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			<title>YouLookFab Forum &#187; Topic: Post-Trauma Shopping</title>
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				<title>Sarah A on "Post-Trauma Shopping"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/post-trauma-shopping/page/2#post-1081145</link>
				<pubDate>Mon, 11 Nov 2013 13:28:32 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Sarah A</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Well... I popped over bc i was wortied you had a terrible experience. But no...phew! Hair looks great  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-smile icon-emoticon-smile "></span>  i am oversizing my sweaters right now bc i find i shrink them a bit in the wash and the extra size allows for longer wear. The b&#038;amp;w top is fantastic. B&#038;amp;w items have been huge workhorses for me this year and i see this working for you as well!
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				<title>AJ on "Post-Trauma Shopping"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/post-trauma-shopping/page/2#post-1080996</link>
				<pubDate>Mon, 11 Nov 2013 05:57:26 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>AJ</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Oohhh, the hair cut is lovely! Did the stylist straighten it? You have natural waves, yes?&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;You know, I feel the same way you do when I've tried on tops that have dark raglan sleeves with a printed body.  Although I don't dislike #1, I do think you can do better.  I've been on the lookout for a solid dark body and lighter raglan sleeves with or without a print.  Haven't found one yet unfortunately.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I'm not sure what it is about the blouse in #2 that is throwing me off...maybe it's the high neckline in combination with the closely spaced print? IDK.
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				<title>Debbie on "Post-Trauma Shopping"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 11 Nov 2013 04:43:48 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Debbie</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Love your hair and that blouse!
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				<title>lyn67 on "Post-Trauma Shopping"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/post-trauma-shopping/page/2#post-1080654</link>
				<pubDate>Sun, 10 Nov 2013 20:51:09 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>lyn67</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;New hair is smashing, and love all the 3 outfits! They ae simple and strong, my fave features for you! And, I love the sweater, as it is! But looking forward to see a size larger for comparison, if possible-not much of a help, I know! But be sure, YLF!
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				<title>oolagirl(Colleen) on "Post-Trauma Shopping"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/post-trauma-shopping/page/2#post-1080645</link>
				<pubDate>Sun, 10 Nov 2013 20:34:59 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>oolagirl(Colleen)</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I am a lurker, because I am not good with photos, but I love your outfits, and I think all 3 are fab! You and I have similar shapes, so I love looking at your pics because I can visualize how they would look on me! You are looking thin! And I would keep the sweater as is, it is great :)&#060;/p&#062;
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				<title>Day Vies on "Post-Trauma Shopping"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sat, 09 Nov 2013 15:48:44 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Day Vies</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Nice hair cut!&#038;nbsp; I am definitely of the mind that print hides a multitude of sins. So worries about pattern on the belly should melt away since pattern there flattens everything out.&#038;nbsp; 2 &#038;amp; 3 are my favorites. I love the design and fit in sweater #1 but I have a preference for higher contrasts. I think these work -- especially the silky blouse I love how it reads gray although it's black and white. Great finds. 
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				<title>Anonymous on "Post-Trauma Shopping"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/post-trauma-shopping/page/2#post-1079997</link>
				<pubDate>Sat, 09 Nov 2013 15:45:01 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Anonymous</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Look, the haircut looks beautiful on you!  The sweater is my favorite of your finds.
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				<title>Ornella on "Post-Trauma Shopping"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sat, 09 Nov 2013 09:57:44 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Ornella</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;So, this is that magic haircut. I like this length on you. Let us know if it behaves as expected.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;The sweater is great, looking fwd to seeing it larger.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I like the silk blouse. I think it's an interesting piece for more 'conservative' capsule or occasions when worn on its own.&#038;nbsp;As a layering piece for every day / more casual capsule&#038;nbsp;I would like to see it work with such bright, cheerful pieces as the cobalt jacket which seem to work better with your skin tone.
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				<title>vipanchi on "Post-Trauma Shopping"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/post-trauma-shopping/page/2#post-1079894</link>
				<pubDate>Sat, 09 Nov 2013 09:36:36 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>vipanchi</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I actually like the blouse better than the sweater and it looks great on you! Also I think it maybe more versatile than the sweater in mixing with bright pops of color like you have.
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				<title>Lyn D. on "Post-Trauma Shopping"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sat, 09 Nov 2013 09:02:51 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Lyn D.</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Great sweater, and you are probably right about this being the better size, but double checking won't hurt.&#060;br /&#062;The shirt is nice with jacket on, but if you aren't loving it and it isn't filling a wardrobe hole I wouldn't take the tags off just yet.&#060;br /&#062;Love your hair!
