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			<title>YouLookFab Forum &#187; Topic: Oxfords with socks &#38; pants--can I go my own way,  &#38; what price pay?</title>
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				<title>Alecia on "Oxfords with socks &#38; pants--can I go my own way,  &#38; what price pay?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 21 Dec 2012 05:58:18 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Alecia</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Angie, are socks and trouser socks different in your mind? And if so, how? I guess I think of socks as a catchall that includes trouser socks.
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				<title>Angie on "Oxfords with socks &#38; pants--can I go my own way,  &#38; what price pay?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 20 Dec 2012 15:52:26 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Angie</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I never wear socks with oxfords because I don't fancy the look. But I do wear knee-highs and hose! I will wear trousers socks with trousers and my heeled oxfords.I LOVE to wear socks though - that's why I like booties. They work well with socks.
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				<title>unfrumped on "Oxfords with socks &#38; pants--can I go my own way,  &#38; what price pay?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 20 Dec 2012 15:49:16 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Thank you for the votes and suggestions!&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I am enough of a fashion zombie that I think I will still aim for some kind of compromise that keeps the whole outfit from looking too heavy or &#034;manly&#034;, or maybe a better way to put it is I want to try to wear them  in some way that is my own kind of look, whether or not it's a runway look.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Lace-up shoes (low-heeled) can often just really  make my feet happy, and so I hope to have a pair or so here and there when they are &#034;in style&#034; in some form or another.
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				<title>Bagaline on "Oxfords with socks &#38; pants--can I go my own way,  &#38; what price pay?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 20 Dec 2012 15:45:03 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Bagaline</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I'm all for socks for warmth and comfort . Are we supposed to have cold blue feet for the sake of look ? I love the nice argyle socks that I wear with my loafers and and sod the &#034;law&#034;. On numerous blogs, you can see many photos of barefoot women wearing winter coats: I find it as ridiculous as wearing woolly gloves with a swimming suit.
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				<title>Alecia on "Oxfords with socks &#38; pants--can I go my own way,  &#38; what price pay?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 20 Dec 2012 05:48:51 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Alecia</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;My feet are always cold. I vote for socks.
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				<title>Deborah on "Oxfords with socks &#38; pants--can I go my own way,  &#38; what price pay?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 20 Dec 2012 04:35:06 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Deborah</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I think you should do what works for you:)  Personally I don't like socks.  I wear little sockette type things similar to what Diana has posted - but mine are more a thick stocking like fabric - so that it looks like I am not wearing socks.  Alternately, I wear a nude stocking sock, again so it's looks as though I am bare footed.  I just prefer the look.  I find it more streamlined and I just don't enjoy the look of socks.
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				<title>ManidipaM on "Oxfords with socks &#38; pants--can I go my own way,  &#38; what price pay?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 20 Dec 2012 04:22:29 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I'm not wearing anything higher vamped than loafers without socks either! At best, stockings or nude tights even. But no socks, no go, for oxfords, booties and boots!
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				<title>Diana on "Oxfords with socks &#38; pants--can I go my own way,  &#38; what price pay?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 20 Dec 2012 02:39:26 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Yay to oxfords with socks.  I have worn mine with little ruffled ankle socks (which is, admittedly, a kind of twee look but it's fun).  Under long pants I just wear normal socks.  Just don't wear horrid white athletic socks and you're fine.  I also have these smartwool secret socks which are fab and don't show under my oxfords so I get a sockless look without the discomfort.&#060;br /&#062;
&#060;a href=&#034;http://www.zappos.com/smartwool-hide-and-seek-3-pack-black?ef_id=UNHSqQAAQ4G3Fw6R:20121220023921:s&#034; rel=&#034;nofollow&#034;&#062;http://www.zappos.com/smartwoo.....20023921:s&#060;/a&#062;
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				<title>Suz on "Oxfords with socks &#38; pants--can I go my own way,  &#38; what price pay?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 20 Dec 2012 02:23:11 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Socks all the way! Just wear nice ones and you're fine!
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				<title>Thistle on "Oxfords with socks &#38; pants--can I go my own way,  &#38; what price pay?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 20 Dec 2012 01:47:37 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I am a firm believer in socks. It's cold out there!&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Seriously, though, in my climate, if socks are not viable with the shoe, then no shoe. I am not sure why oxfords would not be completely appropriate with socks. Men wear oxfords, and they always wear socks with them!
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				<title>Jaime on "Oxfords with socks &#38; pants--can I go my own way,  &#38; what price pay?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 20 Dec 2012 01:45:24 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I wear most of my oxfords with (thin) socks and I don't see any problem with it at all! I wear them with all sorts of trouser styles also.
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				<title>Karie on "Oxfords with socks &#38; pants--can I go my own way,  &#38; what price pay?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 20 Dec 2012 00:22:36 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Karie</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;The only closed toed shoes I can stand to wear w/o socks are soft flats, and I wear flesh colored peds with those. I also have narrow feet, and depending on the outfit, I either wear nylons, tights, or women's trouser socks with my shoes.&#060;br /&#062;
I personally think oxford shoes would look best with women's trouser socks.
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				<title>Keix on "Oxfords with socks &#38; pants--can I go my own way,  &#38; what price pay?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 19 Dec 2012 23:26:06 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Keix</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I've never really been good at wearing closed-toe shoes without socks, even pumps. Oxfords, especially, would seem to be very sweaty even if all-leather construction. I'd go for the socks!
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				<title>Raisin on "Oxfords with socks &#38; pants--can I go my own way,  &#38; what price pay?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 19 Dec 2012 23:24:36 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Raisin</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I'm wearing mine now with very thin stocking socks.  I wear black to blend in with the dark shoes and dark pants.  I also wear nude to appear sock less.  I think it works!
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				<title>rachylou on "Oxfords with socks &#38; pants--can I go my own way,  &#38; what price pay?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 19 Dec 2012 23:22:33 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I believe in socks!
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				<title>unfrumped on "Oxfords with socks &#38; pants--can I go my own way,  &#38; what price pay?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 19 Dec 2012 23:17:11 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;So I have always enjoyed &#034;laceup&#034; shoes because of my narrow foot (esp. heel) and the secure feeling--good for striding. I had oxford-type shoes in several past decades when they were in here and there. I also just like how they look if I find the right pair that don't make my feet look more ginormous.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;The trend has been to be sockless, to be with tapered or cropped pants or shorts or skirts. But sockless is not me,  except for canvas-type shoes.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;And the point of oxfords for me would be as an option for what I would use as a comfortable, secure work-shoe wardrobe, and while I'd try some tapered pants if I can find some, that's a harder go for pear shape and for work wear. And I would always wear at least a thin sock, even if lace or something.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Which I've already done with some faux-patent oxfords I got earlier this year.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Is this fashion heresy, and do I care, or am I setting my own style, which is what we are supposed to do, to some extent, anyway?&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I'm very willing to try some intentional ways to &#034;fit&#034; closer to the trend expectation or to offset the masculine features. Such as, if a more fun color or pattern helps; if combining with a very feminine top and jewelry helps. But probably the bottom half would still look like trousers + oxfords which, dumb me, I thought was part of the point, at one time--like a Hepburn look or something.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;So yay--experiment with oxfords + socks and buck the styling conventions.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Nay--forego because people will laugh at me behind my back and I might care.
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