https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/mini-boy-update Style Advice for Fashion Lovers en-US Wed, 29 Apr 2026 03:41:37 +0000 http://bbpress.org/?v=1.0.2 q https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/search.php https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/mini-boy-update#post-979904 Sun, 14 Jul 2013 14:06:38 +0000 RoseandJoan 979904@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I can understand feeling gunshy Anna, the course of action you choose to take has to be one you are comfortable with. Besides there are definite benefits when the long game involves hikes, dinner dates, movies and wine tasting.</p> <p>I also think there are more rules and formality to dating in the US than in the&nbsp; in general. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/mini-boy-update#post-979645 Sun, 14 Jul 2013 01:41:43 +0000 Jules 979645@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I think I get it Anna. Was in somewhat similar headspace before I met DH after being single pretty much all my 20s. The aforementioned experience probably didn't help. All I can suggest for getting over the hump is... Alcohol :$ </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/mini-boy-update#post-979623 Sun, 14 Jul 2013 00:53:42 +0000 annagybe 979623@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I'm really gunshy when it comes to things like this. Once I'm secure I'm much more demonstrative.&nbsp;Five years of dating rejection in Seattle can do that to a person. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/mini-boy-update#post-979607 Sun, 14 Jul 2013 00:19:20 +0000 Jules 979607@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Ha! You hussy you!<br /> I've done that too and then attempted dating that person (who I still believe was into me and is now married, so not gay) only to find he was never going to be the one to initiate, which doesn't work for me. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/mini-boy-update#post-979524 Sat, 13 Jul 2013 21:19:11 +0000 RoseandJoan 979524@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>What about the non visual cues Anna, is there great eye and body contact when you meet? </p> <p>I'm too direct to play the long game&nbsp;&nbsp;with these matters (not sure if this is a quality or a flaw)&nbsp;&nbsp;if the cues are there and you have a&nbsp;moments privacy&nbsp;I would go in for a kiss, nothing ventured, nothing gained. *perhaps I'm just a hussy in disguise* </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/mini-boy-update#post-979244 Sat, 13 Jul 2013 14:48:07 +0000 Jules 979244@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Yeah I'd be getting a bit nutty with the ambguity and would probably ask him out (casually, but one-on-one and somewhat date-y - movie and drinks?) and try to gauge his interest from there. But then we all have different approaches and I can't claim I was any good at dating </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/mini-boy-update#post-978238 Fri, 12 Jul 2013 14:45:57 +0000 Archer 978238@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I agree &nbsp;with&nbsp;Zap and Co. That was the line of my question really. &nbsp;He sounds to me like he is keen but shy.&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/mini-boy-update#post-977957 Fri, 12 Jul 2013 04:53:48 +0000 rae 977957@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Sounds good to me! You are still on his mind and in his circle. It is super easy to let conflicting schedules be an excuse if you want to conveniently&nbsp;"drift apart." I'm glad he is finding alternatives since hiking has been out! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/mini-boy-update#post-977280 Thu, 11 Jul 2013 18:41:20 +0000 Vicki 977280@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>He reached out and that's a good thing! &nbsp;That took effort and thought on his part. &nbsp;Your outfit is perfect. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/mini-boy-update#post-977182 Thu, 11 Jul 2013 17:43:49 +0000 rachylou 977182@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>That sounds fun and a fun outfit!</p> <p>That could be true, too, what bj says. My bf #3 totally did that. He told me so. Arranged group outings to go out with me... and then haha, couldn't get rid of this one guy who then decided to be a forever tag-a-long. Hahaha! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/mini-boy-update#post-977162 Thu, 11 Jul 2013 17:27:14 +0000 Anonymous 977162@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I agree wtih Zap -- can you arrange more one-on-one and not group meetings? </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/mini-boy-update#post-976941 Thu, 11 Jul 2013 15:28:33 +0000 Diana 976941@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Yay, glad to hear you don't have to wait for the next hike to see him.&nbsp; I loved that outfit and I think it would be perfect. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/mini-boy-update#post-976932 Thu, 11 Jul 2013 15:25:33 +0000 Archer 976932@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Of course it's something. He has obviously invited you. What is his personality like? That might help interpret his approach. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/mini-boy-update#post-976869 Thu, 11 Jul 2013 14:39:22 +0000 chewyspaghetti 976869@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Oh have fun, Anna!~ </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/mini-boy-update#post-976861 Thu, 11 Jul 2013 14:36:34 +0000 Debbie 976861@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Sounds great and the outfit perfect! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/mini-boy-update#post-976840 Thu, 11 Jul 2013 14:23:07 +0000 Anonymous 976840@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Anna, do you really like this boy? may I suggest making a move at the next gathering? invite him to something, like a nice dinner out or a movie? Just the two of you.<br /> Love the invite and the potential outfit. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/mini-boy-update#post-976817 Thu, 11 Jul 2013 14:06:44 +0000 donnat 976817@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>This sounds good Anna, both the outfit and the invite </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/mini-boy-update#post-976728 Thu, 11 Jul 2013 12:49:34 +0000 ManidipaM 976728@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Thumbs up! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/mini-boy-update#post-976720 Thu, 11 Jul 2013 12:45:15 +0000 Kristin L 976720@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I think that'd be a great outfit. Good luck!&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/mini-boy-update#post-976620 Thu, 11 Jul 2013 09:22:30 +0000 Anonymous 976620@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Yes, recreate! Hope you have a good time. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/mini-boy-update#post-976602 Thu, 11 Jul 2013 08:28:44 +0000 Anonymous 976602@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Yes! I loved that outfit. Enjoy! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/mini-boy-update#post-976548 Thu, 11 Jul 2013 05:03:11 +0000 ramya 976548@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>That outfit was awesome! Perfect anna </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/mini-boy-update#post-976505 Thu, 11 Jul 2013 04:07:52 +0000 Transcona Shannon 976505@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Perfect! And I'm voting yes for a recreation of the nude boot outfit - that looked AMAZING on you. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/mini-boy-update#post-976488 Thu, 11 Jul 2013 03:56:27 +0000 bj1111 976488@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Maybe he invited others who you know to make you feel comfortable. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/mini-boy-update#post-976265 Thu, 11 Jul 2013 01:08:56 +0000 MNsara 976265@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Yes, another opportunity to get together is always good :-)&nbsp; and the after a hair appointment is a bonus!&nbsp; You've been putting together fabulous casual outfits these days, but we still love to get a sneak preview . . . </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/mini-boy-update#post-976201 Thu, 11 Jul 2013 00:16:06 +0000 Anonymous 976201@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>That sound very encouraging. It's nice to get to know someone in a group setting too--less pressure that way. You'll have to post your outfit contenders.&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/mini-boy-update#post-976170 Wed, 10 Jul 2013 23:43:37 +0000 MsMary 976170@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Sounds good on all fronts! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/mini-boy-update#post-976155 Wed, 10 Jul 2013 23:31:04 +0000 cheryle (Dianthus) 976155@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Great news Anna.&nbsp; I think a relationship that starts slow is more likely to last than the ones that seem to go from 0-60 in a day. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/mini-boy-update#post-976149 Wed, 10 Jul 2013 23:23:50 +0000 annagybe 976149@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>So due to conflicting schedules I haven't been able to hike with the boy. But today via facebook he invited me to a happy hour. It's a group thing, and I can tell from the invite he invited others I know. But it's something, right?<br />It's next Thursday, the day after a hair appointment. What to wear? Thinking of recreating my nude suede boots, denim shorts and floral bomber outfit. </p>