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			<title>YouLookFab Forum &#187; Topic: My pleasant and unexpected wardrobe surprise</title>
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				<title>Sveta on "My pleasant and unexpected wardrobe surprise"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 02 Apr 2013 02:35:36 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Sveta</dc:creator>
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				<description>Thank for cheering up with me, ladies!&#060;br /&#062;Firecracker, Jules, Lisa, Claire - it is interesting that I am not alone in my switch to dresses in summer, makes perfect sense for hot weather. I never feel as fab in shorts as in full length trousers or skirts.&#060;br /&#062;Shevia, you are right: big number of returns does spoil my wardrobe math.&#060;br /&#062;Caro, your very hot summers do look like a huge dress challenge. Hopefully next summer won't e as hot as the last one was.&#060;br /&#062;Amiable, I feel physiscall depressed if I have more clothes that I can wear on a constant basis so this is like a therapy for me.&#060;br /&#062;Glory, it was actually your culling post which was a catalyst for my evening exercise. I think it is a great idea to have a clear idea first what you need before going shopping - or you may need to cull again soon!&#060;br /&#062;Ceit, 85 sounds as good as any other number if it serves you well.&#060;br /&#062;Suz, you need to do it before NAS! (you are still coming, right?)&#060;br /&#062;</description>
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				<title>rachylou on "My pleasant and unexpected wardrobe surprise"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 01 Apr 2013 19:55:48 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>rachylou</dc:creator>
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				<description>Really interesting about pants v. skirts, summer wear v. winter. And so delightful about the 120 number holding fast! The wardrobe is in control!&#060;br /&#062;</description>
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				<title>Anonymous on "My pleasant and unexpected wardrobe surprise"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 01 Apr 2013 19:01:15 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Anonymous</dc:creator>
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				<description>It sounds like your fabulous wardrobe is practically running on auto-pilot! That's great news. And I find it easier to wear skirts in summer and pants in winter as well. Your number of items seems about right for someone who works full time. I think we all tend to gravitate towards a general number that works for us--I know my wardrobe has a kind of &#034;set point&#034; and if I go over, I feel the need to put myself in check. I love reading about this, so thanks for allowing us to see inside your head (and closet).  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-smile icon-emoticon-smile "></span> </description>
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				<title>Sara L. on "My pleasant and unexpected wardrobe surprise"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 01 Apr 2013 13:45:16 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Sara L.</dc:creator>
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				<description>I find these wardrobe inventory posts so interesting.&#038;nbsp; I really need to inventory my own wardrobe and get a concrete idea of how much I have.&#038;nbsp; I've been purging a lot in the past year and haven't bought much but I think I still have too many items.</description>
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				<title>Suz on "My pleasant and unexpected wardrobe surprise"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 01 Apr 2013 13:27:40 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Suz</dc:creator>
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				<description>This is fabulous, Sveta. I am impressed, and you have inspired me to do an inventory of my own. I do so much buying and so much purging I honestly don't have a clue where I am at these days!! And like you, I want to keep an eye on those seldom-worn items.&#038;nbsp;&#060;br /&#062;&#060;br /&#062;I think spring is a great time to inventory and keep track. Thank you for the nudge to do so!&#038;nbsp;</description>
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				<title>Raisin on "My pleasant and unexpected wardrobe surprise"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 01 Apr 2013 13:18:15 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Raisin</dc:creator>
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				<description>Seems like you have the right amount for you, which is great. &#038;nbsp;I like the idea of one in one out as well, once you reach the right wardrobe size for you.</description>
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				<title>Anonymous on "My pleasant and unexpected wardrobe surprise"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 01 Apr 2013 13:13:46 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Anonymous</dc:creator>
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				<description>I have about 85 pieces not including underwear and footwear. But I finally feel at a stage where I have a good foundation that I can tweak and add to/edit as necessary.&#060;br /&#062;</description>
