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			<title>YouLookFab Forum &#187; Topic: red eyeglasses = trying too hard?</title>
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				<title>Sylvie on "red eyeglasses = trying too hard?"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/red-eyeglasses-trying-too-hard#post-494617</link>
				<pubDate>Sun, 25 Dec 2011 00:22:27 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Sylvie</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;So, now that the forum ladies have convinced you, when do we get to see your fab red frames?
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				<title>catgirl on "red eyeglasses = trying too hard?"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/red-eyeglasses-trying-too-hard#post-494500</link>
				<pubDate>Sat, 24 Dec 2011 19:41:34 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>catgirl</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Don't even worry about it!  That is ridiculous.  I have red glasses and I don't care a hoot about looking younger.  Is a 25 year old in red glasses trying to look 12?
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				<title>Angie on "red eyeglasses = trying too hard?"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/red-eyeglasses-trying-too-hard#post-494422</link>
				<pubDate>Sat, 24 Dec 2011 16:31:54 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Angie</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I'm not mincing my words here :)&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Don't waste your time even thinking about this. THAT's trying too hard!  It's wasted energy by a billion percent. PLEASE!!! Iris Apfel is 88 and wears bright red specs. &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;&#060;a href=&#034;http://fashion.telegraph.co.uk/news-features/TMG8725284/Iris-Apfel-to-be-the-star-of-Albert-Maysles-documentary.html&#034; rel=&#034;nofollow&#034;&#062;http://fashion.telegraph.co.uk.....ntary.html&#060;/a&#062;&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;She is too killer fabulous for words.
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				<title>Di on "red eyeglasses = trying too hard?"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/red-eyeglasses-trying-too-hard#post-494338</link>
				<pubDate>Sat, 24 Dec 2011 12:23:19 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Di</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Bunch of hooey.  No reason on Earth women of any age can't enjoy bright, sassy things.  I refuse to roll over and play dead because I'm not 22 anymore.  You like 'em?  Go for it!
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				<title>soobee on "red eyeglasses = trying too hard?"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/red-eyeglasses-trying-too-hard#post-494325</link>
				<pubDate>Sat, 24 Dec 2011 07:56:04 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>soobee</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;OMG!!!! don't listen to the internet unless it's us .... we are the borg ... we will assimilate you ....&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Yeah, listen to all these wise, mature ladies LOL.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I love bright specs on older ladies.  35?  Phhht, that DOES NOT count as old.  Old is around 95 or so.
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				<title>Mo on "red eyeglasses = trying too hard?"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/red-eyeglasses-trying-too-hard#post-494283</link>
				<pubDate>Sat, 24 Dec 2011 04:50:35 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Mo</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I would argue that colored frames show that you are still hip and not out of touch and dated.  My BF got green and purple Alain Mikli frames at just around 50, and they are great on him.  Before that, he had 15 year old Armani gold circular ones that led people to refer to him as Harry Potter!  So, keeping up with what's going on is not trying too hard IMO.  Most importantly, as long as you love them, that's what matters.
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				<title>qfbrenda on "red eyeglasses = trying too hard?"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/red-eyeglasses-trying-too-hard#post-494262</link>
				<pubDate>Sat, 24 Dec 2011 03:43:04 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>qfbrenda</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;We will assimilate you.  ;)&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Red glasses are awesome.  So there.
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				<title>lyn* on "red eyeglasses = trying too hard?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sat, 24 Dec 2011 03:39:32 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>lyn*</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Our collective is wise. We are the Borg.
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				<title>Suz on "red eyeglasses = trying too hard?"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/red-eyeglasses-trying-too-hard#post-494253</link>
				<pubDate>Sat, 24 Dec 2011 03:28:46 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Suz</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;That is a dumb article. Full stop. &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Red glasses rock. As do green, purple, blue, orange, white, black, and tortie. Whatever looks good on the wearer!
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				<title>Jenava on "red eyeglasses = trying too hard?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sat, 24 Dec 2011 03:16:18 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Jenava</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;GP, Hehe...of COURSE, listen to us.  We are collectively very wise.
