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			<title>YouLookFab Forum &#187; Topic: Question about bookending</title>
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				<title>Suz on "Question about bookending"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 13 Jan 2014 22:15:25 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Suz</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Yeah. What they said. What you said, too. ;)&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;And just to complicate matters further, you can bookend using other than hair and shoes. So...you could bookend light footwear to a light top.&#038;nbsp;&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I have one pair of shoes that sort of matches my hair. I like the effect they give. I must admit that just on their own they seem to provide some cohesion. My other lighter footwear doesn't match but still can bring some element of cohesion to an outfit -- but on the other hand, I might be more tempted to bring those colours into the outfit elsewhere as well.&#038;nbsp;
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				<title>K. Period. on "Question about bookending"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 13 Jan 2014 22:08:13 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>K. Period.</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I think it depends. &#038;nbsp;I take into account two things: First, how dark or light the bookending item is. I bookend with&#038;nbsp;camel or caramel (a slightly darker version of my blonde hair) and white/off-white/very light tan or nude (lighter versions of my blonde hair). &#038;nbsp;The white&#038;nbsp;group is lighter and therefore less subtle and therefore harder, so I bring more white or light elements&#038;nbsp;into the outfit to help balance it. &#038;nbsp;The camel group is slightly darker, so more subtle and I don't feel like it needs the second element as much. &#038;nbsp;However, that brings me to my second consideration. &#038;nbsp;Second, I consider how high contrast&#038;nbsp;the outfit itself is. &#038;nbsp;If it is low contrast, then I don't worry as much about adding a second element. &#038;nbsp;If it is high contrast, then I prefer to add that second element. &#038;nbsp;So, a white shoe with a dark outfit gets the most second elementing treatment, a white shoe with a lighter outfit gets less,&#038;nbsp;and a mid-tone outfit with camel gets the least. &#038;nbsp;
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				<title>E on "Question about bookending"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 13 Jan 2014 21:13:11 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I tend to be matchy matchy re: repeating colours, and I only have one pair of shoes that actually matches my hair anyway, so I'm not sure. But I think the idea of bookending is that you always look cohesive when your shoes match your hair?&#038;nbsp;
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				<title>Anonymous on "Question about bookending"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 13 Jan 2014 18:31:23 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Anonymous</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Even though brown bookends my hair, I have a pixie cut so there's not much hair. For this reason, I always feel the need to make sure there's brown elsewhere in the outfit and/or accessories. IMO, it's all about the visible quantity. Whatever shoe color I choose, there needs to be considerable amounts of that color elsewhere in the outfit and/or accessories to &#034;bring the color up&#034; and make the entire look more cohesive. Hope this helps.
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				<title>Laura (rhubarbgirl) on "Question about bookending"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 13 Jan 2014 18:21:45 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Laura (rhubarbgirl)</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I don't generally wear black with brown or black with navy (I know, I'm old fashioned). I end up wearing non-black shoes with outfits that don't include a lot of black. I guess that's less about bookending and more about trying to make sure my use of black is intentional. Like, for example, an outfit that has a bright colored top and blue denim jeans: I think black shoes often look boring with that, and a non-black shoe like a shade of brown will be more interesting. &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;tl;dr: I try to wear black shoes only when my outfit has other black in it, not just for bookending. &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Elizabeth, what about taupe, tan, silver, nude, those sorts of colors to bookend with your hair?&#060;/p&#062;
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				<title>MuseumGal on "Question about bookending"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 13 Jan 2014 18:21:01 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>MuseumGal</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Thanks everyone!&#038;nbsp; The 'answer' seems to be 'whatever you please,' which is probably a pretty good fashion/style motto in general, eh?
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				<title>Elizabeth P on "Question about bookending"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 13 Jan 2014 18:04:01 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Elizabeth P</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Curious to see what responses you get... I generally wear black boots/shoes in the winter, and my hair was dark.&#038;nbsp; But as my hair gets more and more white/silver, the bookending question is starting to creep into my thinking.&#038;nbsp; I can't wear white boots all winter!&#038;nbsp; I do have some white/black booties winging their way to me... but still.
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				<title>JAileen on "Question about bookending"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 13 Jan 2014 17:53:05 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I try to bring it in again. I'm actually very matchy matchy and I'm trying to break away from that.
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				<title>merwoman on "Question about bookending"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 13 Jan 2014 17:47:56 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;ha ha - you sound a lot like me :-)&#060;br /&#062;I think Joy has the right approach. I've interpreted bookending for me as follows - since I have dark hair, I can always wear dark footwear and not be committing a fashion faux pas. I hope no one corrects this interpretation  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-wink icon-emoticon-wink "></span> 
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				<title>Mo on "Question about bookending"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 13 Jan 2014 17:46:29 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Nah. &#038;nbsp;I used cognac boots with a red, white and grey (later more white after BF poo poohed my mix lol) and no more caramel colors anywhere else but my hair.&#038;nbsp;
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				<title>Liz on "Question about bookending"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 13 Jan 2014 17:45:35 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Liz</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Interesting question. Personally, I would definitely bring in brown somewhere else, or I'd feel like I was wearing the wrong shoes for my outfit. If I could,&#038;nbsp;I'd probably go with a different solution, like colored shoes (green, red, blue) or light neutral&#038;nbsp;shoes (cream, silver, light gray, or gray/taupe).
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				<title>Anonymous on "Question about bookending"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 13 Jan 2014 17:35:01 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Anonymous</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I don't worry about it, but by all means, bring it in if it makes you&#038;nbsp;feel most comfortable .
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&#060;p&#062;Remember that your footwear&#038;nbsp;&#038;nbsp;is most often seen at a distance&#038;nbsp;rather than close up and the bookending will&#038;nbsp;pull your outfit together.&#038;nbsp;&#060;/p&#062;
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				<title>MuseumGal on "Question about bookending"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 13 Jan 2014 17:32:14 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;When you bookend (match shoes to hair) do you worry about bringing in the color somewhere else in the outfit?&#038;nbsp; For instance if you are bookending your brown hair with brown boots, but wearing a mostly black/grey outfit, would you try to include some brown accessories (e.g. purse, scarf, or jewelry)?&#038;nbsp; Or just not worry about it and figure the bookending has done its job?&#038;nbsp; Sorry if this is nitpicky, but, well, I can be pretty detail oriented.&#038;nbsp; (Except, you know, when I'm not.)
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