https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/please-help-me-pack Style Advice for Fashion Lovers en-US Fri, 10 Apr 2026 12:21:14 +0000 http://bbpress.org/?v=1.0.2 q https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/search.php https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/please-help-me-pack/page/2#post-2268489 Fri, 24 Jun 2022 07:49:34 +0000 rachylou 2268489@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Your bases look well covered. Boy looks like the weather will be hot! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/please-help-me-pack/page/2#post-2268488 Fri, 24 Jun 2022 07:47:14 +0000 Star (Lise) 2268488@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I think your proposed items are perfect.&nbsp; The only item I would discard is the red denim jacket, no need to double up, if space is an issue. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/please-help-me-pack/page/2#post-2268470 Thu, 23 Jun 2022 23:56:24 +0000 nemosmom 2268470@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>You’ve already received great advice, and I have nothing valuable to add to the packing question. But just a virtual hug ahead of your trip. Be gentle with yourself :). Safe travels! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/please-help-me-pack/page/2#post-2268460 Thu, 23 Jun 2022 21:21:07 +0000 Zaeobi 2268460@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>If the last leg of your journey is the most variable, could you perhaps ship some of the items you needed for that ahead of time (to save some luggage space)? </p> <p>I like the idea someone else mentioned, of posting the no-longer-needed leftovers back to yourself once you're done with them. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/please-help-me-pack/page/2#post-2268459 Thu, 23 Jun 2022 21:11:42 +0000 Rejoiceandbe 2268459@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I'd echo what the others have said about the emotional aspect of the trip, so I would give priority to packing what makes you feel "good" about yourself. Who says that you can't clean or sort in a nice outfit? Borrow old clothes from your parents for the really dirty jobs.<br /> You may find that the business type of meetings take longer and are more draining that you think. You may find that you have to act as your parents advocate and in dealing with not- too-helpful bankers, doctors etc, if you feel confident and pulled together, you have more energy to push for what you know is right for your parents. Good Luck! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/please-help-me-pack/page/2#post-2268458 Thu, 23 Jun 2022 21:07:14 +0000 Rejoiceandbe 2268458@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I'd echo what the others have said about the emotional aspect of the trip, so I would give priority to packing what makes you feel "good" about yourself. Who says that you can't clean or sort in a nice outfit? Borrow old clothes from your parents for the really dirty jobs.<br /> You may find that the business type of meetings take longer and are more draining that you think. You may find that you have to act as your parents advocate and in dealing with not- too-helpful bankers, doctors etc, if you feel confident and pulled together, you have more energy to push for what you know is right for your parents. Good Luck! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/please-help-me-pack/page/2#post-2268457 Thu, 23 Jun 2022 21:01:02 +0000 anchie 2268457@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Ok, here is the collection I have created using Angie’s travel capsule as a template. I have only 3 dresses, so I added 2 more skrts and 2 tops instead of 2 dresses. I will also add at least one pair of shorts, one swimsuit and 2 pajamas. How does it look? Is it too much? Am I missing something? </p> <p><a rel="nofollow" href="https://youlookfab.com/finds/collections/?collection=11475">https://youlookfab.com/finds/c.....tion=11475</a></p> <p>And here is also weather for my first week there. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/please-help-me-pack#post-2268439 Thu, 23 Jun 2022 17:30:57 +0000 anchie 2268439@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>kkards - that is what I am telling myself. If I only have my documents and my credit card, I will be fine. Few years ago I spent a week in Rome, and my luggage was lost until the last day and I survived just fine, and enjoyed some summer sale shopping. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/please-help-me-pack#post-2268438 Thu, 23 Jun 2022 17:26:55 +0000 anchie 2268438@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Suz - sorry to hear that you got sick during your travel. Unfortunately it can happen to us too, so better be prepared. My daughter had it end of April, so hopefully is better protected than me. Most important is that we don’t get it during the first leg, since my mom is on chemotherapy. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/please-help-me-pack#post-2268435 Thu, 23 Jun 2022 17:18:19 +0000 anchie 2268435@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>SarahDB - yes it is going to be very emotional trip, I don’t even want to think about it yet. And yes, shopping is another solution that I may enjoy. I forgot to mention that my birthday also falls in this period so I can do a little treat for myself. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/please-help-me-pack#post-2268434 Thu, 23 Jun 2022 17:14:36 +0000 anchie 2268434@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Joy - your capsule sounds like a success,<br /> and I agree skirts are very versatile bottoms.<br /> Angie- you are a lifesaver! Yes, this helps a lot, just quantities and types of items are great guideline, and I even have some same or similar items. But I am thinking now if I am too optimistic thinking that I will have enough time to go on a little vacation with daughter at the end? First part of trip will probably take most of the time but hopefully not all 4 weeks. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/please-help-me-pack#post-2268429 Thu, 23 Jun 2022 16:32:10 +0000 kkards 2268429@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>wow, that's a lot to pack into a short amount of time<br />this is not going to be very helpful, but i just want to say, take a deep breath and remember that there are stores everywhere, so if you find that you really need something you can always stop and get it. i find just reminding myself of this makes it less stressful&nbsp;<br />and yes to NancyW's suggestion re old clothes that you can discard after the cleaning chores are done.&nbsp;&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/please-help-me-pack#post-2268428 Thu, 23 Jun 2022 16:27:51 +0000 Suz 2268428@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Anchie, this is challenging, but you can do it! I would take your own suggestion of bringing a variety for last leg of trip and sending home what you don't need with your husband in the car. So that solves that portion of the problem.&nbsp;</p> <p>Your style has similarities with Angie's so her capsule should be a goo guideline. I'd bring 2 or 3 skirts if you can, one or two pants, one or two shorts, and two dresses. Denim jacket and dressier topper. Scarves. Tops, of course, in varying levels of dressiness.&nbsp;</p> <p>Bring Rapid tests, bring wipes and masks!! Be prepared for everything to change if you or daughter get Covid on last leg. Or even symptoms (i.e. another respiratory virus). You can't fly with symptoms so you might have to extend any trip. I was in that position on my recent trip -- I tested negative for Covid but may have had it (tests aren't reliable any more with newer variants) and in any case, I had symptoms so could not fly. Had to self-isolate in a hotel and postpone my return.&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/please-help-me-pack#post-2268427 Thu, 23 Jun 2022 16:22:09 +0000 SarahD8 2268427@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>You are getting good advice here. I'm sorry to add yet another variable but this sounds like a very emotionally draining trip, so I would make sure to pack items with a high comfort and/or happiness factor. (Not that you need additional items for these purposes but more like: if you are deciding between two skirts pick the more comfortable or happier one even if it is less versatile, better to wear a perfect outfit on repeat and get on with the business you're sorting.)</p> <p>For the "fun" but less certain/planned parts of your trip, you could just pack the bare minimum for, say, a beach destination and plan to pick up whatever else you need when you're there -- if you find vacation shopping to be enjoyable. That would be a nice treat to look forward to and a fun memory of the more pleasant/carefree parts of your trip later. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/please-help-me-pack#post-2268424 Thu, 23 Jun 2022 16:12:26 +0000 Angie 2268424@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I echo, <b>Jules.&nbsp;</b></p> <p>COVID - bring lots of masks, sanitizer, wipes, and test kits.&nbsp;</p> <p>Pack casual and smart casual. Versatile. Easy to launder and forgiving. the weather can turn in Europe, so make sure you pack some warmer things too.