https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/keep-or-weep-decision-about-boots Style Advice for Fashion Lovers en-US Sun, 17 May 2026 01:03:34 +0000 http://bbpress.org/?v=1.0.2 q https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/search.php https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/keep-or-weep-decision-about-boots#post-1769060 Sun, 15 Jan 2017 19:42:58 +0000 Lisa 1769060@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Good luck with your new boots, they are lovely. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/keep-or-weep-decision-about-boots#post-1769054 Sun, 15 Jan 2017 19:13:51 +0000 April 1769054@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Hooray for keeping the boots! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/keep-or-weep-decision-about-boots#post-1769053 Sun, 15 Jan 2017 19:10:05 +0000 Astrid 1769053@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Good to hear the story had a happy ending. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/keep-or-weep-decision-about-boots#post-1769038 Sun, 15 Jan 2017 18:23:49 +0000 shedev 1769038@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Great, can't wait to see them styled. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/keep-or-weep-decision-about-boots#post-1768994 Sun, 15 Jan 2017 15:34:35 +0000 Suz 1768994@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Yay!! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/keep-or-weep-decision-about-boots#post-1768991 Sun, 15 Jan 2017 15:31:01 +0000 Angie 1768991@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>WOOOHOOOOO.&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/keep-or-weep-decision-about-boots#post-1768969 Sun, 15 Jan 2017 13:07:59 +0000 Jjsloane 1768969@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I love a happy ending :)<br />Nice to see you again on the forum! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/keep-or-weep-decision-about-boots#post-1768964 Sun, 15 Jan 2017 12:27:56 +0000 Ornella 1768964@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Update:</p> <p>Thanks again for the insightful comments. No muffin top, no sense of relief when I take them off, just an unfamiliar feeling.&nbsp;</p> <p>I wore my thick socks and thick denim skinnies and am happy to report that the boots are here to stay. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/keep-or-weep-decision-about-boots#post-1768730 Sat, 14 Jan 2017 08:34:30 +0000 Astrid 1768730@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>My own black knee high boots are a bit tight lately because I gained some weight. They never were super snug and they are still fine with tights, but jeans are borderline too tight, depending on the day. I can't comfortably wear them with jeans and leggings layered under. Luckily it wasn't that cold so far and I'm spending a lot of time indoors too. Mine are leather lined with leather, so they do give, but they are still uncomfortable for a lot of walking when I wear jeans. I don't have muffin top or marks btw. It's just the difference of knowing you're wearing boots all day or forgetting about them because they're comfortable. So I would caution you to keep too tight boots. They should be comfortable to wear with jeans if that's the main thing you want them for. I'm definitely going to get myself new ankle booties next fall, to have an alternative that will work in any case. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/keep-or-weep-decision-about-boots#post-1768692 Sat, 14 Jan 2017 03:04:13 +0000 Nannabella 1768692@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>One other thing to consider is that if they're too tight around the calf, they will often slide down, resulting in sagging and bunching around the ankle. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/keep-or-weep-decision-about-boots#post-1768103 Thu, 12 Jan 2017 13:10:12 +0000 RobinF 1768103@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>It could be just a matter of getting used to the way they feel. I agree though, if they leave marks and you feel relieved when you take them off then they should go back. That would be a bummer, they sound pretty close to perfect. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/keep-or-weep-decision-about-boots#post-1768101 Thu, 12 Jan 2017 12:56:59 +0000 Mochi 1768101@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I have boots that are a little snug in the calves. I never think about it.&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/keep-or-weep-decision-about-boots#post-1768088 Thu, 12 Jan 2017 11:42:43 +0000 Style Fan 1768088@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I had a pair of knee high leather boots that everyone said would stretch out a bit.&nbsp; They didn't.&nbsp; The lining didn't stretch.&nbsp; The leather might stretch but will the lining?<br />I eventually took mine to a cobbler who was highly recommended and he fixed them.&nbsp; It was only 1/2 inch at the top (if that) but what a difference. