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			<title>YouLookFab Forum &#187; Topic: Long-time listener, first-time caller...</title>
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				<title>Brenn on "Long-time listener, first-time caller..."</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/long-time-listener-first-time-caller/page/2#post-1056490</link>
				<pubDate>Sat, 19 Oct 2013 13:44:55 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Brenn</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Welcome from another newcomer.  How fun to have so many new people to learn from!
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				<title>shemarie on "Long-time listener, first-time caller..."</title>
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				<pubDate>Sat, 19 Oct 2013 06:10:05 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>shemarie</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Thank you, Robidi, Aquamarine, and Beth Ann, for your kind words of welcome and your wisdom.&#038;nbsp; Reading along as I have been is fine, but I will learn so much more by participating.&#038;nbsp; I could certainly use &#060;i&#062;both&#060;/i&#062; the confidence/support &#060;i&#062;and&#060;/i&#062; the nudge, and I'm&#038;nbsp;actually&#038;nbsp;looking forward to being pushed outside my box!
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				<title>Aquamarine on "Long-time listener, first-time caller..."</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/long-time-listener-first-time-caller/page/2#post-1055375</link>
				<pubDate>Fri, 18 Oct 2013 12:55:22 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Aquamarine</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Welcome from one newbie to another!
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				<title>Beth Ann on "Long-time listener, first-time caller..."</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/long-time-listener-first-time-caller/page/2#post-1055366</link>
				<pubDate>Fri, 18 Oct 2013 12:51:09 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Beth Ann</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Welcome!&#038;nbsp; This is a part of the virtual world where people put their best foot forward, so to speak.&#038;nbsp; Lots of help and encouragement!&#038;nbsp; If you've been viewing for awhile, you've seen some great growth in confidence and style!&#038;nbsp; I've been thankful for times when forum members shower me with encouragement, and when they gently nudge me to make that style change that I've been posting about.&#038;nbsp; The confidence does spill over into others areas of life.
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				<title>Robidi on "Long-time listener, first-time caller..."</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 18 Oct 2013 11:11:01 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Robidi</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I know just how you feel, although I could not have communicated it as brilliantly as you have! &#038;nbsp;
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				<title>shemarie on "Long-time listener, first-time caller..."</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 18 Oct 2013 05:49:17 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>shemarie</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Thank you all so much for your thoughtful words and warm welcome.&#038;nbsp; I feel like I just made dozens of new friends and wish I would have done it long ago!&#038;nbsp; &#060;br /&#062;I mean, having wonderful style icons, as I think of so many of you, respond so kindly almost made me let out a huge, celebrity-sighting-ish, &#034;SQUEE!!!&#034; ...even though I'm quite sure I've never &#034;SQUEED!&#034; in my whole life, at least not audibly!&#038;nbsp; :-)&#038;nbsp;&#038;nbsp;&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062; Also, I know, as Alaskagirl said, it must be very odd for all of you veteran members to just now &#034;meet&#034; people who have been following you and &#034;seeing&#034; you&#038;nbsp;for some time.&#038;nbsp; Please know though that your openness and your willingness to put yourselves out there and share&#038;nbsp;your own journey&#038;nbsp;has been a&#038;nbsp;great inspiration and truly a blessing.&#038;nbsp; Really, I want to be&#038;nbsp;you when I &#034;grow up&#034;!&#038;nbsp;&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Finally, thanks also to all of my fellow new members for your kind comments and support.&#038;nbsp; So nice to hold hands as we jump!&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Oh, and P.S. to JAileen:&#038;nbsp; A disclaimer: I wish I could take credit for planning a GBP reference, but any resemblance to being that wise or witty is purely accidental!!&#038;nbsp;(OT: I like&#038;nbsp;John Cusack, but&#038;nbsp;wow did I feel old seeing him&#038;nbsp;as Nixon in The Butler!) &#038;nbsp;
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				<title>MsLuna on "Long-time listener, first-time caller..."</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 18 Oct 2013 03:17:07 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>MsLuna</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Awww! Welcome! I was in your shoes sometime ago as well, and you'd be amazed at how supportive and wonderful they are here! Looking forward to seeing more from you!
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				<title>Jaime on "Long-time listener, first-time caller..."</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 18 Oct 2013 03:11:52 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Jaime</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Looking forward to all the new contributors! Jump in, the water's fine!
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				<title>JAileen on "Long-time listener, first-time caller..."</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 18 Oct 2013 02:39:31 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>JAileen</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Just love your Grosse Point Blank reference!
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				<title>catgirl on "Long-time listener, first-time caller..."</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 18 Oct 2013 02:30:43 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>catgirl</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Waving hello!&#038;nbsp; So strange to me that all of you &#034;know&#034; us - I've never really thought of all the silent audience out there.&#038;nbsp; Makes me feel kind of weird, but not in a bad way.&#038;nbsp; So glad you all are coming to the pool party!
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				<title>Disha on "Long-time listener, first-time caller..."</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/long-time-listener-first-time-caller#post-1055050</link>
				<pubDate>Fri, 18 Oct 2013 02:29:03 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Disha</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Another long time reader here - who is too shy to even start their own thread to say hello - yet feel like I know almost everyone on these forums from my spot in the corner. Baby steps!
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				<title>Debora on "Long-time listener, first-time caller..."</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 18 Oct 2013 01:16:32 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Debora</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Welcome, shemarie! So glad you decided to take the plunge.
