https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/offshoot-question-what-does-your-personality-say-about-your-style Style Advice for Fashion Lovers en-US Wed, 20 May 2026 18:20:28 +0000 http://bbpress.org/?v=1.0.2 q https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/search.php https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/offshoot-question-what-does-your-personality-say-about-your-style/page/2#post-783857 Wed, 28 Nov 2012 19:28:01 +0000 rachylou 783857@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Yes. I was always borderline introvert/extrovert. I think what happened over the years was I tipped towards extrovert and squeaked into the category.</p> <p>Also, interestingly enough, I suspect in earlier years a heavy-handed, classical Western education had my focus squarely on being analytical - and I'm quite good at being that way, if I don't say so myself. But I don't think it's my native nature; age has provided me with enough self-empowerment to chuck it.</p> <p>Ok, obviously not totally chuck it... </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/offshoot-question-what-does-your-personality-say-about-your-style/page/2#post-783837 Wed, 28 Nov 2012 18:53:10 +0000 Suz 783837@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Great points, Gaylene. And a very interesting discussion! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/offshoot-question-what-does-your-personality-say-about-your-style/page/2#post-783808 Wed, 28 Nov 2012 17:53:36 +0000 Gaylene 783808@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>With the variety of MB-type tests on the Internet these days, it's not uncommon to have different results from different tests. The actual Myers-Briggs test is quite lengthy and involves a fair bit of introspection before settling on one's "type". If any of you are still interested in playing around with this theory, a couple of suggestions:</p> <p>First the MB theory is all about PREFERENCE, which can be quite different than what you actually do in a particular situation. Mo's example of working 20+ years in a bar is a good example; because her job requires interacting with people, most observers would probably see her (and she might see herself) as having many of the extroversion qualities. To draw a parallel with handedness, it would be the same as if her job required her to work constantly with her left hand even if her preference was to use her right hand. Eventually she would become so good at using her left hand, it might seem to an observer, and even to her, that she was indeed left handed. As we get older, it becomes harder and harder for most of us to distinguish between what we can do and what we might prefer if there were no constraints on us. That's why some people think their "type" changes as they get older or they change careers. </p> <p>The second thing to keep in mind is that not everyone has a strong preference on each of the scales. The characteristics ascribed to each letter are usually most accurate for individuals who are at the far ends of the spectrum, not near the midpoint. So, to use MaryK as an example, if she is near the middle of the N/S spectrum she might be much more flexible in her information-gathering strategies than someone who is near either of the ends. She is "ambidextrous" and can switch between both hands quite easily.</p> <p>Last thought, I keep trying to think about how type would influence my fashion and shopping choices. Personally, I think that human behavior is dependent on so many factors, it would be hard to separate out my MB type as being the main influence on my behavior. For example, as an introvert, it would seem logical that I'd prefer to shop alone, but that behavior might also be just logical for an extrovert who has limited time and resources for shopping or who would prefer to engage in other activities with people. It's a fun way to explore possible differences but I wouldn't read too much into it.</p> <p>ETA: I feel like such a downer, but I get a bit conflicted when I see how MB type theory gets so distorted on the web. The "take this quicky test and slap a label on yourself and others" approach bothers me. People are complicated and most of us can't be summed up in a four letter code. But I think recognizing that another person can have a very different approach forces us to confront that our preferences are just that--our preferences. And to communicate with each other, we have to acknowledge these differences if we want to understand each other. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/offshoot-question-what-does-your-personality-say-about-your-style/page/2#post-783695 Wed, 28 Nov 2012 14:18:19 +0000 MsMary 783695@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Huh. All this intuitiveness is rubbing off on me. I just took an online test and it came out ENFJ. Go figure... </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/offshoot-question-what-does-your-personality-say-about-your-style/page/2#post-783691 Wed, 28 Nov 2012 14:09:46 +0000 amiable 783691@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Caro, I think it's quite particular to YLF. Real society has much more 'S' and much more 'P' than is represented here! