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			<title>YouLookFab Forum &#187; Topic: Please talk me out of this dress!</title>
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				<title>Carole  on "Please talk me out of this dress!"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 12 Jul 2013 23:53:13 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Carole </dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;It's a good thing everyone chimed in before me....lots of good reasons to save your money. I loved the dress but when ruffles were mentioned as being problematic it makes sense to wait. Bravo for your discipline...you will be rewarded for your strength...kind of sounds like a fortune from a cookie!
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				<title>Kristin L on "Please talk me out of this dress!"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 12 Jul 2013 23:25:02 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Kristin L</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Ohh, I hadn't thought about wearing a topper with the dress. Good call columbine!&#038;nbsp;&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;@Isabel - True! I don't want to too look too young.  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-biggrin icon-emoticon-biggrin "></span> 
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				<title>Anonymous on "Please talk me out of this dress!"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 12 Jul 2013 23:18:51 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Anonymous</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;It's really cute, but hold out for just the right one. It will be right for your budget too. Hang in there!
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				<title>columbine(erin) on "Please talk me out of this dress!"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 12 Jul 2013 23:08:43 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>columbine(erin)</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I like the dress a lot, but wonder how the ruffly neckline would work with toppers. I have a really pretty Modcloth dress I don't wear much because details at the shoulder don't lay nicely under anything.
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				<title>TraceyLiz65 on "Please talk me out of this dress!"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 12 Jul 2013 23:06:29 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>TraceyLiz65</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I know the appeal of a polk a dot dress, still trying ot replace one myself, but I want somethng that I love and am not going to settle.. If ruffles aren't a 10 for you move on, the right one will come along...
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				<title>ElleH on "Please talk me out of this dress!"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 12 Jul 2013 22:18:49 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>ElleH</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Yes if you're not loving the ruffles I will add that I'm not a fan of them for me. I wasn't sure what your style was though.
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				<title>Isabel on "Please talk me out of this dress!"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 12 Jul 2013 22:15:01 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Isabel</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I love what La Belle said. We do tend to think of things as &#034;once in a lifetime&#034; opportunity and there is always something coming down the pipe.&#038;nbsp;&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Besides, you will look too good for this dress once you get your Botox ! &#038;nbsp;LOL ! ( that was a very funny post )&#038;nbsp;&#060;/p&#062;
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				<title>cinnamon fern on "Please talk me out of this dress!"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 12 Jul 2013 22:07:12 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>cinnamon fern</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Oh, since you mentioned the ruffles - I definitely think a version of this without ruffles would be better - especially if you are thinking of this as a work dress. &#038;nbsp;Combining polka dots and ruffles is combining two girly (feminine + young) elements, which is tricky to pull off, especially in a professional context.
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				<title>Kristin L on "Please talk me out of this dress!"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 12 Jul 2013 21:50:51 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Kristin L</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;It does Elle. I've been looking for a nice polka dot dress for a while, but I need to remind myself that there will be more. And probably without ruffles.
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				<title>ElleH on "Please talk me out of this dress!"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 12 Jul 2013 20:57:18 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>ElleH</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;It is not so unique that you wouldn't find one again, maybe even cheaper. Did that help?
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				<title>Kristin L on "Please talk me out of this dress!"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 12 Jul 2013 20:52:19 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Kristin L</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Thanks Glory, LBD and Thistle! Those are great questions and it doesn't pass them all.
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				<title>Thistle on "Please talk me out of this dress!"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 12 Jul 2013 20:47:18 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Thistle</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Okay, so helping talk you out of it:&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;#1 - no sleeves.&#038;nbsp; This is usually a deal killer for me. Especially as I find it so hard to find the right jacket to match with a dress (need perfect length, color, neckline etc.)&#060;br /&#062;#2 - Cost of the dress is only the begining. This is a high maintenance piece with the corresponding dry cleaning bill.&#060;br /&#062;#3 - This dress begs for heels, and fussy feet do NOT do heels.
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				<title>Mary Beth (formerly LBD) on "Please talk me out of this dress!"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 12 Jul 2013 20:46:06 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Mary Beth (formerly LBD)</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Two things to consider:&#038;nbsp; if it disappears again, will you feel relieved?&#038;nbsp;  Or will you kick yourself that you missed the dress again?&#038;nbsp; &#038;nbsp; And... this isn't the last beautiful dress you will ever see.&#038;nbsp; &#038;nbsp; There will always be another glorious, fantastic dress waiting for you.
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				<title>Glory on "Please talk me out of this dress!"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 12 Jul 2013 20:26:27 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Glory</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Oh no. Are you looking for a dress at the moment to add to your closet? Would you wear it to work and do you have other places to wear it?&#060;br /&#062;On the pro side this one could work for work but also for events which to me is always a plus. I mean like a wedding with red shoes etc.&#060;br /&#062;But if you are covered in that area I think given you say it isn't currently in the budget it is best to admire from afar.
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				<title>Kristin L on "Please talk me out of this dress!"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 12 Jul 2013 20:18:19 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Kristin L</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I found a gorgeous Kate Spade dress on a resale site I like to browse and I really need some help talking myself out of it. I saw it a while back, then it disappeared and then reappeared.&#038;nbsp;From the measurements given, it looks like it would fit me great, it looks like a great professional dress and it has polka dots. Unfortunately, It's really hard for me justify $90 for a dress right now. Of course, if one of y'all want to buy it and save me from myself, I'm ok with that. :)&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;&#060;a rel=&#034;nofollow&#034; href=&#034;https://www.liketwice.com/item/dresses/kate-spade/3546585789&#034;&#062;https://www.liketwice.com/item.....3546585789&#060;/a&#062;
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