https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/rut-rut-rutty-rut-rut Style Advice for Fashion Lovers en-US Wed, 29 Apr 2026 01:53:26 +0000 http://bbpress.org/?v=1.0.2 q https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/search.php https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/rut-rut-rutty-rut-rut/page/2#post-2078798 Wed, 20 Nov 2019 20:14:06 +0000 Jenn 2078798@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Nemosmom, it was a great exercise! Here’s how it looks with everything put back. Quite a difference. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/rut-rut-rutty-rut-rut/page/2#post-2078795 Wed, 20 Nov 2019 19:44:40 +0000 nemosmom 2078795@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>That sounds like a really helpful exercise and great way to determine your direction! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/rut-rut-rutty-rut-rut/page/2#post-2078792 Wed, 20 Nov 2019 19:25:05 +0000 Janet 2078792@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>That sounds fun and productive, Jenn! Let us know if you find anything good. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/rut-rut-rutty-rut-rut/page/2#post-2078789 Wed, 20 Nov 2019 19:19:48 +0000 Jenn 2078789@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>That's a good idea, <b>Janet</b>. There's <a rel="nofollow" href="https://americanaatbrand.com/shopping/">an outdoor mall nearby</a> that I've been wanting to spend some time exploring. It even has a Warby Parker in it, so maybe I can do some glasses experimentation.</p> <p>eta: I took everything out of my closet this morning and just put the things that I LOVE and would buy today back. Besides a short stack of pants and shoes/accessories, pic 1 was all that was left. I cull pretty regularly, so I still LIKE most everything else and won't get rid of it all just yet, but that at least have me a better sense of direction. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/rut-rut-rutty-rut-rut/page/2#post-2077978 Sun, 17 Nov 2019 15:10:13 +0000 Janet 2077978@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Jenn, I like that you’re approaching this so thoughtfully, as you always do in matters of style! I agree with much of what has been said already — maybe just a hair trim while you audition stylists, and evaluate eyeglass frames and accessories to see if you crave any updates or additions there. I also think white sneakers could be fun but totally understand your hesitation as white shoes are not my thing either. The white-soled sneakers are an introduction. I found a pair of Adidas white sneakers with silver stripes - the subtle metallic touch makes them really coordinate with my wardrobe. Maybe some sneakers that are light-colored or patterned with white could be an easier transition. </p> <p>I wonder if the best idea might be to simply take an afternoon cruising through some shops in your area, just to see what strikes your fancy. Removing the pressure of finding a specific checklist item like a skirt or a jacket could help you simply look with an open mind to see what appeals to you. </p> <p>Good luck! I’ve no doubt you’ll settle into your new environment and adapt in no time. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/rut-rut-rutty-rut-rut/page/2#post-2077665 Fri, 15 Nov 2019 19:02:57 +0000 Stagiaire Fash 2077665@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p><i></i><br /><div><i>I haven't fully settled into California life and it's going to take time, but (cue whine) I don't want it to<br /></i></div><div><br /></div><div>Now <b>there's</b> something I can relate to, after our time in Florida! Good luck pulling together a look that looks like Cali and like you--now that we aren't there any more, I occasionally see something that would've worked well there, and almost come a little bit close to regretting that we aren't there. I sincerely wish you all the best with the adjustment.<br /></div></p> <p> </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/rut-rut-rutty-rut-rut/page/2#post-2077660 Fri, 15 Nov 2019 18:22:22 +0000 Jenn 2077660@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p><b>RobinF,&nbsp;</b>I'm not usually a metallics girl, but around the holidays, some shine and sparkle starts to feel more appropriate. My wardrobe has always been based on weather needs, but it makes sense that I might need to find other ways to add seasonality and interest. Gold could be just the ticket.</p> <p><b>notsaf,&nbsp;</b>I have the white soles covered! Two pairs, even. (See Finds)</p> <p><b>Liesbeth,&nbsp;</b>I just read a bunch of posts from that blogger and followed her on Instagram. Thanks for the recommendation. (And her layered, eclectic style reminds me a little of Diana here)</p> <p><b>nemosmom,&nbsp;</b>oh you ARE an enabler. &nbsp;My custom Chucks are one of my favorite pairs of shoes ever.</p> <p><b>Suntiger,&nbsp;</b>I'm just impatient, is all. I know I haven't fully settled into California life and it's going to take time, but (cue whine) I don't want it to! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/rut-rut-rutty-rut-rut/page/2#post-2077657 Fri, 15 Nov 2019 18:12:27 +0000 Jenn 2077657@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p><b>Firecracker,&nbsp;</b>I do have my chunky mustard cardigan, along with several other, more streamlined cardigans in Finds below. The long brown one isn't chunky, but the open knit gives it great texture, and it's a workhorse in our current weather.&nbsp;</p> <p>I just took advantage of a one-day sale to order a long black cardigan dress from Naadam (in pics), and I'm really hoping it works out, as it could be worn open or closed. Still looking for that perfect chunky, open-weave piece in a natural fiber, though.</p> <p><a rel="nofollow" href="https://naadam.co/products/cashmere-ribbed-cardigan-dress-black">https://naadam.co/products/cas.....ress-black</a> </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/rut-rut-rutty-rut-rut/page/2#post-2077651 Fri, 15 Nov 2019 17:53:42 +0000 Firecracker (Sharan) 2077651@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>One item from your pinterest board that seems missing from your wardrobe is a little chunkier, loose, hip- or knee-length cardigan. Maybe you could keep an eye out for one that isn't too warm, perhaps something that has an open weave to give the textured vibe without being too cozy for your climate. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/rut-rut-rutty-rut-rut/page/2#post-2077645 Fri, 15 Nov 2019 17:26:43 +0000 Synne 2077645@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>@FashIntern I didn't think "gear" when I first clicked on your links. The teddy jacket was the first to show up, the velvet joggers secondly, and neither screams gear to me. But seeing the attached photos def reads gear. The sportsbra, the tracksuit hoodie, in that order. So I can see the confusion! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/rut-rut-rutty-rut-rut/page/2#post-2077631 Fri, 15 Nov 2019 16:42:43 +0000 Stagiaire Fash 2077631@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Hm. I’ve never understood the “gear” allergy around here, but with the exception of the sports bra, which I totally think could be worn the way I described, like a dicky, I really don’t see the velour joggers or that sweatshirt (not sure of the word for the neck—is it a cowel?) as gear, because there is no way I’d wear them for any sport. I might wear the sweatshirt or jacket TO the gym, but they’d come off before any moves. </p> <p>Maybe I should start a thread asking people who dislike “gear” what they mean by that, specifically. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/rut-rut-rutty-rut-rut/page/2#post-2077580 Fri, 15 Nov 2019 13:55:03 +0000 RobinF 2077580@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I know what you mean about white shoes, I feel the same way. I got some booties last year that are more off-white than white and like them although the feeling of big feet hasn't totally gone away. And I have sneakers in tan instead of white. What about some metallic sneakers? They might add brightness without being too bright.</p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/rut-rut-rutty-rut-rut/page/2#post-2077537 Fri, 15 Nov 2019 10:18:59 +0000 notsaf 2077537@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>PS love the street style inspo! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/rut-rut-rutty-rut-rut/page/2#post-2077536 Fri, 15 Nov 2019 10:16:20 +0000 notsaf 2077536@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Hahaha yes. I will admit the first couple of times I wore white shoes I felt like there were boats on my feet. I got used to it though. What about something with a white sole, like the sneakers Vince has been doing for the last few years? That might work well for you! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/rut-rut-rutty-rut-rut/page/2#post-2077522 Fri, 15 Nov 2019 07:41:18 +0000 Liesbeth 2077522@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>There've been many great tips given already. I personally think you wear long line cardigans, vests etc really well so would invest in another light-weight topper first.<br /> Also: someone on the forum onve led me to this blogger, who just did a post on fall dressing in L.A. She's not your style twin but does feminine and edgy well imo so might be fun to check out.<br /> <a href="https://mgetsdressed.com/2019/11/09/outfit-feature-storybook-style-fall-in-california-edition/" rel="nofollow">https://mgetsdressed.com/2019/.....a-edition/</a> </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/rut-rut-rutty-rut-rut/page/2#post-2077451 Fri, 15 Nov 2019 00:27:50 +0000 Anonymous 2077451@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I agree that your style is very compatible with your Pinterest board, and it may just be a matter of a new ratio of pieces-or even expanding your wardrobe a bit to accommodate long warm seasons. </p> <p>I also think that you'll have do many new possibilities of things to do, that your wardrobe will naturally evolve with new hobbies/lifestyle </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/rut-rut-rutty-rut-rut/page/2#post-2077447 Fri, 15 Nov 2019 00:08:19 +0000 Jenn 2077447@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p><b>notsaf</b>, it's not the clunky that bothers me.  