https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/musings-on-mojo-and-wiws Style Advice for Fashion Lovers en-US Tue, 28 Apr 2026 22:40:19 +0000 http://bbpress.org/?v=1.0.2 q https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/search.php https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/musings-on-mojo-and-wiws/page/2#post-1578464 Fri, 30 Oct 2015 14:28:32 +0000 Helen11 1578464@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I love WIW posts, too, for all the reasons previous posters have given. And feel nervous about my own, as well. I love that there's a little group of Southern Hemisphere fabbers, I'm not on my own in the opposite season : ) YLF is such a friendly place, even as people come and go . </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/musings-on-mojo-and-wiws/page/2#post-1578448 Fri, 30 Oct 2015 14:04:56 +0000 Dee 1578448@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Although I am guilty of not posting WIWs for a variety of reasons (privacy issues, technologically challenged, etc.), I love seeing other members WIWs.&nbsp; It doesn't matter to me that they may be variations on a theme or not spectacularly trendy.&nbsp; Seeing what others are wearing helps me to become accustomed to different silhouettes, get ideas for how I could add to my closet and how I might pair things I already own so as to not require shopping for new things.&nbsp; I am not one who has a sharp eye for detail or new trends so it takes me longer than many to get used to new trends or even to notice that they exist.&nbsp; By seeing them on people here or reading threads discussing styles, I become more sensitive to them when I see them and more willing to try them myself.&nbsp; It helps to keep me out of a rut that I sometimes have a tendency to fall into.&nbsp; I very much appreciate people taking the time to post WIWs even if I do not comment.&nbsp; Often I don't comment because I feel like I don't know what to say; I will have to work on that so my appreciation is expressed more. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/musings-on-mojo-and-wiws/page/2#post-1578422 Fri, 30 Oct 2015 12:46:54 +0000 lyn67 1578422@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I am quilty of that, not only &nbsp;because of lack of time but the insecurity of sharing my pretty classic looks.&nbsp;</p> <p>I never posted K/Rs as think nobody will know better than me what to choose from what's available here(in my neck of the woods:-)).&nbsp;</p> <p>I dress for work, and my wardrobe is now at a pleasing stage for me, but my &nbsp;daily WIW &nbsp;and FFBOs are mainly the pencil skirt/dress silhouette-so not really on trend &nbsp;and noticed, not that popular among the forum members, either.&nbsp;</p> <p>I continuously &nbsp;try to incorporate trends to what I have already, doing some upgrading, too-and this is a great place to come for inspiration. <br />OTOH I experiment with completely new looks only seldom-but you can bet, those are pretty well documented here:-). </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/musings-on-mojo-and-wiws/page/2#post-1578420 Fri, 30 Oct 2015 12:34:08 +0000 Anonymous 1578420@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>You wear the layered necklaces so well! I feel like wearing multiple necklaces at the same time without looking overly busy can be a challenge, but you just make it look effortless. And you do look great in cobalt.</p> <p>Not that I was ever a super-involved poster, but I haven't been posting WIWs (or much of <i>anything</i>) lately, and I go through a lot of the same thoughts about whether my outfits are post-worthy. I think that, when I do post, it's as much about letting people know what types of things I wear so they know where I'm coming from when I participate in other discussions as it is about anything else. It does feel kind of weird sometimes to post my pictures, since it's hard not to compare with others in a whole bunch of areas (photo quality, trendiness, level of polish, weight, take your pick) and feel like I'm coming up short. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/musings-on-mojo-and-wiws/page/2#post-1578406 Fri, 30 Oct 2015 11:54:07 +0000 Sveta 1578406@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Peri, I always love to see your outfits. It is very hard to stay stylish "with some restrictions" and you are doing a great job.&nbsp;<br />I love these rich jewel colors on you like in that cobalt blouse - just beautiful. The grey top is very flattering with its great drape as well. And of course your necklaces are gorgeous! I have been off all necklaces for several years and now slowly getting excited to wear them again. Life does come in circles.<br />I also has been guilty with being not very active on the forum this year and almost completely absent for the last month. Life does get in the way.You are inspiring me to get back my groove!<br />And I would love to see you dance WIW outfits - pretty please?! