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			<title>YouLookFab Forum &#187; Topic: Possession is 9/10 of the...temptation?</title>
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				<title>The Cat on "Possession is 9/10 of the...temptation?"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/possession-is-910-of-thetemptation#post-2124903</link>
				<pubDate>Mon, 01 Jun 2020 20:17:23 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>The Cat</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;What a pretty top! Keep! Chic styling!&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I have often split a PJ set or a lounge set and worn one of the items out of the house, mixed with &#034;streetwear.&#034; Got lots of compliments and no comments on &#034;sleepwear.&#034; These days, dressing is all about the styling, and the borders between different &#034;wears&#034; are fluent.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;In fact, I no longer buy items that scream &#034;sleepwear&#034; or &#034;loungewear,&#034; as I want most items I own to be versatile enough to be worn in more than one setting. This is also very practical when travelling.  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-wink icon-emoticon-wink "></span> 
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				<title>Vix on "Possession is 9/10 of the...temptation?"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/possession-is-910-of-thetemptation#post-2124761</link>
				<pubDate>Sun, 31 May 2020 18:18:03 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Vix</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Hi Unfrumped —&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I would keep as silk-cotton feels like heaven on in hot weather and the print is just a “generic” beautiful floral vs something that skews pj-esque.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I’m sure someone in your circle might take the pants.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Re care: silk fibers dislike being wet for too long and agitation. &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I know many wash in their machine but I follow the “dump in a sink (or bucket) filled with cold water + liquid gentle cleaner; swish gently; set timer for 20 minutes; come back, swish while rinsing in cold, roll in towel, drip dry” method. Also my bra wash method so as long as I make sure hooks are hooked, I get a 2 for 1 chore and  it takes me 5 minutes of actual labor time.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;[I use handsoap or my reg unscented laundry detergent and have a basket of hangers ready for all my air dry stuff so I’m not digging around for them!]
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				<title>cindysmith on "Possession is 9/10 of the...temptation?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sun, 31 May 2020 14:35:39 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>cindysmith</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I have literally actually worn a whole matching pajama set out &#038;amp; about and called it an outfit in the early aughts. Granted, it was a lovely cream satin set, but it felt so studio 54 or something that I rocked the heck out of it. These days, many satin tops look like pajama tops, so why on earth wouldn't it be ok to wear a pajama top and call it a shirt? I love it on you as a legit top and say HECK YEAH JUST DO IT! :-D&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;And gentle cycle air/line dry should be sufficient. I rarely take ANYTHING to the cleaners because a gentle cold water wash is actually better for the fibers than dry cleaning chemicals.
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				<title>Suz on "Possession is 9/10 of the...temptation?"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/possession-is-910-of-thetemptation#post-2124541</link>
				<pubDate>Sat, 30 May 2020 18:36:44 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Suz</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;It's really pretty and works as a shirt to my eye, but if &#060;b&#062;Staysfit&#060;/b&#062; is right about durability, that would be a real concern!&#038;nbsp;
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				<title>unfrumped on "Possession is 9/10 of the...temptation?"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/possession-is-910-of-thetemptation#post-2124535</link>
				<pubDate>Sat, 30 May 2020 17:38:50 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>unfrumped</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Staysfit, wow, I’ll need to think about washing care concerns. That would let some air out of the balloon for sure.&#060;br /&#062;
My overall yearly dry cleaning would be down from a workwear standpoint and I would want to keep it tgat way, not only for budgeting but for change in style goals and roles.&#060;br /&#062;
Hmmmm.
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				<title>Carla on "Possession is 9/10 of the...temptation?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sat, 30 May 2020 16:35:32 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Carla</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;
&#060;div&#062;You are right on trend! &#038;nbsp;‘The Accidental Icon’ posted April 27th about her &#038;nbsp;current ‘uniform’ of silk pyjama tops and jeans.&#060;br /&#062;&#060;/div&#062;&#060;a rel=&#034;nofollow&#034; href=&#034;https://www.accidentalicon.com/blog/2020/04/27/silent-witness/&#034;&#062;&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;&#060;/a&#062;
&#060;p&#062;&#060;a rel=&#034;nofollow&#034; href=&#034;https://www.accidentalicon.com/blog/2020/04/27/silent-witness/&#034;&#062;&#060;/a&#062;
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&#060;p&#062;&#060;a rel=&#034;nofollow&#034; href=&#034;https://www.accidentalicon.com/blog/2020/04/27/silent-witness/&#034;&#062;https://www.accidentalicon.com.....t-witness/&#060;/a&#062;&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;&#060;div&#062;&#060;br /&#062;&#060;/div&#062;&#060;div&#062;&#060;br /&#062;&#060;/div&#062;
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				<title>Stagiaire Fash on "Possession is 9/10 of the...temptation?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sat, 30 May 2020 12:33:01 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Stagiaire Fash</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Sounds like you've already made your decision; good thing I agree with it. That fabric sounds like a dream. If you find that it does wrinkle too much for your tastes, you can always demote the top back to pajama/at-home only status. 
