https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/not-really-syc Style Advice for Fashion Lovers en-US Tue, 21 Apr 2026 01:41:36 +0000 http://bbpress.org/?v=1.0.2 q https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/search.php https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/not-really-syc#post-2097216 Tue, 04 Feb 2020 16:35:18 +0000 Angie 2097216@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>FABULOUS, <b>Janet.</b> I'm not on SYC either, and bought some fun stuff in Jan with you. Will share layer.&nbsp;</p> <p>Fun to see some top picks in the mix. But most importantly, I love that you're being mindful, thinking of your pukka needs, and zapping them. You also wear your items for a long time, which is sustainable in itself.&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/not-really-syc#post-2097205 Tue, 04 Feb 2020 15:57:09 +0000 JAileen 2097205@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>The skirt was such a beautiful and natural fit in your wardrobe that if it had been me, I would have been sorely tempted, despite my shopping ban. &nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/not-really-syc#post-2097200 Tue, 04 Feb 2020 15:19:04 +0000 Christina F. 2097200@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p><div>Janet, no, it doesn't flake or peel off, thank goodness. It just rubs away a bit. "Patina" is a good word for it.</div><div><br /></div><div> I love these bags for rainy days when I'm outside a lot and don't want to carry leather. (I weatherproof my leather, but more for drizzle or getting caught in the rain.) I also use them for day trips when I want to carry my iPad or something for use during a train or bus ride. The backpacks are also also super lightweight but also hold a lot, which is a big plus for me. I found the red one at the Rack for about $70, if anyone is on the hunt for one.</div> </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/not-really-syc#post-2097196 Tue, 04 Feb 2020 14:53:33 +0000 Janet 2097196@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I hear you, Sarah, and I appreciate your frank assessment! Especially since it's not cheap (I got it on significant sale from the price you see on the Nordstrom listing, but still...). I need to take a closer look at that bag and decide early today, and it will be a good distraction from something very difficult going on right now, that may consume my days to come for a little while. I have the package ready for return just in case.&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/not-really-syc#post-2097194 Tue, 04 Feb 2020 14:44:52 +0000 SarahD8 2097194@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Great job, Janet! These are well thought out and cohesive additions and it seems that many of them are already in regular use. </p> <p>FWIW I vote return the small bag. Others will come along between now and its season of use; you’ll buy them and use them instead of this one that is a PITA to use, and you’ll wonder why you kept this one.... </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/not-really-syc#post-2097185 Tue, 04 Feb 2020 14:29:56 +0000 Janet 2097185@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Thanks, ladies! Christina, I wondered about the finish on the bag, as it does seem to show a bit of use (I've been pretty hard on it already). I figure this is one of those kind of items that I don't mind having a bit of patina, as long as it's not flaking off in chunks! That red is terrific. Suz, it sounds like that bag is a must for you too -- worth a replacement zipper! It's so lightweight, I love it.&nbsp;</p> <p>Gotta love a new piece that jumps into immediate action.&nbsp;I'm setting my bar high for new purchases this year.&nbsp;</p> <p>Oh, I did buy new trail runners too, but I don't count gear. My old ones were getting uncomfortable, and I was about to replace the insoles, only to discover that my toes were about to bust out of the sides! Oops. Time to retire those for good. I also could use one more pair of cold-weather running tights since I'm running more again.&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/not-really-syc#post-2096834 Mon, 03 Feb 2020 03:51:25 +0000 Jaime 2096834@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>These are all beautiful items and you are being thoughtful about how you will use them. Look forward to seeing them styled in the coming months! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/not-really-syc#post-2096822 Mon, 03 Feb 2020 02:17:58 +0000 Christina F. 2096822@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I have that backpack—it’s a definite workhorse. The color does start to rub off a bit. I got a red one to help prolong its life by splitting wears. &nbsp; &nbsp;That made sense in my head, anyway </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/not-really-syc#post-2096812 Mon, 03 Feb 2020 00:57:51 +0000 nemosmom 2096812@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I agree with Cardiffgirl, too - any time a piece goes straight into rotation is a great sign. All of your pieces really look like you, too so you are obviously well tuned in to what works!!</p> <p>I did SYC last month to hit the reset button. I’m not in a no buy year, but my goal is to be much more deliberate in what I do add, and how I shop! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/not-really-syc#post-2096809 Mon, 03 Feb 2020 00:26:38 +0000 rachylou 2096809@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I love that mesh top! I’m really fussy about bags now. If they’re not easy to use and carry, they fill me with loathing and resentment, lol.</p> <p>I’m also not on a no-buy year. I said I thought it would be a low buy year; however, I’ve bought three pair of shoes in January. Lol. SMH. A pair of ‘office rain boots,’ duck shoes for more serious wet trudging with Lilypup (although it dawned on me the uppers are cloth... so maybe not for downpours, so maybe that was a bit of mistake) and a pair of leopard slides (which I really enjoy wearing in the warmer months). And still haven’t decided on a long Puffy. Anyways, I’m feeling maybe I need to be slightly more deliberate, more picky, and put off buying. ‘Cuz really I just said ‘I need rainboots’ and made a lightning hit on the store... </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/not-really-syc#post-2096780 Sun, 02 Feb 2020 20:38:24 +0000 Sal 2096780@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I agree with Cardiff Girl - when pieces go straight into rotation they tend to be winners.