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			<title>YouLookFab Forum &#187; Topic: Please help a newbie</title>
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				<title>cciele on "Please help a newbie"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/please-help-a-newbie#post-93505</link>
				<pubDate>Sun, 13 Sep 2009 15:37:57 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>cciele</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Another welcome from me, Delphine! I really like the combo of your strong shoulder line and hourglass shape; I think you have a lot of dressing options for emphasizing your features.
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				<title>Frenchie on "Please help a newbie"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/please-help-a-newbie#post-93496</link>
				<pubDate>Sun, 13 Sep 2009 13:49:54 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Frenchie</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Thank you everyone.
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				<title>Inge on "Please help a newbie"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 11 Sep 2009 20:45:18 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Inge</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;A big welcome from me too Delphine. The lasses have your body shape sorted. I actually think you look great!! You have a fab little figure, there's nothing wrong with your arms at all, and if I looked that good in form-fitting clothes I'd fly to the US this very instant and buy everyone here a drink!-)
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				<title>Louise on "Please help a newbie"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 11 Sep 2009 20:32:34 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Louise</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Delphine i'm so glad you feel a bit better, i was so sad reading your post earlier. I think it's awful when people use words like 'weird' and 'ugly' to describe themselves. I've got a big thing about positive body image at the moment and i hope we can help you feel fab soon x
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				<title>sinead on "Please help a newbie"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 11 Sep 2009 17:07:00 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>sinead</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Delphine, I would love to have your beautiful shoulders and hourglass figure.  I predict that in a short time you will have lots of fun dressing your pretty shape.
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				<title>Angie on "Please help a newbie"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 11 Sep 2009 16:50:57 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Angie</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Your English is wonderful, Delphine, I’m impressed! Welcome to our forum.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;You look like an hourglass. Lovely bod! Don’t let anyone else tell you differently.
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				<title>Ana on "Please help a newbie"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 11 Sep 2009 16:37:56 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Ana</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I beg to differ with your father.  I'm not sure where you are from, but you don't look like any man I've ever seen.  I agree that you are an hourglass.  You have may have a slight tendency toward an inverted triangle.  That is my body type too, and I have short legs like you.  It's hard, but try not to let others get you down. There is nothing &#034;wrong&#034; with your body type (or anyone else's for that matter).   <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-smile icon-emoticon-smile "></span> 
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				<title>Tanya on "Please help a newbie"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 11 Sep 2009 15:47:57 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Tanya</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Hi Delphine and welcome!  You are definitely a hourglass  and have a beautiful figure.  You most certainly do not look like a man with your tiny waist.  Wear clothes that show it off!
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				<title>Frenchie on "Please help a newbie"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 11 Sep 2009 14:23:22 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Frenchie</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Thank you for your answer, I've spend my day reading this website and found a lot of good advice.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I don't like my body because I used to be &#034;very fat&#034; (well, I've only lost 22lbs but looked fatter than I really was because of water retention and some allergies) and everyone keep saying I have &#034;no hips&#034; (well, it's true that 3 of my friends are pear) so I feel completely like &#034;a man&#034;.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;So thank you everyone, your opinion helps me feel better.
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				<title>Alecia on "Please help a newbie"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 11 Sep 2009 13:33:57 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Alecia</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I agree with the others.  You look like an hourglass.  My only difference I'd make is that I think you have inverted triangle tendencies.  That's my shape, too!
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				<title>lady-rach on "Please help a newbie"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 11 Sep 2009 13:28:29 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Edit - I don't think you were ever a rectangle with your previous measurements at all because you're bust and hips were equal!&#060;br /&#062;
You are still a lovely hourglass shape with a beautiful waist so make the most of it as you have a gorgeous figure!
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				<title>rute on "Please help a newbie"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 11 Sep 2009 10:01:16 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Welcome!!!&#060;br /&#062;
You have a shape similar to mine and I think you are an hourglass like me!&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Once you learn what is flattering on you you'll love your body! You have a stronger shoulder line and that is great and a nice waist, just focus on the posite aspects, not on the negative ones and think how can I have fun and take the best advantage of my body!&#060;br /&#062;
You English is great by the way...
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				<title>Louise on "Please help a newbie"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 11 Sep 2009 08:51:38 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Louise</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;You look to me like you might be an hourglass you have a beautifully shaped torso x&#060;br /&#062;
Edit- your arms look fine from here&#060;br /&#062;
2nd edit- and you certainly don't look ugly in form fitting clothes you look great&#060;br /&#062;
3rd edit- you don't look like a man at all
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				<title>Frenchie on "Please help a newbie"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 11 Sep 2009 08:21:07 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Please, could you help me find my body shape and give me advice for dressing up. &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I took some photo with fitting clothes (so that's pretty ugly, I usually don't wear things like that).&#060;br /&#062;
&#060;a href=&#034;http://img193.imageshack.us/i/dsc00365r.jpg/&#034; rel=&#034;nofollow&#034;&#062;http://img193.imageshack.us/i/dsc00365r.jpg/&#060;/a&#062;&#060;br /&#062;
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&#060;p&#062;I know, my arms are weird-shaped. (I also have a small scoliosis and lordosis)&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;My measurements are :&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;39 (or 38,5) = shoulders&#060;br /&#062;
37 (a 34D in my country (and in the UK) and a 34C in the US, but I've lost some weight and am more likely to be a 32D)  = bust&#060;br /&#062;
27 = waist&#060;br /&#062;
37 = hips&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;(in cm it's actually : 98/100cm - 94 - 69 - 94 )&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I used some online calculators and turned out to be a &#034;vase&#034; (but I have short legs), an hourglass (I still think I have big shoulders) or a &#034;S&#034; (on myShape).&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;My father likes to say I look like a man with my broad shoulders so I cannot see anything else on my body and would love to be a pear...&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Unfortunately, I think I am an inverted triangle... but my friends don't agree !&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Thank you for your help (and sorry if I make some mistakes in my sentences, I'm not very fluent in English but I love this language).&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;EDIT: My measurement used to be 39-31-39 so I was a rectangle.
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