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/offshoot-question-what-does-your-personality-say-about-your-style/page/2#post-783574 Wed, 28 Nov 2012 05:17:21 +0000 Caro in Oz 783574@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>This is so interesting. Not very many Ps here many more Js. Does anyone know if is this true for society or peculiar to YLF? </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/offshoot-question-what-does-your-personality-say-about-your-style/page/2#post-783537 Wed, 28 Nov 2012 04:16:09 +0000 Desmo April 783537@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Absolutely! There's nothing like the service industry to get you talking to everyone. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/offshoot-question-what-does-your-personality-say-about-your-style/page/2#post-782950 Tue, 27 Nov 2012 14:44:02 +0000 Mo 782950@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Desmo - I am INTP bordering on ENTP (by one measely point). At least I was 20 years ago when I took the test in college These days I'm probably most likely on the E side, after 20 years of bartending and dealing with strangers every day. Pulls you out of your shell, no? </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/offshoot-question-what-does-your-personality-say-about-your-style/page/2#post-782787 Tue, 27 Nov 2012 04:55:38 +0000 Desmo April 782787@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I'm an ENTP--doesn't seem to be a lot around these parts. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/offshoot-question-what-does-your-personality-say-about-your-style/page/2#post-782774 Tue, 27 Nov 2012 04:26:36 +0000 Gaylene 782774@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Rae, as a fellow NT, I also hate games. But it doesn't surprise me that you might type yourself as an NT. The following is a summary of some of the common characteristics that have been applied by some researchers to this type:</p> <p>NTs, especially those who prefer introversion, are often perceptive observers who like to gather information to generate new ideas and solutions. They are usually very quick to understand new concepts and value intelligence and competence in themselves and others. This type sets high standards for themselves and others, and can see possibilities where others may just perceive problems. They love new ideas and are prone to boredom if they have to follow routines. NTs are often viewed by others as independent, self-confident, unconventional, and original.</p> <p>But (putting on my teacher hat), I really think it's important to recognize that this kind of description is only useful as a guide to help a person gain some insight into his or her preferences and behaviors. It's also important to recognize that every one of these characteristics has a dark side as well as a positive side. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/offshoot-question-what-does-your-personality-say-about-your-style/page/2#post-782770 Tue, 27 Nov 2012 04:12:04 +0000 amiable 782770@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Yes, I was startled by how few "S" ladies there are here too! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/offshoot-question-what-does-your-personality-say-about-your-style/page/2#post-782766 Tue, 27 Nov 2012 04:03:48 +0000 MsMary 782766@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Apparently I am the only ESFJ around these parts! LOL Actually although I am such a strong "J" that I'm practically off the charts, the rest of it is pretty close although I am consistently on the ESF side by, like, one point per category! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/offshoot-question-what-does-your-personality-say-about-your-style/page/2#post-782759 Tue, 27 Nov 2012 03:42:01 +0000 rae 782759@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Gaylene, I was just able to catch up reading the rest of the comments, and I found the extra tidbits about the personalities so interesting! Especially as an INT, lol. I wouldn't have initially put myself in that category, since for example I hate playing games. But reading more closely, it sounds like maybe INTs just prefer different types of problems (like helping friends with outfits, hehe). </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/offshoot-question-what-does-your-personality-say-about-your-style/page/2#post-782671 Tue, 27 Nov 2012 01:34:51 +0000 Anonymous 782671@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Gaylene, I had to laugh, when I am marking papers I do the exact same thing. I write everything out and then have to go back and find the "something nice" to say </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/offshoot-question-what-does-your-personality-say-about-your-style/page/2#post-782580 Tue, 27 Nov 2012 00:06:56 +0000 deb 782580@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>OK, now that I have had time to think about this I will chime back in. </p> <p>INFJ </p> <p>Introvert - although I am fine in front of people, I am most comfortable with people I do not know. I am a watcher so I have a tendancy to sit on the sidelines but can talk up a storm with one-on-one conversation. My clothing choices are never over the top. I so not like to shop in groups or really even go into a store. Even as a kid, I knew what I wanted so I went in, got it and left. That never set well with my best friend. Oh, and sales people just drive me crazy. I think some may have a stalker gene in them.</p> <p>Intuitive - I definitely like to see the bigger picture. One piece at a time makes no sense to me. When I purchase something I visualize how it will look with what I have in my closet.