&nbsp; These all look great for your style and I really like the additions.</p> <p>The blouse is intriguing - at some stage I would love to see a WIW as this weight is useful for me.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p> <p>I am not on a no buy year either- I added three new things in January, two of which have been very well worn, and one was on the 31st but I expect to wear this week.&nbsp; I actually expect to spend more time shopping this year as my gaps are in areas that I find harder to shop for (knitwear, work capsule, jeans) as opposed to statement skirts and summer dresses which I seem to pick up easily. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/not-really-syc#post-2096778 Sun, 02 Feb 2020 20:34:58 +0000 slim cat 2096778@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Fab additions to your wardrobe - love new "under review" white bag!<br />Black and white looks so graphic and sleek - only draw back is getting used to this shape/style. Your bag collection is envious &nbsp;:) .<br />Mesh top is perfect print/color combo for you. Hope to see it in action soon. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/not-really-syc#post-2096777 Sun, 02 Feb 2020 20:20:10 +0000 Suz 2096777@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Oooh. I love the gunmetal backpack. My leather Minkoff pack needs a new zip on the back and I have to take it for repair. Used it <b>SOOOO</b> much though that a second, nylon version would not be a bad purchase for me, either.&nbsp;</p> <p>These all look like ideal items for your closet. I've seen and loved the skirt and top already, but the other two bags also look terrific! Love that triangular bag!&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/not-really-syc#post-2096773 Sun, 02 Feb 2020 20:03:02 +0000 Cardiff girl 2096773@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I always think that if an item goes into regular use straight away that it’s a good buy so it sounds like you ve made some good purchases here.Both the skirt and top are extremely pretty and let’s face it,bags are useful aren’t they. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/not-really-syc#post-2096770 Sun, 02 Feb 2020 19:40:18 +0000 Janet 2096770@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I'm not on the forum a lot these days, as I have a lot going on, but I notice many people posting updates on SYC progress as January comes to a close.&nbsp;</p> <p>I didn't make a firm goal or commitment around adding to my wardrobe for this month, or for the year, but I am trying to be more mindful in my habits, as I mentioned on Suz's thread on this topic. I want any purchases I make to be truly useful, or to be so loved that I can't wait to wear them, and then wear them regularly. They need to work seamlessly with my existing wardrobe and be practical for my needs and my life.&nbsp;</p> <p>I ended up adding four things in January, with a fifth under review:</p> <p>1) Longchamp black pyramid sling bag. Secondhand item so a really good deal, and a fun, unusual shape, yet still very practical for my needs. Already worn multiple times and will continue to get lots of use.&nbsp;</p> <p>2) Fuzzi butterfly print skirt. An Angie Find. I ordered it to try, since I fell in love with the style and print when I saw it. It was on sale, so not cheap but a good deal for a label that is traditionally quite pricey. I can wear this year-round -- with tights and boots in winter, and bare legs and sandals in summer. I've worn it once since getting it altered to make the waistband more comfortable, and I anticipate it will get even more wear in the warmer months when I wear skirts more often.&nbsp;</p> <p>3) Rebecca Minkoff gunmetal nylon backpack. I saw this in Nordstrom while picking up my alteration and was smitten. I walked away but thought about it for a week before I went back and got it. I've already used it at least 7 times since then, so it's turning into a big workhorse. I have wanted a casual alternate to a black bag that isn't bright silver but a more muted metallic, and this is perfect. It's super lightweight and fun. Full price but I expect it will be fully worth it in terms of CPW down the road (even though I don't really calculate those things).&nbsp;</p> <p>4) Mesh printed turtleneck from Anthro. An unusual piece that spoke to me. Colors are perfect for me, the fit is great, and it layers beautifully but still looks good alone, as it's not clingy. I find myself wanting tops in winter that are somewhere between knit sweaters and blouses, and this is just such a piece. I've worn it twice in four weeks, so it seems to be earning its keep.&nbsp;</p> <p>5) Under review. Another Angie pick, and another bag, yes. But I've noticed that my old clutches are going unused and I am wanting other small but fun styles when I go out carrying less -- I really like these sort of sling/backpack type bags, and I liked the idea of a smaller white bag, with the black accents. It's not super-easy to use, and I haven't had occasion yet to wear it (ordered it a couple of weeks ago and my activities have not really called for it &nbsp;-- it may be more of a warmer weather item?), so until I cut the tags and commit to using it, I consider it "under review." I need to decide in the next two days to take advantage of free returns, or pay $10 to return in the next two weeks (30 day return window).&nbsp;</p> <p>So, yeah, 4 or 5 items in a month is pretty considerable and adds up if I kept to that pace, but I'm not in much of a buying mood now and think February is a pretty off month for me as far as shopping. I'm posting this mostly to sort out my thoughts on this, do a little analysis, and give myself a little accountability. ;-)&nbsp; </p>