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			<title>YouLookFab Forum &#187; Topic: OT - Goodbye Dear Man</title>
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				<title>Debora on "OT - Goodbye Dear Man"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/ot-goodbye-dear-man/page/2#post-455216</link>
				<pubDate>Mon, 31 Oct 2011 01:43:03 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Debora</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I am so sorry for your loss, Shannon. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
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				<title>Kari on "OT - Goodbye Dear Man"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/ot-goodbye-dear-man/page/2#post-455130</link>
				<pubDate>Sun, 30 Oct 2011 23:58:39 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Kari</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Shannon, thank you for sharing such beautiful memories of your father in law.  Sincere thoughts and prayers for you and your family as you are grieving.  I'll be thinking of you.
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				<title>celia on "OT - Goodbye Dear Man"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sun, 30 Oct 2011 22:55:50 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>celia</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;My condolences.My prayers go to you and your family.
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				<title>Anonymous on "OT - Goodbye Dear Man"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sun, 30 Oct 2011 21:52:22 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Anonymous</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Sorry for your loss.  It's wonderful that you had a loving relationship.
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				<title>Mellllls on "OT - Goodbye Dear Man"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/ot-goodbye-dear-man#post-454828</link>
				<pubDate>Sun, 30 Oct 2011 13:51:46 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Mellllls</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;so sorry for you loss.  i hope you can find comfort in what sounds like many loving memories.
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				<title>Angie on "OT - Goodbye Dear Man"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sun, 30 Oct 2011 13:49:16 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Angie</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;My condolences. May the dear old man rest in peace.
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				<title>Mander on "OT - Goodbye Dear Man"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/ot-goodbye-dear-man#post-454738</link>
				<pubDate>Sun, 30 Oct 2011 10:13:56 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Mander</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I'm so sorry for your loss, but glad that there were some beautiful moments at the end and wonderful memories.
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				<title>Deborah on "OT - Goodbye Dear Man"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sun, 30 Oct 2011 09:54:43 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Deborah</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Shannon you and your family are in my prayers.  He sounds like a lovely and wise man who will be very missed.
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				<title>CocoLion on "OT - Goodbye Dear Man"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sun, 30 Oct 2011 07:18:46 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>CocoLion</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I am sorry he was in pain; dying is hard work.  What a blessing he had some lucidity and recognized your son -- a moment of clarity and meaning.  All of your happy memories must make the grieving all the harder.  My heart goes out to you.
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				<title>Scarlet on "OT - Goodbye Dear Man"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sun, 30 Oct 2011 06:48:25 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Scarlet</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;What a gift to have had such a sweet man in your life. I am sorry for your loss.
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				<title>Debbie on "OT - Goodbye Dear Man"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sun, 30 Oct 2011 05:12:20 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Debbie</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Shannon I am so sorry for your families lost but so grateful that your son had a special moment. Please take care yourselves.
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				<title>HelenInCanada on "OT - Goodbye Dear Man"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sun, 30 Oct 2011 04:37:03 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>HelenInCanada</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;My condolences to you and your family.
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				<title>MNsara on "OT - Goodbye Dear Man"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sun, 30 Oct 2011 04:12:23 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>MNsara</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Oh Shannon - I'm so sorry for your loss.  Losing a sick parent can be so bittersweet.  I'm glad you'll have that positive moment to remember.  Love and comfort to your family during these days.
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				<title>Carole  on "OT - Goodbye Dear Man"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sun, 30 Oct 2011 04:08:41 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Carole </dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Shannon-I'm so very sorry for your loss. How wonderful to have had such a close bond with your father in law. May your good memories give you comfort at this sad time.
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				<title>goldenpig on "OT - Goodbye Dear Man"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sun, 30 Oct 2011 04:07:17 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Hugs, I'm so sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing about your wonderful father in law. I'm glad you all could be there with him and that he was comfortable in his final hours.
