https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/savaged Style Advice for Fashion Lovers en-US Fri, 24 Apr 2026 15:42:41 +0000 http://bbpress.org/?v=1.0.2 q https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/search.php https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/savaged#post-1498232 Fri, 29 May 2015 16:55:24 +0000 Isabel 1498232@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>"Savaged" is a good descriptor. &nbsp;I am so sorry. &nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/savaged#post-1497775 Thu, 28 May 2015 18:12:46 +0000 Debbie 1497775@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Please update when you can. It helps to put it out there. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/savaged#post-1497703 Thu, 28 May 2015 16:28:02 +0000 Elle 1497703@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>What a tough time you've had.&nbsp; Don't apologize for writing about it - many people on the forum have dealt with the major stress of aging and ill parents.&nbsp; It helps to share.&nbsp; And reading about fashion can be a wonderful respite.&nbsp;&nbsp; </p> <p>Let us know what happens.&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/savaged#post-1497565 Thu, 28 May 2015 09:14:33 +0000 Ledonna N. 1497565@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I grieve with you and pray for your renewed strength. Take all of the time you need. My dear momma passed not to long ago from the devastation know as cancer. I know what it takes to just keep going. We are here for you even if you just want to look. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/savaged#post-1496659 Tue, 26 May 2015 15:18:57 +0000 Beth Ann 1496659@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>So sorry you have had such a challenging year.&nbsp; I hope, in the midst of the crisis, you have friends and family who will come alongside and help replenish your energy.&nbsp; Making time to recharge can be difficult, but so important to continuing to care and love for the long haul.</p> <p>Blessings and prayers coming your way! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/savaged#post-1496651 Tue, 26 May 2015 15:08:45 +0000 texstyle 1496651@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Really sorry to hear it and sending the best thoughts your way. I hope you can get a little distraction with YLF -- sometimes it's just good to read about someone else when our own lives are presenting such challenges. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/savaged#post-1496650 Tue, 26 May 2015 15:08:27 +0000 Janet 1496650@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I'm so sorry for all you've been through -- I know it must be incredibly painful and exhausting. Sending hugs and good thoughts for happier times to come. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/savaged#post-1496593 Tue, 26 May 2015 13:34:15 +0000 Helena 1496593@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>So sorry to hear this ... sending positive thoughts and prayers to you and yours. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/savaged#post-1496536 Tue, 26 May 2015 10:25:57 +0000 Summer 1496536@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>So sorry to hear that you've had such a tough time, Clara. &nbsp;Take care, and feel free to use us as a sounding board when things get too much. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/savaged#post-1496477 Tue, 26 May 2015 04:45:33 +0000 Eliza 1496477@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Hang in there. Many of us understand how all consuming these major illnesses are. Wish you the best as you support others and hope you can save a bit of care for yourself, also. It can help, yet it takes an effort to get it on "the list". </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/savaged#post-1496391 Tue, 26 May 2015 00:30:21 +0000 donnat 1496391@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Clara, I am so sorry for the challenges you have had this past year. Huggs and love to you and your family. I am glad posting gave you some small release and am happy we could all be here for you. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/savaged#post-1496385 Tue, 26 May 2015 00:16:31 +0000 Angie 1496385@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Oh, Clara. I know what its like to have a parent ill with cancer - visiting doctor after doctor, and having treatment after treatment. It's very emotionally draining. My heart goes out to you. You are a wonderful daughter. We are here to support you if and when you need it. Much love to you.&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/savaged#post-1496354 Mon, 25 May 2015 23:20:51 +0000 Caro in Oz 1496354@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>So sorry Clara that's way too much to deal with at once - big hugs. Hope the rest of the year brings you some peace &amp; joy. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/savaged#post-1496349 Mon, 25 May 2015 23:02:57 +0000 rachylou 1496349@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Clara! My goodness. I'm so sorry. When my dad passed away, well he was three months in hospital first. It was supposed to be a three DAY thing... The exhaustion was incredible... A mental break and being able to think about something else - I mean, I hear you about relief... </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/savaged#post-1496209 Mon, 25 May 2015 18:14:03 +0000 Suz 1496209@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Clara, I'm so sorry that you've been having such a dreadful time. What an awful long haul for you. Really glad you reached out here. Wishing you peace and strength.&nbsp;</p> <p> </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/savaged#post-1496207 Mon, 25 May 2015 17:59:13 +0000 claracluck 1496207@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Thanks ladies you don't know what it means to just write it down in words/text because my partners family don't talk to any body on the outside about it .to tell you is such a relief but also quite grim reading. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/savaged#post-1496191 Mon, 25 May 2015 17:39:08 +0000 Anonymous 1496191@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Oh, I'm so sorry, what an awful time for you all. It's nice to have you back on YLF and&nbsp; you should just come and go as you need us.</p> <p>&nbsp;Both my parents are in their mid to late 80's and my MIL 90 this year. I keep wondering when the peace will be shattered... </p> <p>((hugs to you))</p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/savaged#post-1496184 Mon, 25 May 2015 17:15:15 +0000 Kim 1496184@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Claracluck, I'm sorry for all the struggles you are going through right now. &nbsp;Don't apologize. We get it. &nbsp;</p> <p>We are here (in your phone when you need us to find a little "light" relief. &nbsp;</p> <p>((((ClaraCluck and family))))</p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/savaged#post-1496117 Mon, 25 May 2015 15:02:50 +0000 claracluck 1496117@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Many times I hAve written this post and scrapped it,but I feel I owe some kind of explanation for my absence.i couldn't, think of a title but that's how I feel ,my family has been savaged by a beast.<br /> My lovely mum inlaw was diagnosed with cancer ( terminal) in March 2014 and has been having maintaining treatment which has now come to an end,also my father in law was diagnosed with lung cancer in July 2014 but he passed away feb 15 this year.so In between hospital treatments DDs exams and funerals I haven't had much time to post.<br /> I have to say it's been a roller-coaster 12months but lurking on ylf has kept me going and reading posts about other ylfers aging parents has been very helpful.<br /> Thank you for reading this far on a positive note lLast minute visits to hospitals and funerals I have always had something to wear so one last thing to worry about.plus I've gotten round to getting a new iPhone so will hopefully be posting more wiws. </p>