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			<title>YouLookFab Forum &#187; Topic: Low heel special occasion shoes - are these matronly?</title>
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				<title>Mander on "Low heel special occasion shoes - are these matronly?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sun, 16 Jun 2013 16:30:11 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Mander</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;What about these?&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;&#060;a href=&#034;http://www.zappos.com/dyeables-penelope-black-satin&#034; rel=&#034;nofollow&#034;&#062;http://www.zappos.com/dyeables.....lack-satin&#060;/a&#062;&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;&#060;a href=&#034;http://www.zappos.com/annie-enrica-black-micro&#034; rel=&#034;nofollow&#034;&#062;http://www.zappos.com/annie-enrica-black-micro&#060;/a&#062;&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;&#060;a href=&#034;http://www.zappos.com/bella-vita-lattice-ii-pewter-metallic&#034; rel=&#034;nofollow&#034;&#062;http://www.zappos.com/bella-vi.....r-metallic&#060;/a&#062;&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;&#060;a href=&#034;http://www.zappos.com/christin-michaels-zofia-black-patent&#034; rel=&#034;nofollow&#034;&#062;http://www.zappos.com/christin.....ack-patent&#060;/a&#062;&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;&#060;a href=&#034;http://www.zappos.com/nine-west-sway-me-so-red-synthetic&#034; rel=&#034;nofollow&#034;&#062;http://www.zappos.com/nine-wes.....-synthetic&#060;/a&#062;&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;&#060;a href=&#034;http://www.zappos.com/dyeables-becky-black-satin&#034; rel=&#034;nofollow&#034;&#062;http://www.zappos.com/dyeables-becky-black-satin&#060;/a&#062;&#060;/p&#062;
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				<title>Anonymous on "Low heel special occasion shoes - are these matronly?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sun, 16 Jun 2013 15:39:52 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Hi there,&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I don't think these are frumpy but I think you can have a little more fun with the footwear. These are all available in size 12. &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;&#060;a href=&#034;http://zappos.com/j-renee-dayna-gold-glimmer-fabric&#034; rel=&#034;nofollow&#034;&#062;http://zappos.com/j-renee-dayn.....mer-fabric&#060;/a&#062;&#060;br /&#062;
These are my favorites in the pewter color. &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;&#060;a href=&#034;http://zappos.com/bella-vita-lattice-ii-pewter-metallic&#034; rel=&#034;nofollow&#034;&#062;http://zappos.com/bella-vita-l.....r-metallic&#060;/a&#062;&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;&#060;a href=&#034;http://zappos.com/vigotti-metis-pewter-satin&#034; rel=&#034;nofollow&#034;&#062;http://zappos.com/vigotti-metis-pewter-satin&#060;/a&#062;&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;what about a patterned number?&#060;br /&#062;
&#060;a href=&#034;http://zappos.com/nine-west-sharina-black-combo-fabric-2&#034; rel=&#034;nofollow&#034;&#062;http://zappos.com/nine-west-sh.....o-fabric-2&#060;/a&#062;&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Love these in the nude color&#060;br /&#062;
&#060;a href=&#034;http://zappos.com/bouquets-monroe-gold-satin&#034; rel=&#034;nofollow&#034;&#062;http://zappos.com/bouquets-monroe-gold-satin&#060;/a&#062;&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;or this in red, add a red lip and you are done&#060;br /&#062;
&#060;a href=&#034;http://zappos.com/vigotti-metis-red-satin&#034; rel=&#034;nofollow&#034;&#062;http://zappos.com/vigotti-metis-red-satin&#060;/a&#062;&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;These all said 2 1/2 inches but the incline on your size is going to be a lot less.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;ETA: I just looked at the dress again and I happen to agree with those, who suggested a dressier shoe. These are not frumpy, but I would go with something more dressy and special event like.
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				<title>Diana on "Low heel special occasion shoes - are these matronly?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sun, 16 Jun 2013 04:12:44 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Diana</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I think they'll be great for the wedding with the dress.&#038;nbsp; LIke others have said, the embellishment makes them dressy, plus you are tall so you can get away with a lower heel height anyway.