</p> <p>I was in this boat a year ago (July). I stayed in the Netherlands for almost 4 weeks. Attended to my very sick Dad who was in an assisted living facility, had his memorial service while I was there so I brought dressy funeral clothes, cleaned out Dad's flat, saw family, and sorted affairs EVERYWHERE. On top of COVID. I wore dresses, skirts, jeans, pearls, striped tops, &nbsp;and shirts. Wore sneakers and loafers. Brought jackets too. Could wash at my Dad's flat because we were staying there. It worked well. This is almost EXACTLY what I packed - with loungewear and toiletries. It includes my dressy funeral outfit AND travel outfit. Hope it helps a bit!&nbsp;</p> </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/please-help-me-pack#post-2268421 Thu, 23 Jun 2022 16:02:14 +0000 Anonymous 2268421@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I just got back from a 20 day trip packed in a carry on. Choose shoes first 2 or 3 pair that will go with everything. Then pick a color scheme. I usually take 2-3 bottoms with a rand of tops and one topper. I wear a money belt under my clothes, so no dresses but skirts. All the airports were a zoo. Many counties are now requiring an N95 mask if you go out. I also wear them inside and in any vehicle and feel safer. This time I did not bring a trench coat but it can be a robe, travel blanket, protect from rain, and more. It was hot so not missed. A beach cover up stood in . I took no jewellery or work out clothes. I took but never wore a swim suit. DH does not swim. He has heavy bones and sinks. Most of my bottoms were knee length skirts which were good for the heat and yet modest enough to allow you in a church. The hard part of packing is with meds. I was stopped twice for insulin in luggage. Airports have really long lines. Be sure to have your passport and vaccination card. Another picture ID like a drivers license is also helpful. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/please-help-me-pack#post-2268412 Thu, 23 Jun 2022 14:57:54 +0000 phoebe 2268412@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>With so many variables to navigate I might just pack what I want and ship things back to myself when I no longer need them to complete the trip. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/please-help-me-pack#post-2268411 Thu, 23 Jun 2022 14:23:38 +0000 anchie 2268411@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Zaeobi - thanks so much for reminding me, running to a pharmacy to stock up on lateral flow tests, who knows if they are easily available in other locations. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/please-help-me-pack#post-2268410 Thu, 23 Jun 2022 14:18:09 +0000 anchie 2268410@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I am just thinking that maybe I can pack more things just in case for the last leg of the trip that is unknown at the moment and then when I know more about location, weather and activities, I can send back what I don’t need with my husband who will return with the car. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/please-help-me-pack#post-2268409 Thu, 23 Jun 2022 14:11:23 +0000 Sisi 2268409@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I also recommend a woolen pullover (or cardi, what you prefer) and a cotton scarf. I think they are life-savers! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/please-help-me-pack#post-2268408 Thu, 23 Jun 2022 14:06:17 +0000 Sisi 2268408@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>This is really challenging! I am not vey good at packing, it takes me forever to decide which are the right pieces, but I finally found out that everything becomes easier when I think by "activities".<br />I was suggesting what <b>Lana</b>&nbsp;already said.&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/please-help-me-pack#post-2268407 Thu, 23 Jun 2022 14:01:09 +0000 Zaeobi 2268407@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>As for COVID, pack extra masks &amp; wet wipes (no liquid check-in needed) - I have two lateral flow tests in my carry-on at all times too, just in case </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/please-help-me-pack#post-2268405 Thu, 23 Jun 2022 13:59:30 +0000 Zaeobi 2268405@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I completely understand your apprehension in packing - I'm currently back in my hometown whilst staying in my parents' house, but also travelling the country to see others &amp; having to take care of all the admin/ banking etc stuff that crops up after having been abroad for 3+ years continuously. Oh &amp; I'm doing this from one suitcase for my international return flights &amp; then also a 1 week mandatory quarantine in a designated hotel (by myself, lol)... </p> <p>So far, my strategy has been to always pack what I need in emergency clothing/ toiletries overnight in my carry-on backpack (i.e. one set of underwear &amp; pyjamas, plus toothbrush etc). </p> <p>Then in my suitcase itself, I've given