https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/omg-someone-else-asked-me-if-i-am-expecting-- Style Advice for Fashion Lovers en-US Thu, 23 Apr 2026 08:33:15 +0000 http://bbpress.org/?v=1.0.2 q https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/search.php https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/omg-someone-else-asked-me-if-i-am-expecting--#post-1633561 Tue, 22 Mar 2016 09:21:19 +0000 Sally 1633561@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I've had that happen.&nbsp;&nbsp;The worst time,&nbsp; I was quite slim at the time but was wearing a dress that was full in the front.&nbsp;&nbsp;Two land agents were&nbsp;showing me around a house and the owner came up and said "how lovely. and you're having a baby".&nbsp;&nbsp; The land agents went really quiet.&nbsp; I didn't buy the house but that was because the place was awful. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/omg-someone-else-asked-me-if-i-am-expecting--#post-1632975 Mon, 21 Mar 2016 05:19:15 +0000 Cerinda 1632975@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Unspeakable rude; how awful. &nbsp;</p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/omg-someone-else-asked-me-if-i-am-expecting--#post-1632789 Sun, 20 Mar 2016 20:44:28 +0000 Momo 1632789@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Thank you Isabel. One person I had just met and one I know a little.<br /> I am going with the glow part </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/omg-someone-else-asked-me-if-i-am-expecting--#post-1632307 Sun, 20 Mar 2016 01:01:50 +0000 Anonymous 1632307@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>What the..where the heck are you going? Who are these people?<br />You truly do not look pregnant, but it's true that you do look very fresh and healthy, like you've been taking good care of yourself, maybe Xtabay is on to something with the glow? </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/omg-someone-else-asked-me-if-i-am-expecting--#post-1631745 Fri, 18 Mar 2016 23:48:57 +0000 Momo 1631745@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Oh goodness.. Sorry for all the typos! Phone.. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/omg-someone-else-asked-me-if-i-am-expecting--#post-1631744 Fri, 18 Mar 2016 23:47:29 +0000 Momo 1631744@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Thank Maneera and Gaylene</p> <p>That story is funny una but jeez that must have been hard foe her I'd her body image was already poor. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/omg-someone-else-asked-me-if-i-am-expecting--#post-1631536 Fri, 18 Mar 2016 18:10:19 +0000 Gaylene 1631536@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I'd write it off as total social blunder on the speaker's part. If you think about it, it's such a stupid remark to make to a total stranger--like asking someone if she dyed her hair. </p> <p>Una, that story is hilarious! Imagine arguing with a stranger about her non-existent pregnancy. Too weird! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/omg-someone-else-asked-me-if-i-am-expecting--#post-1631519 Fri, 18 Mar 2016 17:32:58 +0000 catgirl 1631519@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>As an aside, in college I worked in an upscale toy store with one of my friends.&nbsp; She had some real body dysmorphia.&nbsp; One day a customer came in and said to her, "Oh, look!&nbsp; You're pregnant!"&nbsp; And when my friend said she wasn't, the customer ARGUED with her - like "Oh, don't be shy!&nbsp; You're an adorable mama-to-be!"&nbsp; This was 30 years ago... </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/omg-someone-else-asked-me-if-i-am-expecting--#post-1631476 Fri, 18 Mar 2016 16:58:05 +0000 Maneera 1631476@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I'm going to echo everyone else - you don't look pregnant AT ALL. NOT ONE TINY BIT. I think Una is right....people are idiots</p> <p>This happened to me once. I remember I was wearing a lose cotton top with an empire waistline. I asked the lady - what made you think that? Obviously she couldn't say "because you look fat"....so I suppose I made her feel as uncomfortable as she made me! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/omg-someone-else-asked-me-if-i-am-expecting--#post-1631439 Fri, 18 Mar 2016 16:28:30 +0000 Momo 1631439@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Xtabay - a friend said that too. Maybe..<br /> texatyle- I do know what you mean. Yesterday was a black dress with a jean jacket over.<br /> Barbara Diane - thank you !<br /> Angie - sigh is right, thank you xoxo<br /> Aziraphale and joy - yeah..<br /> Gigi- I have considered that although I haven't lost that much weight but maybe there is a redistribution .<br /> Rachylou- I need new sponges anyway ;-)<br /> Summer - thank you !<br /> Deborah- right! That is what I am trying to focus on .. A compliment on my youthful looks ;-)<br /> No. Neither person meant to be mean or rude, both were actually being quite nice, just unintentially hurtful.<br /> And thank you! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/omg-someone-else-asked-me-if-i-am-expecting--#post-1631223 Fri, 18 Mar 2016 11:20:13 +0000 Deborah 1631223@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Momo, a person connected to my work recently asked me if i was the staff member who had recently had a baby! &nbsp; At 50 years of age I chose to receive it as a compliment that this lady thought I was young enough to have a baby &nbsp;A couple of years back someone asked if I was pregnant. &nbsp;I was was wearing a shapeless sack like dress on a hot day, rather than the skinny pants and blazer type outfit she was used to seeing me in.. again, I took it as a compliment... she obviously thought I was younger than I am.</p> <p>Try not to let it bother you. &nbsp;People can be a little thoughtless but I don't believe they mean to be rude or hurtful. &nbsp;</p> <p>You have never looked pregnant to me, just gorgeous and well dressed xxx </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/omg-someone-else-asked-me-if-i-am-expecting--#post-1631218 Fri, 18 Mar 2016 11:08:58 +0000 Summer 1631218@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>That's totally unacceptable, Momo. &nbsp;Don't let it get to you. &nbsp;You always look lovely. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/omg-someone-else-asked-me-if-i-am-expecting--#post-1631137 Fri, 18 Mar 2016 04:02:38 +0000 rachylou 1631137@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Oh Momo, you know the worst part is...if a third person doesn't say it now, I think you'll have to buy new sink sponges... </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/omg-someone-else-asked-me-if-i-am-expecting--#post-1631135 Fri, 18 Mar 2016 04:01:30 +0000 Gigi 1631135@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I don't know your weight situation, but could it be that you have lost enough weight that your tops look overly big, leading to the pregnancy comments? </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/omg-someone-else-asked-me-if-i-am-expecting--#post-1631117 Fri, 18 Mar 2016 03:12:33 +0000 Anonymous 1631117@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>How thoughtless! How can people say things like that? They must be lacking a filter.. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/omg-someone-else-asked-me-if-i-am-expecting--#post-1631099 Fri, 18 Mar 2016 02:22:13 +0000 Aziraphale 1631099@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>People can be so stupid. &nbsp;</p> <p>Well done on the weight loss!</p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/omg-someone-else-asked-me-if-i-am-expecting--#post-1631067 Fri, 18 Mar 2016 01:16:12 +0000 Angie 1631067@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>*SIGH*</p> <p>You do NOT look pregnant. (((HUGS))).&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/omg-someone-else-asked-me-if-i-am-expecting--#post-1630946 Thu, 17 Mar 2016 19:58:43 +0000 Barbara Diane 1630946@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>OMG. People are so clueless. So sorry.<br />You look great, and kudos on losing weight. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/omg-someone-else-asked-me-if-i-am-expecting--#post-1630939 Thu, 17 Mar 2016 19:44:55 +0000 texstyle 1630939@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Momo, I'm wondering now if it's maybe just the style of top you were wearing? I've owned a couple of tops that had a bit of a higher waist with some flowy aspect in the past and I think some people did automatically assume they were maternity wear tops because that is often the way maternity wear is designed.</p> <p> </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/omg-someone-else-asked-me-if-i-am-expecting--#post-1630920 Thu, 17 Mar 2016 19:09:47 +0000 Anonymous 1630920@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Maybe you were glowing?&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/omg-someone-else-asked-me-if-i-am-expecting--#post-1630889 Thu, 17 Mar 2016 17:57:49 +0000 Momo 1630889@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Thank you Alaskagirl and Jaileen .<br /> trying hard not to get down about it </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/omg-someone-else-asked-me-if-i-am-expecting--#post-1630884 Thu, 17 Mar 2016 17:40:02 +0000 JAileen 1630884@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>You don't look pregnant! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/omg-someone-else-asked-me-if-i-am-expecting--#post-1630879 Thu, 17 Mar 2016 17:31:46 +0000 catgirl 1630879@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Ugh.&nbsp; I feel your pain - especially since fibroids are making me look about halfway through a pregnancy.&nbsp; People are idiots.&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/omg-someone-else-asked-me-if-i-am-expecting--#post-1630864 Thu, 17 Mar 2016 17:05:51 +0000 Momo 1630864@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>For goodness sake ! I have been the same weight for a long time . Recently lost weight and now two comments in a couple of weeks .<br /> :-(<br /> Maybe I should be happy that at 44 years old people still think I am young enough .<br /> Tough blow again though . </p>