</p> <p>Feeling - I know when it feels right. That is the way I get dressed in the morning. And why I have a difficult time choosing the night before. When I see something in a store if I do not feel it I just leave it there. </p> <p>Judging - I have no trouble making a decision. If i can see the bigger picture, and feel it in my gut, I make the call. I do not tolerate wishy-washy very well. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/offshoot-question-what-does-your-personality-say-about-your-style/page/2#post-782504 Mon, 26 Nov 2012 22:35:19 +0000 rae 782504@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I am apparently an INTJ as well. I think it fits my style fairly well, too. </p> <p>As an Introvert, the test said that I prefer to think before I act and that I "recharge" from being alone. I definitely Pin and make wishlists to high heaven, so that fits. I think this is also reflected in the fact that I am not happy with my outfit unless I feel like myself in it, no matter how much others may love it. </p> <p>As an iNtuitive, the test says my memory recall emphasizes patterns/contexts/connections and that I see possibilities rather than realities. I'd say this is reflected in the way I prefer to evaluate my outfit as a whole "picture" or "work" (for example, it's not uncommon for me to try to wear several favorite pieces at once only to discover that they don't look right together - the effect of the whole supersedes those of the individual items) and sometimes buy things with intent to alter/dye. </p> <p>As a Thinker, I apparently use logic to dictate action... although I will say that fashion is one of my exceptions to this rule and that I am a fairly emotional shopper, I am getting much better at letting practicality be the deciding factor. </p> <p>As a Judge, the test says I am a planner - and yeah, I makelots of lists when I pack for a trip. I am also happiest with my outfits when I've tried them on beforehand and had a chance to tweak and take photos. Ironically, I think all the planning has affected my style by making it feel more effortless. lol. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/offshoot-question-what-does-your-personality-say-about-your-style/page/2#post-782481 Mon, 26 Nov 2012 22:13:12 +0000 cciele 782481@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Phew, I thought I was going to be alone here as an ENTJ (hi Elisabeth and Jonesy!). Gaylene, your insights are very useful though I am having a hard time guessing what how the MB type relates to my style. Let's see:<br /> E - Yup, I'm kind of out there and social and my clothes reflect that. Although of all the four dichotomies, the E and I are the closest in percentage , so I do have my introvert moments where I want to blend in and not be noticed.<br /> N T J - I like to analyze my wardrobe logically, look at patterns. I can overthink things sometimes but also act on hunches/heat of the moment. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/offshoot-question-what-does-your-personality-say-about-your-style/page/2#post-782477 Mon, 26 Nov 2012 22:09:21 +0000 Jonesy 782477@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Fun thread! I took the long version a long time ago, and I was an ENTJ, with the E pretty close to the middle. Now I wonder if I'd be an INTJ--I think my *need* for quiet, alone time in order to feel energized has grown over time!</p> <p>I am very analytical, but also very decisive, so I will think about a new purchase to a point, but I get impatient with too much analysis :). I am definitely quite direct in person--around here I try to temper my bluntness and soften my rough edges, knowing that everything can sound different online vs. in-person. </p> <p>I'm not sure how my MB type affects my style. I *do* enjoy analyzing what works about an outfit, and what doesn't work, and I love mixing up my clothes and thinking up new combinations of things--the process gives me this weird satisfaction and sense of accomplishment. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/offshoot-question-what-does-your-personality-say-about-your-style/page/2#post-782452 Mon, 26 Nov 2012 21:33:53 +0000 Aziraphale 782452@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>@Amiable: "I choose what I wear for how I want to be perceived" -- Yes! Exactly! That's exactly right. I don't wear pieces because they have sentimental value, but because of how they make me look. I choose clothes so that I appear on the outside how I feel on the inside. I am very fond of certain garments, but it's because of how they look, and how they reflect who I am, and not because they hold special memories. </p> <p>And yes, I'm with you on wanting to look competent. I think we mainly differ in that I do want to stand out -- a little. :-)</p> <p>ETA: I'm nicer than Steve Jobs was. Probably not as intelligent, mind you, but thank you for the compliment. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/offshoot-question-what-does-your-personality-say-about-your-style/page/2#post-782434 Mon, 26 Nov 2012 21:11:46 +0000 amiable 782434@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Hi Elizabeth! </p> <p>Steve Jobs, arrogant and not-nice though he was, was Brilliant. I would take the "type" description as, at the very least, a huge compliment to your intelligence :)</p> <p>I feel like your question is over my head (on "what does this mean for my style"). Gaylene probably has a much better answer. Or many of the other people in this thread - there's several comments that do a really good job of suggesting how these traits translate into style.