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			<title>YouLookFab Forum &#187; Topic: Pity party purchase; Update at end</title>
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				<title>approprio on "Pity party purchase; Update at end"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/pity-party-purchase/page/2#post-1609479</link>
				<pubDate>Sat, 30 Jan 2016 14:55:27 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>approprio</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Ah, too bad! I think I'd have been equally fascinated and I was looking forward to seeing them on. You'll just have to find another way to channel the supa dupa fly.&#038;nbsp;
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				<title>rachylou on "Pity party purchase; Update at end"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/pity-party-purchase/page/2#post-1609363</link>
				<pubDate>Sat, 30 Jan 2016 03:43:54 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>rachylou</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Can I use that line, Anna? &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;!!
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				<title>Aida on "Pity party purchase; Update at end"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/pity-party-purchase/page/2#post-1609236</link>
				<pubDate>Fri, 29 Jan 2016 22:31:28 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Aida</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Anna I'll join you in my 80s rock star garb. We'd make a great music video!&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Sartorially, I hope you're able to find something more like the RO pair.
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				<title>Anonymous on "Pity party purchase; Update at end"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/pity-party-purchase/page/2#post-1609202</link>
				<pubDate>Fri, 29 Jan 2016 21:47:03 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Anonymous</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Sometimes Retail Therapy works.
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				<title>Janet on "Pity party purchase; Update at end"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/pity-party-purchase/page/2#post-1609201</link>
				<pubDate>Fri, 29 Jan 2016 21:45:56 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Janet</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;You crack me up. I think you're fly, but I totally understand. Well, more $$ for some other future find!
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				<title>Anonymous on "Pity party purchase; Update at end"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/pity-party-purchase#post-1609192</link>
				<pubDate>Fri, 29 Jan 2016 21:26:36 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I'm glad you test drove them, that way they won't haunt you!&#038;nbsp; 
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				<title>unfrumped on "Pity party purchase; Update at end"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 29 Jan 2016 20:29:39 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>unfrumped</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;No pain , no gain! Good to try things out sometimes.
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				<title>annagybe on "Pity party purchase; Update at end"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 29 Jan 2016 19:58:42 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>annagybe</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;So I finally got a chance to try them on again at home. I tried them with black leggings and my orange cropped sweater.&#060;br /&#062;Yes, they are awesome, but I think they'd work best on a hip-hop dancer in a music video. Or someone very urban. Having Missy Elliott in my iTunes library does not make me fly.&#060;br /&#062;So I will be returning them.&#060;/p&#062;
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				<title>Eliza on "Pity party purchase; Update at end"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/pity-party-purchase#post-1604695</link>
				<pubDate>Wed, 20 Jan 2016 15:28:15 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Eliza</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;These pique my curiosity. I'd have to see them on to get the total picture. Hard to tell if the juncture between the &#034;shoe&#034; portion and the shaft would work or create a line you would rather not see. I am always mindful of how &#034;busy&#034; shoes and accessories are, as the greater the details, sometimes I find the harder it is to have a cohesive outfit, if that makes any sense. The other boots read sleeker and more streamlined, with the white sole providing the munch. These are a lot more going on, at least in the box. Both have their appeal and potential to rise to your stylings.&#038;nbsp;&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Sorry that things are challenging and hope that there is relief in the offing.&#038;nbsp;
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				<title>columbine(erin) on "Pity party purchase; Update at end"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 20 Jan 2016 15:11:26 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>columbine(erin)</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I like these, for you. I'm really curious to see how you'd style them.
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				<title>viva on "Pity party purchase; Update at end"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 20 Jan 2016 11:37:34 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>viva</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I'd love to see them on you, styled.&#038;nbsp;
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				<title>Archer on "Pity party purchase; Update at end"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/pity-party-purchase#post-1604624</link>
				<pubDate>Wed, 20 Jan 2016 11:31:29 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Archer</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;What's a pity party?&#060;br /&#062;&#038;nbsp;Buy the Chanels, of course. The RO are category 'disposables'.
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				<title>Archer on "Pity party purchase; Update at end"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 20 Jan 2016 11:20:19 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Archer</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;You can do either/both of these with your wardrobe.&#060;/p&#062;
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				<title>shedev on "Pity party purchase; Update at end"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 20 Jan 2016 02:07:11 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>shedev</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I've been drooling over the RO boots too. They would never fit over my calves. I don't really like the sneaker bottoms of the others, but the knee pads are interesting. The back zipper is sort of a dealbreaker for me.
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				<title>Diana on "Pity party purchase; Update at end"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/pity-party-purchase#post-1604542</link>
				<pubDate>Wed, 20 Jan 2016 01:10:31 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Diana</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I think they're crazy and cool.  I'm getting an armor sort of vibe from them.  Like urban/street armor, maybe?  I'm super excited to see your styling ideas.  &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;The zipper thing does worry me slightly though... Definitely make sure you can move/sit without it catching or being uncomfortable. (I think a back zipper is a really odd choice for a thigh high boot, regardless of whether or not you can zip it all the way.)
