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			<title>YouLookFab Forum &#187; Topic: Problematic Skirt and Vest</title>
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				<title>catgirl on "Problematic Skirt and Vest"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/problematic-skirt-and-vest#post-452446</link>
				<pubDate>Wed, 26 Oct 2011 19:16:08 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>catgirl</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I see no problem with the skirt!  It's how my leather pencil skirt fits me.  I agree with Angie, you don't want it to be too tight...&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;And the black outfit looks fab to me.  Sorry, no help from t his quarter!
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				<title>rachylou on "Problematic Skirt and Vest"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 26 Oct 2011 18:48:54 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>rachylou</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I like both outfits. They're bold. Just stand tall! Like you are doing in the pics :)&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Maybe the skirt could be altered, if it's in danger of slipping downward?
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				<title>Mander on "Problematic Skirt and Vest"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 26 Oct 2011 16:23:34 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Mander</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I was going to say what San said -- perhaps the vest with different shoes?  I think it's cool but it could look like a costume if you have too much black leather at once.  Or a dominatrix.  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-wink icon-emoticon-wink "></span> 
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				<title>Anonymous on "Problematic Skirt and Vest"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 26 Oct 2011 16:05:40 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Anonymous</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I love both!  I was going to suggest sheer black hose with the skirt, but I just read Angie's reply and really like the idea of something textured.
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				<title>Angie on "Problematic Skirt and Vest"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 26 Oct 2011 14:09:50 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Angie</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I like the fit of the leather skirt! I think you lose the elegance when they are too tight. Add textured hose to that outfit and it's k-word worthy. &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;As you know, I like the dramatic vest best with a low contrast top. The all black or tonal outfit is the way to go. KILLER. You *can* lighten up your shoes. But as far as the top goes, I vote low contrast and no belt.
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				<title>Laura on "Problematic Skirt and Vest"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 26 Oct 2011 11:51:27 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Laura</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Kyle, the vest is uber dramatic and fab. You need to get comfortable wearing it, that's all. It is an attention-grabbing item. So wear it with confidence -- remember Karen's inspiring post from today with her fur collared sweater!&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;As for the leather skirt, you definitely don't want a skintight leather skirt, but also it shouldn't be baggy as there is always the potential for stretch as you wear it. I always find it hard to judge fit from forum photos, but does it slide around backwards or do other annoying skirt tricks? If so I would return it. If not, the color is divine and I think you will wear it loads.
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				<title>Deborah on "Problematic Skirt and Vest"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 26 Oct 2011 11:46:47 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Deborah</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Kyle, I think both look great.  The vest does look good combined with lower contrast colors but the white works too.  It's quite a dramatic piece and I love it on you.  The skirt also looks great to me.  I think it may be the way you are standing or the skirt may need pressing.  The brown and black is a very nice combination.  Love them both.
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				<title>AJ on "Problematic Skirt and Vest"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 26 Oct 2011 06:39:10 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>AJ</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I like the vest with a low contrast top.  &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I think you look great in it, but maybe your hesitation stems from a possible Las Vegas showgirl silhouette?  For some reason, that's what first popped into my head, sorry.
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				<title>san on "Problematic Skirt and Vest"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 26 Oct 2011 03:14:14 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>san</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I find that I have to get the right balance when wearing leather boots and a leather jacket.  I always end up taking one leather piece off.  Perhaps it is just too much leather?  I also wonder if the vest is long enough to wear over a shortish dress?&#060;br /&#062;
Your gold necklace is stunning.  You are stunning.
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				<title>Kyle on "Problematic Skirt and Vest"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 26 Oct 2011 01:51:15 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Kyle</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Hmmm. Lots of varied opinions here. I guess the forum is as torn as I am! I may try a couple more photos and see if I can make a final decision from there.
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				<title>Amy on "Problematic Skirt and Vest"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 24 Oct 2011 03:50:36 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I like the skirt a lot. Have you tried it with softer colors? Black is high contrast with it, so it might be interesting to see it with something more tonal. &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;The vest is fun too, but again, I'd try playing down the contrast with the top under it.
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				<title>mamaKate on "Problematic Skirt and Vest"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 24 Oct 2011 03:40:34 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Skirt looks great!  Try the vest with a colored belt or sash on the outside.