</p> <p>But here's my stab anyway: I choose what I wear for how I want to be perceived. I suspect you do the same. I almost always want to be perceived as competent, which, to me, fits with your wanting to wear clothes that fit properly. I don't want to stand out or disappear in most situations. When I'm in a position or authority, I want to dress like someone with authority too, not like a flirty fun little girl, or in any sort of costume. I suspect we're quite similar in that, I'm just learning to wear lipstick - it's hard for me not to feel like a clown in it. I'm also learning that my impression of what looks over the top, is mostly just that, an impression, not reality. </p> <p>:) </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/offshoot-question-what-does-your-personality-say-about-your-style/page/2#post-782422 Mon, 26 Nov 2012 20:52:54 +0000 Aziraphale 782422@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I had no idea what personality type I was, but I looked it up, took the test, and guess whose picture is on the page describing my type? Steve Jobs. That's right, that arrogant little tit. Nice. (Er, may he rest in peace).</p> <p>Any other ENTJs out there? </p> <p>Still, I'm always skeptical of online quizzes, even those with hundreds of questions. I think I'd need to be formally tested to be more confident that I've been put in the right box. Because for half the questions, my answer was "uh, not sure." I think someone close to me might have an easier time answering a lot of the questions, haha. I'm not particularly "in touch with my feelings" -- that phrase has been repeated to me more than once, by different people.</p> <p>So, Amiable, assuming I am what the test says I am, that puts me in nearly the same box as you, except that I'm extroverted, not introverted. (I would agree with that). What does this mean for my style? I guess I do like to be visible, but not out of control or over-the-top. That sort of thing is a real turn-off for me. So I often wear subdued colours, then choose one element that really stands out -- often an eye-catching pair of shoes, but other times, an interesting skirt or hat. I make sure everything fits really well. I'm not afraid to wear bright lipstick, but I never want to look like I'm in costume. I guess what I'm going for is "understated showiness", which does seem to fit with the personality type thing. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/offshoot-question-what-does-your-personality-say-about-your-style/page/2#post-782388 Mon, 26 Nov 2012 20:20:28 +0000 Gaylene 782388@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Amiable, your point about "adaptiveness" is so true. One of the reasons many people have trouble with the E/I preference is because they have had to "adapt" to a society and educational system that rewards extroversion. How many times has an introverted child been told "to go outside and play" instead of staying inside alone. By the time, we become adults, most of us have learned how important it is to display extroverted tendencies in public.</p> <p>One of the ways I help students figure out this preference is to ask what they do after work if they need to re-energize. An extrovert will often choose to spend time with friends and family, talking and socializing. An introvert will want to go into the bathroom and shut the door to find some solitude and be away from people for a while.</p> <p>My students are usually quite surprised to find that I fall on the introversion side of this preference. My job requires constantly being with students and colleagues and maintaining a high level of interaction to keep my classes interesting. At the end of the day, I'm exhausted. I want my glass of wine and a book--and to be left alone! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/offshoot-question-what-does-your-personality-say-about-your-style/page/2#post-782380 Mon, 26 Nov 2012 20:05:15 +0000 amiable 782380@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Wow - I agree with Donna - I've never met so many INTJs - especially women! </p> <p>What fun!</p> <p>I love reading all your analysis's. </p> <p>And I decided that I don't *have* to shop by myself. I'd shop with someone that I considered an expert in style (like pretty much any one of you), who would give me honest feedback. My general experience shopping is that whoever I'm with encourages me to get something I feel iffy on, and I regret the purchase :)</p> <p>Gaylene, you described my experience well - I'm a strong "J", but only slight preferences for the I, N and T. My husband is a super strong "P", (He's INFP - so we're not extreme opposites, but the "J" versus "P" requires a lot of adaptation for us both.</p> <p>Dave Ramsey's personality analysis breaks down your "dominant" and "adaptive" types, so that you have two personality types - one for when you're being yourself, and one for when you're being observed - sort of a "public" versus "private" type. I think a lot of us adapt into a slightly different person than we are, and I found that for me, getting dressed is adaptive. I dress for situations that I may encounter, or for who I think I'll see (and how I want to portray myself, while still being true to who I am).