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				<title>Lucy on "Pity party purchase; Update at end"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 20 Jan 2016 00:30:38 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Lucy</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Oh I really like these! I think they will collide beautifully with some of your newer slightly softer pieces.&#038;nbsp;
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				<title>Laura on "Pity party purchase; Update at end"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 19 Jan 2016 23:07:28 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Laura</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Anna, those look boots would be great if you are going for a rocker chic look. I've got to ask, how comfortable are they?
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				<title>Angie on "Pity party purchase; Update at end"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 19 Jan 2016 21:57:50 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Angie</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I like the Chanels more than the Rick Owens style because they remind me of polo players. And anything equestrian floats my boat.&#038;nbsp;
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				<title>Janet on "Pity party purchase; Update at end"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 19 Jan 2016 21:12:57 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Janet</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Oh, I'm intrigued. I think they're cool. Different vibe from the RO, but that's not a bad thing. I'm getting a little bit of a gladiator vibe from these. I think playing with styling and seeing how they feel to you with your outfits will be the deciding factor.&#038;nbsp;&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I hear you about the tiny calves on tall boots lately. I used to only have the occasional problem with boots not zipping up, but I guess my calves have grown from running and cycling. Or they're just cutting things smaller. :-/
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				<title>Aida on "Pity party purchase; Update at end"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 19 Jan 2016 21:09:34 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Aida</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Hmm very different vibes between the two boots. The RO (sporty but not particularly hard edged) seem more in line with where your style is these days (which feels a little softer?), but these (vaguely sporty but a lot harder edged) could be fun paired with some of your softer pieces, especially big chunky knits. I think it's worth playing around with the pieces you're interested in pairing with them to see if the overall vibe still feels right.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Totally adore photo #3 in that slide show, yum! &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;(*hugs* to you!)&#060;/p&#062;
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				<title>Anonymous on "Pity party purchase; Update at end"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 19 Jan 2016 20:33:06 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Anonymous</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I agree with approprio about pity party purchases.&#038;nbsp; After the pity is gone, I never want to see that item again!&#038;nbsp; Even so, I do like the boots in theory, but don't think they'd work out in practice for the reasons mentioned.&#038;nbsp; Go find something else that makes you feel strong and fierce!
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				<title>MsMaven on "Pity party purchase; Update at end"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 19 Jan 2016 20:29:48 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>MsMaven</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I would also love to see them on you. I think on the right person they would be fabulous. Intriguing.
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				<title>UmmLila (Lisa) on "Pity party purchase; Update at end"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/pity-party-purchase#post-1604448</link>
				<pubDate>Tue, 19 Jan 2016 20:25:52 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>UmmLila (Lisa)</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I like all the details on them, and am wondering what you would wear with them ... sporty to go with the sneaker bit, a cape to go with the highwayman vibe ...?
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				<title>DonnaF on "Pity party purchase; Update at end"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 19 Jan 2016 20:25:50 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>DonnaF</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;To my eye, the Rick Owens looks intentional.&#038;nbsp; These look like I could put them together with a quick hack and some improvisation:&#038;nbsp; My leather athletic shoes + pleather boot tops I made for my Xena costume + knee pads I could pick up from an athletic supply store.&#038;nbsp; Sorry, but I think (know) you can do better.&#038;nbsp; Also, an unzipped back zipper can catch on anything upholstered, so those boots will either hold you captive and/or wreck any chair in your wake.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I guess the lesson is to try on EVERYTHING that catches your eye, so that if/when they go on sale you can pounce if you're still interested.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Hope things look up for you as the year goes on.
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				<title>Gaylene on "Pity party purchase; Update at end"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 19 Jan 2016 20:24:26 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Gaylene</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Well, I'm oddly attracted to Karl's version of the look, as well as the Rick Owens boot. But then I love it when a designer finds a different way to interpret a boot--especially one doesn't involve just sticking more embellishments on a basic silhouette.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Sorry to hear about the pity parties. Life can certainly give us some low, teeth-gritting moments to soldier through. Hope you find yourself in an upswing before too long.
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				<title>Angie on "Pity party purchase; Update at end"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 19 Jan 2016 20:16:36 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Angie</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;And hugs too. Miss you.
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				<title>Angie on "Pity party purchase; Update at end"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 19 Jan 2016 20:16:08 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Angie</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I like them. Would love to see them on and styled. Can you return, Anna?
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				<title>approprio on "Pity party purchase; Update at end"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 19 Jan 2016 19:44:16 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>approprio</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;And if they don't work out, remember it's Karl's problem and not yours.
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				<title>approprio on "Pity party purchase; Update at end"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 19 Jan 2016 19:36:07 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>approprio</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;They look a bit odd to me, like Karl's trying to do health goth or something. I hate the idea of a zipper behind my knee joint and pity purchases never work out in my experience. Then again, I'm deeply curious about their styling potential.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;If I were you, I'd take them home and play with them, take loads of photos for the rest of us to look at, and then take them back to Nordies afterwards.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Sorry you're down. Hope playing with Chanel cheers you up a bit.&#038;nbsp;
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				<title>Karen L on "Pity party purchase; Update at end"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 19 Jan 2016 19:31:50 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Karen L</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;YOLO.. If you love them, that's all that matters! They're cool!!! &#038;nbsp;And, yes, you gotta love Nordstrom's policies...&#060;/p&#062;
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