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				<title>ironkurtin on "Problematic Skirt and Vest"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 24 Oct 2011 01:41:21 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>ironkurtin</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;That vest is a very dramatic piece and is sure to get attention.  If that's what you want, play it up!  It could be a star attraction of any outfit.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;The skirt looks fine to me, actually.  I think if it were much tighter you might not be able to move in it.  But if it feels at all weird you won't wear it, which is a much more important consideration IMO.
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				<title>Jonesy on "Problematic Skirt and Vest"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 24 Oct 2011 01:07:22 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Jonesy</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I would wear the vest with something low-contrast, as Sveta first suggested, though I don't think it has to be black. But, if you are getting the feeling that it's not for you, then maybe it needs to go back?&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Is the skirt leather? It looks sort of stiff, making the fit really important...It does look too big to me, I think, through the hips.
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				<title>Suz on "Problematic Skirt and Vest"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 24 Oct 2011 01:02:29 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Suz</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;What Krishnidoux said about the vest! With one slight adjustment: I think you could also wear it with charcoal grey underneath, or (possibly) something with a small pattern that includes black/grey. It's a stunning piece; the question is, will you use it. &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I was also going to say if the skirt twists about on you as you move it is definitely too big. I love the colour combo of your outfit and the way you have styled it, but if it's too big, it has to go.
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				<title>krishnidoux on "Problematic Skirt and Vest"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 24 Oct 2011 00:55:46 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Kyle, your comment re the vest and then seeing it made me smile. Because it takes one to know one! I so understand. While I think it looks too costume-y  in the first pic, I really like how you styled it above (necklace, dark outfit...). You are so stunning.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;However I do think it is your wonderful sense of style that I like in the whole outfit. You cold recreate the wonderful luxurious feel of the outfit without the vest, I'm sure! So, the vest: I imagine you would have to be prepared to wear it only with black, only with form fitting clothes, and only in some occasions.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Possible occasions:&#060;br /&#062;
- a cozy diner among acquaintances in a castle;&#060;br /&#062;
- an evening at the opera;&#060;br /&#062;
- a movie premiere;&#060;br /&#062;
- an outing to see a play;&#060;br /&#062;
- a press conference (you are giving);&#060;br /&#062;
- a day charity that has to do with art.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;The skirt: it is too big. Return it. You won't wear it.&#060;br /&#062;
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				<title>cheryle (Dianthus) on "Problematic Skirt and Vest"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 24 Oct 2011 00:42:56 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>cheryle (Dianthus)</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I also like the black vest with the white top.  It looks perfect to me.  I also think the skirt looks really good on you.  I  think the slight &#034;fold&#034; diagonally across the front is just from the way you are standing.  The bent knee creates a bit of an angle.  I love the color of it too.
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				<title>modgrl on "Problematic Skirt and Vest"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 24 Oct 2011 00:37:47 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>modgrl</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I'm sorry I don't see any problematic pieces. I think they are just fab! I like the vest thingy with the higher contrast shirt.
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				<title>Kyle on "Problematic Skirt and Vest"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 24 Oct 2011 00:32:17 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Kyle</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;They did not have the skirt in a smaller size, would have had to order it, maybe I should have done that -- of course nothing has been ironed. In the meantime, here is the vest with lower contrast. Still not sure...
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				<title>Sveta on "Problematic Skirt and Vest"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 24 Oct 2011 00:18:48 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Sveta</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I think the skirt may be a bit too big on you: see that puckering on your tummy? Other than that I think it looks great exactly like you styled this: I love brown and black together - and length is fine too. Have you tried to size down?&#060;br /&#062;
As for the vest I am not a big expert but have you tried to wear it with outfit #2? Maybe it should have less contrast with the top under it?
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				<title>Kyle on "Problematic Skirt and Vest"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 24 Oct 2011 00:13:29 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Kyle</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;This skirt just doesn't look right to me. Is it too big? Is it the length? Color? Styling (I'm wearing it here with black lace up boots and tights)? I bought it with a store credit, have never worn it, and don't want it to immediately become an orphan.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;This vest!  Oh, how I loved it when I tried it on in the store. But now, I can't for the life of me figure out how to style it. Maybe it's just not for me.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Give it to me straight, ladies.
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