizabeth P 1304181@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Sorry to hear this Shannon.&nbsp; I'ts a good thing you were already in the right mindset to make changes to your purchasing and general wardrobe habits - I know for me, being told I HAVE to do something often sends me in the total opposite direction.&nbsp; Best of luck, and you know we are all here to vent to! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/shannons-simplicity-search-post-5---getting-real#post-1304038 Tue, 15 Jul 2014 16:06:17 +0000 Susie 1304038@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Oh, Shannon, that IS distressing news. It sounds like you are prepared for the challenges that a reduced income will bring. You have a great attitude and I have no doubt that you will be successful in your journey to simplify, to lose weight, and to continue looking fab while maintaining a more strict budget. Best to you! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/shannons-simplicity-search-post-5---getting-real#post-1304009 Tue, 15 Jul 2014 15:49:16 +0000 Ingunn 1304009@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Shannon, I'm so sorry to hear this! I completely agree with you: Management should lead by example first of all. It is known that it never is the boss who takes the loss.&nbsp;</p> <p>I' sure you will float on top of this one, too, Shannon. I admire your ability to stay optimistic, and I think you have every reason to look at the next few months as a challenge you can handle with ease. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/shannons-simplicity-search-post-5---getting-real#post-1304001 Tue, 15 Jul 2014 15:40:28 +0000 Mary Beth (formerly LBD) 1304001@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Ah, Shannon, I am sorry to hear this &nbsp; &nbsp;I think you are definitely in a good mindset moving forward with your wardrobe and outlook on purchases. &nbsp; On the brighter side, you are so inventive and creative - I think that you may find a greater level of appreciation and enjoyment for what you have, and you will treasure those affordable little finds all the more when you come across them &nbsp;:) </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/shannons-simplicity-search-post-5---getting-real#post-1303990 Tue, 15 Jul 2014 15:27:56 +0000 Isabel 1303990@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>oh no, I am so sorry to hear this. &nbsp;You are so right, it seems that the employees are always the "discretionary" corners that can be cut but the people who should be accountable do so by afflicting others. &nbsp; : &nbsp;(&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/shannons-simplicity-search-post-5---getting-real#post-1303979 Tue, 15 Jul 2014 15:20:22 +0000 Suz 1303979@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Shannon, so sorry to hear about Mr. S's job situation. That is upsetting! But you are well prepared. It's going to be a new adventure for you going forward. Your closet is in super shape already and your mindfulness about what your purchasing will stand you in very good stead.&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/shannons-simplicity-search-post-5---getting-real#post-1303958 Tue, 15 Jul 2014 14:54:09 +0000 amiable 1303958@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Scary and sad news (the company I work for&nbsp;is also&nbsp;in financially rough territory, so I feel your nervousness). &nbsp;<br />But you have a terrific attitude, and you can do this!</p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/shannons-simplicity-search-post-5---getting-real#post-1303950 Tue, 15 Jul 2014 14:46:37 +0000 Anonymous 1303950@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Oh Shannon, what a bummer! Thank goodness for the oversized trend, right? I'll bet this challenge only strengthens your resolve to cut out the fat (no pun intended) and buckle down. As you and your wardrobe both slim down, I know you will purchase fewer and better and love the difference. Good luck! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/shannons-simplicity-search-post-5---getting-real#post-1303939 Tue, 15 Jul 2014 14:38:48 +0000 unfrumped 1303939@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>So sorry to hear about DH's work situation!<br />I think you've got some brilliant basics + some statement pieces and are so good at re-mixing that you will do well. And many of your new pieces are tolerant of different weights, either with some belting or with the structure of a jacket or vest worn over, so keep that in mind--that is part of their value and versatility, I think. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/shannons-simplicity-search-post-5---getting-real#post-1303927 Tue, 15 Jul 2014 14:27:55 +0000 Dana 1303927@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Sorry to hear about your news. You have great style, so you'll do great with your clothes during your transitions. Congrats on deciding to do ww! It's a challenge, but you seem to have a really good attitude, so I'm sure you'll do great. (Oh, I say this from a been there done that place.) I'm good at losing weight but not maintaining it. I'm doing a Beach Body program, trying to create some lasting habits. Remember, knits are your friend during weight loss, and keeping tops untucked during your weight loss helps hide the waists that will get too big quickly. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/shannons-simplicity-search-post-5---getting-real#post-1303909 Tue, 15 Jul 2014 14:11:24 +0000 Neel 1303909@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Sorry about your frustrating situation Shannon. Argh ... But I see that you are ready to kick butt. You rock :)</p> <p>I love your strategy and lean on us when you need us to enable or disable. Like I had to say that! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/shannons-simplicity-search-post-5---getting-real#post-1303907 Tue, 15 Jul 2014 14:07:23 +0000 Mo 1303907@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Bummer news, but you are primed to deal with it. &nbsp;This is sort of what I'm looking at, reduced income very soon. &nbsp;I have a few strategic items to get in place before we move back and need to look for work. &nbsp;As for sale/eBay shopping, it's not so bad! &nbsp;I do 90% of my shopping this way. It does take more time, and patience, but it can be done and you can find lovely things. &nbsp;You just have to keep your eye on the prize and not let low prices make you buy what you would not otherwise.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/shannons-simplicity-search-post-5---getting-real#post-1303901 Tue, 15 Jul 2014 14:03:46 +0000 jackiec 1303901@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>That sounds so frustrating! I'm glad that you are already so focused with a clear-cut plan of action. Things have a way of working out. Good thoughts coming your way.... </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/shannons-simplicity-search-post-5---getting-real#post-1303863 Tue, 15 Jul 2014 13:30:24 +0000 Kimberley 1303863@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Hi Shannon ~ <br />I'm sorry to hear this news about your husband's work... we have been in similar situations before and I completely agree with your "amazement" re the decisions of higher ups.&nbsp; And I&nbsp;must tell you how much I&nbsp;admire your unfailingly&nbsp;positive attitude and your ability to roll with the punches!&nbsp; You're awesome! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/shannons-simplicity-search-post-5---getting-real#post-1303861 Tue, 15 Jul 2014 13:29:59 +0000 Janet 1303861@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>My thoughts were the same as torontogirl -- what a good thing you're already on a track to pare down! Best wishes to your husband for persevering in that work environment. </p> <p>Keep on rocking the path you're on. As you can see from my recent threads, you're inspiring me! </p>