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			<title>YouLookFab Forum &#187; Topic: Prophylactic Purchasing: Shopping &#34;to be prepared&#34;</title>
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				<title>Mander on "Prophylactic Purchasing: Shopping &#34;to be prepared&#34;"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 27 Feb 2013 09:40:56 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Mander</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Pretty much the first thing I do when I know I have a trip coming up is to start thinking about what to pack or buy.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I think in part this is because I have so many things in my wardrobe that are not that great or versatile.  When I have the whole closet at my disposal it is easy to wear the items that only go with one or two other things, but when I am trying to pack light it becomes more obvious that I don't really have the right items to mix and match.  The biggest problems for me are usually shoes, jackets, and bags.  No idea why it is so hard for me to find pieces that work well, except that maybe I have been limiting myself too much for budget reasons.
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				<title>Laurinda on "Prophylactic Purchasing: Shopping &#34;to be prepared&#34;"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 27 Feb 2013 03:54:40 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Laurinda</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;And it always seems to be shoes for me. Everything else I am fine with SYC.
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				<title>Jenava on "Prophylactic Purchasing: Shopping &#34;to be prepared&#34;"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 27 Feb 2013 03:52:13 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Yes, I'm doing this already for our Hawaii trip in March - boyfriend cropped pants and a new tube midi skirt in summer colors...and a light weight casual topper.  Haven't quite thought about what those items will be for our London trip in April!  But to be fair even the Hawaii items are things I'll wear here in the summer and I probably need to refresh my summer wardrobe since this weight gain isn't coming off as quickly as I'd like.
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				<title>Anonymous on "Prophylactic Purchasing: Shopping &#34;to be prepared&#34;"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 27 Feb 2013 03:44:45 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Yes.  The worst part is that the new item(s) often don't make the final cut and get to stay home.  They've never been missed but often expand an existing capsule once I'm back.  Does anyone else take things to wear with the idea of not bringing them back in order to make room in the suitcase for new treasures?
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				<title>Mia on "Prophylactic Purchasing: Shopping &#34;to be prepared&#34;"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 27 Feb 2013 02:44:41 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Mia</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Over and over.  Sometimes it works!
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				<title>Elizabeth P on "Prophylactic Purchasing: Shopping &#34;to be prepared&#34;"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 27 Feb 2013 01:38:58 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Elizabeth P</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Heck, I find myself shopping for the perfect piece to take traveling, when I have no trip planned!
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				<title>lynne on "Prophylactic Purchasing: Shopping &#34;to be prepared&#34;"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 14 Feb 2013 17:58:16 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Raises hand
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				<title>catgirl on "Prophylactic Purchasing: Shopping &#34;to be prepared&#34;"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 14 Feb 2013 05:07:01 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Heh.  My sister just got some exciting news which I will soon be at liberty to share, and I am already shopping in my head in case I am able to go along!   <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-smile icon-emoticon-smile "></span>   So yeah, this is a constant problem, whether the event is real or not.
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				<title>K. Period. on "Prophylactic Purchasing: Shopping &#34;to be prepared&#34;"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 13 Feb 2013 21:53:46 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Yup.  I totally purchase for what I envision will be my fantasy vacation in the hope that it will work out that way.  However, given that I pack very lightly, I like bringing new items because I get lots of intense new item joy out of them on the trip rather than having to spread it out over a long time at home.  And since they are new, wearing the same thing twenty times doesn't seem nearly as boring.
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				<title>Janet on "Prophylactic Purchasing: Shopping &#34;to be prepared&#34;"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 13 Feb 2013 21:49:09 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Like Claire, I do it after the fact! Like last year when I got home from a beach vacation during which I realized I need more than one bikini for a trip like that. I promptly went swimsuit shopping after I got home, while I was accustomed to seeing myself in a swimsuit and had a little bit of a tan. So this winter, when we went on our beach vacation, I was all set.  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-smile icon-emoticon-smile "></span> 
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				<title>rachylou on "Prophylactic Purchasing: Shopping &#34;to be prepared&#34;"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 13 Feb 2013 20:35:43 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Hideously guilty here.
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				<title>Anonymous on "Prophylactic Purchasing: Shopping &#34;to be prepared&#34;"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 13 Feb 2013 20:20:20 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;What Raisin said. I have a full closet and would just need to make a capsule but 'convince' myself I need new
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				<title>Amy on "Prophylactic Purchasing: Shopping &#34;to be prepared&#34;"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 13 Feb 2013 19:21:57 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Amy</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I'm guilty too!
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				<title>ButterflyLady on "Prophylactic Purchasing: Shopping &#34;to be prepared&#34;"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 13 Feb 2013 19:09:35 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>ButterflyLady</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Busted!!
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				<title>Laura (rhubarbgirl) on "Prophylactic Purchasing: Shopping &#34;to be prepared&#34;"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 13 Feb 2013 18:46:54 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Laura (rhubarbgirl)</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I've been doing that for my upcoming Europe trip as well as for my conference this week. :/ Sometimes I think it's not such a bad idea. If you have some time before an event you really can find some perfect things when you have the time to look.