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				<title>goldenpig on "red eyeglasses = trying too hard?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sat, 24 Dec 2011 03:13:20 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>goldenpig</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I'm over 35 and wear red glasses. Do I look like an old lady?&#060;br /&#062;
Don't listen to the internet. Unless it's us.  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-wink icon-emoticon-wink "></span> 
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				<title>velvetychocolate on "red eyeglasses = trying too hard?"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/red-eyeglasses-trying-too-hard#post-494241</link>
				<pubDate>Sat, 24 Dec 2011 03:11:28 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>velvetychocolate</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I'm going to be honest and say that any article suggesting that a particular style of glasses, or a certain colour is supposedly 'trying too hard' is just wrong-headed, in my opinion. You could have said the same thing about me wearing Converse shoes, and yet - they worked. I had the most boring outfit on, but chanced the Converse shoes and they worked out beautifully. &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I don't think it's a good idea to box yourself into these kinds of limits. As Angie says, it's all in how you wear the item - wouldn't you agree?
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				<title>Jenava on "red eyeglasses = trying too hard?"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/red-eyeglasses-trying-too-hard#post-494237</link>
				<pubDate>Sat, 24 Dec 2011 03:06:36 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Jenava</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;35 is so not even close to being an &#034;older women&#034;.  (-:&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;And, regardless of that, if they look good on you and you enjoy them then go for it!  Angie's rule to have fun no matter what absolutely applies here.  Don't let weird, archaic, and arbitrary rules hold you back. &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I just bought some burgundy cat-eye frames and I adore them...for the first time in years I am actually wearing my glasses as fashion statement instead of my contacts because I adore them so much.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;ETA a photo of my frames.  I *heart* them.  And, I'm 33 and 1/2 years old.
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				<title>Ana on "red eyeglasses = trying too hard?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sat, 24 Dec 2011 03:06:17 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Ana</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I have red glasses. I've had them since I was 28 (I'm 30s now). I love them and always get lots of compliments from all ages.  : )
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				<title>lyn* on "red eyeglasses = trying too hard?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sat, 24 Dec 2011 02:25:01 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>lyn*</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I wear purple glasses and I have a pair of blue ones - and I'm almost 30. I think that anyone can wear coloured frames; one of the ladies who is very well dressed at work has green ones. Awesomeness!&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I would have thought t hey looked more &#034;kiddy&#034; than &#034;mutton dressed as lamb&#034; but maybe that's just me!  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-smile icon-emoticon-smile "></span> 
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				<title>Mochi on "red eyeglasses = trying too hard?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sat, 24 Dec 2011 02:21:55 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Mochi</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;No no no no, that's wrong. Please don't listen to that article.
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				<title>Amy on "red eyeglasses = trying too hard?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sat, 24 Dec 2011 01:40:25 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Amy</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;That article is utter nonsense. I don't see why you can't wear fun colors as you age (and 35 is still young!)&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;FWIW, I'm turning 40 next month and wear purple and green glasses. &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;An older woman's wardrobe shouldn't have to be boring or conservative.  There may be some styles that don't translate as well on an older woman, but I don't want to fret about it too much. I'll wear what makes me feel good and hope you do too.
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				<title>cyan45 on "red eyeglasses = trying too hard?"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/red-eyeglasses-trying-too-hard#post-494198</link>
				<pubDate>Sat, 24 Dec 2011 00:52:49 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>cyan45</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;while getting my tires replaced at costco, i enjoyed checking out the eyeglasses in the optical department. i loved a pair of red, plastic, slightly cat-eye retro looking mikil frames, and took down the info to think about it.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;after a quick google search, i found quite a few articles stating that red glasses were a sign that an 'older woman' was trying too hard to look young. these were articles written by women, and comments from other women.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;i am pushing 35 in august, and started wondering if i was slowly sliding into the 'trying too hard' category? i enjoy wearing animal print clothes and shoes, geometric patterns, red lipstick and shoes, etc...&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;well, my second pick would be cat-eye tortoise shell plastic frames...
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