</p> <p>Oh, how I love over-analysis! This is fun! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/offshoot-question-what-does-your-personality-say-about-your-style/page/2#post-782377 Mon, 26 Nov 2012 20:03:59 +0000 Gaylene 782377@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Just another tidbit of information that some of you might find interesting. Various researchers have tried to distill the MB dimensions into "type categories" to make it easier to use the information, especially in the workplace.</p> <p>The NF "type", when coupled with an extrovert preference, is sometimes called the "charismatic leader" type. This personality type often draws others in because of their interest in helping others develop their potential along with their personal warmth, empathy, and charm. In an organizational setting, it's these people who are often the transformational leaders who make others want to join in and be part of the group. It's interesting that Angie falls into this category.</p> <p>The NF, with an introvert preference, are sometimes referred to as the "glue" that helps the organization maintain harmony while still pushing the group forward with new ways of thinking and doing.</p> <p>The NT, especially those with a tendency to introvertedness, are often the "strategic thinkers". They can seem a bit aloof in their abstract thinking, but are essential because of their ability to develop plans for the future. They love working through complex problems and are good at predicting outcomes. The greatest reward you can give an NT is not a compliment, but a new problem that only they can solve. :0 (We are a weird bunch!)</p> <p>The SF types, both I and E, are the loyalists. They work hard, offer practical solutions, and are willing to take on the less desirable tasks because they know that these things are important. They recognize the importance of getting the details right. They make great team players. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/offshoot-question-what-does-your-personality-say-about-your-style/page/2#post-782354 Mon, 26 Nov 2012 19:39:21 +0000 rachylou 782354@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>How fascinating! I've only ever done it online, but the last time I took it I was an ENFJ ("Idealist Teacher"). It's interesting, because there has been change over the years. Quite a bit of change - like I was Mr. Spock and now I'm Dr. McCoy. Lol. I don't know how changeable these traits are supposed to be, but I have fairly consciously changed my modus operandi over the years. So it seems a fair assessment.</p> <p>It's also interesting to me that there'd be a lot of ENFJs here too. Self-selection?</p> <p>As for personality type and fashion sense... Yes, I can see it. First off, I am an emotional dresser. I can analyze my outfits, but only after I've put them on and worn them for a day. I have a really hard time using my analyses to buy clothes or make outfits. There's a big discrepancy between the name I'd give to my style and the mantra that guides my fashion choices. Really, I rely on funny rules and mood to pick out stuff. (Btw, I read this is a danger for ENFJs! Lack of data collection and analysis! So I'm trying to get my brain to translate my analyses into funny rules for me...)</p> <p>I also think of my clothes in manipulative terms. Ok, there's a nicer way to put that, but it's an ENFJ trait and I *do* think about how my dress will hurt or help business, communicate the real me so as not to give anyone any nasty surprises, etc. etc. I think pretty much not at all about figure flattery (which is something I'm trying to change / remember to think about).</p> <p>I'm sure there's a lot more. A very interesting avenue into gaining some fashion insights!</p> <p>ETA: Must add... for all this ENFJ stuff, it is my nature to say "I think" not "I feel" (nodding to Claire here). This may be a product of a heavy-handed, classical Western education. Or not. Hehe. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/offshoot-question-what-does-your-personality-say-about-your-style/page/2#post-782346 Mon, 26 Nov 2012 19:22:39 +0000 Suz 782346@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Wow, what a great conversation!! It's fascinating (and mostly not at all surprising) to learn all of your "types." And Gaylene, as a teacher and editor, I'm pretty much the opposite. I grade by gut, then go back and analyze why; it's easy for me to express my positive reactions, and takes me much longer to describe the argument's flaws (even though I intuitively grasp those immediately). This, even though my F/T are pretty close -- just a bit further along on the F side. My I/E preferences are also pretty close. I'm extreme on the N and the J sides. So yes, like amiable, once I have decided I WANT some item, it makes me nuts not to be able to find it!! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/offshoot-question-what-does-your-personality-say-about-your-style/page/2#post-782340 Mon, 26 Nov 2012 18:59:54 +0000 DonnaF 782340@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Wow! I've never *met* so many fellow INTJs!!! What you wrote, Gaylene, resonated a lot with me, and I have to remember it when commenting on my *F* daughter's paper that I am about to read. DH is an *F*, too, and I think I am very, very *T* like my dad was. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/offshoot-question-what-does-your-personality-say-about-your-style#post-782313 Mon, 26 Nov 2012 18:42:36 +0000 Gaylene 782313@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Another INTJ here with VERY strong preferences on the N, T, and J scales.</p> <p>Years ago, I was trained to administer the Myers-Briggs assessments so I could use the test in a couple of courses I was teaching at the time. Most of my students found the test useful in helping them understand why they exhibited certain preferences and why others might not share their traits. But I've got to say that I hated the test when the students started using the results to slap labels on themselves and on others. The MB preferences are akin to handedness. It is entirely possible for most people to be able to use their non-dominant hand when required by circumstance or situation. Unless the person is ambidextrous, though, using the non-dominant hand usually takes more energy and performance can feel more awkward. Incidentally, that's why some people feel quite comfortable on both sides of a scale; they don't have a strong preference and can be considered ambidextrous on that dimension. This is especially true of the E/I dimension.</p> <p>It doesn't surprise me that there are so many self-identified I and N females on a fashion forum, since the desire for creativity and re-invention is such a strong part of the N preference. What I find even more interesting, however, the dominance of the Feeling preference, which goes a long way towards explaining why everyone is so careful and tactful when commenting on the forum. With the majority having F preferences, T members, like me, can seem to be a bit blunt at time because of the way we phrase our comments. Thinkers tend to communicate using logical and consistent arguments (does that sound like me, or what!) while Feelers usually feel more comfortable using expressive and harmonizing language that focuses on the needs of others. My students always laugh when I tell them that, after I've graded their papers and commented on their logic and presentation of ideas, I have to deliberately go back and put a "nice work/good job/good insight" kind of comments on their papers. My T preference sees these comments as secondary but I also know that these comments are essential if my F students are to feel comfortable developing, understanding, and sharing ideas. In my opinion, the difference in communication styles between the T and the F preferences leads to more misunderstanding than almost any other preference dimension.</p> <p>I also think it's fascinating that my husband of 40 years is my exact opposite, with strong preferences on the S, F, and P dimensions. Living with your opposite number takes patience and forces me to work in the "wrong" hand in the interests of marital harmony. It's a good reminder that not everyone shares my view of the world and my preferences. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/offshoot-question-what-does-your-personality-say-about-your-style#post-782254 Mon, 26 Nov 2012 16:41:48 +0000 N-Marie 782254@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Another INTJ here! So I also over-analyze style and sometimes have a tough time being creative. Supposedly INTJ females are also quite rare, but perhaps it's not surprising that they would be well-represented in a online forum which uses the term "formula" in reference to fashion!</p> <p>I found the Meyers-Briggs surprisingly accurate when I took it a few years ago. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/offshoot-question-what-does-your-personality-say-about-your-style#post-782229 Mon, 26 Nov 2012 15:46:44 +0000 amiable 782229@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Okay, what a fab thing to go to bed after posting a question, and come back to see such a wonderful discussion!</p> <p>I have learned (about myself).<br /> 1) Introvert makes me shop alone. Only alone. I'm super overwhelmed by department stores and crowds. Black Friday shopping isn't really for me :)</p> <p>2) Thinking makes me want to know not just THAT a piece or combination works, but WHY it works. </p> <p>3) Introvert makes me prefer an online forum (wow- that's a strong trait among us - the I. N might be even stronger - I've only seen two "S" types post!). I think slowly, and feel put on the spot when asked or commented on in person, but love it in writing, where I can digest things at my own pace.</p> <p>4) Judging makes me feel comfortable once I've made my decision. I like a good return policy, because I don't trust myself to buy the right item, but I'll buy it if I know I can return it after asking you all (And I love knowing that this item is right or wrong). But I get impatient if I've made a decision (i.e., to buy knee-high boots), but can't find the perfect item right away. Ha.</p> <p>5) The N makes me rather unpredictable, maybe? I don't systematically wear the things I have, or go through my clothes even in a predictable way. </p> <p>When I have an item I'm trying to figure out how to wear, I really want to wear it about a dozen times in a row, to try out all my ideas. Then I want to catalog what works and didn't, and move on to another item. IRL, it doesn't work that way, but that's what I find myself wanting. </p> <p>:)</p> <p>Thanks you all! It's so fun learning about you all and about myself in the process! </p>