https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/looking-for-a-fancy-topper-for-my-lbd Style Advice for Fashion Lovers en-US Thu, 21 May 2026 01:35:51 +0000 http://bbpress.org/?v=1.0.2 q https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/search.php https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/looking-for-a-fancy-topper-for-my-lbd/page/2#post-780242 Wed, 21 Nov 2012 22:08:12 +0000 shiny 780242@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>This might be out of your price range, but I saw it and thought of you:</p> <p><a href="http://www.urbanoutfitters.com/urban/catalog/productdetail.jsp?id=25848813&#038;parentid=W_OUTERWEAR" rel="nofollow">http://www.urbanoutfitters.com....._OUTERWEAR</a> </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/looking-for-a-fancy-topper-for-my-lbd/page/2#post-780133 Wed, 21 Nov 2012 19:15:19 +0000 Diana 780133@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>OK, AE has a 40% + free shipping promo, so I ordered the black sequin jacket as well. Sequin jacket face-off coming soon! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/looking-for-a-fancy-topper-for-my-lbd/page/2#post-779286 Tue, 20 Nov 2012 17:19:10 +0000 rae 779286@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Love both the bolero and AE jacket! I sympathize with the search for dressy pumps! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/looking-for-a-fancy-topper-for-my-lbd/page/2#post-779255 Tue, 20 Nov 2012 15:52:35 +0000 Mander 779255@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Oooh, I love the sparkly little bolero! </p> <p>How about some of the booties that have been so popular lately for shoes? You could even wear ankle socks underneath for extra warmth. I am thinking something with shiny gold trim would work:</p> <p><a href="http://shop.nordstrom.com/S/rachel-roy-lana-ankle-boot/3318085?origin=category&#038;contextualcategoryid=0&#038;fashionColor=&#038;resultback=0" rel="nofollow">http://shop.nordstrom.com/S/ra.....sultback=0</a></p> <p>Of course, I am hopeless with shoes so take my opinion with a sack of salt! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/looking-for-a-fancy-topper-for-my-lbd/page/2#post-779148 Tue, 20 Nov 2012 08:38:49 +0000 harmonica 779148@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Super bolero and ae jacket!! I can see you in the bolero - it has a bit of a drama vibe that I think would match your style. the ae jacket is a bit more classic maybe. love that one too! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/looking-for-a-fancy-topper-for-my-lbd#post-778962 Tue, 20 Nov 2012 01:16:09 +0000 Diana 778962@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Ah, ladies, I have a major poison eye for fur, both real and faux. Should have mentioned that earlier! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/looking-for-a-fancy-topper-for-my-lbd#post-778951 Tue, 20 Nov 2012 00:42:24 +0000 Anonymous 778951@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Love the cropped jacket you ordered. Has anyone mentioned a faux fur stole for the warmth? You are young enough that I don't think it would come off as matronly on you. I second the need for a new pair of shoes (sorry). I like to try to save people money! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/looking-for-a-fancy-topper-for-my-lbd#post-778911 Mon, 19 Nov 2012 23:49:40 +0000 unfrumped 778911@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Because that looks like a kind of fit and flare style dress, I love the idea of a fitted short cardigan in a sparkly or vibrant contrast color in a dressy fabric. You have a lot of options since the dress is solid black without embellishments. Cardis are likely to be more affordable but you might also find a short boxy evening jacket that works--similar to what you just linked.</p> <p>Now is the perfect time to browse brick&amp; mortar if you have time. I've seen evening-wear topper items in just about every "line" of clothing in local large dept stores, plus WHBM, AT, &amp; other stores. I'd actually consider wearing the dress, with a comfy jacket, tights and flats for shopping, so you can see exactly how the lines of various toppers go with your dress. Even if you still do more shopping on-line, it might give you an idea of the style/fit that's most flattering with the dress &amp; help focus your selections.</p> <p>You can of course use a pashmina or other wrap, a sparkly wrap, but I'd only do that if you're pretty warm-natured. I find I have to just stay wrapped up the whole time, and am a lot more comfortable in some kind of sleeve that stays put and looks like it's part of the outfit or a starring role in the outfit. It's so hard to find dresses with sleeves that I think it will just be my strategy to find great-fitting sleeveless dresses that lend themselves to perfect toppers.