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				<title>Staysfit on "Possession is 9/10 of the...temptation?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sat, 30 May 2020 12:24:31 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Staysfit</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I vote yes, but I also want to warn you that if you keep, this item needs to be dry cleaned.  I have owned Papinelle silk lounge wear and they tear when I wash them by hand.  The silk feels substantial,  so I cannot explain why, but it has happened more than once.  I have not had that problem with other hand washed silk.
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				<title>Brooklyn on "Possession is 9/10 of the...temptation?"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/possession-is-910-of-thetemptation#post-2124454</link>
				<pubDate>Sat, 30 May 2020 12:06:43 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Brooklyn</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Yes, why not! A shirt or blouse (any shirt or blouse) reads dressy to me. I would definitely wear a t-shirt to bed, or out and about, depending on how much I liked it, without a second thought. Looks good too.
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				<title>unfrumped on "Possession is 9/10 of the...temptation?"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/possession-is-910-of-thetemptation#post-2124347</link>
				<pubDate>Fri, 29 May 2020 21:43:47 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>unfrumped</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Janet, sorry , that does look better- will see if I can try that in future.
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				<title>Janet on "Possession is 9/10 of the...temptation?"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/possession-is-910-of-thetemptation#post-2124327</link>
				<pubDate>Fri, 29 May 2020 20:07:19 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Janet</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I think it works. &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Would it be possible for you to crop your photos before posting so that we can see you better? There is a lot of foreground in the pics, which means that you are tiny in the background and it’s hard to see the outfit, especially on my phone. Example below.
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				<title>MsMary on "Possession is 9/10 of the...temptation?"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/possession-is-910-of-thetemptation#post-2124326</link>
				<pubDate>Fri, 29 May 2020 20:06:26 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I would totally keep it and wear it. One of my favorite bloggers, Lisa from Respect the Shoes, often wears a PJ top as a shirt!
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				<title>rachylou on "Possession is 9/10 of the...temptation?"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/possession-is-910-of-thetemptation#post-2124323</link>
				<pubDate>Fri, 29 May 2020 20:00:45 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>rachylou</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;That’s a pj top? Wear it regular. It’s fab!
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				<title>unfrumped on "Possession is 9/10 of the...temptation?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 29 May 2020 19:40:12 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>unfrumped</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Thank you, slim cat ,Angie, suntiger, SarahD8 and Liesbeth.&#060;br /&#062;Angie, I would never have thought I might be in the pajama trend line, but then nothing is as I expected these past few months. Really, I think it is that I have a soft spot for certain fabrics--I see that first rather than the specific category of the garment, and then those seem to work with what I like to wear.&#038;nbsp; &#038;nbsp; &#038;nbsp;I may just try this out.&#060;br /&#062;&#038;nbsp;&#038;nbsp;
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				<title>Liesbeth on "Possession is 9/10 of the...temptation?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 29 May 2020 18:04:44 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Liesbeth</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I thin I've seen pyama style tops like this for regular wear at retail, so why not ;).
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				<title>SarahD8 on "Possession is 9/10 of the...temptation?"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/possession-is-910-of-thetemptation#post-2124280</link>
				<pubDate>Fri, 29 May 2020 17:55:41 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>SarahD8</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;FYI I have several silk-cotton shirts and I have had good luck machine washing on delicate and hanging to dry. Caveat that I don't require my clothes to be perfectly crisp, smooth, and pressed. Actually I find that silk-cotton blends wrinkle less than some 100% cotton weaves.&#038;nbsp;&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;The print on this top looks lovely and clearly you have several good ways to style it. I say go for it!&#038;nbsp;
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				<title>Anonymous on "Possession is 9/10 of the...temptation?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 29 May 2020 17:39:07 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Anonymous</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I agree, it just looks like a nice blouse to me! And happy retirement  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-smile icon-emoticon-smile "></span> 
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				<title>Angie on "Possession is 9/10 of the...temptation?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 29 May 2020 17:34:20 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Angie</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;You just set the Stylish Pajama Top Trend :)&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Why not?&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;You make retired life look fabulous!&#060;/p&#062;
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				<title>slim cat on "Possession is 9/10 of the...temptation?"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/possession-is-910-of-thetemptation#post-2124233</link>
				<pubDate>Fri, 29 May 2020 16:25:51 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>slim cat</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I vote keep and wear it - that top looks great in all your outfits! &#060;br /&#062;I've got a pajama printed pants a few years ago ( shaped like joggers ) and I wear those every summer. My pajama pants have classic black&#038;amp;white print and elastic waist with flat front.&#060;br /&#062;Plus this past couple seasons I've seen tops done in &#034;pajama style&#034; - they all had one pocket, white trim and looked exactly like real pajama.
