https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/second-date-report Style Advice for Fashion Lovers en-US Sat, 02 May 2026 16:14:56 +0000 http://bbpress.org/?v=1.0.2 q https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/search.php https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/second-date-report#post-748505 Mon, 15 Oct 2012 16:17:44 +0000 Anonymous 748505@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Once a month? What is that? OK, Neeeeext. You are too awesome for this! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/second-date-report#post-740861 Sat, 06 Oct 2012 03:58:47 +0000 Caro in Oz 740861@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Imo friends, male or female, are there for you when you need them. I don't see this person in that role. What's with the once a month? </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/second-date-report#post-736408 Mon, 01 Oct 2012 23:48:25 +0000 rachylou 736408@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p><em>he expected me to bash them on the head with a big stone.</em></p> <p>Shut up! No way! That is way too funny, ohmigosh! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/second-date-report#post-736192 Mon, 01 Oct 2012 19:47:06 +0000 RoseandJoan 736192@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Once a month, you would see your hairdresser once a month not your beau.</p> <p>If it makes you feel any better Anna, I was once taken on a date to a fish farm, he caught the trout and he expected me to bash them on the head with a big stone. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/second-date-report#post-735990 Mon, 01 Oct 2012 16:58:39 +0000 rachylou 735990@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Lol. This guy is kinda a hoot. He's like your own personal Wayne's World. He's not married. He just has a crazy girlfriend named Staceee who won't go away and gives him gun racks for his birthday. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/second-date-report#post-735701 Mon, 01 Oct 2012 05:33:21 +0000 Sylvie 735701@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Agreeing with everyone else. Why bother building a friendship with someone whom (so far) doesn't seem to have any redeeming qualities? You're not attracted to him. You already have a fabulous friend circle.</p> <p>Yeah, I know I'm a little harsh but there are only so many hours in a day. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/second-date-report#post-735614 Mon, 01 Oct 2012 02:25:26 +0000 Jonesy 735614@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Hmmm. Sounds like a dud. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/second-date-report#post-735525 Mon, 01 Oct 2012 00:09:07 +0000 Anonymous 735525@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Sorry things got weirder. I think you gave it a good try, and I think this is a dead end. Someone better is out there. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/second-date-report#post-735471 Sun, 30 Sep 2012 23:03:27 +0000 Transcona Shannon 735471@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Once a month? That's just weird. Something ain't right there Anna - I think I'd be calling it quits. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/second-date-report#post-735361 Sun, 30 Sep 2012 20:03:13 +0000 Irene 735361@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>He doesn't like/understand art (yet you love it), he smokes pot (deal breaker to me too), he's cheap (you don't seem to be cheap), he ONLY wants to see you once a month (although, supposedly, he's interested in you in a romantic way) and you don't find him attractive. I'm not even sure that guy is worth your friendship! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/second-date-report#post-735296 Sun, 30 Sep 2012 17:44:48 +0000 Angie 735296@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>At least things are crystal clear now, Anna. This is not a love interest. No need to ponder this relationship any more than what it is worth to you. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/second-date-report#post-735225 Sun, 30 Sep 2012 15:33:46 +0000 Janet 735225@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Trust your instincts and don't waste time if you're not attracted to him. You deserve WAY better! I know there is someone truly worthy of you out there. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/second-date-report#post-735171 Sun, 30 Sep 2012 14:01:57 +0000 Anonymous 735171@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Next! : ) </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/second-date-report#post-735156 Sun, 30 Sep 2012 12:58:21 +0000 cheryle (Dianthus) 735156@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Whoever said a good man is hard to find was very right. You have to sift through a lot of chafe to get to the wheat but when you do, it is worth it. With any luck, you will enjoy the dates with the wrong ones while you find the right one.</p> <p>You gave it a shot. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/second-date-report#post-735093 Sun, 30 Sep 2012 09:08:36 +0000 Deborah 735093@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Oh Anna, this doesn't sound good. I'm not sure I would even be pursuing a friendship with this guy. He doesn't sound like he is good enough for you. There is someone much better suited to you out there. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/second-date-report#post-735060 Sun, 30 Sep 2012 05:02:59 +0000 kellygirl 735060@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Huh? is right. I wouldn't waste any time ditching that relationship. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/second-date-report#post-735047 Sun, 30 Sep 2012 03:34:34 +0000 MsMary 735047@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Pearls before swine, baby. Pearls before swine! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/second-date-report#post-735013 Sun, 30 Sep 2012 01:55:44 +0000 Jaime 735013@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>He is not worthy. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/second-date-report#post-735002 Sun, 30 Sep 2012 01:34:17 +0000 Ann in New England 735002@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>OK, you don't know me and I don't know you, but I"m going to throw this out there, even though it's crazy and you may hate me forever. I read your first date report shortly after you posted. I heard a few warning bells go off, regarding his living situation. Now they are going off even louder, with his desire to see you about once a month. So I'm just going to put this out there ... are you sure he's not married? </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/second-date-report#post-734992 Sun, 30 Sep 2012 00:55:17 +0000 Nicole D 734992@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Pot smoking reduces sperm count. And sex drive. I'm just sayin'...... </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/second-date-report#post-734987 Sun, 30 Sep 2012 00:46:59 +0000 JR 734987@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Yeah. Huh? Well, at least you know what direction you want to head with him. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/second-date-report#post-734976 Sun, 30 Sep 2012 00:15:15 +0000 annagybe 734976@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Well we had lunch and did actually go to the Seattle Art Museum. Today was free museum day so that appealed to his cheapskate side. A lot of the galleries were closed due to preparations for an upcoming exhibit. He wasn't as bad as I thought about art, but just doesn't like modern art, especially abstract.<br /> He wants to see me about once a month. Huh? But I have huge reservations. I'm just not attracted to him. Plus he smokes pot which as far a relationship is a deal breaker for me. If he's fine with friends that's OK though. </p>