</p> <p>Dressier shoes would be great, but I'm no help there--they're my nemesis. Once you find your perfect topper, then you can determine how much jewelry and little dressy clutch you add, depending on what's blinging or not. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/looking-for-a-fancy-topper-for-my-lbd#post-778908 Mon, 19 Nov 2012 23:45:29 +0000 moira 778908@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Depending on when in January, after NYE the consignment stores are flooded with fancy clothes by women who only wear stuff once.<br /> I would think regular retailers begin slashing prices on Jan 2nd as well.<br /> Perhaps you could wait?<br /> The dress is perfect, stylish and classy.<br /> Yes. Treat yourself to some cute sexy new shoes. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/looking-for-a-fancy-topper-for-my-lbd#post-778896 Mon, 19 Nov 2012 23:32:09 +0000 JR 778896@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Somehow, I don't think the same seasonal rules apply to holiday parties. Hope not, because I've worn strappy metallic slingbacks to holiday parties. With sandalfoot hose.</p> <p>But maybe I was just clueless. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/looking-for-a-fancy-topper-for-my-lbd#post-778891 Mon, 19 Nov 2012 23:24:47 +0000 Diana 778891@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>JR, the original shoes are actually slingbacks too. I was going to look for those in any case. Like you mentioned, they are a lot easier to keep on my foot. The easiest thing for me to fit is slingback sandals (I have a couple of pairs already) but for this particular case I need a closed toe so I can wear hose and, you know, not look totally seasonally confused. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/looking-for-a-fancy-topper-for-my-lbd#post-778889 Mon, 19 Nov 2012 23:23:02 +0000 JR 778889@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Can you do strappy slingbacks? That would accommodate a narrow heel (I think, no experience there) and avoid the business-y look. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/looking-for-a-fancy-topper-for-my-lbd#post-778886 Mon, 19 Nov 2012 23:19:57 +0000 Diana 778886@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>OK, I'm going to order the bolero. Hey, it's from Nordie's so it's a free pass if I don't like it anyway. I'm also going to try to see if I can find the cropped black jacket from AE that Debora posted further up. </p> <p>Now for shoes... anyone have any suggestions? </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/looking-for-a-fancy-topper-for-my-lbd#post-778882 Mon, 19 Nov 2012 23:15:27 +0000 Debora 778882@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Love the bolero! You're smart to be thinking of this now while there's such a great selection. You'll look fab, Diana! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/looking-for-a-fancy-topper-for-my-lbd#post-778875 Mon, 19 Nov 2012 23:08:41 +0000 catgirl 778875@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I have a furry grey sequined cropped shrug/jacket from F21 that I've worn over a dress... I'd suggest something like that, fun, dressy and glam! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/looking-for-a-fancy-topper-for-my-lbd#post-778870 Mon, 19 Nov 2012 23:02:12 +0000 JR 778870@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>It looks more silver than gold to my eye, no matter what the text says, but that might just be the photo. It's cute, in any event. I don't think you could go wrong with either colour. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/looking-for-a-fancy-topper-for-my-lbd#post-778811 Mon, 19 Nov 2012 21:13:05 +0000 Janet 778811@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Diana, I think that's adorable, and I bet it would look great on you. I don't think it's too gold at all. Midnight blue would be really nice also. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/looking-for-a-fancy-topper-for-my-lbd#post-778807 Mon, 19 Nov 2012 21:08:02 +0000 Diana 778807@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>What do we think of this? Too gold? would black be better? Actually I would love midnight blue too... </p> <p><a href="http://shop.nordstrom.com/S/eliza-j-short-sleeve-sequin-bolero/3350923?origin=keywordsearch&#038;contextualcategoryid=0&#038;fashionColor=&#038;resultback=0" rel="nofollow">http://shop.nordstrom.com/S/el.....sultback=0</a> </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/looking-for-a-fancy-topper-for-my-lbd#post-778747 Mon, 19 Nov 2012 19:29:13 +0000 JR 778747@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I wouldn't worry about a shawl not being warm enough. You can always wear a cardigan or blazer under your overcoat for warmth outdoors, and change it for a shawl when you get inside. I am hardly experienced in cocktail parties, but I am guessing that the room will be well-heated. Ladies often wear pretty skimpy dresses to these things.