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			<title>YouLookFab Forum &#187; Topic: Keep or return:  MBMJ dress</title>
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				<title>catgirl on "Keep or return:  MBMJ dress"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sun, 20 Nov 2011 02:40:02 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>catgirl</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Kari, I LOVE your comment and the fact that you do really KNOW me!  I so appreciate it and have gained a deeper understanding that what's killer on someone else would not be killer on me.  &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I can so see Maya in this dress.  Funny, Mo, I thought of her when I posted the pics!
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				<title>Kari on "Keep or return:  MBMJ dress"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sun, 20 Nov 2011 01:43:48 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Kari</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Una, I think if this was the first time I saw you, without a background to your style &#038;amp; personality, I'd vote to keep it. But you have kind of spoiled us with so many killer looks in a very different, less sweet, more fashion forward style. It's a very nice dress on you- but I'd say to keep looking and hold out. Hope that makes sense. I do like the dress a lot-I'd just like to see something that lets your personality shine more.
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				<title>Freckles on "Keep or return:  MBMJ dress"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/keep-or-return-mbmj-dress#post-470298</link>
				<pubDate>Fri, 18 Nov 2011 23:40:27 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Freckles</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Una I really love this for Spring for you but not for the holidays.  &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I so think you could rock it with a leather jacket and booties...&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;For me it would be sweet if the spots were white but I don't see the black/periwinkle combination with the size of the spots as being sweet at all.
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				<title>Aida on "Keep or return:  MBMJ dress"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 18 Nov 2011 22:07:57 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Aida</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Hmm I like the shape but also feel it's just a little bit sweet for you. Maybe something with an asymmetrical or handkerchief hemline?
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				<title>CocoLion on "Keep or return:  MBMJ dress"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/keep-or-return-mbmj-dress#post-470031</link>
				<pubDate>Fri, 18 Nov 2011 19:00:50 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>CocoLion</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I like it and think it is a 10 on you.  You can lawyer it up with a waist length black jacket.  Or you can dress it casually with a denim jacket and tough looking boots.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I think it fits you very well.  But maybe everyone else and Angie are seeing something I'm not.  I think it has more edge than the Adrianna Papell dresses I've seen (admittedly not many).&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;The only thing impractical is the sleeves.  They might be perceived as shoulder emphasizing which you may want to avoid, but I just don't see that happening in these pictures as you have balanced proportions.  See, I think you are a rectangle and can wear anything.
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				<title>qfbrenda on "Keep or return:  MBMJ dress"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 18 Nov 2011 18:43:51 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;What about something this kinda shape... though maybe with longer sleeves... in a ponte knit so its more forgiving around the waist?  It could have long sleeves for warmth and a bit of flare in the skirt to show up the waist a bit.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I totally feel for you on the waist issue.  I look at size charts and I'm a 4-6 bust, 10-12 waist, and 4-6 hip.  Sigh.
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				<title>Shu on "Keep or return:  MBMJ dress"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 18 Nov 2011 18:30:00 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Shu</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I like the shape on you - and I think the band is doing what you want  it to as far as waist definition, but the print along with the shape is very sweet. Like most everyone else, it just doesn't seem YOU. I really love the idea of a fit and flare strapless dress with a wide belt and some version of a cropped moto on top.
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				<title>Mo on "Keep or return:  MBMJ dress"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 18 Nov 2011 17:23:40 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Jonesy, so funny that you mentioned Maya - I almost for a second saw Maya in my mind's eye when I viewed this late last night on my way to bed.  Must have been my sleepy brain, but, yes, it's VERY Maya!
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				<title>rae on "Keep or return:  MBMJ dress"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 18 Nov 2011 17:15:23 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>rae</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I think the flare works, but I'm glad you're going to keep looking. If Karen Millen has anything flared, you might check that brand out - I passed by a store while making an H&#038;amp;M return, and the styles seemed AS-ish, but with more color involved.
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				<title>Diana on "Keep or return:  MBMJ dress"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 18 Nov 2011 16:29:57 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Agree with the other ladies.  Cute, but not a 10.  Also, the mismatched pattern at the center front seam *really* bothers me - I do not like strong center front seams in general and especially not when it's in a really obvious mismatched pattern.
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				<title>catgirl on "Keep or return:  MBMJ dress"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 18 Nov 2011 16:27:20 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Okay, I think I'll keep looking for something similar in a warmer style with a little more edge.  At least now I know the idea of it works, if not the execution.  Thanks for being honest!
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				<title>Queen Mum on "Keep or return:  MBMJ dress"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/keep-or-return-mbmj-dress#post-469875</link>
				<pubDate>Fri, 18 Nov 2011 15:25:51 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Queen Mum</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I really like this on you... but wonder how you're going to keep warm.
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				<title>ironkurtin on "Keep or return:  MBMJ dress"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 18 Nov 2011 15:24:05 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;AG, I've really liked the recent Eileen Fisher organic cotton fit and flares.  They make me feel like I do indeed have a shape!