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				<title>Lisa on "My pleasant and unexpected wardrobe surprise"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 01 Apr 2013 13:08:56 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Lisa</dc:creator>
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				<description>Great subconcious wardrobe control.&#038;nbsp; I also inventory my wardrobe.&#038;nbsp; I currently am at ~150 items for my 4 season climate.&#038;nbsp; I still want to get closer to 120 myself but I haven't been able to do so in the past year.&#038;nbsp; It's been a slow process.&#038;nbsp; The best thing I have done, was stick to one in and one out.&#038;nbsp; That has helped me revamp my wardrobe and keep it from spiraling out of control in quantity.&#038;nbsp; Also, when I shop, I feel like I have refreshed my wardrobe because I'll see so many new items in the closet.&#038;nbsp; Before all the new clothes were buried under the existing clothes.&#060;br /&#062;&#060;br /&#062;It's interesting you mentioned changing styles with the seasons.&#038;nbsp; I also do this.&#038;nbsp; I certainly go more casual for the warmer months along with lighter colors.</description>
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				<title>Glory on "My pleasant and unexpected wardrobe surprise"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 01 Apr 2013 13:02:23 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Glory</dc:creator>
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				<description>Thanks for posting this Sveta. It sounds like you are well under control. I like the idea of watching the unworn items. I have now&#038;nbsp;turned all my hangers backwards to see what gets worn.&#038;nbsp;&#060;br /&#062;It is a great next step after the mega purge that I did this weekend. I like the idea of assembling and evaluating based on seasons. Other than coats and footwear I combine into 2 seasons: Winter/fall, Spring/Summer. I have no idea how many items I have at present but I will take a stab at this before I do too much shopping.</description>
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				<title>amiable on "My pleasant and unexpected wardrobe surprise"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 01 Apr 2013 12:44:54 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>amiable</dc:creator>
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				<description>Way to go! &#038;nbsp;I'm pretty convinced that I have TOO MUCH. &#038;nbsp;But every time I start to count, I can't resist visiting some clothing giveaway and coming home with several new items to see if I end up liking enough to keep. &#038;nbsp;&#060;br /&#062;&#060;br /&#062;Whittling down is hard. &#038;nbsp;So is finding the perfect wardrobe size. &#038;nbsp;Congratulations on sticking to yours!</description>
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				<title>Scarlet on "My pleasant and unexpected wardrobe surprise"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 01 Apr 2013 12:01:22 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Scarlet</dc:creator>
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				<description>What a great subconscious! I am sure your new shopping will work itself into the wardrobe too over the longer term.</description>
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				<title>Jules on "My pleasant and unexpected wardrobe surprise"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 01 Apr 2013 11:52:34 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Jules</dc:creator>
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				<description>I also wear way more skirts/dresses in summer vs. winter. I find them very comfortable in the heat and they look&#038;nbsp;effortlessly put together, whereas shorts and even lighter weight trousers can be too casual or get tired and droopy looking in the heat (think linen). In the winter skirts/dresses are fussier to style because you need tights and boots that work, and you&#038;nbsp;must be warm enough. A&#038;nbsp;pair of sandals and a pedicure seem much easier  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-smile icon-emoticon-smile "></span>  I'm in Toronto - maybe it is a function of our 4-season climate.&#038;nbsp;&#060;br /&#062;</description>
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				<title>Ingunn on "My pleasant and unexpected wardrobe surprise"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 01 Apr 2013 06:39:23 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Ingunn</dc:creator>
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				<description>I'm not very surprised, actually. From what I have seen of your style, it is very coherent and elegant. You seem to be able to mix and match a lot, thus fewer items are necessary. It's a good feeling to be on the right track. A great exercise!</description>
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				<title>Caro in Oz on "My pleasant and unexpected wardrobe surprise"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 01 Apr 2013 05:11:09 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Caro in Oz</dc:creator>