myself 1) a basic uniform of foundation pieces (in my case, that's been 3/4 sleeved cotton tops with looser bottoms that I can sleep &amp; move in - like soft or jogger trousers). And then I add 2) a third completer piece to help dress it up/ bridge it from smart casual to more formal (in my case, this has been a sleeveless belted duster cardigan or lightweight scarf). I imagine your style may benefit from a blazer jacket instead, but preferably a knitted one with some stretch (again, for ease of movement). </p> <p>Stick to a particular colour scheme to make things easy for yourself (for me, it's been my mostly black UK capsule wardrobe with some pops of red &amp; yellow, like my raincoat). </p> <p>Good luck, &amp; just remember to make some time for yourself in between all of the hectic activities (for me, this has been deep breathing whilst I'm on the train between places)! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/please-help-me-pack#post-2268404 Thu, 23 Jun 2022 13:43:19 +0000 Star (Lise) 2268404@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I would definitely take more than one skirt, maybe even two extra (so 3 in total).&nbsp; You could always skip the long pants, I hardly ever wear long pants in July and August. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/please-help-me-pack#post-2268403 Thu, 23 Jun 2022 13:42:43 +0000 anchie 2268403@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>NancyW - I was actually thinking about that, if I can maybe use some of my mom old clothes for dirtiest chores, and not to plan too much for this activities and plan only for out of the house outfits. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/please-help-me-pack#post-2268402 Thu, 23 Jun 2022 13:39:29 +0000 anchie 2268402@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Lana - that is great idea, to plan for each day. I would reduce number of casual cleaning outfits, I think I can do with only 2, and plan for more meeting and going out type of outfits because there will be few of those on different days. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/please-help-me-pack#post-2268401 Thu, 23 Jun 2022 13:39:01 +0000 NancyW 2268401@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Do you keep any old clothing around for messy chores? Perhaps you could bring some pieces that could be discarded after working in your parent’s home. It would free up a bit of space in the car if you did that for all family members. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/please-help-me-pack#post-2268399 Thu, 23 Jun 2022 13:32:35 +0000 anchie 2268399@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>cat2 - palette would be definitely lot of navy, some white or beige, and accent colors like red and yellow. And I am going swimsuit shopping tomorrow ick! Last time I bought a swimsuit was at least 5 years ago and I need a new one. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/please-help-me-pack#post-2268397 Thu, 23 Jun 2022 13:24:12 +0000 anchie 2268397@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Star - I was thinking of something like this, but then when I start choosing the items to fill in the template, I get stuck. For example- if I choose 3 bottoms, one would be a shorts for arround the house and possible beach, second would be pants to have if it gets cold but would probably not get much wear, so it leave a space for only one skirt that I would have to wear constantly for 4 weeks for all the other occasions. 3 dress are good but don’t provide a lot of mix and match possibilities. I would definitely need another skirt, so that is 4 bottoms. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/please-help-me-pack#post-2268391 Thu, 23 Jun 2022 13:02:54 +0000 Lana 2268391@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I would imagine a typical week there at your first stop and look at what activities you might be doing each day and plan outfits around that for a week - so 7 or more outfits that can be mixed to create lots more outfits. Add layers for cold possibilities. I usually start with shoes. :)</p> <p>For example (might not fit your plans):<br /> Day 1-comfy travel outfit, change to casual outfit<br /> Day 2-casual but refined outfit for meetings (dress up an outfit a little), change to casual cleaning outfit later<br /> Day 3 through 6- casual cleaning outfits<br /> Day 7 - beach and out to dinner outfits</p> <p>So 1 travel outfit coming and going, 6 cleaning outfits, 1 nicer out to dinner outfit and 1 beach outfit. This is just an example but can work really well. However, you’ve got two other very different legs of the trip, so really 3 different small capsules are needed, see if anything in your first capsule can work for the second leg and the third. </p>