It's the white! Maybe because I don't really have any other white in my wardrobe? It looks like yours are a little more muted than the more common optic white, so perhaps that's what I should be looking for.</p> <p><b>rachylou, </b>I get what you're saying, but the part of the city I live in is pretty dingy and gritty. I go to Santa Monica and suddenly want to be swanning about in white linen, but at home in North Hollywood, RATE rules. Attaching a cute street style pic I took while walking to the coffee shop the other day. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/rut-rut-rutty-rut-rut/page/2#post-2077431 Thu, 14 Nov 2019 22:49:53 +0000 rachylou 2077431@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Just musing some more ... I feel your style is very compatible with LA. I also was thinking that nonetheless, the light in LA is very different. It’s bright, and even tho it’s undergoing Manhattanization, things are still low and spread out ... less shadow if you know what I mean. Everything looks different. I don’t wear white generally, but I buy white and bright in LA. Like more sparkle and flash is need to compete with all that sunshine... </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/rut-rut-rutty-rut-rut/page/2#post-2077430 Thu, 14 Nov 2019 22:49:49 +0000 notsaf 2077430@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>A vote for these light-as-feather Cole Haans, which were my gateway drug to althetic footwear. They are great, and were a super welcome find after feeling really clunky in Adidas and Vejas. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/rut-rut-rutty-rut-rut/page/2#post-2077427 Thu, 14 Nov 2019 22:40:55 +0000 nemosmom 2077427@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p><div>Yellow Vans = heart eyes.</div><div><br /></div><div>If you don't find a colorway online that you like, you can customize a pair on the Vans websites in all kinds of colors/patterns. #enabler<br /></div> </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/rut-rut-rutty-rut-rut/page/2#post-2077422 Thu, 14 Nov 2019 21:51:54 +0000 Jenn 2077422@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p><b>Fashintern,&nbsp;</b>I'm not sure I understand your comments. You don't think the items you linked look like gear? They may be intended as streetwear but, with the exception of the teddy coat, they also all have a very gearish vibe going on. It's a style that's super common in LA, but it's not mine.</p> <p><b>Greyscale,&nbsp;</b>that makes total sense. Fall is my favorite buying season, too. I'm going to have to get used to more shopping in summer, though...or in that very early fall season when everything's still summer-weight but in better colors for me. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/rut-rut-rutty-rut-rut/page/2#post-2077416 Thu, 14 Nov 2019 20:51:05 +0000 Jenn 2077416@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p><b></b><b>Cardiff Girl</b>, I'm&nbsp;definitely&nbsp;missing those layers! Sunglasses are definitely on my shopping list, and new everyday glasses, as well.Those small tweaks might help more than it seems right now.</p> <p><b>RobinF,&nbsp;</b>you and me both with the shoes!</p> <p><b>Angie,&nbsp;</b>this resonates with me so much!</p> <p><i>You can only remix so much. At some point you need sharper tools in order to remix more effectively.<br /></i><br />Thank you for reassuring me that this normal and expected and <i>will take time</i>. It's still my long-term goal to build a more sustainable wardrobe that's small enough that I can keep it feeling fresh, while still meeting my wear goals. That's not going to happen overnight, especially while managing a climate shift at the same time.</p> <p>New eyewear is on my to-do list. Need to find a new optometrist first.</p> <p><b>Suz,&nbsp;</b>your suggestions are right in line with my thoughts. Almost to the letter. I have a midi skirt/matching top combo in linen for summer (see Finds), but I think you're right that I need something more transitional in weight. I love linen in July and August (or August and September here), but that's about all the rumpliness I can take in a given year.</p> <p><b>Joy,&nbsp;</b>you're so right about the light being different, and I'm definitely still getting used to the combination of summer weather and Christmas music. We don't make it to the beach often enough for me to worry much about that capsule, though. Santa Monica (the closest beach) is anywhere from 30 to 90 minutes away, depending on traffic.&nbsp;</p> <p><b>bonnie,&nbsp;</b>that's a good suggestion. We did a little mall-wander last weekend and nothing grabbed me, so maybe I'll do some more online browsing, or check out all those catalogs arriving this time of year.</p> <p><b>Synne,&nbsp;</b>I take your suggestion as intended, but neon is probably not going to happen for me. </p> <p><b>texstyle,&nbsp;</b>I like that!</p> <p><b>Sal,&nbsp;</b>hmm, maybe a mustard or leopard bag? Will think on it.<br /><b></b> </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/rut-rut-rutty-rut-rut/page/2#post-2077414 Thu, 14 Nov 2019 20:42:32 +0000 Greyscale 2077414@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Feeling in a rut makes total sense - back in your old home you’d be doing a major transition to fall + winter wear, but out here it’s just more of the same (plus a light jacket). I guess LA does have true summer, so it’s not as monotonous as SF, but it’s still quite different than somewhere with big seasonal changes. I find myself itching for a new look each fall, in part because the stores are full of cozy sweaters in the dark colors I prefer (but they’re too warm!). I buy more clothes in fall than any other time. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/rut-rut-rutty-rut-rut/page/2#post-2077411 Thu, 14 Nov 2019 20:30:25 +0000 Stagiaire Fash 2077411@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Sorry—didn’t realize your non-gear wardrobe also excludes street wear made by companies that also make gear. Personally, I’d rather go item-by-item. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/rut-rut-rutty-rut-rut#post-2077402 Thu, 14 Nov 2019 19:59:57 +0000 Sal 2077402@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Those new labels look great Jenn. </p> <p>And I really like your hair and agree a significant change with a new stylist can be a risk. My hair is longer than it has been for a while due to the running I am/was doing (injury) and I can’t wait to get it chopped off at my next appointment. </p> <p>My yellow bag has been a fun addition for my style I think- and it just makes a few of my older items feel fresh. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/rut-rut-rutty-rut-rut#post-2077400 Thu, 14 Nov 2019 19:56:26 +0000 texstyle 2077400@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p><div>Jenn, I was thinking along these lines for the bandana idea:</div><div><a rel="nofollow" href="https://www.bexargoods.com/collections/t-shirts/products/keep-it-wild-bandana-turquoise">https://www.bexargoods.com/col.....-turquoise</a><br /></div> </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/rut-rut-rutty-rut-rut#post-2077395 Thu, 14 Nov 2019 19:49:19 +0000 Jenn 2077395@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p><b></b>I'm working on the white sneakers, you guys! I love them on other people, but every time I put a pair on my own feet, I hate it. It doesn't help that the Adidas I like best don't work fit-wise. I've never really been fussed about my foot size, but I do wear a 10, so that could play into my finding them to be just a jarring amount of white. Maybe I'll give these Vejas a try? Or something like these mustard Vans to lighten up without going all the way to white?</p> <p><b>Jenni,&nbsp;</b>you crack me up. I pin ripped jeans looks all the time, but I can never quite convince myself to buy them. My life is casual enough that I could get away with it, though.</p> <p><b>Fashintern , </b>I'm not sure you're interpreting my current wardrobe quite correctly.&nbsp;I don't own the skirt with the village. That Find is for the rust cami worn with it. My graphic tees are in the Parks capsule and that's where they get the majority of their wear. You're right about dark florals being my top pattern, stripes are next, and I own two plaid items. I also don't have everything in Finds. I have fifteen pairs of shoes, counting gear and snow boots, about 1/8th of my total. Despite living in LA, I haven't really gotten on board with the gear-as-streetwear trend, but I'll keep Onzie in mind next time I need yoga wear.</p> <p><b>kkards,&nbsp;</b>thanks for the skirt links! I do like all of those, and think a bias-cut/slip style skirt might be a fun addition. I have a high failure rate with skirt purchases, though, so that makes me hesitant. Thinking about it.</p> <p><b>lisap</b>, I'm just so hesitant to leap into more than a maintenance cut with a new hairdresser. I always feel like new stylists need a few cuts to get a feel for my wavy hair, in order to not screw up a big change.</p> <p><b>texstyle,&nbsp;</b>see<b>&nbsp;</b>above for my white shoes comments. I'm feeling the bandana suggestion, though. My son has been into bandanas recently, though, and I suspect he'll be mortified if I start wearing them. &nbsp;LOL. That could be fun.</p> <p>(Back with more, shortly) </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/rut-rut-rutty-rut-rut#post-2077379 Thu, 14 Nov 2019 18:21:29 +0000 Synne 2077379@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Urban edge.. hm.. I'm thinking neon bright yellow or green something. A handbag? </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/rut-rut-rutty-rut-rut#post-2077350 Thu, 14 Nov 2019 16:28:36 +0000 Bonnie 2077350@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I love your style but changing things up might be fun for you. I might start by doing a bit of shopping and see what is calling me. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/rut-rut-rutty-rut-rut#post-2077341 Thu, 14 Nov 2019 15:30:38 +0000 Anonymous 2077341@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Look for a wild card like a crazy jacket or skirt or add a new color like fuschia. The light is different in Southern California and can take bright colors. Spring happens fairly early. Go to a garden center.<br /> Work on your beach capsule. This is the hardest time in Southern California if you are adjusting to a move. I used to pretend that the morning fog was snow and have the fireplace on a bit in the mornings with something hot to drink. </p>