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				<description>I am in the process of cataloguing all of my wardrobe &#038;amp; just the time spent taking photos uploading etc. is making me cull things I am on the fence about.&#060;br /&#062;I think my wardrobe sounds about the same size as yours&#038;nbsp;but I haven't counted yet.&#038;nbsp;&#060;br /&#062;&#060;br /&#062;I am not happy with my high summer wardrobe (for 100F +++ which seemed to go on forever this year). So this is one area I need to work on. Winter &#038;amp; trans-seasonal are in much better shape so they are definitely&#038;nbsp;one in one out.&#038;nbsp;</description>
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				<title>Debbie on "My pleasant and unexpected wardrobe surprise"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 01 Apr 2013 03:41:30 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Debbie</dc:creator>
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				<description>What a great exercise. I need to do this. Like you I know my wardrobe is heavier on on dresses and skirts in the spring and summer.&#038;nbsp;</description>
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				<title>Jaime on "My pleasant and unexpected wardrobe surprise"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 01 Apr 2013 03:19:21 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Jaime</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;b&#062;&#060;/b&#062;Your subconscious mind clearly knows what it is doing! I think the ability to easily return items is confusing your conscious mind into thinking you are acquiring more than you are actually keeping. Clearly, underneath it all you know better!</description>
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				<title>rae on "My pleasant and unexpected wardrobe surprise"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 01 Apr 2013 03:14:42 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>rae</dc:creator>
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				<description>Yay! It must be nice to have such a responsible subconscious. You always look super fab, too, so whatever it is, it is working for you!</description>
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				<title>Firecracker (Sharan) on "My pleasant and unexpected wardrobe surprise"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 01 Apr 2013 03:10:45 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Firecracker (Sharan)</dc:creator>
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				<description>That's great news. I'm impressed with what seems your innate sense of appropriate wardrobe size.&#060;br /&#062;It makes a lot of sense to me that you would essentially replace your cool-weather trousers with warm-weather dresses rather than shorts. To me, shorts are too casual feeling for a lot of situations, and a dress worn with bare legs feels more analogous to the trouser-based outfits worn in colder months. But I wouldn't have thought of any of this until you pointed it out.&#060;br /&#062;</description>
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				<title>Thistle on "My pleasant and unexpected wardrobe surprise"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 01 Apr 2013 03:03:49 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Thistle</dc:creator>
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				<description>Your self control, even subconsciously, is such an inspiration for me. &#038;nbsp;I need to follow your lead and really take stock!</description>
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				<title>Sveta on "My pleasant and unexpected wardrobe surprise"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 01 Apr 2013 03:03:44 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Sveta</dc:creator>
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				<description>Thanks Joy. Even though I live in 4 season climate my summer wardrobe is not 1/4 but more like 1/3 of the whole though. I think it makes sense because I need to wash clothes more often in summer so I need more. &#060;br /&#062;</description>
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				<title>Anonymous on "My pleasant and unexpected wardrobe surprise"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 01 Apr 2013 03:00:09 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Anonymous</dc:creator>
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				<description>Your wardrobe exercise is an inspiration. &#038;nbsp;Congratulations on doing such a good job of keeping things manageable. &#038;nbsp;You are masterful at finding new ways to wear your own. &#038;nbsp;It makes sense to have more for your dominant season.&#060;br /&#062;</description>
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				<title>Sveta on "My pleasant and unexpected wardrobe surprise"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 01 Apr 2013 02:46:31 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Sveta</dc:creator>
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				<description>Anne, I just like to be in control of everything it seems.&#060;br /&#062;Lyn, I would never allow it to boss me around for sure!&#060;br /&#062;Beth Ann, you bet I will keep refining. That was a very nice feeling to get about your own closet!&#060;br /&#062;Shannon, there is some overlap here as there are some items from 'cool' season I still wear in summer like shells, shirts and blouses and jeans&#038;nbsp; - not all of our summer is a scorching heat but in general I expectto have a much larger inventory for my dominant season. &#060;br /&#062;</description>