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				<title>Jonesy on "Keep or return:  MBMJ dress"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 18 Nov 2011 15:20:16 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Jonesy</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;This is very fun and flirty--reminds me of a dress that Maya would wear (Maya--hello if you are out there!). I think it looks really cute on you, but I'm not sure it's *you.*
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				<title>Anonymous on "Keep or return:  MBMJ dress"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 18 Nov 2011 15:18:47 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Actually i like the fit and flare look of it , and the polka dots. maybe in a heavier fabric for better drape? I would keep it. But i love dresses . And polka-dots
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				<title>Suz on "Keep or return:  MBMJ dress"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 18 Nov 2011 15:11:37 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Suz</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Hmmm. Pretty...but doesn't feel like Una to me. I am sure you could funk it up a bit, but I'm also sure you could do better.
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				<title>rute on "Keep or return:  MBMJ dress"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 18 Nov 2011 14:57:41 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>rute</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Angie said all! Lovely but not a 10!
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				<title>Sona on "Keep or return:  MBMJ dress"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 18 Nov 2011 12:52:00 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Sona</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Minority vote here: I actually love this on you. it is waist defining without being overwhelmingly so. the exposed zip at the back gives it a RATE edge to my eye and it is saucy to boot. depending on the cost of the dress and how it makes you feel it may be a keeper.
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				<title>Janet on "Keep or return:  MBMJ dress"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 18 Nov 2011 12:49:35 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Janet</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Angie pinpointed it well with &#034;sweet&#034; -- it's very cute, and it is a flattering cut, but not what I've come to expect from one of our reigning UWP's! That's not to say one needs to be UWP everyday, but I'm not sure this says &#034;Una&#034; to me. &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I can relate to this. I have a few things that are a bit like this, and they go unworn because they don't quite fit my evolving style personna.
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				<title>nancylee on "Keep or return:  MBMJ dress"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 18 Nov 2011 12:20:49 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>nancylee</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I agree with Angie.  It's fine but it's not a 10.  It does seem kind of &#034;sweet&#034;....and maybe not edgy enough for your style?
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				<title>lyn67 on "Keep or return:  MBMJ dress"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/keep-or-return-mbmj-dress#post-469750</link>
				<pubDate>Fri, 18 Nov 2011 11:06:07 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I aggree with Angie. This cut(flared), this (short) length and polkas ain't be a killer:-((( Only sweet, but  you can do much more better!:-)
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				<title>catgirl on "Keep or return:  MBMJ dress"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 18 Nov 2011 06:10:31 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>catgirl</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I'll keep looking!  I think I need more the illusion of a waistline, which is why I don't do really body-con dresses unless they're sheaths under something else.  Thank you, Angie!
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				<title>Angie on "Keep or return:  MBMJ dress"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 18 Nov 2011 06:06:30 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Angie</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I thought of that for sure, Una. I feel cold at the drop of a hat! I suggested them just in case, though. If you are happy wearing the MJ dress, I didn't think that the other styles would be that much of a &#034;naked&#034; stretch. &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Perhaps you just need a dress with sleeves. If you were my client, we'd check out Adrianna Papell frocks. Not fit and flare, but covered and very shapely. They would reveal your cute waistline  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-smile icon-emoticon-smile "></span> 
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				<title>catgirl on "Keep or return:  MBMJ dress"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 18 Nov 2011 06:00:05 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>catgirl</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;You could tempt me, but remember I live in a winter climate and will be covering up shoulders for warmth most of the time!
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				<title>Angie on "Keep or return:  MBMJ dress"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 18 Nov 2011 05:55:21 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Angie</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Ah. You're after a fit and flare dress. Can I temp you with a one shouldered frock or strapless number? I could see you wear those! IT's generally wear those silhouettes very well.
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				<title>catgirl on "Keep or return:  MBMJ dress"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 18 Nov 2011 05:51:44 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>catgirl</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;No, but I'm trying to find something I'm comfortable in that gives me waist definition, since Rita/modgirl and others have suggested that I do in fact have a waist.  This general style actually feels best to me because it's not too tight, not too low, not too empire and has some flare in the skirt, but it doesn't have to be THIS dress.  &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;By way of comparision, at Banana Republic I have to size up to an 8 for most of their dresses to zip around my waist and ribs, and then they are huge in the hip and sometimes even  the shoulders.  And in general their dresses look terrible on me.
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				<title>Mo on "Keep or return:  MBMJ dress"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 18 Nov 2011 05:50:46 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Mo</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I do see the waist you are after here!  Not too sure what other dresses you already have but I like this one a lot.  Of course, I'm the gal with no less than 5 unworn dresses hanging in her own closet as I type, so maybe I'm not the one to say!
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				<title>Angie on "Keep or return:  MBMJ dress"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 18 Nov 2011 05:47:36 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Angie</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;You have killer dresses, Una. Do you feel that they are too casual for the holidays?
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				<title>catgirl on "Keep or return:  MBMJ dress"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 18 Nov 2011 05:46:34 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Well, that answers that!  I was hoping to find something in this silhouette to see if I could achieve a waist.  Any thoughts on what would make this better, if I were searching for a dress in this approximate shape?
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				<title>Angie on "Keep or return:  MBMJ dress"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 18 Nov 2011 05:44:50 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Angie</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;It's not a 10 to my eye, Una. It's sweet, but not killer. What do you think?
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