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/musings-on-mojo-and-wiws#post-1578371 Fri, 30 Oct 2015 07:23:14 +0000 anne 1578371@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I was always&nbsp;mused "over reasons to post WIW if you don't need any specific advice" and haven't tended do do it much in 7 years of YLF!</p> <p>Althougth I have never&nbsp; been hugely active, I feel less so at the moment because<br />- I used to be a SAHM. Even with the 3 little ones I had 7 years ago, there was more computer time than I have now as a working Mum with a busy life after work<br />-My phone doesn't work very well, and even when it did it I'm not good at typing on it<br />&nbsp;- We currently only have 1 computer at home and usually someone else is using it when I have&nbsp; some downtime<br />- I either rely on child photographers or mirror shots and know they aren't as good.<br />- I am relatively happy with my wardrobe within my own contraints, most of the time<br />- I repeat a lot. I thought about taking a photo this morning, ("Exact same outifit seen before except with skinnes not bootcuts because I packed the wrong clothes!" but even though I couldn't take it anyway as I didn't bring my phone&nbsp; - it isn't very interesting.)<br />-&nbsp; I have to admit to wondering if I should post anything at all as I dont feel I have enough to contribute to others for all the reasons above and because I always take too long to think about things!</p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/musings-on-mojo-and-wiws#post-1578360 Fri, 30 Oct 2015 06:05:42 +0000 CocoLion 1578360@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>It is always a treat to see beautiful you. &nbsp;I feel as if you're one of those I'd like to know better. &nbsp;You have a consistent, strong sense of style. &nbsp;You are stylish without being "trendy." &nbsp;I like the feminine jewelry, indeed the soft flower with the "sharp" is a fun juxtaposition! &nbsp;And your cobalt top here looks custom made for you. I admire how you know what suits you style and coloring wise, and you stay true to that. &nbsp;I'm really glad I caught your thread, as I want to stay connected with YLF and the best way to do that is to spend time here. &nbsp;If I'm not spending a lot of time here, I'm less likely to post a WIW or any thread, unless I have a specific nagging issue. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/musings-on-mojo-and-wiws#post-1578332 Fri, 30 Oct 2015 04:09:54 +0000 Sal 1578332@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Great thread Peri. &nbsp;I go through stages with WIW - and I also miss some of the forum members who were very active when I first started on this forum. &nbsp;But as I will detail below, life changes, priorities change, and this is perfectly okay. &nbsp;I like looking at a variety of looks - people who are much more cutting edge than I can ever be, more tailored dressers, and more polished dressers. &nbsp;There are some women here whose style I love but they have different lifestyles, body shapes, climates and tastes to me, Angie of course being the main one. &nbsp;But I learn so much from all of you - whether you rock the small minimalist closet, or a large maximalist one, whether you live in a cold climate or the tropics. &nbsp;&nbsp;</p> <p>I don't regard myself as an expert, and I sometimes wonder if my comments are really knowledgeable enough. &nbsp;But my eye has improved for my own looks through YLF. &nbsp;My climate is opposite to most on the forum and I repeat a lot of pieces.....but I hope that there are some forum members who like seeing how I can remix old and new, on a non-model figure. &nbsp;I try not to show the exact same pieces in the same way, but I have a blush sweater I wore at least three different ways in WIW as well as recently some black pants. &nbsp;</p> <p>I have only ever belonged to two forums - this one - and a foodie NZ one which I joined about 7 years ago and am phasing out of now. &nbsp;There are one or two members there who are very"superior" and it has put me off. &nbsp;It was not such a welcoming, kind, busy, well managed forum as this one!! &nbsp;And my food patterns have changed - I am no longer doing as much home baking as I used to do, and we have lots of evening sports on so dinners are a little different...and it seems natural to be less involved. &nbsp;</p> <p>Peri - I enjoy your posts because your climate and colouring are so different to mine. &nbsp;You are a stunning dark haired pale skinned elegant woman and you look so wonderful in those rich clear blues. &nbsp;Your nails look great too. &nbsp;</p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/musings-on-mojo-and-wiws#post-1578321 Fri, 30 Oct 2015 02:56:17 +0000 Anonymous 1578321@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>These are beautiful looks! The cobalt is just gorgeous on you. I'm a relative newbie here, but I don't get a chance to post much. Life just gets in the way. Often I take pics but never get around to posting them, then think they're not appropriate for the current season/weather (Aida, I have a few "hot Fall" pics somewhere on my phone. I didn't post because my hair changed and the pics no longer seemed current). And then there's the quality of pics--mine are often rushed and not that great. Also, like Donna, I sometimes hold back on comments because I feel I don't have the expertise-- but then when I hear Donna say that I'm floored because I always love reading her ideas and thoughts! </p> <p>Thanks for sharing your gorgeous outfits and opening up this conversation. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/musings-on-mojo-and-wiws#post-1578308 Fri, 30 Oct 2015 02:29:45 +0000 Jaime 1578308@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Peri the cobalt top is particularly stunning on you! I also miss some old members and will be delighted if they choose to return one day, but there are always new members coming in, which is grand! I love seeing people's outfits and would probably post more if I had a better photo taking spot. I tend to take more photos when I am experimenting too. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/musings-on-mojo-and-wiws#post-1578276 Fri, 30 Oct 2015 01:42:45 +0000 Beth Ann 1578276@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>My computer is slow --- double post!</p> </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/musings-on-mojo-and-wiws#post-1578274 Fri, 30 Oct 2015 01:40:27 +0000 Dee 1578274@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>First off, cobalt is an amazing color on you!</p> <p>I lurked for awhile before officially joining this site so quite a few people I admired are no longer around (or at least not very frequently). I'm sure it's due to all sort of factors. I used to post more WIWs but I haven't been shopping as much so I wonder how often I should document the repeats? But at the same time, I always appreciate when veterans post outfits so I can see where they're at. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/musings-on-mojo-and-wiws#post-1578269 Fri, 30 Oct 2015 01:33:15 +0000 Peri 1578269@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Thanks everyone! I'm glad to hear I'm not the only one missing our friends and at the same time wondering if my outfits merit posting. I guess if we all give in to that feeling there will be no pictures to look at at all.&nbsp;</p> <p>At the same time, I think some life events may be feeding this sense of loss. It makes sense that the board will always be in flux, I'm just not in a change happy mood lately. Except weather. I want that to change!</p> <p>Thanks for all the support!</p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/musings-on-mojo-and-wiws#post-1578267 Fri, 30 Oct 2015 01:32:29 +0000 Bonnie 1578267@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I think the veterans really help the newbies with their WIW posts. I look at clothes on models and don't get a realistic view of how the item really looks on a normal person. They sometimes make the clothes look desirable but often make the clothes look boring. I especially like to look at the posts from people who have a similar body shape and style as I have, and with lots of people posting I can find someone to learn from. So please keep posting for those of us who have recently joined and it sounds like your old friends appreciate your posts, too.</p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/musings-on-mojo-and-wiws#post-1578252 Fri, 30 Oct 2015 01:17:12 +0000 Beth Ann 1578252@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>You look very "sharp," Peri!&nbsp; I thought of you when I recently posted some Finds at J. Jill -- items that reminded me of you.&nbsp; Now, they're mostly basics, but we all need foundation pieces!</p> <p>I miss many of our veterans, too, Peri!&nbsp; I've been making an effort to "get to know" and invest in some of our fab newbies, and am finding new favorites.&nbsp; I love seeing new members catch the fire and find their groove!</p> <p>You know how to make the most of "piano wear."&nbsp; You know, clothing that is elegant, but simple.&nbsp; Layering necklaces is all the rage, and your pieces (and nails) are gorgeous.&nbsp; Perhaps you could focus for a few weeks on accessories?&nbsp; Or, alternatively, wearing the same basic color every day for a week, or redeeming an orphan (I've been doing this laterly).&nbsp; </p> <p>Managing to wear beautiful color daily, in garments that fit well and have lovely fabrications, is a big win!&nbsp; I think it means more to dress this way every day than to nail the "perfect outfit" for special events, etc.</p> <p> </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/musings-on-mojo-and-wiws#post-1578232 Fri, 30 Oct 2015 00:13:57 +0000 catgirl 1578232@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I haven't been posting outfits because of lack of time for pics and also not feeling like anything is that new or exciting.&nbsp; I do miss other people, though and feel that they inspire me with everyday outfits.&nbsp; I just posted two WIWs because of you, Peri. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/musings-on-mojo-and-wiws#post-1578218 Thu, 29 Oct 2015 23:55:35 +0000 Aida 1578218@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Peri I also wanted to add a quick thing related to your post a while back on the heat. There were a lot of replies from those in the same boat, feeling like they wanted fall but were stuck in hot weather. I think that it would be super helpful to many if you gals had posted more of your "hot fall" outfits instead of feeling like you should be posting "cold fall" outfits! That's the reality, and that's what we're all here for </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/musings-on-mojo-and-wiws#post-1578208 Thu, 29 Oct 2015 23:41:07 +0000 Anonymous 1578208@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Peru, I miss many members too and agree with Ummlila. I haven't been posting outfits lately because of travel and visitors. I love to see members in pieces and outfits that they have shown us before, often worn a little differently. It also helps just to see other women making an effort on a daily basis and encourages others to do it too.<br /> Your jewelry looks just right on you, dainty and delicate like you. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/musings-on-mojo-and-wiws#post-1578206 Thu, 29 Oct 2015 23:39:34 +0000 Angie 1578206@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>YLF is almost 10 years old - I can scarcely believe it. </p> <p>It is the nature of <b>any</b> forum that its members come and go due to a myriad of reasons. And new members join at the same rate as the older ones go so there is a constant engaged bustle on the forum.&nbsp;</p> <p>Older members who leave are welcome when they want to rejoin at any time. No one should feel obligated to stay or leave. The YLF community is here to support each other and have lots of fun along the way.&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/musings-on-mojo-and-wiws#post-1578194 Thu, 29 Oct 2015 23:22:36 +0000 Stephanie 1578194@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>You look amazing in blue! I'm newer here and have only posted a few times, so your looks are brand new to me The drape of your last outfit is stunning. Really like your jewelry as well.</p> <p>I'm still undecided on posting WIWs. But I agree with others…I really like seeing what everyone is wearing on a day to day basis. So maybe that means some of us should be brave and post anyway! So much of social media/forums/etc or anything online really is often a highlight reel. I think maybe it'd be good to post weekly WIWs, show the good and the bad, and just keep it real.</p> <p>It seems there are a lot of new members coming in even when older ones don't post as often, so I'm sure nobody would get sick of seeing repeats or uniform like outfits. It's good inspiration for all of us to try new things. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/musings-on-mojo-and-wiws#post-1578187 Thu, 29 Oct 2015 23:06:50 +0000 SAWEBER95 1578187@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I just joined today and I am SO excited to be part of this website. &nbsp;I love fashion but I just don't feel like I'm great at it... I have an eye for something super cute at the vintage store or even Target, but when I take it home... I don't know what to pair it with! &nbsp;I'm sorry that so many people have left but I hope to contribute to this forum by posting questions for advice... you'll see a lot of "how can I make this outfit better?" or "what do I wear this with?!" &nbsp;I hope that is what you are looking for in your community members. &nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/musings-on-mojo-and-wiws#post-1578182 Thu, 29 Oct 2015 22:56:02 +0000 Brooklyn 1578182@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Hi Peri. You look beautiful in your outfits and I particularly love no 4 and how you have layered the necklaces. I love seeing posts from members (including this one) because it often inspires me to try something new (like layering necklaces). I am very happy to see repeats and variations. And more than happy to see "ordinary" wear. I am often reluctant to post because here we are in a different season so what I wear is not of great interest/relevance to most members and a lot of my stuff is not new or is bought in Australia. And then there is the whole "look at me" thing which is kind of uncomfortable. But I do it because I really really like to see what other people are wearing so I figure I should reciprocate. And it is a great way to connect. I hope you continue to post </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/musings-on-mojo-and-wiws#post-1578168 Thu, 29 Oct 2015 22:28:11 +0000 Aida 1578168@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>So nice to see you Peri! And glad to hear things are going ok. That cobalt is incredible on you, and the layered necklaces look really fun with the flowy tops. #2 could be a stock photo, so pretty! (I was never able to wear polish when I played the piano, always managed to leave streaks of pretty colors on the keys.) LOVE your "sharp" necklace :D</p> <p>I hear you on missing seeing many forum members who aren't currently active. And I think a lot of veteran members go through this same feeling you're having in regards to posting outfits, myself included, regardless of whether or not we're in any sort of closet nirvana. But I totally echo what UmmLila said about enjoying seeing the "daily stuff", uniform formulas or otherwise. And my favorite part of this forum are the connections we're able to make across the globe through something as simple as what we're wearing.