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				<title>Jeanie on "Post-Trauma Shopping"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/post-trauma-shopping#post-1079867</link>
				<pubDate>Sat, 09 Nov 2013 06:52:32 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Jeanie</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I just loved that blouse when I saw it in your hair cut post. &#038;nbsp;Hope you keep it!
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				<title>Scarlet on "Post-Trauma Shopping"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/post-trauma-shopping#post-1079859</link>
				<pubDate>Sat, 09 Nov 2013 06:23:22 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Scarlet</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Oh by your title, I was afraid your haircut turned out to be a trauma. I think it is just right! I think the color and pattern of the sweater are fabulous and I like the blouse very much too. Especially with the cobalt blazer--the neutral pattern works so well with the lovely color. Both keepers.
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				<title>Beth Ann on "Post-Trauma Shopping"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/post-trauma-shopping#post-1079785</link>
				<pubDate>Sat, 09 Nov 2013 04:20:25 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Beth Ann</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Peacechick: Yes, you're helping.&#038;nbsp; All opinions, warmly offered, are helpful!&#038;nbsp; K/R threads should always have a wide variety of opinions.&#038;nbsp;&#038;nbsp; The next step for me is to evaluate how both these items fit in my overall wardrobe.&#038;nbsp; I think I'll try the sweater sized up for comparison, and I'll style the blouse with other pieces in my wardrobe.&#038;nbsp; The pattern is &#034;clearer&#034; and more black and white close up --- it looks kind of mushy grey from a distance.&#038;nbsp; &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Has anyone else noticed that some items look better from a distance, and others shine more in closeup?
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				<title>peacechick on "Post-Trauma Shopping"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sat, 09 Nov 2013 03:21:19 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>peacechick</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I'm probably not helping but I really like the sweater and think it looks good as is, but am not a fan of the silky blouse. It does work well with the blazer but I find it too busy on its own.
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				<title>Beth Ann on "Post-Trauma Shopping"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/post-trauma-shopping#post-1079694</link>
				<pubDate>Sat, 09 Nov 2013 02:31:22 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Beth Ann</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;You guys are so helpful!&#038;nbsp; I think you have something, Karymk.&#038;nbsp; I wondered if it could have something to do with a low camera angle (at belly height), but I do think the solid sleeves in contrast with the patterned body might be creating a widening effect.&#038;nbsp; This may be why I rejected the larger size, with more slouch in the band area.&#038;nbsp; Hmmmmmmm.... off to contemplate.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Shannon:&#038;nbsp; Close up, the blouse reads more black/white.&#038;nbsp; The density of the print makes it appear grey from a distance.&#038;nbsp; It seems &#034;clearer&#034; if you know what I mean.&#038;nbsp; I think I look best in clear tones.&#038;nbsp; Smokey or powdered shades are death inducing.
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				<title>karymk on "Post-Trauma Shopping"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sat, 09 Nov 2013 02:21:38 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>karymk</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I love the blouse and jacket. Bravo. &#038;nbsp;But I feel like since the sweater's shoulder seams point IN toward your shoulders its creating this illusion of your tummy being wider than the shoulder area. &#038;nbsp;Do you see that? The colors and print are not the problem. &#038;nbsp;Neither is your body! It's the style of this particular garment. &#038;nbsp;If it had been an allover pattern and not the solid shoulders/sleeves, I think it would have worked fine.
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				<title>Debora on "Post-Trauma Shopping"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 08 Nov 2013 01:58:04 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Debora</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I love both on you, Beth Ann! You look beautiful in berry tones, whichever size you decide on. Thumbs up on the print. It is especially striking with the cobalt blazer. I can't forget your haircut. Beautiful!
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				<title>carambola on "Post-Trauma Shopping"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/post-trauma-shopping#post-1078473</link>
				<pubDate>Fri, 08 Nov 2013 01:50:53 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>carambola</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Your hair looks fantastic! So shiny and sleek like this and I can see the layers encouraging your natural wave too when you want the beachy look.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Also loving the sweater and blouse. 