</p> <p>I would wear one that goes down longer than the one in your photo though, preferably one with some sparkle or shimmer. That might prove to be more versatile than a party topper, but it's you who can best judge that.</p> <p>This being your first exposure to this particular crowd, playing middle-of-the-road is probably the best way to go. We think of lawyers as being conservative, but there are some pretty quirky lawyers out there, so they might be more tolerant of individuality than we think. But it's best to play it safe in the beginning. No point in putting people off needlessly. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/looking-for-a-fancy-topper-for-my-lbd#post-778627 Mon, 19 Nov 2012 16:57:33 +0000 Janet 778627@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I sympathize on the shoe shopping thing! I have the opposite problem. </p> <p>These popped up on the page of Anthro selections that Debora posted:</p> <p><a href="http://www.anthropologie.com/anthro/product/25194192.jsp" rel="nofollow">http://www.anthropologie.com/a.....194192.jsp</a></p> <p>Maybe something similar to that? Those toes look a bit pointy for comfort, but I'm thinking that a metallic wedge mary jane style could be really fab on you. Something with some sparkle. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/looking-for-a-fancy-topper-for-my-lbd#post-778617 Mon, 19 Nov 2012 16:48:17 +0000 JuneBug 778617@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I think a neat little blazer or fitted jacket (in jet black or sequinned) with a 3/4 sleeve, satiny lapels and possibly ending where your hips start , left unbuttoned might be go very well with your dress for a non stuffy, yet formal look. </p> <p>Here's a link as an example:</p> <p><a href="http://www.charlotterusse.com/product/Outerwear/entity/dc/999999/sc/2629/217758.uts" rel="nofollow">http://www.charlotterusse.com/.....217758.uts</a></p> <p>I cannot recommend the very piece as I haven't shopped at this store but this particular style might work with your outfit. </p> <p>For the footwear, I suggest you try a new pair to go with your outfit, something black and closed. You could go with lower heels (2"-3") and add an insole for more comfort! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/looking-for-a-fancy-topper-for-my-lbd#post-778560 Mon, 19 Nov 2012 15:40:32 +0000 Diana 778560@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Debora, love that AE jacket! And it's nice and cropped too. Will def. check it out.</p> <p>Shiny, thanks for the tips! I might try this with my new booties. Ballet flats and pumps fall off my heels, especially with hose, but without hose I am cold and my toes rub. It's so hard to find nice looking sling backs or ankle straps with moderate heels. Sigh... </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/looking-for-a-fancy-topper-for-my-lbd#post-778540 Mon, 19 Nov 2012 15:10:27 +0000 shiny 778540@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>The dress is lovely and perfect for the occasion, especially since you can never go wrong with black when in Boston. (If you want to get an idea what people wear to events, keep an eye on Bill Brett's Party Scene here <a href="http://www.boston.com/lifestyle/bill-brett-boston-party-pictures/apPgitZwuyFQPpelxjp9uL/gallery.html?pg=1&#038;t=150&#038;cp=1" rel="nofollow">http://www.boston.com/lifestyl.....&#038;cp=1</a>). </p> <p>You need new footwear, as those are looking tired. I'd recommend putting more effort into your shoe search and just pick a pretty pashmina for a topper.</p> <p>At the most recent formal event I attended, I saw lots of platform pumps (nude is still popular), metallic strappy heels (worn without hose), and booties. I also saw quite a few women wearing dressy ballet flats, so that is another option if you don't like heels. I often wear tall boots to formal events held in the winter in Boston. I have a dressy pair, 2 inch heels, black suede. That way, I can wear warm socks underneath and my legs stay toasty. This year I may just opt for booties since that is in. </p> <p>That Nanette Lapore jacket is gorgeous. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/looking-for-a-fancy-topper-for-my-lbd#post-778505 Mon, 19 Nov 2012 14:32:54 +0000 Diana 778505@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Janet, for me shopping for dress shoes (especially pumps) is pretty much my least favorite thing to do ever. Much worse than bathing suits. But you are right. I need to do it. I would just much rather shop for sequin jackets. =) </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/looking-for-a-fancy-topper-for-my-lbd#post-778504 Mon, 19 Nov 2012 14:31:21 +0000 Debora 778504@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Oh man, I can sympathize when it comes to finding comfortable pumps. It would be wonderful if you could find something dressier, though.