https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/power-of Style Advice for Fashion Lovers en-US Fri, 22 May 2026 14:43:32 +0000 http://bbpress.org/?v=1.0.2 q https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/search.php https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/power-of#post-1915111 Tue, 01 May 2018 23:38:43 +0000 Sal 1915111@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I am not sure how to answer..... and I am not sure I feel that way about my wardrobe.&nbsp; I feel happy about it, and relaxed that I am set for 90% of likely occasions and 95% of possible occasions.</p> <p>I guess having a wardrobe that I like removes a level of stress from my life in that I feel prepared and happy to face the world.</p> <p>So maybe I can answer after all. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/power-of#post-1915058 Tue, 01 May 2018 21:42:58 +0000 The Cat 1915058@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I don't think I rely on power from my wardrobe. My strength comes from my faith in God and from the feeling of being loved by him and by many wonderful humans. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/power-of#post-1914876 Tue, 01 May 2018 15:04:40 +0000 Carla 1914876@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>The power that comes from my closet is akin to the power cindysmith gets from hers. In retrospect I realize that the last couple of years my clothes were protective armour/cocoon. The fact that I could pull an outfit from my closet that would make me comfortable in any situation I found myself let me forget about what I was wearing and focus my energies on the task at hand. </p> <p>Like binkie I sometimes look at old WIW pics and think 'what was I thinking', but other times I think 'd@*# I look good!' </p> <p>Now that I am retired from the world of big city office towers and difficult and often sad work, I feel different and far less in need of 'clothes as armour.' Earlier this year I identified a style shift towards a softer, more romantic version of my Tomboy persona (from Happy Tomboy to Elegant Tomboy). I don't quite have the wardrobe to completely realize my identity/authentic self - but curating a wardrobe is a lifelong process. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/power-of#post-1914860 Tue, 01 May 2018 14:18:49 +0000 Suz 1914860@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>What a great question. I think for me it is about authenticity. A style that's authentic (to me) &nbsp;feels natural, suited to the activity and environment, and for me, a bit playful as well. The power of my wardrobe comes from its cohesion and suitability to my lifestyle, and that in turn comes from self-knowledge.&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/power-of#post-1914828 Tue, 01 May 2018 12:31:15 +0000 Anonymous 1914828@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I agree with Gryffin and Stylefan. I think my power comes from the unexpected...being dressier than anyone in the room, mixing prints, being the only one in a dress or not wearing black pants. I feel powerful and authentic by letting my hair be its natural grey, not wearing nail polish, wearing flats.<br /> I know a lady who always looks powerful in hats. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/power-of#post-1914821 Tue, 01 May 2018 12:15:49 +0000 Janet 1914821@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>This is an interesting thing to ponder. I don't see the power in my wardrobe in any single aspect of it, but mainly as Angie says, as a sum of the parts.&nbsp;</p> <p>Cindysmith also strikes a chord with me, as the chameleon-abilities aspect of my wardrobe is a really powerful thing. I can turn out for a professional meeting or a "ladies who lunch" event if I need to, but also get compliments from tattooed rockabilly girls at a music festival for my stompy boots and leather jacket. I find that really powerful. And I also acknowledge that power doesn't come from the clothes, it comes from my ability to choose pieces that are flexible for me, and my creativity in putting them together.&nbsp;</p> <p>That said, having a good hair day and having the perfect shoes for any given outfit definitely are a special power boost for me. I think that's why I've been on a mission lately to update shoes. I started to realize that a lot of my shoes are from 5-10 years ago and no longer feel like the right finishing touches for my outfits, especially in summer.&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/power-of#post-1914809 Tue, 01 May 2018 11:54:12 +0000 Anonymous 1914809@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>First of all- you Friends are blowing me away with all your amazing responses.<br /> STERLING- I am not that far into the book so I am not sure how good it is. I think it’s been around for a while maybe. Bought cheap on Amazon secondary. I will post another review when I’m done though.<br /> As usual I think ANGIE nailed it with the whole being sum of parts- I saw it as fluidity of power but perhaps she pinpoints it better.<br /> BINKLEY - I think we all feel that way at times which is why it got me to stop reading and start pondering. This is why I love books in general and fashion books for fun and distressing.<br /> I love the fact that women are seeing themselves as powerful and seeing fashion as a tool in their arsenal for displaying that power.<br /> GRYFFIN, MAINELADY, CHRISM, STYLEFAN- you too are sending me down the same thought provoking path ANGIE started me down with her comments.<br /> Thanks to all- you confirm that fashion is not frivolous and can be a thought provoking and intellectual activity.... at times a brain teaser and a puzzle! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/power-of#post-1914803 Tue, 01 May 2018 11:30:07 +0000 cindysmith 1914803@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Interesting question. My wardrobe is my armor some days, allowing me to either blend into the background or give off a "stay away" vibe. So yeah, there's power in it somewhere.