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				<title>Amy on "Long-time listener, first-time caller..."</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/long-time-listener-first-time-caller#post-1054935</link>
				<pubDate>Thu, 17 Oct 2013 23:55:05 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Amy</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I hope all of you shy ladies will join I the fun. While I will freely admit that I'm not a fashion expert, I do know that I've learned the most by participating in conversations. There really is no right or wrong--style is the ultimate personal statement. This is a big pool-the more who jump in the merrier!
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				<title>Pat_P on "Long-time listener, first-time caller..."</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 17 Oct 2013 23:45:53 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Pat_P</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I'm another one who has always been shy/scared of commenting. I just don't feel I know enough to be offering advice or opinions. All I really wanted to do was observe and try to learn as much as possible.
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				<title>Pat_P on "Long-time listener, first-time caller..."</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 17 Oct 2013 23:45:19 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Pat_P</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I'm another one who has always been shy/scared of commenting. I just don't feel I know enough to be offering advice or opinions. All I really wanted to do was observe and try to learn as much as possible.
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				<title>Transcona Shannon on "Long-time listener, first-time caller..."</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/long-time-listener-first-time-caller#post-1054918</link>
				<pubDate>Thu, 17 Oct 2013 23:44:05 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Transcona Shannon</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Welcome aboard! Glad you decided to join in the fun  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-smile icon-emoticon-smile "></span> 
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				<title>TraceyLiz65 on "Long-time listener, first-time caller..."</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/long-time-listener-first-time-caller#post-1054913</link>
				<pubDate>Thu, 17 Oct 2013 23:38:44 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>TraceyLiz65</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;chiming in with another welcome!
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				<title>Alassë on "Long-time listener, first-time caller..."</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/long-time-listener-first-time-caller#post-1054868</link>
				<pubDate>Thu, 17 Oct 2013 22:55:41 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Alassë</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Welcome to you too!
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				<title>RBH12 on "Long-time listener, first-time caller..."</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/long-time-listener-first-time-caller#post-1054811</link>
				<pubDate>Thu, 17 Oct 2013 22:13:48 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>RBH12</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I hear you!!&#038;nbsp; Maybe we can hold hands and jump in the water together.&#038;nbsp; I'm frightened too.
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				<title>Helenedith on "Long-time listener, first-time caller..."</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/long-time-listener-first-time-caller#post-1054782</link>
				<pubDate>Thu, 17 Oct 2013 21:45:13 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Helenedith</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I am with you hanging on to the edge and have also been a long time reader. The new policy rules have encouraged me to join also, I look forward to seeing everyone's wonderful photos and style, particularly yours as having read YLF for three to four years you will be very style savvy!
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				<title>Angie on "Long-time listener, first-time caller..."</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/long-time-listener-first-time-caller#post-1054777</link>
				<pubDate>Thu, 17 Oct 2013 21:43:20 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Angie</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;And another welcome from me.&#038;nbsp;
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				<title>soobee on "Long-time listener, first-time caller..."</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/long-time-listener-first-time-caller#post-1054775</link>
				<pubDate>Thu, 17 Oct 2013 21:41:44 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>soobee</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Hi shemarie - next step - post a piccy!
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				<title>MsMary on "Long-time listener, first-time caller..."</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/long-time-listener-first-time-caller#post-1054768</link>
				<pubDate>Thu, 17 Oct 2013 21:35:13 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>MsMary</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Welcome!&#038;nbsp; It's so nice to see all these people coming out of the shadows and saying hello!&#038;nbsp;  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-smile icon-emoticon-smile "></span> 
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				<title>K. Period. on "Long-time listener, first-time caller..."</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 17 Oct 2013 21:30:17 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>K. Period.</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Hi and welcome! &#038;nbsp;
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				<title>Anonymous on "Long-time listener, first-time caller..."</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 17 Oct 2013 21:28:44 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Anonymous</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Welcome shemarie! Well I'm certainly glad that the new policy inspired you come on in. The water is fine, and you'll love it. I never knew we had so many readers, so it will be great to finally get to hear your thoughts and interact with you.  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-smile icon-emoticon-smile "></span> 
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				<title>Phatgranny on "Long-time listener, first-time caller..."</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 17 Oct 2013 21:25:08 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Phatgranny</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I can so relate to shemarie's post and also have been perusing YLF for years and have learned so much from all you lovely women.&#038;nbsp; Unlike shemarie, however, I am not quite ready to jump in, am still clinging &#038;nbsp;to the side and am terrified to get my face wet, so I'll continue to dip my toes in until I'm comfortable.&#038;nbsp; I will miss your photos, which are so instructive, but I'll continue to glean wonderful tips from your posts and perhaps you will get to know me a bit from my comments.&#038;nbsp;
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				<title>Sarah A on "Long-time listener, first-time caller..."</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/long-time-listener-first-time-caller#post-1054727</link>
				<pubDate>Thu, 17 Oct 2013 20:54:38 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Sarah A</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Welcome!  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-smile icon-emoticon-smile "></span> 
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				<title>Gracie on "Long-time listener, first-time caller..."</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 17 Oct 2013 20:52:48 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Gracie</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Welcome – I'm looking forward to your posts
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				<title>Anonymous on "Long-time listener, first-time caller..."</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 17 Oct 2013 19:52:44 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Anonymous</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Welcome! I too think that the new privacy level has acted to bring all sorts of new people into the mix!
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				<title>kellygirl on "Long-time listener, first-time caller..."</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 17 Oct 2013 19:35:19 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>kellygirl</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Another big welcome from me. I'm so glad that Greg put the new privacy policy into effect!
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