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/keep-or-weep-decision-about-boots#post-1768063 Thu, 12 Jan 2017 06:36:31 +0000 Ornella 1768063@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Thanks so much, everyone!</p> <p>Tomorrow is my day off and I'll put all your suggestions in action before deciding -- it'll be boots lab day </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/keep-or-weep-decision-about-boots#post-1768055 Thu, 12 Jan 2017 04:05:33 +0000 Jules 1768055@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>My legs and feet swell a bit through the day. Probably more so in the summer heat. But I can't wear a neoprene ankle brace I have all day at any time of year, it gets unbearable. Not sure about one's calves but it seems possible they might swell a bit over a full day of walking. Would you be wearing them all day long or just to and from the office or such? </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/keep-or-weep-decision-about-boots#post-1768048 Thu, 12 Jan 2017 03:27:02 +0000 Echo 1768048@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Leather boots will almost invariably "relax" or loosen in the shaft over time if they are snug. This won't happen if boots are not snug, as there is no stress on the leather. My bet would be that if they are not uncomfortable or leaving marks right now, they will end up being fine in the long run - more comfortable each time you wear them until they are just right. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/keep-or-weep-decision-about-boots#post-1768034 Thu, 12 Jan 2017 02:53:26 +0000 Jaime 1768034@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>No advice, but happy to "see" you Ornella! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/keep-or-weep-decision-about-boots#post-1768031 Thu, 12 Jan 2017 02:48:58 +0000 Tisa 1768031@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I had a similar problem once with a pair of boots and keeping them was a mistake. The leather didn't stretch all that much and wearing those shoes quickly became uncomfortable, so I had to give them away. </p> <p>You have to take into account that when you stand in your boots your calf muscles aren't flexed to the maximum, but they will be during walking. Which means the circumference of your calfs will be bigger then.</p> <p>A good way to determine whether the boots are wide enough is to measure your calf circumference when your calf muscles are flexed. Which means: stand straight, then slowly bend your knees and bring them forward until they are in a vertical line with your toes. Keep your legs in this position and measure the calf circumference at its widest point with a measuring tape.<br /> Also measure the circumference of the boots and compare both results.<br /> The boot circumference needs to be a bit bigger. If it's not, you're going to have problems - especially when sitting for longer periods of time or while walking up/down the stairs. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/keep-or-weep-decision-about-boots#post-1767998 Thu, 12 Jan 2017 01:16:18 +0000 Bennett 1767998@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I would worry more about the point where the elastic panel is attached to the leather. If your elastic is stretched to its limit, the stitching is probably under strain and would pop eventually. </p> <p>Could you consult with a shoe repair professional before making your final decision? </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/keep-or-weep-decision-about-boots#post-1767972 Thu, 12 Jan 2017 00:24:34 +0000 Elle 1767972@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>If you notice the snugness after wearing them around the house for an hour, then I would return. &nbsp;That's the kind of thing that makes me not wear shoes/boots. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/keep-or-weep-decision-about-boots#post-1767964 Thu, 12 Jan 2017 00:14:51 +0000 Angie 1767964@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>If they don't hurt or wrinkle at the calf - I vote keep.&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/keep-or-weep-decision-about-boots#post-1767929 Wed, 11 Jan 2017 22:48:55 +0000 K2 1767929@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>As a cautionary tale, I had a pair that were able to get zipped up, but tight, so I had them stretched at the cobbler, but really, they still ended up uncomfortable. As such, I agree with the others to try to stretch and would recommend wearing them around the houseo to see how they feel. Mine were always fine at first, but got too constricting with wear and actually really starting hurting my calves. Give them time, a couple hours, of sitting, walking etc, and they may be fine, but remember, it's not a bargain if they prove unwearable. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/keep-or-weep-decision-about-boots#post-1767921 Wed, 11 Jan 2017 22:37:10 +0000 Diana 1767921@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Do they hurt your calves after wearing for several hours?