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				<title>anne on "OT - Goodbye Dear Man"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sun, 30 Oct 2011 03:59:59 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>anne</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I am glad you had that special moment at the time, and thanks for telling us about your great relationship and bond. Losing him must indeed be a great loss to you as well as your husband
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				<title>san on "OT - Goodbye Dear Man"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/ot-goodbye-dear-man#post-454678</link>
				<pubDate>Sun, 30 Oct 2011 03:22:03 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>san</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;You are sweetness.
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				<title>Vicki on "OT - Goodbye Dear Man"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sun, 30 Oct 2011 03:06:18 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Shannon, I will light a candle for him and your memories you shared convey a very deep and loving relationship the two of you had that will never be shaken.  May the strength of this give you comfort!  Love and hugs to you!
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				<title>Janet on "OT - Goodbye Dear Man"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sun, 30 Oct 2011 02:59:53 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Janet</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I'm so sorry for your loss, Shannon, but I'm glad you got to have those final moments with him. I know how much that means. Big hugs to you and your family.
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				<title>Isis on "OT - Goodbye Dear Man"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sun, 30 Oct 2011 02:39:48 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Isis</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Shannon, I am so sorry.  I am glad that you had a chance to know each other; he sounds like a very special person.
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				<title>Anonymous on "OT - Goodbye Dear Man"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/ot-goodbye-dear-man#post-454638</link>
				<pubDate>Sun, 30 Oct 2011 02:00:05 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Anonymous</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Shannon, I'm sorry.  He sounds like a very special person.
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				<title>Jonesy on "OT - Goodbye Dear Man"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/ot-goodbye-dear-man#post-454630</link>
				<pubDate>Sun, 30 Oct 2011 01:55:11 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Jonesy</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I am very sorry, Shannon.
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				<title>chewyspaghetti on "OT - Goodbye Dear Man"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/ot-goodbye-dear-man#post-454592</link>
				<pubDate>Sun, 30 Oct 2011 00:47:18 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>chewyspaghetti</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I'm so sorry for your loss.
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				<title>AJ on "OT - Goodbye Dear Man"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sun, 30 Oct 2011 00:44:58 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>AJ</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;My sincerest condolences to your family.  I'm glad you can have those sweet memories of him.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I wrote in your last post about my cousin and her dad.  He passed away last Thursday at the age of 67 from bile duct cancer.  He was only diagnosed 5 weeks ago.
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				<title>Suz on "OT - Goodbye Dear Man"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sun, 30 Oct 2011 00:37:12 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Suz</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Shannon, big hugs to you and  your whole family. And thank you for sharing with us here. May you all find peace in this sad time.
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				<title>cheryle (Dianthus) on "OT - Goodbye Dear Man"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sun, 30 Oct 2011 00:28:18 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>cheryle (Dianthus)</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;It sounds like he was a wonderful man.  I am sorry for your loss.
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				<title>annagybe on "OT - Goodbye Dear Man"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sun, 30 Oct 2011 00:20:21 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>annagybe</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;As someone who works in healthcare I'm extremely glad your family chose palliative care. I've seen lots of unnecessary suffering. It's still tough. Wishing you the best.
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				<title>Inge on "OT - Goodbye Dear Man"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sun, 30 Oct 2011 00:16:56 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Inge</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I am so sorry for your loss, Shannon. Your love for your father-in-law comes through in every word here. Wishing you all lots of strength during this difficult time.
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				<title>Anonymous on "OT - Goodbye Dear Man"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sun, 30 Oct 2011 00:16:49 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Shannon, I know there's a mixture of grief and relief at these times.  You were a wonderful daughter-in-law and the love you felt for each other will continue.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;{{{Shannon}}}
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				<title>Mo on "OT - Goodbye Dear Man"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/ot-goodbye-dear-man#post-454573</link>
				<pubDate>Sun, 30 Oct 2011 00:11:14 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Mo</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;So sorry - but glad you have the sweet memories to remember.
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