</p> <p>For what it's worth I'd love to see more outfits from you! Even if it's something you feel is uniform -- you're far more used to your style and your items than we are </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/musings-on-mojo-and-wiws#post-1578099 Thu, 29 Oct 2015 19:28:18 +0000 Kimbacat 1578099@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Oh yes, the member postings are my favorite aspect. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/musings-on-mojo-and-wiws#post-1578098 Thu, 29 Oct 2015 19:26:40 +0000 Makrame 1578098@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>These are beautiful looks! I really like the drapy, flowing tops with the long necklaces - what a great formula!</p> <p>Haven't been posting much for the last year - I think you are right that as people reach the balance with their wardrobe and have a better idea of their style, posting sometimes tends to taper off. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/musings-on-mojo-and-wiws#post-1578097 Thu, 29 Oct 2015 19:26:08 +0000 Angie 1578097@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Peri you look GORGEOUS in cobalt. And how lovely to see your jewellery up close. It's as lovely as you are. Pretty nails on pretty piano hands too.&nbsp;</p> <p>I echo what Ummlila said.&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/musings-on-mojo-and-wiws#post-1578091 Thu, 29 Oct 2015 18:54:00 +0000 Susie 1578091@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Peri, you look amazing in cobalt. Really in all the deep&nbsp;colors, which are my favorites too so I love to see your outfits.&nbsp;I'm pretty close to having a similar uniform, with longer shaped/asymmetrical tops and slim leg&nbsp;pants.&nbsp;And I've been on necklaces and scarves as my 'third piece' for months now. </p> <p>I've gotten away from posting WIW photos too. It's a combination of reasons for me, from&nbsp;pictures that aren't great quality&nbsp;(with my phone, in my closet), to knowing that how I 'feel' in an outfit is more important to me than how others might see it, to feeling that I am certainly no fashionista so why would anyone want to see what I wear, to feeling a little weird/vain about saying "look at me." </p> <p>Ok, that was probably way more than you were looking for!</p> <p></p> <p></p> <p></p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/musings-on-mojo-and-wiws#post-1578087 Thu, 29 Oct 2015 18:35:15 +0000 Maneera 1578087@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Love the outfits. You have really gorgeous jewelry, Peri....and a real knack for wearing it in creative ways. </p> <p>I posted a lot of WIWs a while back and had to tone it down a bit becoz I was extremely busy with work. Plus, most of YLF was enjoying cool weather and fall dressing when it was still summer here. I spent a whole month looking at other ppls outfits-drooling-and wishing I could wear the same! Not cool! </p> <p>Thankfully the weather is starting to turn. Hopefully I'll get to showcase my winter wardrobe soon! you definitely should do WIWs more frequently...you've inspired me to layer my necklaces! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/musings-on-mojo-and-wiws#post-1578081 Thu, 29 Oct 2015 18:21:37 +0000 UmmLila (Lisa) 1578081@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I like it when everyone posts their WIWs -- just to connect with people and see what they are wearing, not necessarily because I'm looking for something directional or because they need a question answered. It's good to see what other people who like to dress well do with themselves on a daily basis. And I always like your dramatic color choices, Peri. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/musings-on-mojo-and-wiws#post-1578080 Thu, 29 Oct 2015 18:21:27 +0000 Sara L. 1578080@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Nice outfits!&nbsp; I love your jewelry and the drapiness of your tops.</p> <p>I actually take a photo everyday to send to my sister, who does the same thing for me.&nbsp; I don't post everything on YLF because some are repeats and some outfits are boring.&nbsp; I know people say they like looking at ordinary outfits, but I've noticed posts like that don't seem to get many comments (I remember another forum member saying the same thing).&nbsp; I don't need 50 comments but I would like at least a few if I'm going to go to the effort of posting.</p> <p>Sometimes I'm looking for suggestions on how to wear something or that I wore something new.&nbsp; Sometimes I just post to get some acknowledgement that I made an effort and wore something cute, since I don't get much feedback from my coworkers or family. </p>