&nbsp; Do they inhibit your ability to move at all?&nbsp; Do you get "muffin top" above the boot shaft?&nbsp; If the answer to all of these is no, then I think you are good to keep.&nbsp; They will probably loosen slightly over time but in my experience it's never a huge difference.&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/keep-or-weep-decision-about-boots#post-1767917 Wed, 11 Jan 2017 22:31:22 +0000 Anonymous 1767917@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I've had a pair of snug boots once, but the kind that was a snug calf fit all the way up. They weren't comfortable for all day, and I didn't wear them as much as I would have wanted to. Do they leave marks? Do you feel relief when you take them off? Do you have to think of them when they're on? If yes to any of those, I would vote return. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/keep-or-weep-decision-about-boots#post-1767901 Wed, 11 Jan 2017 21:56:44 +0000 SandyG 1767901@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Try a thinner fabric jean, or skinny jeans, or a denim legging? I can't wear my regular sturdy jeans with boots and bought brushed leggings for my tall leather boots.</p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/keep-or-weep-decision-about-boots#post-1767900 Wed, 11 Jan 2017 21:55:47 +0000 chewyspaghetti 1767900@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>They will relax- keep! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/keep-or-weep-decision-about-boots#post-1767898 Wed, 11 Jan 2017 21:50:03 +0000 April 1767898@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>O, I am inclined to say keep them and let them "relax" around your jeans after a few wearings. &nbsp;Leather and elastic both stretch at least a little over time. &nbsp;Spritzing the interior of the leather with alcohol before you put the boots on (over jeans AND heavy socks to emphasize the width of your calf) with help with stretch as well.</p> <p>Also, I know that other people's fit issues always seem like the better ones to have, but I envy the idea of a snug calf fit! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/keep-or-weep-decision-about-boots#post-1767896 Wed, 11 Jan 2017 21:49:15 +0000 Ornella 1767896@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Hi Suz,</p> <p>Thanks for replying. I don't have a photo with them on and it's too late (bad light) to try and snap them.</p> <p>But to answer -- they don't feel like cutting the circulation, just nice and snug, more than I'm used to.&nbsp;</p> <p>And I don't think they can be stretched except as much shaping as the leather itself allows. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/keep-or-weep-decision-about-boots#post-1767894 Wed, 11 Jan 2017 21:44:26 +0000 Suz 1767894@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Do they hurt or feel like they are cutting circulation?&nbsp;</p> <p>Can you show us a pic of them on?&nbsp;</p> <p>Can you stretch them a bit with a boot tree, perhaps?&nbsp;</p> <p>Re the elastics -- this material will probably wear out a little faster than the rest of the boot. But it varies. Some can be high quality and Clarks is a good brand.&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/keep-or-weep-decision-about-boots#post-1767888 Wed, 11 Jan 2017 21:33:57 +0000 Ornella 1767888@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>On the subject of&nbsp;<a rel="nofollow" href="http://youlookfab.com/2017/01/11/the-almost-perfect-purchase/">Almost Perfect Purchase</a>...</p> <p>I have bought my almost dream boots. Beautiful black leather, elegant toe shape, interesting zipper detail AND tall enough for me.</p> <p>'Almost' because they fit very snuggly around my calves and I am not sure if that's deal breaker.&nbsp;</p> <p>The boots have elasticated inset at the back (which I suppose is there precisely for border cases like mine, it&nbsp;allows for tight fit), except that in my case this basically stretches as much as it possibly can to allow me to zip them up when I tuck the jeans in. I can feel the boots a lot tighter than any other pair I have.&nbsp;Btw,&nbsp;I need primarily boots for jeans.&nbsp;</p> <p>The boots do come in wider fit, but not through the seller I bought them from and where they had somehow been attractively priced. All other sites sell them for much higher price than I paid. Returning the pair I now have, and then reordering from elsewhere would throw me outside my budget. So, it's either &nbsp;keeping them, or returning and then waiting for something else.</p> <p>Funnily, I've only ever had leather boots without the elasticated insets, so I have no idea how this material will behave over time.</p> <p>I'd greatly appreciate some insight into how to make the final decision.</p> <p>p.s.<br />The boots are <a rel="nofollow" href="https://www.amazon.de/Clarks-Valana-Melrose-261214374-Stiefel/dp/B01JA27HLI/ref=sr_1_1?s=shoes&amp;ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1484169039&amp;sr=1-1&amp;keywords=clarks%2Bvalana%2Bmelrose&amp;th=1&amp;psc=1">here</a>.&nbsp; </p>