</p> <p>I think the power in my wardrobe is the way it can morph from "just fought my way through to the zombie apocalypse" to "hi, mom, let's do lunch!" and yet everything feels fairly cohesive when I look at the entirety of it. (And yes, I have packed for a visit to mom's with both of those elements in my suitcase at the same time.) So Angie is definitely on to something, because mine manages to feel cohesive to me in spite of the vastly different styles of its parts. Overall, it feels a bit minimalist (style-wise, not size-wise), and there's a pretty tight color palette going on. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/power-of#post-1914788 Tue, 01 May 2018 10:09:44 +0000 Style Fan 1914788@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Interesting question.&nbsp; I think the power of my wardrobe comes from how it all comes together.&nbsp; I stick to a colour palette that works for me and that I love, I like natural, simple pieces that are well made, I make sure I have the essentials covered before I look for statements and I splurge on jeans.&nbsp; We all have our priorities.&nbsp;<br />But really I don't think the power is a formula.&nbsp; For me, it is using my creative energy and applying some styling knowledge. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/power-of#post-1914785 Tue, 01 May 2018 10:02:21 +0000 gryffin 1914785@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Efbgen - chiming back in because Angie's comment made me think of something. And may I preface, I love questions like this!! "I believe that power is the sum of its parts." When I really think of power in an outfit I think that it transcends the sum of its parts. My analogy is like the quest movies. Indiana Jones or Lara Croft searching for all the ancient pieces of a rune of absolute power but it's only when then pieces are brought together and bound often by the smallest innocuous piece that they come alive. A great outfit lives - flattering, authentic, comfortable but it transcends the individual pieces both visually, physically and emotionally. That's where the power comes from and it is different because each great outfit is different but nonetheless the power is generated. It's in the mix. My wardrobe is full of "shankara stones!" But like the stones their power is to channel, focus and release our inner power. If that makes any sense. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/power-of#post-1914784 Tue, 01 May 2018 10:00:41 +0000 ChrisM 1914784@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>My power comes from looking confident, trustworthy, approachable and relevant - important for me in my field, and being on the cusp of 60, having to work with a wide variety of adult-aged folks in a conservative department (finance.)</p> <p>I know that’s a lot of descriptors, but that’s what I want to see and feel when I look in the mirror.</p> <p>To me that means neutral core of basics with interesting shapes and interesting accents - scarves, stacked necklaces inside a shirt collar, hair up and out of the way. Nothing gets in my way or is fiddley or revealing.</p> <p>When I succumb to temptation and buy outside of that feeling, I end up not wearing the garment - that is, until I can make it work (wide leg chinos, I’m looking at you.)</p> <p>(Haven’t given up on them quite yet so we’ll see closer to the end of the season.)</p> <p>Am looking forward to reading what others say!!! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/power-of#post-1914783 Tue, 01 May 2018 09:55:58 +0000 Mainelady 1914783@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>This is a fun question to ponder. On first thought, I think my personal power comes from within from feelings of gratitude, positivity and happiness. Extending to clothing, I think the most power comes from my happiness factors. No matter what challenges may be in a day, all I need to do is glance at my happiness factors for a boost and a reset.<br /> Ultimately, I do think Angie said it best with this quote, “I believe the power is the sum of its parts. Everthing feeds off of each other and causes the ripple effect.” This statement holds true for many things: family, friendships, colleagues. We are often at our best when surrounded by others. I think my clothing is the same. My LBD is great, but add sassy shoes, jewelry, a topper and the power factor is more. Maybe even Killer! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/power-of#post-1914778 Tue, 01 May 2018 09:40:24 +0000 Anonymous 1914778@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>What an intriguing set of questions!!!!!! &nbsp;On first glance, I was mortified that I couldn't say that my power came from any of the listed items. I am too "wall flower-ish." &nbsp;I am currently in a <u>wardrobe/style re-build</u>. &nbsp;If the book is on Amazon, I'll be buying it this evening. &nbsp;THANK YOU for the inspiration. &nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/power-of#post-1914776 Tue, 01 May 2018 09:32:17 +0000 gryffin 1914776@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>What a fascinating question! I must order this book immediately. "Where does the power come from? It comes from within." Chariots of fire. Power is when the exterior is perfectly aligned with the interior. Power is authenticity, elegance, refinement, quality. Power is formality. Power is black, charcoal, pearl gray and white. Power is blazers, and tough footwear with refined outfits. Power is the unexpected juxtaposition of ladylike and tough. Power is clean lines, great fabrics that feel wonderful on. True power is refusing to wear other, finding the "you" in pieces and outfits and choosing style over fashion. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/power-of#post-1914748 Tue, 01 May 2018 05:01:43 +0000 binkle 1914748@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Sometimes I wonder...<br /> I have items that make me feel "confident" or "powerful" - but hard to verbalize why. My Rick Owens booties make me feel taller, with a big confident stride. Or a sweater or skirt or pant fits just right and has some uniqueness....