https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/ot-as-if-i-didnt-have-enough-drama-already Style Advice for Fashion Lovers en-US Tue, 21 Apr 2026 07:41:34 +0000 http://bbpress.org/?v=1.0.2 q https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/search.php https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/ot-as-if-i-didnt-have-enough-drama-already#post-687614 Wed, 08 Aug 2012 09:48:20 +0000 Mona 687614@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>You have got some great advice from others here. Just chiming in to send you good vibes! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/ot-as-if-i-didnt-have-enough-drama-already#post-687594 Wed, 08 Aug 2012 06:56:01 +0000 Deborah 687594@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Victoria, I am going to go out on a limb here because in the past you have mentioned going to church, so i trust I don't offend, but sometimes prayer can be the best first step. Give it up to someone greater than ourselves and then take it step by step, day by day:)</p> <p>These are both very stressful situations. But try and remember you cannot change or fix these situations, but you can offer support and encouragment. </p> <p>Sending you a big *hug* and know you are in my thoughts. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/ot-as-if-i-didnt-have-enough-drama-already#post-687504 Wed, 08 Aug 2012 02:21:01 +0000 Jaime 687504@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Sometimes life truly is stranger than fiction. Or at least believable fiction. I like Una's advice. And remind yourself: This too shall pass. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/ot-as-if-i-didnt-have-enough-drama-already#post-687498 Wed, 08 Aug 2012 02:08:04 +0000 Victoria 687498@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>^thanks hon, I am trying but its kind of hard not to absorb stress even if there is not much you can do about it. Thanks for sympathy:) </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/ot-as-if-i-didnt-have-enough-drama-already#post-687460 Wed, 08 Aug 2012 00:58:42 +0000 catgirl 687460@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Whaaaa....?</p> <p>My advice is to actively ignore what you can't change - your mom's situation and the older relative's obsession, as frustrating as it is. I go out of my way to ignore things all the time when I can't do anything about them. Sometimes even when I can. Otherwise I'd go nuts. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/ot-as-if-i-didnt-have-enough-drama-already#post-687455 Wed, 08 Aug 2012 00:56:20 +0000 anne 687455@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>What a load of stress!! I can hardly believe the dogs at work story! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/ot-as-if-i-didnt-have-enough-drama-already#post-687447 Wed, 08 Aug 2012 00:45:43 +0000 rachylou 687447@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>oh my goodness. I think this calls for a cup of tea and a biscuit - a break is in order (!) </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/ot-as-if-i-didnt-have-enough-drama-already#post-687441 Wed, 08 Aug 2012 00:39:58 +0000 Jem 687441@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>It sounds like you need a vacation! lol So sorry you are having to deal with all of this! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/ot-as-if-i-didnt-have-enough-drama-already#post-687411 Tue, 07 Aug 2012 23:51:43 +0000 Laura 687411@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Some days it seems the world is going crazy, doesn't it? Hugs to you! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/ot-as-if-i-didnt-have-enough-drama-already#post-687289 Tue, 07 Aug 2012 21:23:11 +0000 biscuitsmom 687289@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>((((hugs))) So sorry you and everyone else is going thru this and dragging you into it! I'd be in doggie heaven, but I know a lot of people dont feel that way. Hopefully they will settle down when they get to know her, can she spend time in her office/cubicle? Plead 'allergies' so they stay away? . I REALLY hope your Uncle doesnt send any $ to that lady...but it's his life, all you can do is counsel him (if it's for real, she wouldnt ask) Do NOT lend him any$ ! Try and breathe deep when you can- please, have a glass of wine/drink or two...it does help! SO glad DH is ok, and remember the important thing is he was NOT hurt, TG. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/ot-as-if-i-didnt-have-enough-drama-already#post-687285 Tue, 07 Aug 2012 21:14:23 +0000 Victoria 687285@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>all in the space of yesterday:<br /> I found out an older male family member who is in his late seventies became infatuated with a woman who is 20 years old(or so she says but she does look very young) from Eastern Europe through an online dating service. Now he thinks its true love, wants to go visit her, send her money, etc. I am not going to say what is wrong with this picture. I certainly don't want to him to get taken for a ride but but I sincerely doubt he will listen to reason<br /> my mom is very upset about her new job because her office is apparently is full of dogs. Yes, you heard right. No, its not a dog grooming/caring business but appearenly owner didn't tell her that EVERYONE brings their dog to work. There is 8 people in the office and everyone has their dog with them which run around, bark, jump on everyone, etc. so she says its very distructing and stressful. In all of my life, I have never heard of such a thing. Btw, its a small company and owner didn't tell her about all these dogs before she was hired. She is all stressed out to the point of crying but there is not much I can do about it. And all that is making me super stressed out.<br /> oh, yes, and my DH is sick with a flu and he was in a car accident yesterday.(he is unhurt but car is damaged). What's next, I ask? </p>