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				<title>Inge on "Low heel special occasion shoes - are these matronly?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sat, 15 Jun 2013 19:24:10 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Inge</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;The dress is going to look stunning on you, Marianna, and the wedge shoes are lovely. I agree that the beading makes them dressier, and that handbag and other accessories can further dress things up.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;A few other options:&#060;br /&#062;&#060;a rel=&#034;nofollow&#034; href=&#034;http://shop.nordstrom.com/S/j-renee-affair-pump/3223294?origin=category-personalizedsort&#038;amp;contextualcategoryid=0&#038;amp;fashionColor=GOLD&#038;amp;resultback=430&#038;amp;cm_sp=personalizedsort-_-browseresults-_-1_3_A&#034;&#062;http://shop.nordstrom.com/S/j-.....ontextualc&#060;/a&#062;&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;&#060;a rel=&#034;nofollow&#034; href=&#034;http://www.zappos.com/stuart-weitzman-poco-topo-summer-linen&#034;&#062;http://www.zappos.com/stuart-w.....mmer-linen&#060;/a&#062;&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Also: I actually think Angie's Bella Vita Wow pumps in the Gold Cross Hatch colour&#038;nbsp;would be perfect for this. The website says they have a 2 1/2 inch heel, but I remember Angie saying that they're lower.&#060;br /&#062;&#060;a rel=&#034;nofollow&#034; href=&#034;http://www.zappos.com/bella-vita-wow-pewter-kidskin&#034;&#062;http://www.zappos.com/bella-vi.....er-kidskin&#060;/a&#062;
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				<title>Marley on "Low heel special occasion shoes - are these matronly?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sat, 15 Jun 2013 18:37:53 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Marley</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I love the silhouette of that dress and I bet it is really flattering on you!&#038;nbsp; I think the fact that it is jersey, means that you really need to make sure that the rest of your accessories (including shoes) are quite dressy.&#038;nbsp; I think that these silver sandals are pretty, but because of the wedge, they seem too casual for the event.&#038;nbsp; I can imagine that it is a real pain to find dressy low-heeled shoes in your size, so if you can't find any, I think these would do - and I wouldn't worry about it!&#038;nbsp; Just make sure that your handbag and jewelry take&#038;nbsp;your outift&#038;nbsp;into the dressy&#038;nbsp;category, &#038;nbsp;OK?&#038;nbsp; And, have fun!
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				<title>CocoLion on "Low heel special occasion shoes - are these matronly?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sat, 15 Jun 2013 18:36:20 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>CocoLion</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;The shoes look fine to me. &#038;nbsp;The beading makes them fancy, and although the wedge is a bit more casual, I think you need to consider comfort for a wedding. &#038;nbsp;They are usually long with a fair amount of standing around.
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				<title>Anonymous on "Low heel special occasion shoes - are these matronly?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sat, 15 Jun 2013 18:29:30 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I think they look fine! The silver is dressy and at 26, you probably couldn't look matronly if you tried.&#038;nbsp;
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				<title>Kristin L on "Low heel special occasion shoes - are these matronly?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sat, 15 Jun 2013 18:10:07 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I think I'd have to see the rest of the outfit as well.&#038;nbsp;
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				<title>Liz A. on "Low heel special occasion shoes - are these matronly?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sat, 15 Jun 2013 18:04:44 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Liz A.</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I didn't realize this would be such a tall order.  What about this?&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;&#060;a href=&#034;http://www.zappos.com/christin-michaels-zofia-black-patent&#034; rel=&#034;nofollow&#034;&#062;http://www.zappos.com/christin.....ack-patent&#060;/a&#062;&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I suppose it might read more day, but I like the look as a whole.
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				<title>rachylou on "Low heel special occasion shoes - are these matronly?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sat, 15 Jun 2013 17:43:45 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;How funny. I think the sandals are great for a wedding and hesitate a bit on the dress, because it strikes me as a bit casual. It would all depend on the accessories to me - I think you need some silver jewelry up top.
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				<title>Liz A. on "Low heel special occasion shoes - are these matronly?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sat, 15 Jun 2013 17:33:45 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Liz A.</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;If I'm honest, those sandals are not fab enough for such a killer classic lbd.  I am on my iPad but I will try to have a look around for you. I'm thinking more of a dull silver, less sci fi.
