https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/outfit-hole-gap Style Advice for Fashion Lovers en-US Wed, 22 Apr 2026 01:12:22 +0000 http://bbpress.org/?v=1.0.2 q https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/search.php https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/outfit-hole-gap#post-1881232 Sun, 21 Jan 2018 13:49:15 +0000 unfrumped 1881232@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Thank you all for input!<br /> I wore # 8 and felt just right. And I didn’t buy anything new in a rush! The sturdy footwear was good because we did walk a good ways to restaurant and there had been light rain. I know I can wear the pumps on other more sedentary occasions to add a bit more dressiness and structure. One younger guest wore heels and managed well but did struggle a bit with the cobbles and bricks of the downtown district hike. 2 other lady guests wore jacket over column of black!<br /> It was good for me to work on outfit creation aimed at specific kinds of gatherings. When I have another bit of time I’ll take another go with more items and mixing it up for different vibes and moods. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/outfit-hole-gap#post-1881230 Sun, 21 Jan 2018 13:48:11 +0000 Cardiff girl 1881230@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>The last one is my favourite.I can’t see your colouring but maybe adding some colour in the form of jewellery,scarves,lipstick,nail polish may help to lighten the look. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/outfit-hole-gap#post-1881184 Sun, 21 Jan 2018 05:41:27 +0000 karen13 1881184@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I'm with Liz A. #1 and #8 are my favorites of the ones shown. then 6, 7. I think the grey sweater reads a bit more casual. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/outfit-hole-gap#post-1881179 Sun, 21 Jan 2018 04:56:48 +0000 Zaeobi 1881179@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I love outfits #2 &amp; #4! (The shirt underneath the sweater &amp; the vest with the long necklace). Definitely prefer outfit #2 with the blush bag to look a bit more 'party' appropriate. </p> <p>I feel like #3 (the vest with the shirt) may look a little too workwear with solid boots - I would either swap it for the heels in outfit #2 or wear it with a long column like a black dress/ skirt &amp; tights instead (but I don't know your style, &amp; whether you like skirts or not).</p> <p>Another thing that may work (depending on your style) could be to pop your shirt collars up &amp; wear them with a necklace inside the collar. That way, you can add some interesting texture or shine around your face whilst still being covered up for the cold. Thoughts? </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/outfit-hole-gap#post-1881175 Sun, 21 Jan 2018 04:44:16 +0000 Anonymous 1881175@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>My favorite is 6-8 </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/outfit-hole-gap#post-1881154 Sun, 21 Jan 2018 03:29:38 +0000 Liz A. 1881154@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I like #1 followed by #8.&nbsp; High five, JenniNZ! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/outfit-hole-gap#post-1881108 Sat, 20 Jan 2018 23:28:30 +0000 SarahD8 1881108@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I love the second outfit. The contrast between the cozy sweater and the polished pumps nails that “I’m dressed up but not dressed up” vibe for me. I think it looks fab with the taupe bag. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/outfit-hole-gap#post-1881082 Sat, 20 Jan 2018 21:31:32 +0000 kkards 1881082@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>i love love love #2....but i'm not sure if i love it for the particular event...my 2nd fav is #8... </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/outfit-hole-gap#post-1881079 Sat, 20 Jan 2018 21:08:08 +0000 unfrumped 1881079@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Thank you jussie!<br /> JenniNZ, I like the vest with the necklace too!<br /> Angie asked for unzipped vest pics. At work I wear a lab coat, so if vest is unzipped, it just about disappears. Plus then it requires certain top/ pant combos. But for standing around. I like it unzipped, hand in a pocket, looks relaxed but still some structure. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/outfit-hole-gap#post-1881070 Sat, 20 Jan 2018 20:36:13 +0000 Jenni NZ 1881070@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>My total fave is outfit 1. Not too dark, great boots. Second pic 8 with the necklace, dresses it up just right . </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/outfit-hole-gap#post-1881067 Sat, 20 Jan 2018 20:29:11 +0000 jussie 1881067@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Hi there,<br /> I like the first two outfits best. I think the heels look fantastic good luck with it. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/outfit-hole-gap#post-1881060 Sat, 20 Jan 2018 20:19:43 +0000 unfrumped 1881060@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>ETA: several outfit photos added to the original post. Any thoughts and comments welcome! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/outfit-hole-gap#post-1878001 Fri, 12 Jan 2018 13:02:06 +0000 Christina F. 1878001@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Velvet is very in and available right now. Maybe something like this? It’s in the 50’s today here and that’s what I have on. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/outfit-hole-gap#post-1878000 Fri, 12 Jan 2018 12:55:24 +0000 unfrumped 1878000@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>rachylou, thanks for link; I had missed that!<br /> kkards, I agree about a bit of metallic! I’ve have such items in past. Right now I have only one short sleeved knit metallic top. It’s from Zara and I git it because it’s more of a pewter and not too shiny and layers. Not sure if I can do for winter, though keeping jacket on is what I intend. I thought about the skirts but I’m thinking they’re just a bit too much for this event. But I need to step out with them soon!<br /> Cat, the column of color is a great idea and one that can help my mix&amp; match look more polished. I can often do black if the topper is lighter. </p> <p>Ooh, now I’m looking forward to doing some outfit creation even if not for this! I need to explore and re- mix things because I’m sure I’ve got options ! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/outfit-hole-gap#post-1877990 Fri, 12 Jan 2018 12:34:15 +0000 The Cat 1877990@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I suggest a column of colour (pants &amp; top) plus a long topper (i.e. a slim coatigan). Let either the column or the topper be a non-neutral (i.e. a jewel tone). Add a chunky pendant necklace and chic booties. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/outfit-hole-gap#post-1877980 Fri, 12 Jan 2018 12:15:27 +0000 kkards 1877980@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>i keep a sweater with metalic threads for just such&nbsp;occasions...it lends a "party" feel but is one of those&nbsp;chameleon items that looks dressed up or casual depending on what others are wearing....i bought it about 10 years ago and i tend to wear it about once a year....but i haven't gotten rid of it becuase when i need it, there it is....<br />sorry i know this won't actually help you....<br />did you keep the silver pleated skirt? i think the skirt --(and how you styled it in the 1st picture in your post about it.)..would be perfect for this...or that tulle skirt --love it with the blush sweater....IMO both of those outfits are the kind that work for occasions like this.... </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/outfit-hole-gap#post-1877965 Fri, 12 Jan 2018 11:30:44 +0000 Toban 1877965@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I agree with rachylou, check out that link as it covers this event. I would aim for a nice jacket and a statement necklace or scarf and would not hesitate to wear heels. I would aim for ‘business’ with a twist of pretty (bling, soft, color). You could also wear a church appropriate dress or skirt/blouse combination. I look forward to you sharing some combinations for discussion. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/outfit-hole-gap#post-1877958 Fri, 12 Jan 2018 11:12:30 +0000 unfrumped 1877958@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Thank you for the suggestions!<br /> Aurore , that outfit is not warm enough but you’ve hit on some clues I think regarding “ color” and the more fitted look. I have also been considering one of my few tuck- in-able pants which allow for possibly dressier blouse look. Some things I would still have to layer under.Funny, a dressy or heeled shoe often elevates (!) an outfit but heels may not be right for this crowd. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/outfit-hole-gap#post-1877934 Fri, 12 Jan 2018 09:23:31 +0000 Aurore 1877934@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I generally think that light-colored blazers have a less "workwear" look that dark ones and may be great for such events.</p> <p>Maybe an outfit like the 2nd one you posted on this WIW thread would be nice : the shoes are classy (if they are suitable to the weather were you live...), so is&nbsp;the white blazer, and the overall look is&nbsp;very polished. <br /><a href="https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/happy-pleated-pants-angies-shoes" rel="nofollow">https://youlookfab.com/welookf.....gies-shoes</a> </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/outfit-hole-gap#post-1877912 Fri, 12 Jan 2018 05:42:45 +0000 JAileen 1877912@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Well, I went to our local university’s foundation dinner this fall, and was surprised how dressy it was. I was underdressed and felt uncomfortable. I like Joy’s advice. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/outfit-hole-gap#post-1877909 Fri, 12 Jan 2018 05:12:16 +0000 Anonymous 1877909@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>A colorful special top or jacket with black ( or your favorite neutral) trousers sounds good. This is not the time to wear expensive jewelry or scarves or anything obviously pricey because organizers will expect a hefty donation. Tell DH to leave the Rolex at home. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/outfit-hole-gap#post-1877902 Fri, 12 Jan 2018 04:41:03 +0000 Barbara Diane 1877902@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>If you want to hit that sweet spot perhaps if you wear a blazer then add a more casual top or jewelry, or if you wear a cardigan add more structure or formality in your top and/or accessories. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/outfit-hole-gap#post-1877896 Fri, 12 Jan 2018 04:34:45 +0000 rachylou 1877896@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>My mind goes straight to dress-like-you’re-in-local-politics for such an event: <a href="https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/capsule-for-women-in-politics-and-other-professionals" rel="nofollow">https://youlookfab.com/welookf.....fessionals</a> </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/outfit-hole-gap#post-1877893 Fri, 12 Jan 2018 04:23:26 +0000 unfrumped 1877893@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>DH and are invited to an evening “ event” related to , probably, fundraising and similar support for an institution of higher learning &amp; related to our church. It starts out in someone’s home and then moves to a restaurant. Not sure how many guests but assume a smallish group and intended to be more intimate &amp; relaxed . I do not have a dress code report but expect it to be “casual “ in the sense of, not a community gala event, not cocktail attire, not even dresses likely. </p> <p>We might not even go due to potential schedule conflicts but I started thinking about “ what to wear” and trying on a few things and found myself unexpectedly coming up short of what I’ve imagined in my tiny mind. Something “ dressy smart casual- no jeans with a twist of elegance and for evening “. So you know, not “ trying too hard”. It’s winter but we may have better weather around that time 50’s F maybe, , but for me I still need to feel cozy.<br /> I would wear pants ( not jeans) and would want a topper or 3rd piece. Somehow I’m having trouble with trying to avoid too dressy outfits that are more “ party” vs too “ workwear” or daytime looks. My blazers and jackets look too work- like, not fitted or special enough, and my cardigans too ordinary. Might consider the EF vest but not sure.<br /> I’ll try to show some “contenders” and “ what does this outfit need” when I have time. I may start with one or 2 best black pants options and build upward.<br /> I find myself annoyed that I’m having the “ lot of clothes and nothing to wear” feeling, which may emphasize I have too many basics and not enough statement items, but I ought to be able to come up with something! Maybe items I hadn’t combined before, to juxtapose dressy with relaxed. Or with jewelry. </p> <p><b>ETA</b>: Here are some outfit tries.&nbsp; I first tried various blazers and jackets and could not get the look I wanted--too business-like or something.</p> <p>#1: very dark photo but is a lace-over-beige peplum top with pants and a slightly fitted cardigan, and Munro&nbsp; boots. The boots are for warmth and to casualize the lace top. This is a DARK outfit though better IRL. I have to have both an underlayer and the sweater to wear this in winter, otherwise could wear the top alone.</p> <p>#2-5 is black BR ruffle neck shirt tucked into lightweight Trouve pleated pants belted with sweater over. A semi-tuck is almost too "studied" for this situation but it sort of semi-hangs up on its own with belt. Bernard low block heel pumps are to dress up/juxtapose the sweater but I have to wear footless warm tights + nude-for -me kneehighs in cold weather. Shown with 2 shoulder bags; love my Sorel blush/burgundy but it's not a great contrast with the taupey sweater; magenta is very casual. I like this outfit and wore a version to work with loafers.</p> <p># 6-8 is EF vest and Theory tuxedo pants with boots. 6-7 with BR ruffle collar shirt untucked, and 8 with a round neck black top which allows me to wear shiny necklace to liven it up.</p> <p>I do like the dressy pumps and the weather's warmed from 15 degress to 50, and it's mostly sitting/standing, but they are a bit marginal for me in winter and maybe a bit dressy for the group, though I don't know. The boots are, I think, "safe", not too precious, warm and good for possibly having to park a few blocks from destinations.&nbsp;</p> <p>Both pants have zips at hems. The Trouve pants are shorter and can work with pumps or boots, but are rayon and need more underlayer. The Theory I&nbsp; had hemmed but left a half-inch below zipper end, to wear with higher heels for dressy event, but that makes them&nbsp; really too long, too much scrunch,&nbsp; for lower heels. I may get them re-hemmed to remove that last bit. I can hike up the waist a bit to shorten them also.&nbsp;</p> <p>I&nbsp; have a favorite but would love to hear your thoughts! I would like more color; I do have a bright lilac Talbots cardi-jacket and some options for it, but maybe too much trouble for tonight.</p> <p></p>