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				<title>Transcona Shannon on "My pleasant and unexpected wardrobe surprise"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 01 Apr 2013 02:38:47 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Transcona Shannon</dc:creator>
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				<description>This was a great exercise for you Sveta and what a fabulous realization. I also have far more for the fall/winter season since it is our dominant season and tend to turn to dresses/skirts for summer.&#038;nbsp;&#060;br /&#062;&#060;br /&#062;It sounds to me like you have a really good grasp of what you want in a wardrobe and that is something to be proud of.</description>
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				<title>Beth Ann on "My pleasant and unexpected wardrobe surprise"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 01 Apr 2013 02:37:16 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Beth Ann</dc:creator>
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				<description>You are a master of maximizing impact and minimizing waste!&#038;nbsp; Enjoy and keep refining and tweaking!&#060;br /&#062;</description>
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				<title>lyn* on "My pleasant and unexpected wardrobe surprise"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 01 Apr 2013 02:33:24 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>lyn*</dc:creator>
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				<description>Congrats! It seems like you are the boss of your closet now!!!  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-smile icon-emoticon-smile "></span> </description>
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				<title>anne on "My pleasant and unexpected wardrobe surprise"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 01 Apr 2013 02:30:13 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>anne</dc:creator>
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				<description>Well done Sveta! You have internalized your wardrobe control!&#060;br /&#062;</description>
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				<title>Sveta on "My pleasant and unexpected wardrobe surprise"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 01 Apr 2013 02:10:05 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Sveta</dc:creator>
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				<description>All these posts on purging, culling and wardrobe size made me to ponder what is my current wardrobe size. I think I evaluated it about 1 year ago and realized I have around 120 clothing items I wear outside of the house (not counting workout / hiking / gardening gear and undergarmnets). That felt like a good wardrobe size for me - big enough to have fun and variety and small enough to feel justified and not overwhelmed by it.&#060;br /&#062;However I was buying more clothes over that year and somewhere in the back of my head I had a nudging feeling that my wardrobe is going out of control, I am buying too much and so on. I love Angie's rule of 'one in - one out' but I was not following it religiously for each buy even though I was doing ongoing little purges from time to time.&#060;br /&#062;Anyway I spent the afternoon today to take stock of what I have and these are the numbers:&#060;br /&#062;- cool season clothing items (fall - spring) - 84 items including coats;&#060;br /&#062;- summer - 36 items&#060;br /&#062;Together they come to 120 clothing items - pretty much what I had last year.&#060;br /&#062;That was a very pleasant surprise - looks like I was following &#034;one in - one out&#034; rule after all, even if subconsciously. :-)&#060;br /&#062;I have also counted my shoes:&#060;br /&#062;&#038;nbsp;- cool season: 13 pairs excluding gear;&#060;br /&#062;- summer: 6 pairs&#060;br /&#062;Total: 19 pairs.&#060;br /&#062;I think I am going to try and keep this size as it works pretty well for me. 'One in - one out' rule is going to be pretty much my mantra from now on - this time in all consciousness!&#060;br /&#062;&#060;br /&#062;Other interesting observations during my inventory:&#060;br /&#062;-&#038;nbsp; I have 13 pairs of trousers and jeans for cool season and just 10 skirts and dresses combined. You can really call me trouser obsessed!:-)&#060;br /&#062;- however it is an opposite way for summer where I have 6 pairs of shorts / pants and 8 skirts and dresses. Looks like not only I change a color palette&#038;nbsp; but also a style of dressing from winter to summer.&#060;br /&#062;&#060;br /&#062;I still have some items in my closet which I wear less frequently if even at all. I am going to mark them and watch the usage: if they are not worn enough they are good candidates for this magic rule to free space for some potential goodies from NAS!&#060;br /&#062;&#060;br /&#062;Thanks for reading my novel. It is really amazing how putting these thoughts in writing helps to make them clearer in your head.&#060;br /&#062;I feel much better now about the size of my wardrobe!&#038;nbsp; Hmm, is it why the first thing I did after the inventory was to place an order with GAP? :-)&#060;br /&#062;</description>
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