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				<title>marianna on "Low heel special occasion shoes - are these matronly?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sat, 15 Jun 2013 16:02:07 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>marianna</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Interesting thoughts about the look being too casual. I'll have to try everything on together and see how it feels. Formal wear is hard for me because I never have to wear it!&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I'm not even being seated with&#038;nbsp;husband... because he's in the bridal party and I'm not! But that's a whole different topic...
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				<title>rae on "Low heel special occasion shoes - are these matronly?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sat, 15 Jun 2013 15:52:37 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>rae</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Hm, there is nothing matronly about either piece on its own, but it's tough to say about them together. First reaction is that wedges and a jersey dress might be a little casual when your DH is in a tux... and somehow that alone might project a little bit of a matronly feel (if that makes sense). Of course it might be different IRL.
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				<title>bj1111 on "Low heel special occasion shoes - are these matronly?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sat, 15 Jun 2013 15:39:59 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>bj1111</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;marianna, nothing wrong with being a classic dresser. &#038;nbsp;eventually the world will catch up with you.
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				<title>TraceyLiz65 on "Low heel special occasion shoes - are these matronly?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sat, 15 Jun 2013 15:32:46 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>TraceyLiz65</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;My initial reaction is that I don't see wedges as dressy enough for a wedding where your husband in a tux... I could be alone in this view, so let's see what others say...&#038;nbsp;
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				<title>Sara L. on "Low heel special occasion shoes - are these matronly?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sat, 15 Jun 2013 14:58:14 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Sara L.</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I don't think they're matronly on their own, but they could skew that direction depending on the rest of your outfit.
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				<title>marianna on "Low heel special occasion shoes - are these matronly?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sat, 15 Jun 2013 14:51:03 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>marianna</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Thanks! I'm always worried that my tastes are too classic/old for me!
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				<title>donnat on "Low heel special occasion shoes - are these matronly?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sat, 15 Jun 2013 14:45:40 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>donnat</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Nothing matronly there at all
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				<title>Tanya on "Low heel special occasion shoes - are these matronly?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sat, 15 Jun 2013 14:42:06 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Tanya</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I love those sandals and do not think they are matronly at all! &#038;nbsp;Gorgeous dress too!. &#038;nbsp;I think you will look stunning.
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				<title>bj1111 on "Low heel special occasion shoes - are these matronly?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sat, 15 Jun 2013 14:41:49 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>bj1111</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;those are fun, but i would have to see the whole outfit.
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				<title>marianna on "Low heel special occasion shoes - are these matronly?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sat, 15 Jun 2013 14:30:45 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>marianna</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I'm attending a wedding next Saturday and bought&#038;nbsp;&#060;a rel=&#034;nofollow&#034; href=&#034;http://www.zappos.com/dyeables-harper-silver-metallic&#034;&#062;these&#060;/a&#062; sandals in silver&#038;nbsp;to wear with this &#060;a rel=&#034;nofollow&#034; href=&#034;http://shop.nordstrom.com/s/lauren-ralph-lauren-matte-jersey-dress-plus/3390386?origin=saveforlater&#038;amp;cm_ven=Linkshare&#038;amp;cm_cat=partner&#038;amp;cm_pla=10&#038;amp;cm_ite=1&#038;amp;siteId=TnL5HPStwNw-gtVIRAiwr9mChPBkWpaaIA&#034;&#062;LBD&#060;/a&#062;.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;They fit my needs: very low heel, available in size 12, and fairly dressy - but I need a reality check to make sure they're not frumpy and matronly. I actually think they're pretty... but&#038;nbsp;I'm 26 and I'm sure most of the women&#038;nbsp;my age will be in 3-4 inch heels, so I know this look is a little different...&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;(Also my husband is the best man in the wedding and wearing a tux, so I do need to look appropriate.)&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I am still looking for modern accessories to lighten this up a bit, but I just want to make sure I'm not totally off base and dressing myself too maturely.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;And if I AM heading in the wrong direction with these shoes, please help me find something dressy, with a heel lower than 2 inches, and available in size 12. :)&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Thank you!&#060;/p&#062;
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