</p> <p> I wondered if those tops might be too long, too. Anthro has a few cropped holiday options. I would love to see you in something fun and youthful.</p> <p><a href="http://www.anthropologie.com/anthro/category/sparkle+%26+shine/clothes-sparkle-shine_me.jsp" rel="nofollow">http://www.anthropologie.com/a.....ine_me.jsp</a></p> <p>ETA: one more sequined cropped blazer at a decent price point:</p> <p><a href="http://www.ae.com/web/browse/product.jsp?productId=2351_5313_001&#038;catId=cat4260032" rel="nofollow">http://www.ae.com/web/browse/p.....cat4260032</a> </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/looking-for-a-fancy-topper-for-my-lbd#post-778501 Mon, 19 Nov 2012 14:25:27 +0000 Janet 778501@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I agree that those shoes look too business-y and a bit dated. I think it's time to treat yourself to a new pair of fab shoes! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/looking-for-a-fancy-topper-for-my-lbd#post-778491 Mon, 19 Nov 2012 14:01:52 +0000 Diana 778491@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Thanks for the suggestions! I really like the idea of a sequin jacket or cardi. Will try to get to Zara soon to look at options. I really like the sequin jacket Debora posted too (plus the price is great!). They will all be pretty long on me though (the nordie's options are 22" so that is hip length for me); what do you all think of that length? Or should i look for a cropped option?</p> <p>Rute, that is a really cool idea... reminds me a bit of Angie in her leather moto and ball gown! Unfortunately I'm pretty sure my moto is too casual - it's definitely more motorcycle and less refined than the one in your example. PS - I do actually have a ball skirt a la Angie but I don't have the guts to wear it to this particular event. </p> <p>Rabbit, I think you are right that all blazers might be too businessy with this dress, since the dress by itself is not sparkly or embellished or anything. Just to be clear, I wouldn't wear the shawl in this photo to an event like this. It was actually for a wedding that I needed to dress down the black for a little bit. In any case, a pashmina is always an option but to be honest I worry I will freeze (January in Boston). </p> <p>Re: the shoes. Here are a couple of snaps (with my webcam, lol). Best I can do right now, as my fiance stole my camera and I won't get it back for a couple of days. The heel is a skinny kitten heel. I think the toe shape is a little dated. I think these read as more business and less evening, but they are comfortable. Are they terrible? I have major fit and comfort issues with almost all pumps, so I am not confident I'd find anything I could stand to wear all night. </p> <p>I probably *should* look for replacements though since, datedness or eveningness aside, these are quite old and the inside lining is coming off, etc, and need to be replaced anyway. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/looking-for-a-fancy-topper-for-my-lbd#post-778488 Mon, 19 Nov 2012 13:51:42 +0000 Glory 778488@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I love the dress as well and think it will work very well for the event. I love the link to zara and the idea that you could get some additional wear out of a jacket like that. The idea for a glammed up cardigan is super and there would be many options. What are your thoughts on that idea? </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/looking-for-a-fancy-topper-for-my-lbd#post-778467 Mon, 19 Nov 2012 13:22:12 +0000 Debora 778467@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Here's another sequined jacket:</p> <p><a href="http://shop.nordstrom.com/s/living-doll-sequin-blazer-juniors/3396207?origin=category&#038;contextualcategoryid=0&#038;fashionColor=&#038;resultback=0" rel="nofollow">http://shop.nordstrom.com/s/li.....sultback=0</a></p> <p>And a lacy option: </p> <p><a href="http://shop.nordstrom.com/s/frenchi-lace-blazer-juniors/3324761?origin=category&#038;contextualcategoryid=0&#038;fashionColor=Black&#038;resultback=0" rel="nofollow">http://shop.nordstrom.com/s/fr.....sultback=0</a></p> <p>Love the dress, Diana. I'm not sure about the shoes, either. Can we see a better look at them? </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/looking-for-a-fancy-topper-for-my-lbd#post-778452 Mon, 19 Nov 2012 12:51:32 +0000 Janet 778452@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I second Anna's suggestion -- not only is it a great modern topper for the dressy occasion, but it would also be fun to dress down with jeans and a tee. I love the idea of getting a jacket or topper that functions as more than just a special occasion piece, and that one is cool enough to work with your style. </p> <p>Hard to see the shoes, but I'm not sure they read dressy enough to me. What's the heel like? </p>