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				<title>unfrumped on "Possession is 9/10 of the...temptation?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 29 May 2020 16:10:22 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>unfrumped</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Thank you for commenting.&#060;br /&#062;
Lisa p, that is an important consideration. It passes the “ scrunch test” when dry, but that’s not the same as wearing IRL or coming through tgd wash. The fabric is so light I would plan wash on delicate with minimal spin and hang dry.  A dark print is more forgiving but still would not want just a mass of wrinkles. I have given away items that turned out to wrinkle impossibly.
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				<title>JAileen on "Possession is 9/10 of the...temptation?"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/possession-is-910-of-thetemptation#post-2124221</link>
				<pubDate>Fri, 29 May 2020 15:57:22 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I think it looks very nice. &#038;nbsp;The buttons definitely do not look like PJs. &#038;nbsp;The pocket is the only detail gives me pause. &#038;nbsp;However, I seriously doubt anyone would think you forgot to change out of your nightclothes.
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				<title>Vildy on "Possession is 9/10 of the...temptation?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 29 May 2020 15:53:37 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Vildy</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Some while ago I had been reading a men's style forum that was typically concerned with what was &#034;correct.&#034;&#038;nbsp; One fella asked for his wife, about the exact length her blazer sleeves should be for business.&#038;nbsp; Would it be the same as for a man's blazer? He immediately got the answer that women have glamour and owing to this can break any &#034;rules&#034; they want.&#038;nbsp;
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				<title>avicennia on "Possession is 9/10 of the...temptation?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 29 May 2020 15:44:27 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>avicennia</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;#3 is lovely.  I say keep and wear without hesitation!
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				<title>Anonymous on "Possession is 9/10 of the...temptation?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 29 May 2020 15:37:24 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Hard to really assess it from that distance, and under a jacket, but the print is really pretty , and if it feels great on, then go for it! &#038;nbsp;And who cares what anyone might think ! &#038;nbsp;My only worry - it is silk/cotton....how will it be to wash and wear? Will it require a ton of ironing ?
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				<title>Preppy Pear on "Possession is 9/10 of the...temptation?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 29 May 2020 13:28:25 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Definitely wear it as a top!  Looks great to me. If I ever recognized it as a pajama top I’d just think you had lots of savoir faire.
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				<title>Sisi on "Possession is 9/10 of the...temptation?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 29 May 2020 13:07:09 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I like it! To me it looks&#038;nbsp;a beautiful shirt. And yes, who cares?
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				<title>unfrumped on "Possession is 9/10 of the...temptation?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 29 May 2020 13:00:50 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Or, would you wear this pajama top as a real shirt?&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I ordered these pajamas specifically for my loungewear capsule and mostly for the shirt to fit into an olive capsule. I have found it harder than expected to find items with a bit of olive-y color. All but the smallest size were sold out and I knew the pants would never fit unless it ran huge, and probably not the shirt. But stubbornly ordered anyway.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;So the pants do not fit but the shirt does and I love colors in the print-quiet but seem to go with a lot of things as have navy, more blue, olive, blush, dove grays. It is very nice tucked ,&#038;nbsp; and the silk-cotton fabric gives the drape I need for tucking shirts, otherwise crisp fabrics don't work well for me; though, for just at home I would wear untucked, likely.&#038;nbsp;&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I will have to struggle with K/R since I can only use the top but now that it is in my house and I have played with it, it is growing hooks, and I&#038;nbsp; am quite tempted to say what the heck and wear a pajama top as a regular shirt including for &#034;non-business business casual&#034; (meaning low-stakes , now retired). I could change the buttons--though would still have to use same size button.&#038;nbsp;&#060;br /&#062;Have shown with my ancient linen jacket and a casual olive rayon pant, then navy pleated pants with the Nic + Zoe coral jacket, and RL silk jacket. I would also wear for pandemic out-of-the house to stay in practice for later.&#038;nbsp;&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;&#038;nbsp;I mean, what is the likelihood that someone will say, &#034;Er, I think you forgot to change out of your pajama top because I have seen that very thing on the Nordstrom website as I was shopping for WFH loungewear?&#034;&#038;nbsp; Of course they might THINK it, but who cares?&#060;/p&#062;
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