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				<title>RoseandJoan on "Prophylactic Purchasing: Shopping &#34;to be prepared&#34;"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 13 Feb 2013 18:42:17 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>RoseandJoan</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Guilty as charged, what is the penalty?&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;The family are heading to Majorca over the summer and I will feel a whole lot more stylish with a couple of new purchases...just in case.
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				<title>unfrumped on "Prophylactic Purchasing: Shopping &#34;to be prepared&#34;"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 13 Feb 2013 18:06:17 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>unfrumped</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Guilty!&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I have a conference at a resort in CA later this month and already am thinking, what am I going to wear/pack that will work? When I need to concentrate on MOTB and on items that are part of my normal life. There's some realistic overlap between good spring/summer items I could use and said trip, but I'm worried I'll rush into something just to have it in 2 weeks to  be &#034;Californian&#034;, when in reality, the trip is not a fashion test, nobody will ever remember what I wore, and I should just SYC for some reasonable outfits and relax.
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				<title>Anonymous on "Prophylactic Purchasing: Shopping &#34;to be prepared&#34;"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 13 Feb 2013 16:39:23 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Um, yes. Especially after getting back from a trip where I froze on an airplane for example. So really, I do it after the fact, when it's too late. Argh!
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				<title>rae on "Prophylactic Purchasing: Shopping &#34;to be prepared&#34;"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 13 Feb 2013 16:35:25 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>rae</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I do tend to do this, but more out of panic/worry that I won't have XYZ. But I do always buy something while I am on my trip to make it extra special!
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				<title>T-Rex on "Prophylactic Purchasing: Shopping &#34;to be prepared&#34;"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 13 Feb 2013 16:17:20 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>T-Rex</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;StaceyMcGill, you need to put on that maxi dress some sunny Friday after work, invite some friends over, and whip up some margaritas.
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				<title>Isis on "Prophylactic Purchasing: Shopping &#34;to be prepared&#34;"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 13 Feb 2013 16:16:00 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Isis</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I like doing this!  I try to think of perfect things that I already own.  But if I find something really perfect to fill a travel hole, I don't feel guilty at all about purchasing it.  I agree that it makes the trip even better.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I am a very light packer (carryon only) so every item has to pack a punch!
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				<title>Raisin on "Prophylactic Purchasing: Shopping &#34;to be prepared&#34;"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 13 Feb 2013 16:08:28 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Raisin</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I'm guilty of this too.  I'm always saying, oh I need this or that for the trip.  But really, I don't need any new items, but I want them!
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				<title>Anonymous on "Prophylactic Purchasing: Shopping &#34;to be prepared&#34;"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 13 Feb 2013 15:58:48 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Oh, I am so guilty of that. Hence why I have a very colorful maxi dress that looked awesome in Mexico but just looks crazycakes in my everyday suburban life.
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				<title>T-Rex on "Prophylactic Purchasing: Shopping &#34;to be prepared&#34;"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 13 Feb 2013 15:24:13 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I really like shopping once I reach my destination. And I find that I'm more likely to spend more on an item if I find it on vacation. Sometimes this is good, sometimes bad. I have some items from my two month trip to Europe back in 1990 that *still* get worn. A few items from that trip have worn out, and I miss them. Sadly, a few items were mistakes that never got the wear they deserved. &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I don't know where you usually travel, but I feel this is a good time to share some advice with everyone. If the shop owner offers you some wine, which of course has been homemade by his family for generations (so how can you refuse?), be careful. Before long, you may be tipsy and buying out the store. Your friend with the wine will inevitably take you to another wonderful shop that happens to be owned by his friend after he sells you more stuff that you don't really need, and the cycle continues. Eventually,  you will have to figure out how to get those  two large Persian carpets onto the airplane home. And you will be heading to the outdoor market to buy a larger suitcase than the one you came with, just to fit the rest of your goodies.
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				<title>texstyle on "Prophylactic Purchasing: Shopping &#34;to be prepared&#34;"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 13 Feb 2013 15:12:17 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Guilty of this too. I love wearing the item later and remembering the trip. I also enjoy buying something to wear from the place I travel to - even if it's only a trip to another city in Texas.
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				<title>modgrl on "Prophylactic Purchasing: Shopping &#34;to be prepared&#34;"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 13 Feb 2013 15:05:16 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Aren't you usually traveling to a different climate or doing different things that what you normally do? &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;If I was going to Europe now, I would definitely shop for comfortable all day shoes here at home. Even though I have lots of shoes already, I don't have marathon, walk all day shoes.
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				<title>Suz on "Prophylactic Purchasing: Shopping &#34;to be prepared&#34;"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 13 Feb 2013 14:59:52 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;YOU CAUGHT ME RED-HANDED!! &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Ooops!&#060;/p&#062;
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				<title>ironkurtin on "Prophylactic Purchasing: Shopping &#34;to be prepared&#34;"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 13 Feb 2013 14:58:36 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I find whenever I have a trip coming up, I instantly start looking for new items to bring.  I think it's a sort of magical thinking: X WILL MAKE THIS TRIP PERFECT!  On the one hand, yes, I do tend to wear my few perfect travel items that I already own when I travel.  On the other, I find having that one new item I really look forward to wearing on a trip makes the trip more special.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Anyone else do this?
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