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				<title>Transcona Shannon on "Post-Trauma Shopping"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/post-trauma-shopping#post-1078457</link>
				<pubDate>Fri, 08 Nov 2013 01:44:20 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Transcona Shannon</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Your hair looks great Beth Ann - nothing like &#038;nbsp;trip to the salon to make a gal feel great!&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Love the pattern and colour in the sweater - beautiful with the colours in your wardrobe. I hope you can try the larger size for comparison sake.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I like the silk blouse too even though grey tones are not my favourite on you. With the cobalt jacket - lovely!
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				<title>carter on "Post-Trauma Shopping"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/post-trauma-shopping#post-1078443</link>
				<pubDate>Fri, 08 Nov 2013 01:32:46 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>carter</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I know I'm in the minority here, but I don't think either one does you justice.  You're young and pretty.  Neither of these supports that to me.  Go for a bit of swank to match that awesome 'do!
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				<title>minimalist on "Post-Trauma Shopping"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/post-trauma-shopping#post-1078412</link>
				<pubDate>Fri, 08 Nov 2013 01:04:45 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>minimalist</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;The colors in the sweater are fab on you, but IIRC, the sweater as a whole isn't an improvement on what I've seen so far of your wardrobe.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Hair is still wow!
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				<title>Amy on "Post-Trauma Shopping"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/post-trauma-shopping#post-1078400</link>
				<pubDate>Fri, 08 Nov 2013 00:51:53 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Amy</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Your new 'do is gorgeous! I love the blouse!
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				<title>Mochi on "Post-Trauma Shopping"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/post-trauma-shopping#post-1078344</link>
				<pubDate>Thu, 07 Nov 2013 23:48:31 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Mochi</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I like the blouse more (it's beautiful on you, actually), but I do like the color of the sweater and think it could be layered successfully, or you can try, at least.&#038;nbsp;
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&#060;p&#062;Yes, the haircut is outstanding.&#038;nbsp;&#060;/p&#062;
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				<title>TraceyLiz65 on "Post-Trauma Shopping"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 07 Nov 2013 23:44:22 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>TraceyLiz65</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Love the hair and sweater looks great as is especiallly with plans to layer it. &#038;nbsp;Love the blouse as well, what a fun day!&#038;nbsp;
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				<title>MsMary on "Post-Trauma Shopping"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/post-trauma-shopping#post-1078317</link>
				<pubDate>Thu, 07 Nov 2013 23:14:55 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>MsMary</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Love the hair, love the sweater, love the blouse!&#038;nbsp; And love your pretty smile!
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				<title>Sara L. on "Post-Trauma Shopping"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/post-trauma-shopping#post-1078310</link>
				<pubDate>Thu, 07 Nov 2013 23:08:37 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Sara L.</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I think they both look good on you. &#038;nbsp;I like the pattern on the sweater and don't think the pattern is too busy. &#038;nbsp;I think whether you get the larger size or not depends on how you plan to wear the sweater. &#038;nbsp;If you primarily want it as an underlayer, then the smaller size will work better.
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				<title>Peri on "Post-Trauma Shopping"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 07 Nov 2013 23:04:04 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Peri</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Great haircut!
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				<title>unfrumped on "Post-Trauma Shopping"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 07 Nov 2013 23:00:34 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I am going to sound like the echo, too. The colors in the sweater are spot on for you. The blouse&#038;nbsp;from a distance can look not to striking&#038;nbsp;but up close the print is very unusual, and I like that. I think it looks good with the blazer but I think the blouse print tones will&#038;nbsp;pair better with another color, actually--something that doesn't pop against it so much, since it runs subdued in tonal quality--maybe black, charcoal, or burgundy.
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				<title>Beth Ann on "Post-Trauma Shopping"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 07 Nov 2013 22:41:55 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Beth Ann</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Thanks, all!&#038;nbsp; &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I will see if I can make a jaunt to get the larger size in the sweater for comparison.&#038;nbsp; It isn't snug, but the next size up is slouchier, but wouldn't fit under things as well.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I appreciate the warm encouragement and the honest opinions, too!&#038;nbsp; 
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				<title>Parsley on "Post-Trauma Shopping"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 07 Nov 2013 22:25:53 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Parsley</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Love your haircut, Beth Ann! It looks very current, and the layers frame your face nicely.&#060;br /&#062;I agree with Angie that I'd like to see the next size in the sweater, although that one doesn't look bad. The color's great on you!&#060;br /&#062;&#060;u&#062;Love&#060;/u&#062; the&#060;u&#062;&#060;/u&#062; blouse!&#060;/p&#062;
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