</p> <p>But every once on a while...<br /> I then catch my reflection or see a photo, and its all "Good grief, what was I thinking - I look like a durn fool!" </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/power-of#post-1914746 Tue, 01 May 2018 03:44:06 +0000 jussie 1914746@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Hmm brilliant question. I’m going to ponder on it but my initial answer is my power is in colour contrasts and prints.....<br /> but don’t hold me to that lol. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/power-of#post-1914741 Tue, 01 May 2018 03:13:25 +0000 Jaime 1914741@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>My wardrobe is powered by shoes. Perhaps because I see them the most. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/power-of#post-1914739 Tue, 01 May 2018 03:10:51 +0000 Anonymous 1914739@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Hot yoga fatigue- yikes. I would have more than fatigue- more like requiring hospitalization- I couldn’t make it through a full class so I will stick with regular yoga thank you.<br /> And thank you also for the added comment- I will have to show family and friends that someone actually put in writing that something I said made sense- lol. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/power-of#post-1914735 Tue, 01 May 2018 02:58:21 +0000 Angie 1914735@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p><b>efbgen</b>, it's not a loaded question. I meant it's a <i></i><i>deep</i><i></i> question. My apologies - (hot yoga fatigue).</p> <p>It makes sense that you switch from where you think the power of your wardrobe lies. I believe the power is<u> </u><u><i>the sum of its parts. Everthing feeds off of each other causing a ripple&nbsp;effect that creates the&nbsp;whole.&nbsp;</i></u></p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/power-of#post-1914732 Tue, 01 May 2018 02:49:40 +0000 Anonymous 1914732@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Wow ANGIE- I didn’t think it was a loaded question. How so??<br /> The comment just got me to stop reading and start thinking- then I thought it would be an interesting question to post.<br /> So the crazy thing is, I think the power in my wardrobe is fluid- by that I mean some days I think my power is in basics, other days it’s my accessories, other days my power is my confidence in my color palette<br /> ( I’ve spent years exploring color to find my absolute best ones).<br /> Not sure if I ever see my power in being a sporty classic- just what’s comfortable for me- guess what you would call “authentic “.<br /> So now - how do you see it as a loaded question- I find it curious;-)</p> <p>RACHYLOU- you are a hoot and a treasure!<br /> TOBAN- ANGIE’s philosophical side is contagious.<br /> BARBARA- your power is color but you don’t include it??</p> <p>Thanks for partaking in this brain stretching exercise- lol. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/power-of#post-1914716 Tue, 01 May 2018 02:24:05 +0000 Angie 1914716@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Nice. Fun to think about.&nbsp;</p> <p>How about you, <b>efbgen</b>? Where does the power come from in your wardrobe? </p> <p>I love my wardrobe, and hug it every morning. I feel very lucky and am very grateful to be in this position. </p> <p>The power in my wardrobe comes from&nbsp;the immense joy and satisfaction my outfits give me because they feel authentic. I’m not trying to be or look like anyone else but me in my body, at my age, with my sartorial preferences. It’s something that I thoughtfully and carefully built over time, which gives me satisfaction too. I am completely comfortable emotionally and physically, which creates a sense of confidence and calm. That way I can forget about my outfit and get on with what life has to offer - and help others find where the power of their wardrobe lies... </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/power-of#post-1914713 Tue, 01 May 2018 02:12:34 +0000 rachylou 1914713@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Ok. And then like last year or whatever - I was talking about how I fell off a horse on a jump and my boss was all like, ‘You ride horses? I just don’t see that.’ It’s the green hair and combat boots. </p> <p>I don’t wanna wear tweed! :p </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/power-of#post-1914711 Tue, 01 May 2018 02:02:30 +0000 Barbara Diane 1914711@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Lol rachylou. </p> <p>And maybe color, although I don’t always include it. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/power-of#post-1914710 Tue, 01 May 2018 02:02:19 +0000 Toban 1914710@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I like that quote. Clothing is our outer reflection, but we have the choice on what that is and how others may see us (and thus our identity). I find power in clean lines that still have movement. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/power-of#post-1914709 Tue, 01 May 2018 01:57:37 +0000 rachylou 1914709@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Oh gosh. How interesting! I can get all deep about this, lol. I mean here right here is my problem. I can’t sustain any power dressing for the long haul. I like to play and be frivolous with clothing. I can Power Dress long enough to get a date, but a few years in and I want to go out to dinner wearing an apron. And I don’t want to date anyone as sartorially frivolous as me. You see the problem. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/power-of#post-1914703 Tue, 01 May 2018 01:39:24 +0000 Anonymous 1914703@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I am currently reading George Brescia’s book- “Change Your Clothes Change Your Life” . He says “Clothing, more than any of our possessions, has the power to define our identity.”</p> <p>Where is the power in your wardrobe?<br /> Is it in your basics? or<br /> your accessories? or<br /> Your color palette ? or<br /> your style lines? or<br /> Something else- like confidence! </p>