https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/october-november-wib Style Advice for Fashion Lovers en-US Wed, 15 Apr 2026 02:13:47 +0000 http://bbpress.org/?v=1.0.2 q https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/search.php https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/october-november-wib#post-2157652 Fri, 04 Dec 2020 17:53:17 +0000 Liesbeth 2157652@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Thanks Gigi, kellygirl and nemosmom! I'm starting to wonder if I could pare down my essentials further ... to fit the bag ... lol. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/october-november-wib#post-2157637 Fri, 04 Dec 2020 16:06:08 +0000 nemosmom 2157637@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Late to the party, but I LOVE your pants! Disappointing about the bag, my gosh it is a great bag - those COLORS!!! </p> <p>ETA: your palette is SO pretty</p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/october-november-wib#post-2157383 Thu, 03 Dec 2020 05:00:02 +0000 kellygirl 2157383@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Squee, those pants are just delightful. I love them on you. What a fun style--and a playful addition to your wardrobe!&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/october-november-wib#post-2157365 Thu, 03 Dec 2020 03:08:18 +0000 Gigi 2157365@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I love all of these! You have done excellently with the proportions.</p> <p>That's too bad about the bag. I find it maddening when I can't fit what I need in my bag. I hope you find another one soon that checks all your boxes. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/october-november-wib#post-2157294 Wed, 02 Dec 2020 17:26:29 +0000 Liesbeth 2157294@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Thanks Lynne!<br /> And Suntiger, you too. Makes sense actually. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/october-november-wib#post-2157250 Wed, 02 Dec 2020 12:08:47 +0000 Anonymous 2157250@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I like outfit 7 a lot! Definitely add more aubergine! It works as a neutral for summers and autumns </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/october-november-wib#post-2157244 Wed, 02 Dec 2020 11:28:14 +0000 Lynne 2157244@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Stunning pants, cut, colour and styling are fab! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/october-november-wib#post-2157241 Wed, 02 Dec 2020 11:17:10 +0000 Liesbeth 2157241@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Thanks Synne! I think I am a summer but lately I've started seeking more inspiration in the soft summer palette (so verging on autumn). But not the pastels because they wash me out! So I stick to some personal guidelines about the type of colors that suit me: medium light-dark, medium saturation and cool toned or a little warmth :p. That being said I think I once read that aubergine is universally flattering?<br /> Shevia, thanks for your compassionate perspective!<br /> Suz, I would probably not even have tried these pants had I found something more classic in aubergine :-D. I did hope on wearing it somewhat like you - aren't purples, pinks and reds gorgeous together? </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/october-november-wib#post-2157212 Wed, 02 Dec 2020 04:25:47 +0000 Suz 2157212@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I am so in love with the colour story in your Finds!! Those are great colours for me, too! And I <b>LOVE</b> the aubergine pants. Of course you need a complement! The silvery scarf will be super useful.&nbsp; And the patterned one is just plain beautiful.&nbsp;</p> <p>I find aubergine works with a surprising range of colours and neutrals. I wear my aubergine jeans (not as cool as your pants, but still) with the items shown....as well as grey, white, navy, ink...and lilac.&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/october-november-wib#post-2157197 Wed, 02 Dec 2020 02:21:47 +0000 Jaime 2157197@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>The new trousers are excellent - they are surprisingly versatile for you too. I think they work every which way. Hope you are enjoying the new purchases. Lockdown is no time to begrudge ourselves small pleasures.&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/october-november-wib#post-2157138 Tue, 01 Dec 2020 18:53:00 +0000 Synne 2157138@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>"I know that hearing from you guys brings me joy so I hope this is of some interest to you too." Beautifully said and seconded, Liesbeth! Always a treat to see you and read your style musings.<br /> I love the eggplant and colour. You really suit subtle, refined colours. Are you an autumn? </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/october-november-wib#post-2157136 Tue, 01 Dec 2020 18:44:53 +0000 Liesbeth 2157136@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Angie you're making me blush! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/october-november-wib#post-2157104 Tue, 01 Dec 2020 17:14:46 +0000 Angie 2157104@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>KILLER to the Power of KILLER BALLOON PANTS! They are the best thing in your wardrobe, and you've styled them soooo well. Impressed!</p> <p>I hereby crown you Queen Balloon Pants </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/october-november-wib#post-2157094 Tue, 01 Dec 2020 16:38:25 +0000 Liesbeth 2157094@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Delurked, you are so right. The waist is very high on me! Thanks for commenting! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/october-november-wib#post-2157093 Tue, 01 Dec 2020 16:37:38 +0000 Liesbeth 2157093@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Thanks TG! I have to admit that chooclate is yet another coping mechanism for me too. I should draw the line at going up a size or these two bad habits are only going to reinforce each other ;). </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/october-november-wib#post-2157092 Tue, 01 Dec 2020 16:36:46 +0000 delurked 2157092@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I agree the pants look best with a baggy topper. I wouldn’t have predicted that, but those pics look best to me. I like it with the jacket too, but maybe if it were buttoned better. I think it’s because the waist is so high and the slouchy tops cover a bit so the rise doesn’t seem too long. Love the aubergine color too. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/october-november-wib#post-2157091 Tue, 01 Dec 2020 16:35:58 +0000 Liesbeth 2157091@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Thanks minaminu and Robin!<br /> Thanks Carla, the eggplant mini capsule is probably the best that came out of the haze of pondering and phantasizing and purchasing - I did think about all of these purchases but sometimes through rose colored lenses. Also, I usually go way slower when adding a new color capsule! It's quite the commitment when you prefer a small to medium sized wardrobe :).<br /> Alas the bag does not come in a larger size.<br /> Thanks slimcat for the suggestions. I can see that you are also drawn to the retro vibe of the fur collar as was I - must experiment. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/october-november-wib#post-2157088 Tue, 01 Dec 2020 16:31:29 +0000 Helena 2157088@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>So now your mission is to wear the heck out of these pieces! I can totally relate to the distress shopping (except with me it's chips and chocolate) ... fwiw I think these are good, classic pieces that are practical and will see a lot of wear and look great! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/october-november-wib#post-2157083 Tue, 01 Dec 2020 16:16:17 +0000 slim cat 2157083@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Fun pants - love the slouchy sweaters ( both - white and grey ) with it.<br />The higher contrast in #2, 6-7 works pretty well too.<br />The fur collar is such an interesting piece - I imaging it with full skirt and classic sweaters ( or over coats like it was already mentioned ). </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/october-november-wib#post-2157072 Tue, 01 Dec 2020 15:03:01 +0000 Carla 2157072@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>You’ve created a brilliant eggplant capsule that seems the opposite of ‘without critical thought’! &nbsp;I’m another fan of the lantern pants and the profile you are creating with the slouchy tops. &nbsp;Too bad about the cross body - it is a lovely piece and looks a practical shape. &nbsp;Does it come in a larger size? </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/october-november-wib#post-2157049 Tue, 01 Dec 2020 13:04:12 +0000 RobinF 2157049@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I love those pants in all the outfits but really love the slouchy gray sweater with them! Great look and I must admit, right up my alley. I like the fur but agree that it seems like it may be meant to wear outside with a coat. Gray scarf looks beautiful and soft.</p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/october-november-wib#post-2157039 Tue, 01 Dec 2020 12:07:31 +0000 Minaminu 2157039@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>the multi colour scarf is a fab find and I can see it will be so useful is many of your outfits! I think scarves are too often underrated but they can make a great outfit fab!</p> <p>I really like the shade of the lilac cardigan, you have such a good eye for this shade! It is a shame that it is too light for winter, Bijou made some super suggestions to dress it during the winter time and hopefully it will work,&nbsp;I can imagine that it will be great for spring! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/october-november-wib#post-2157038 Tue, 01 Dec 2020 12:02:26 +0000 Liesbeth 2157038@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Thanks cat2, I may try that too.<br /> Thanks for all the input Bijou! I hadn't thought of pairing the lilac with the aubergine - lightbulb! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/october-november-wib#post-2157030 Tue, 01 Dec 2020 10:21:39 +0000 Bijou 2157030@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I love the aubergine pants on you, they are so fun and look brilliant how you have styled them. Such a shame that the bag was too small, because it was lovely.</p> <p>Now of course I would love your two items that may be potential misses. The fur collar looks quite understated with your black sweater and jeans. Does it work as a collar on any coats or blazers? I could imagine this looking great on a check or camel coat.</p> <p>I love the lilac cardigan and would layer it under blazers or coats in cooler weather for a pop of colour. So great with your new aubergine scarf and hat. Your wrap is a stunning piece and I predict it will be a most valuable wardrobe item for he next few months. </p> <p>Sorry to hear you are going back into lockdown but it is so worth it to stay safe and beat this virus. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/october-november-wib#post-2157025 Tue, 01 Dec 2020 09:31:05 +0000 cat2 2157025@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Pretty scarf! I think the fur collar may be of a scale and cut intended for wear with an overcoat? You might try it with any existing cloth coats you have to see. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/october-november-wib#post-2157019 Tue, 01 Dec 2020 08:40:28 +0000 Liesbeth 2157019@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>In the spirit of accountability I’m going to be honest. I’ve fallen off the wagon a bit this fall and ordered above my budget (not too much but still) and without critical thought. Browsing is just such an easy distraction from the distress of the pandemic and current lockdown and in all things I’ve found it hard to remain disciplined. I know that hearing from you guys brings me joy so I hope this is of some interest to you too.</p> <p>Three themes cover the whole of my October-November shopping: second-hand, accessories and eggplant.</p> <p>A lilac cardigan was on my list. This second-hand (non-returnable) one is more summer weight it turns out so I hope it will come in handy next year and I can inject some color into spring.</p> <p>A fur collar was also on the list, to be worn with this black sweater (1). This handmade Etsy collar is nice and soft; I wonder if it’s too glam/Siberian for my style though.</p> <p>A mixed color crossbody bag: it arrived, I really liked it, I assembled it (O-bags are delivered in parts which can be exchanged) and only then did I see that it was too small to contain my essentials. Couldn’t return it, would never wear it, so up it went for resale …</p> <p>Printed scarf: somehow I got obsessed with finding a scarf that contained several of my core colors. Didn’t find any winter scarves I liked but I did get this summer scarf off the second-hand site with some credit.</p> <p>Silver alpaca scarf: bought as a real treat from a neighborhood store with sustainable goods – before the shops closed again. I walked in and my eye got caught immediately by the amazing sheen of this silvery grey alpaca wool. It is so super light, warm and soft... Very convenient as a wrap in my home office too. I couldn’t think of any better way to treat myself AND support local vendors so I decided it was worth the little splurge …</p> <p>Aubergine cropped balloon pants: then in November I got convinced my wardrobe needs more eggplant. Even though I may not technically NEED these hardly flattering pants I find them fun in an unexpected way. Also unexpected: I liked them best when worn with either oversized toppers for a full on slouchy look (2, 6, 7), or with something bodycon on top (3, 4) – whereas I usually go for the happy medium of ‘fitted’ (5). What do you think?</p> <p>Aubergine hat and scarf: and then to create a full on aubergine complement I ordered this hat and scarf. The mélange color makes them easier to wear near my face. I did want to add a matching scarf and hat this year in a color that went with my seafoam coat, and these fit the bill so I’m gonna say impulse purchase well done.</p> <p>All in all, only the crossbody bag was a true miss. Yet the printed scarf, lilac cardigan and fur collar can still go either way. This for someone who wants a clutter-free wardrobe. So for what’s left of my December budget I’m going to be extra critical - and probably prioritize returnable goods … </p>